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TLDR: I have been dealing with mental health struggles thanks to college, real-world events, and learning trusted friends of mine betrayed my trust in them... but I plan to come back after the 13th, and maybe I'll try adding some written stuff to Patreon! I miss you all so much 🥺

Hey everyone,This post has been a long time coming, and I sincerely apologize for not uploading more frequently and being so silent all month. I've spent several weeks trying to figure out how to word it all, but the best way to say it is that last month was an absolutely terrible time.As I stated when I uploaded the "When Two Nerds Fall In Love" audio, I planned to take a break to focus on my schoolwork. I am finishing up my final year of acting college, and this was my most brutal semester by far. The workload was massive, and I literally had to devote all of my time to studying. That is still the case, and I plan to come back after December 13th, when my semester ends.

But more importantly, I have some friends in the acting class that I've worked with for 2 years and have gotten very close with within that time... Long story short I found out some of those friends I had gotten close to had been saying things behind my back, and very much greatly abused my trust in them...There's more to it, but that's personal drama that I want to keep off my professional platform. However, I feel the need to mention it here because it affected my mental health and my ability to work substantially.

On top of that, I don't want to get into real-world events because I've always strived to make A Warm Coffee Mug a safe haven away from the real world, but with my personal drama getting in the way, the world being a scary place right now, and class on top of it all, I've been in a very low place for weeks now. I promise, I have sought help, I have talked to people, and now I'm beginning to properly heal, starting with addressing all of you.

I have missed working and doing AWCM so much, and truth be told I feel as though I've let everyone here supporting me down so much by going away for so long... but I had to focus on getting better first before I could work on making audios to help others feel better too. I'm sorry for leaving, I'll do my best to provide every supporter here with amazing audios this month once I'm back after the 13th.

On a more positive note, one change I'm considering is some written literature in addition to the spicy audios on Patreon! There are some script ideas I have wanted to try writing in a more traditional format, which I am debating on making available to Coffee Mug tier patrons and a new $2.50 CAD tier.(The professional term is, "Wholesome But Spicy Audios Written In A Third Or First Person Format In Which The Reader Can Insert Themselves Into The Protagonist's Shoes". The unprofessional term is "Wholesome Smut")

Thank you all again for your continued support and patience, I plan to come back as soon as possible! 🙏💖~A Warm Coffee Mug

Comments

Gatokal

Life happens, and we don’t have much control over that. It’s completely understandable, and the update is appreciated. Best of luck, pal.

Apollo

I'm so glad you're back! I'm so sorry for everything that has happened, and proud of how strong you've been! I think the literature would be an amazing addition to the patreon!!! I hope you get better and that the semester ends well for you! Don't worry so much with us, you haven't let us down by taking care of yourself, you're the priority here

zoh.minoh

You are always the priority! Take care of yourself because you fuel the comfort that’s found here, wishing you good health in all areas!

Millow

It's easy to forget there's an actual human being behind the wholesome audios, and it's even easier to take advantage of internet anonimity and just disapear so you adressing this, and even more, sharing as much of your life as you did shows your commitment to the people who support you, and that's something rare these days. You take your time, peace of mind and quality should not be rushed and I don't mind waiting for a little more time, your work is worth it. And the text idea sounds amazing, I suck at scripts so reading each person take on creating a scene is always fun! Godspeed brother, and may the Emperor grant you strenght against the chaos of the world. :3

Regan Wain

Been there with the friends thing, I promise it gets better. You’ll do some proper growing and changing while they’ll be stuck as the Mean Girls they are, it’s pitiful, really.

CherryVom

Glad to hear you’re doing better now. I feel you on the world being scary rn… but knowing ppl like you exist and care about your community gives me hope. As a non-conforming trans man, your dedication to making inclusive and diverse audios has brought me, and many others, immense comfort for a long time. It’s only fair that you take whatever time you need for whatever growth and betterment you require, or desire. I look forward to whatever you do next, bud<3

kiwifruitie

You never have to apologize for being human. <33 I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that, but I'm happy you've found support. Mental health is serious, so please take all the time you need! We understand and will be waiting right here when you return. Sending all the love and support your way. You've got this! ദ്ദി(•̀ ,<)~✩‧₊

Kyle Allred

I empathize with the friends part, and I really hope you're healing well. I want to add as well, the break in new content had me go back and rewatch/relisten to some older audios, and It's helped me through a pretty rough patch. Excited to hear you again, I hope the last week of semester goes well, and that literature idea is a great one!