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Tender November Poll (Patreon)

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2024-10-29 20:02:59
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Tender November Poll

  • An Officer And A Gentleman (1982) 387
  • Working Girl (1988) 239
  • Out Of Africa (1985) 88
  • Moonstruck (1987) 201
  • Sixteen Candles (1984) 352
  • Coming to America (1988) 623
  • Sense and Sensibility (1985) 143
  • Peanut Butter Falcon (2019) 128
  • Hope Floats (1998) 93
  • 2024-10-29
  • —2024-11-02
  • 2254 votes
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Content

Ok wow guys, we did it! I have officially watched my last spooky movie for October and I need this poll, I really do! I just want to lay in my bed and watch all of these haha.

There is going to be two polls. Tender November (post 1970) and Tender November (pre 1970) So make sure to vote on both.

This will end on Friday 11/1, you can vote multiple times

Comments

Jose Deleon

Peanut butter falcon is exactly the tonic you need after It part two

Bill Maurer

Going with Hope Floats and Sandra Bullock

Hat

Data kinda has a tender relationship in ST - First Contact!

Simon

Can't believe Saw 2 isn't on this list! 😉

Adam Doyle

Coming to America is more comedy, not really tender... maybe you meant An American Tail (heartwarming animated family movie)

Michael Enos

I see what you did there. 😀 I am waiting too.

Jonathan Caro

I love An Officer and a Gentleman but it's not as tender compared to the rest of the list.

Starpartyguy

If you want tender, Goodbye Girl with Richard Dreyfus. Won an Oscar for the role

JohnnyUtah

I'm gonna miss spooky season but we all must move on...especially after Hill House... also am I missing Dune Part 2 somewhere in the past? I could have swore I saw a reaction posted.

MikeLL

Can’t believe it is going to lose ANOTHER poll!

Jake McNulty

I picked "Officer and A Gentleman", "Working Girl", "Moonstruck" and "Coming to America".

R F.

Everyone has it right. "Coming to America" for fun and funny (opens up the sequel for later) and "Officer and a Gentleman" for romance. Great movies to transition away from that difficult "IT 2". "Hope Floats" is a pretty good contender. Just in 3rd place on my poll.

Dean Holt

OK, little disappointed where’s The Fly 😂😂. Seriously though I really hope Coming to America wins it’s a fantastic comedy with a bit of a romantic storyline. Also one of my favourite Eddie Murphy movies.

james sweeney

You have to watch Working Girl at some point.

Cooper

I will pass on these and let “the Others” vote.

Robert Baldino

Yeah, it's not quite what she thinks it is. I'd watch that one another time.

Richard Maurer

Yes October is over, but what about second October?

Chris Clarke

Just been watching your Return of The King reaction again, Cassie. The studios should employ you to assess first screenings of films; you ask very good questions/ make good points, and it's interesting to see how well films answer them.

Terdell Ferguson

Would like to add another overlooked and somewhat underappreciated (written by John Hughes) flick - Some Kind of Wonderful (1987). 😎

Ria Grix

Sixteen Candles is my number one… no… maybe Pretty in Pink is my number o..n.e… nope, hang on… er Breakfast Club. Anyway, Sixteen Candles is up there in my most loved movies from my teen years.

Taylor Salas

Coming to America is my favorite movie growing up

Chris Retzlaff

If Moonstruck wins....OMG!!! All pretty good choices. Coming to America is kind of the odd man out on this poll

Robert da Spruce

You definitely deserve some lighter fare Cassie! Some good movies on the list. It’ll be interesting to see who wins On a side note, you haven’t seen Sixteen Candles? 🤯

Tomt39

Coming to America is such a poor movie. The humor was strained in the '80s! There are so many good movies on this list, please skip this one

Michael G

Going to need my Moonstruck, Out of Africa, and Sixteen Candles hive to rise up

Ria Grix

An Officer and a gentleman is legendary level Cassie movie.

Phil Sexton

Cassie, you should check out Working Girl, even if it doesn't make the final cut. Prime era Harrison Ford, Melanie Griffith and Sigourney Weaver.

Jake McNulty

Maybe for another poll hopefully! For now II'm happy to settle for "Coming to America".

Cole Jennett

She watched in the theater when it came out, possibly twice.

Grad

I voted for Sense and Sensibility. Assuming it's the 1995 movie.

Uncle Phoenix

I want Cassie to see "Coming to America" because of the Cameos; which indicate that "Coming to America" is in the same universe as "Trading Places”, which Cassie already saw.

keoma songs

I'm guessing Sense & Sensibility has a typo and is actually the 1995 version. If it doesn't win I hope for a future "Period Piece Romance" poll, with Sense & Sensibility, Persuasion (1995), Far From the Madding Crowd (2015) and Frantz (2017). Though Frantz is arguably not a romance despite being romantic

Nick Ireland

Coming to America doesn't really belong here, but it's a fun movie for sure. Was hoping for Moonstruck. I think you mean Sense & Sensibility from 1995? Hugh Grant and Kate Winslet? Excellent movie too.

Jake McNulty

Hopefully Mike, when a film loses enough polls it eventually becomes a Popcorn Pick of the Month.

Cliff Endicott

PLEASE everyone, let's show some real love for "An Officer and a Gentleman". It's quite a bit heavier than most of the others, but it is by far and away the best movie on the list (in my sometimes-humble opinion). An absolute classic, and it has the romance element that will draw Cassie right in.

zynjams

for Veterans Day, the Majestic starring Jim Carey

Celeste McAllister (edited)

Comment edits

2026-11-01 00:00 Once again 'Hannah & Her Sisters' 1986 'Sweet November' 2001 missed the poll,ok, maybe next year,still a better poll than last year,no Pauly Shore movies. :)
2024-10-29 20:12

Joshua Bradt

Moonstruck is an amazing comedic love story. I have watched it many times and it never gets old.

Rosanne Stewart

I voted for Sense & Sensibility (1995, not ‘85!) and it looks like it won’t win, but I really hope it gets into another poll or something. It’s a gorgeous, funny, romantic, heartfelt movie. You would LOVE it.

Uncle Phoenix

I think that she mentioned that she went to go see it, Without Us.

nick bell

You would love Moonstruck

Morgan A. Colbert

What difficult choices, but I can't say no to Harrison Ford.

Uncle Phoenix

Awww, that is such a tender movie.

Jake McNulty

If that is the one she means then I'm adding it to my votes.

Story Archer

August Rush, August Rush, August Rush... when it comes to tender movies, this will quickly become one of your all-time faves. Without spoiling it, you already love everyone who's in it and it's literally the kind of magical journey will move you to tears of joy over its tenderness.

Simon

I know right! The will they won't they, enemies to lovers storyline is a classic for the ages. Feel gutted for Cassie missing out on it.

LukeG84

Glad to see Coming To America is winning. I think Cassie could do with a fun comedy after her latest reactions.

Shehab Dawoud

I hate this genre but there is one movie which I think would have been awesome for this: ‘Enough Said’ (2013), a funny, sweet and sometimes sad Rom-Dramedy. It’s with James Gandolfini and Julia Louis-Dreyfus, with Toni Colette and Catherine Keener in supporting roles. The main reason for watching it is the amazing performance of the late, great James Gandolfini. If you watched it and enjoyed his work, maybe you’d want to check out some of his other stuff. I don’t know, maybe this small thing he did called.. The Sopranos?

Steve Mercier

It doesn't look like Moonstruck is going to win...but $%&# yes, Moonstruck!

Story Archer

How is 'Coming to America' tender? I understand its cache, but you'd have to be a person of the time to even relate to most of it. 'Boomerang' would be a better call if you were going for that late 80's vibe...

Godzilla Jones

Tough one. Moonstruck is so good, but Sixteen Candles is a cinematic must and Coming to America is comedy gold. Working Girl is an underrated classic and Peanut Butter Falcon has so much heart that it's a crime not more people have seen it. Most of the others are pretty heavy hitters too. Hope Floats is the only non-choice here and that's only because it's just a standard issue RomCom. Beloved but not particularly spectacular by comparison. I kinda hope Moonstruck wins. I've not watched it in forever and I kinda love Cher. I was disappointed when Witches of Eastwick lost in an earlier poll. Do a Cher-athon! Mermaids, Moonstruck, and Mask! All M's, all marvelous!

rakesh

Working Girl / Officer and Gentlemen /Sixteen Candles. Havent seen Moonstruck, but heard its quite good. Coming to America is classic Eddie Murphy., So i'm fine with that also.

Clay F

Coming to America (1988) is definitely not the best movie in the poll. I voted these five: -Peanut Butter Falcon (2019) -An Officer And A Gentleman (1982) -Sense and Sensibility (1995) -Moonstruck (1987) -Working Girl (1988)

shaneth138

The Peanut Butter Falcon is the best tender November pick here by far.

Alex Villarreal

For those not voting for Moonstruck—why do you dislike comedy and joy? (Totally kidding.)

shaneth138

Unfortunately it won’t win because these poll results always suck.

Brett Richey

Coming to America is a comedy movie... so let's just watch comedy movies with a hint of romance all November. Or watch films like Peanut Butter Falcon which actually fits the definition. These polls are really confusing sometimes. I'll watch whatever it is regardless... whatever.

Julie Chittenden

Working Girl is so underrated. Every time I get someone to watch it, they love it. Sixteen candles is a classic although problematic in 2024. Love Moonstruck. Wheeeeennnn the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, that’s amore! Officer and a Gentleman makes me sad actually.

Dean Holt

I know your entitled to your opinion but I personally think Eddie Murphy was at his funniest in the 80s. Also tons of other funny film in that era. Personally think comedy films have dropped in quality in the last 10 years because the studios are now scared of offended people.

Stick Figure Studios

There are other films on this poll that are better, but COMING TO AMERICA is definitely going to win... and that's fine. It's a pretty decent film and a fine vehicle for Eddie Murphy's own particular brand of very funny, charismatic comedy. You will most likely have a good time.

Nathan Jasper

Cassie, I'm ready for tender November too! Thankfully we don't have to worry about October till next year....well... In a couple days' time.

Mark Duedall

We all have an opportunity - no, a solemn duty - to right a grievous wrong. To do something for which we will all be proud, in the years to come, and perhaps until we each shuffle off our respective mortal coils. We can vote for Officer and a Gentlemen, which Cassie, and Carly, will love and from which they will derive great joy. This is the most important thing you can vote for this fall. Well, maybe the second most important thing. Actually, no, this is the one vote that rules them all. Please, do what is just, and allow PiB to live, and love, this wonderful film.

SpiffMan

Agreed on Working Girl, such a "warm blanket" feel-good movie and definitely one Cassie would love.

bgb1975 (Brian)

"An Officer And A Gentleman" brings back (strangely) fond memories of OCS in Pensacola, FL. And veterans day is coming up. It has my vote!

Arturo

Agust Rush (2007) definitely, Out of Africa (1985) was one of my mother's favorites. Also if you want to change mood from scary Real Steel (2011) or Superman Returns (2006)

Clarence Newman

OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN!! Why didn't I think of that? And, by the way.....yeeha.

Cole Jennett

Son in Law is coming whether you like it or not😂

Tina P

Working Girl is an awesome movie, still is after so many years. And better then An Officer And A Gentleman, which I just rewatched recently, and unfortunately it hasn't held up too well, at least for me. One or two really good scenes, mainly Louis Gossett jr is great. And the title song I also still love. Coming to America is of course a classic (just don't waste your time with the sequel)

Chris Thom

Vaguely remember it mentioned. Was that you? lol

Nadeem L

Coming to America is HILARIOUS, I cannot wait for that reaction!

Brett Richey

Enough Said is in my top 10 Romantic Comedies of all time. Truly a heartwarming story and all the feels without the need to manipulate you into empathetic submission. The amazing acting and superior script just elevates it above the usual 'classics' for me. I hope Cassie has seen it already, because it will never be chosen on here.

MikeLL

Working Girl has always been on my list of 5 movie picks for Cassie, should I ever be that fortunate, it is hurting a little that it isn't doing so well on this poll, I'm sure Cassie would love it. And also it hurts that Moonstruck is missing the mark again, maybe Cassie could call an audible here!!! Coming to America will be a fine watch, it is coming a little late, Cassie should have seen it right after Trading Places!!!

Chris Thom

Having a hard time deciding...but pretty sure you'd like Working Girl, Moonstruck, or Hope Floats. Sandra Bullock definitely seems like your jam.

Clarence Newman

Damn right. Not only is it Eddie's funniest movie, it's the best one for Cassie because he doesn't swear much.

Nadeem L

Lmao a far cry from his standup and some other movies - however! we have to give her credit, i mean she did sit through 3 Deadpools lol (and Carly too!)

Clarence Newman

I think I've been saying it my sleep, Chris.

Brett Richey

If an Officer and a Gentleman is tender... then so is Saturday Night Fever.

Shehab Dawoud

I saw it recently for the first time and was blown away by how good it was. And of course, Gandolfini being in it will always make it even better for me.

Chris Thom

I GOT NOWHERE ELSE TO GO! Sense and Sensibility called me a 'pleb'. Whatever that means.

Above Average Dave

I don't know if it was a restored version or the fact that we finally broke down and got a new TV, but OUT OF AFRICA looked great on a very recent watch. AN OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN still holds up, but probably not for the reasons that made it popular when it was released. For Cassie and Carly, it will hit all the right buttons, as would MOONSTRUCK and WORKING GIRL.

MikeLL

I was wondering what is going on with Sense and Sensibility in this poll, as there is not one from 1985, I checked IMDB and Google. And I could have sworn that Cassie has seen the 1995 one, and was surprised to find it not listed in the Letterbxd! I'm sure I've heard Cassie mention it before, so I hope it does better on a future poll, this is one Cassie and Carly need to see!

jdj830

I’m rooting for MOONSTRUCK which means it’s not going to win. Sigh. But COMING TO AMERICA is hilarious and it’s good that she’s seeing it having seen TRADING PLACES (there’s a surprise connection)

MikeLL

I've always thought so!!

Zane From Canada

I had a suggestion for these Polls but it's good for a Holiday Poll: With Honors (1994) Starring Joe Pesci, Brendan Fraser, Moira Kelly and Patrick Dempsey. It's tender, funny, sweet, and emotional. Right up yours and Carly's alley. 😁

MikeLL

That's a little bit too much information, Uncle, but I agree, Cassie should have seen Coming To America by now!

Cole Jennett

November is shaping up nicely!

JohnnyUtah

Well that just is not acceptable. Lol

Matt Rose

MOONSTRUCK should be winning this, hands down.

Tomt39

Wow, offensive is not the issue. 48 Hrs, Beverly Hills Cop, Raw it is not. It's just lame tropes

Peter Dillard

A lot of good choices but I have to vote for the classic Sense & Sensibility despite a personal connection to Coming to America.

Walter

actually, Working Girl should be winning this, but Moonstruck is fantastic too

Clarence Newman

Officer and a Gentleman is at least tenderised - like the beef carcasses Rocky used to train on. And let's face it, we all know why we want Cassie to watch it.

Brett Richey

And with added poignancy as it was his last screen performance before his death... although I think it was actually released just before his second to last screen performance. But yes, me too...

Clarence Newman

And Saturday Night Fever is a good shout too.

Walter

love Working Girl. Cassie would really love it too. She'll get to it eventually.

Matt Rose

it's great. I'm due for a rewatch of that, actually. Joan Cusack steals the film (as per her norm).

clutchkman

I know that Cassie would love Sense and sensibility (assuming it's 1995) that's my favorite on this list, but I'm happy she's getting such good options for her this month.

Clarence Newman

I am willing to bet right now that the first words out of her mouth in the outro will be, "How have I not seen this?"

Brett Richey

I think I was being sarcastic (without spoilers)... but I'm a fan of an Officer and Saturday Night. I think really it all boils down to each individual's perception on 'tender'... and to be fair... there is no right answer.

Silver Machine

I think the date is incorrect for Sense & Sensibility. If it's the movie starring Emma Thompson and Kate Winslet, it should be 1995 not 1985. (And it should get a lot more votes too!)

Celeste McAllister
>>153735588

Yeah I know,after 'Howard the Duck', 'Son in law' will look like "The Lion in Winter'.😎 take a look at Roger Eberts review in 'Your Movie Sucks'...I sent Cassie that book,glad to do it! 😆 :)

Chris Brown

Coming to America. I'm pleased to see Moonstruck on this list, it doesn't get much attention. It's a slow, even boring at times, build to a great ending.

Clarence Newman

No heavier than A Few Good Men, though, and Cassie loved that one.

Clay F

An Officer and a Gentleman has it's tender moments. For instance, one particular tender scene (you know which one) -- my ex-wife and daugther love.

John Liebling

In regards to a tender movie, in what universe could Coming to America out shine An Officer and a Gentleman.

John Liebling

Love for Cassie and Carly to watch the Robin Williams film The Bicentennial Man

Clarence Newman

Each to their own, Tom. Personally, I didn't love 48 Hours (not Eddie's fault - it was Nolte, I think) and Raw was far inferior to Delirious. But Coming To America I loved.

Paul Stelter

You really need to add EMMA (1996) with Gwyneth Paltrow; guarantee Carly will like it too (if she hasn't already seen it)

Brett Richey

Me too... I'm not knocking it. And it has a particular uplifting and motivated moments (you know which ones)... like I said... I'll watch owt me - I'm from Manchester in England and that's how we say 'I'll watch anything I will' btw. And If Cassie is watching then I actually will because I just like watching stuff with her no matter what. She's kinda the best reactor out there. You always get genuine and genuine is very rare these days.

Brett Richey

*no need for 'a' before particular but now in giving away one of my OCDs. Nice chat ☺️

MikeLL

I'd be happy for Cassie for calling an audible on either Moonstruck or Working Girl (but I'd like a Cary audible, too!).

Wallace Marbach

You're 100% right on that scale - however, Coming to America is an amazing movie that I'm dying for her to watch lol

Clarence Newman

If you want the mother of all tender movies, though - the apex, apotheosis, pinnacle and peak of tender movies, there is no getting away from THE CHAMP (1979). It has THE most tender relationship between a father and son. If you want to see Cassie (and Carly) all puffy eyed, quiver-lipped and buried in a mound of tender tissues, THE CHAMP needs to get some love. Also, Cassandra, if my Youtube searches are to be believed, you would be the FIRST reactor to react to it in the history of ever.

Clarence Newman

I agree. but as they're 1 & 2 in the poll right now, I'm not complaining.

Clarence Newman

Both ladies would love all that kind of stuff.

MikeLL

. . . "'Son in law' will look like "The Lion in Winter" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

René Ferland

John Liebling or Johny Favorite? :-)

Dan M

Oof…this is tough! An Officer and a Gentle and Sixteen Candles are both high on my list, and both are perfect for Tender November. So since Officer already has a lead over Sixteen Candles, I’m voting for 16C. I’ll be totally fine with either one. While Coming To America is a really funny movie, I don’t consider it to be a tender movie. I don’t think Eddie Murphy and tender go hand in hand. This could have been placed in a Comedy poll or an Eddie Murphy poll. It’s definitely a case of “one of these things is not like the others”.

Canadianant

I think we'd all get canceled if we told Cassie to watch delirious or Raw. Lol

Dan M

A complete pallet cleanser for Cassie and Carly so far.

Canadianant

As much as I love the fact that we're going to get a coming to America reaction I'm almost interested myself in watching some of the movies that I haven't watched

Dan M

Love this movie. And it would a good pairing with School Ties (also with Brendan Fraser). Maybe a theme week later in November. With Honors, School Ties, Dead Poets Society, and Lean on Me. Back to School week.

Clarence Newman

Don't worry, Brett, I speak Mancunian. Hear all, see all, say nowt, tak' all, keep all, gie nowt, and if tha ever does owt for nowt do it for thysen.

Stuart Guthrie Jr.

Great list but I'm crossing my fingers for An Officer and a Gentleman.

Zane From Canada

Solid choices all around. Seen all of them. Love all of them. I'm torn a bit cause I'd want all of them to win. 😁

John Liebling

Well Rene not even as a joke referring to my god given name as a sadistic cult leader is grossly wrong!

Dan M

Coming to America is a really funny movie which I’m sure Cassie and Carly would love, but I agree it probably shouldn’t be in a Tender November poll. It’s better suited for a pure comedy poll.

Clarence Newman

Heartbreak Ridge (1986). Clint as a grizzled old Gunnery Sergeant whipping a platoon of misfits into shape.

Dan M

Good one Celeste! 🤣🤣🤣

Richard Maurer

Are Pauly Shore movies better or worse than Ernest movies? Personally I’d say slightly better, which would put them one rung above the bottom of the barrel.

Richard Maurer

Peter Jackson’s King Kong is a tender movie - should be on this poll.

Thomas Thompson

Oh my God! You expect me to pick just one?

Brett Richey

Haha... brilliant! Actually am from up road Oldham like, but don't tell no one will ya. To prove it a call it a muffin and not a balm. 'Thysen' sounds more Yorksheer to me... you a Yorksheer lad, Leeds like... or a yer Lancasheer 😉 Don't doxx yersen on my account 😄

Thomas Thompson

Coming to America? You’ve got to be kidding.

Ace Degenerate

Absolutely Coming to America all day every day. Hopefully one day we will see movies like Harlem Nights, Waiting to Exhale, Dead Presidents, 5 Heartbeats, Higher Learning, The Wood, The Inkwell, Love and Baskeball, and Love Jones start making the polls more often and not just during Black History Month!

Shehab Dawoud

Although I'm personally happy that 'Coming To America' is winning, I see people are having issues with it and other movies being on these two polls. I 100% get it. The same thing happened in the October polls where some movies had no business being on there. I'm not sure exactly who is putting the polls together, but is it too much to ask for that they be a little bit more meticulous and thorough in the research? If not, then maybe hand over the responsibility to someone else.

Clarence Newman

I am a Southern Softie, mate - a Kentish Man originally (or Man of Kent, I could never figure which), but have since emigrated to the wilds of Hampshire. I used to have a Mancunian friend, who taught me a few 'sens' and 'doxxes'. 'E was mad fer it, 'e were.

Gideon Danielson

I also went with the assumption she meant the 95 movie and it SHOULD get a lot more votes. I think Carly would really enjoy it too!

Ace Degenerate

The contrarian in me immediately wanted to disagree that it’s his funniest movie… but when you’re right you’re right 😂😂

Mark White

This is a great list for you Cassie. You would enjoy any of these. Coming to America is funny. But if there is a time for you to continue your habit of watching runner ups as well, now is the time, as I really think you and Carly would love An officer and A Gentleman (if it finish’s second) Plus if you don’t watch an officer and a gentleman, Clarence Newman might loose his mind! 🤪😂

ShazD

Why on earth is Coming to America included?

ShazD

🙄

Tyler Foster

It'd be nice if Coming to America just gets watched as a tribute to both James Earl Jones and John Amos, and and the second-place movie on this poll gets watched as the actual "Tender November" winner. I like CtA okay but I don't know how tender it truly is.

Brett Richey

By dox I meant don't give your identity away on here. But anyway, nice to meet your acquaintance and 'softie' or not we English have the best humour. Tea or Dinner, we all know which side our bread is buttered. Here's hoping for a few nice British films Cassie would appreciate down the line... The Full Monty, maybe Brassed Off etc... We'll see.

crazyivan

'cause it's the best comedy on the list.

Biggman83

I was just thinking that…it’s a random choice against the rest of the list.

Audrey

Peanut Butter Falcon is soooo good. Shia is outstanding in this movie. This movie is perfect for Nov- tender, moving, emotional at times… but will also make you laugh at times.

James Reeves

I can not believe you have never seen Hope Floats.

Clarence Newman

I will never pass up an opportunity to endorse The Full Monty. Cassie would love it!

Biggman83

I’d love to have seen ‘Harvey’ on this list.

Mark White

Saturday night fever is most defiantly not tender! I think most people remember the Bee Gees soundtrack and the dancing. But in between all that it’s quite gritty and there are some tough scenes as well. Good movie though.

Brett Richey

That was my sarcasm getting lost again, Mark... but I won't expand on that because spoilers take all forms. I like both films btw.

Ace Degenerate

I see your 🙄 and raise you a 😑

DAVID COSTELLO

Sense and Sensibility is 95 not 85 and it is spectacular

Paul Stelter

They'd both love it, no question

Mark White

Brett, I got the sarcasm!😆 I was just agreeing with you. It’s unlike me not to continue the sarcasm! I must be coming down with something! 😅

Audrey

Agreed!!

Mark White

Are you guys suggesting Cassie doesn’t like swearing?! Is she Steve Rogers in disguise? “Language!”😆

Audrey

Agreed on Peanut Butter Falcon! Not sure what happened with promoting that movie when it first came out…so many have not seen it, or heard of it actually. I think some people stayed away from it because shia is in it. I don’t pay attention to his personal life or his “weird behavior” as many individuals will say… he is an incredibly talented actor. I personally think that you should have won an award for peanut butter, falcon, and fury.

Audrey

I love howard the duck!!

Mark White

And it has a particular actor Cassie has a soft spot for.

Dissonant Bard

Absolutely. This has their names written all over it

Godzilla Jones

It's really great. So heartfelt. I love it.

Cathleen Jennings

Sense and Sensibility 1000%! Jane Austen needs to be watched and S&S is a good one! I wish it were Emma, tho

Dan M

Exactly! Which is why they should all be watched in a theme week.

Tara ✨💫

Oh my goodness!!! Cassie has never seen Richard Gere before he became a “silver fox” An Officer and a Gentleman for sure. Then there’s Sixteen Candles. It is a crime that Cassie hasn’t seen this classic 80’s John Hughes movie!! No matter the outcome, Cassie… these two are a MUST!!

Lucien

Moonstruck is hilarious and romantic. An Officer and a Gentleman is an iconic film from when Debra Winger was at the height of her wicked powers. Really this poll should include her film Cannery Row which is my favorite film of hers.

Larry Darrell

I think we got a Ringer here. 🤨

Michael West

Great poll, Cassie. All of these are good movies that you would enjoy. I know it's not winning, but I hope that (even if you don't watch it on the channel,) you will watch Peanut Butter Falcon at some point. I'm confident that if you liked Rain Man, you will enjoy it.

John

Working Girl for sure, Harrison of course. Never heard of Peanut Butter Falcon.Not sure if I ve seen Hope Floats or not, maybe.

Larry Darrell

I’ve thought the same thing Shehab. When I joined the channel, I assumed She had someone who knew films helping her with selections. I figured it was Ben. But, many polls like these later, I figure She’s doing it on her own. It wouldn’t hurt to have an unbiased film buff to act as a buffer, to help filter all the films into the proper categories. Instead of one day, wanting to watch a Tender and Lite film on a whim (which she has done before) and putting in The Maltese Falcon or Out of Africa to watch.

Shehab Dawoud

It is what it is but I’m actually happy with this one😁 But I understand if you’re a rom-com fan you’d be disappointed.

Walter

more tender than Coming To America, for sure

Walter

A fantastic film with 4 awesome performances. Cassie and Carley will love it...eventually. Before that I guess they will be watching the - apparently - "tender" Coming To America...

Walter

I can honestly say that this is a very strong list. Even films that don't fit the theme are still good movies that I'm sure PIB will enjoy. Everyone has their favorites, obviously, and mine is Working Girl. I have always been a Harrison Ford fan and this is a fantastic role for him. I know when they get around to watching it, they will love it (and him) too.

Stick Figure Studios

I never said it was. I just called it a "decent film." I didn't put it on the poll and I definitely didn't vote for it. Nevertheless it's still going to win... and that's okay. There are certainly far worse films coming around the corner (*cough* HOWARD THE DUCK *cough*).

Chris Thom

Straw Dogs is...also not that tender.

Joe J

Ouch, she got us again. 🙄

Larry Darrell

I’ve got a soft spot for Tender and Romantic films and when I got Covid a few years ago, I gathered up all my favorite Comfortable films in order to watch, while I battled a fever, which lasted a whole week. It really helped. Two of these films were part of that bundle. Moonstruck (1987) & Working Girl (1988) Perfect for this time of year.

Rick Rodriguez

Let the River Run! For Working Girl!

Dan M

It’s a good comedy, but it really doesn’t fit in with the Tender November theme.

Mark Vaderr

Ironically, the least tender movie, Coming To America, is winning this poll. Cassie, thank you for adding a movie from Carly's Romantic List. :)

Andrew Rose

All of these should be on your must watch list Cassie!! The only exception being Peanut Butter Falcon because I haven't seen that one to know.

Shawn Kildal

I believe Cassie has said Pride and Prejudice is a top all time favorite of hers. Shocking she hasn't seen Sence and Sensibility.

Dan W

i think you could get some tenders at mcdowells 😂

Kristin

I would like to do a write in for French Kiss....

Chris Thom

I thought she did that already. With Kevin Klein?

Chris Thom

PBF is a pretty charming, offbeat movie. Shia LeBeouf.

Chris Thom

Yeah I'm pretty shocked at that. Actually think she may've put that there by mistake.

BRT

😐🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

Todzilla

I thought about sitting out Tender November again but then saw Coming To America was in the lead!! RIP James Earl Jones!!❤️❤️❤️

Danny

I'm happy to see An Officer And A Gentleman and Peanut Butter Falcon it's some of my favorites

M. Callari

Sixteen Candles!! If you have never seen it, you simply MUST! It is as GenX as anything you can ever seen (along with Breakfast Club)

Derek Crump

Peanut Butter Falcon is one of my all time favorites! I hope it makes it to future lists.

Kevin Kuma

"Coming to America". Silly, quotable and home to one of the best made for movie commercial jingles of all time. It marks a sweet spot in Eddie Murphy's Iconic comedy career. This film is meant for laughs, and delivers consistent warm tones, which truly embodies the comedy comfort of the 80's. Liked by most, loved by many, it has become a nostalgic comedy that is better seen, than not.

Tim Foppiano

Hope Floats is probably one of Sandra Bullocks best! And if this isn’t a Popcorn movie, then nothing is! My wife is just blown away right now. Maybe it’s the age thing, but hasn’t anyone here seen it?

YodatheHobbit

I finally watched Working Girl for the first time in 2020 and it gave me hope which I didn't expect to find in trying to succeed at one's chosen career and proving your doubters wrong that I hadn't felt in a very long time. If I need to feel inspired I either watch the intro movie shot or the music video for the intro song. It's not even my kind of music, but it's quite empowering. Guess it reminds me of my mom with me 9, my brother 5, freshly divorced, having just moved to Temecula to find us a better life, right next to the evolving Pechanga Casino, selling her art, running Child Care services out of our home, working hard to keep us going until she met my stepdad.

Tara ✨💫

Come on people… Cassie has questioned about Richard Gere before Pretty Woman. Please vote for An Officer and a Gentleman

Kristin

it was on a poll, but didn't win.

Tara ✨💫

I agree. Cassie and Carly would love August Rush. We all know how Cassie feels about cute kids. He’s also in Finding Neverland with Johnny Depp

Tara ✨💫

Cassie, here’s what you can do. Watch the winner and runner up and then make each of the others your PPOTM. Honestly, these are all great and I know you will love the ones that I’ve seen. Although, Coming to America should have been on a Comedy poll

Kristen

I’ve seen it a few times and find it very sad overall. Has sort of a depressed feel to me.

MikeLL

I do hope she watches the winner and runner up to both polls.

Arturo

Any recommendation for election week? - Welcome to Moosport (2004) - V for Vendetta (2005)

bgb1975 (Brian)

Seconded. Especially with Veteran's Day coming up!

Joe J

Always one film to cook the polls, one film to rule them all (haha).

Joe J

@Richard, Joe Piscopo has entered the chat. 😆

ShazD

Would be nice if this page was a politics free zone.

Shehab Dawoud

I haven’t spoken about politics at all. I’m allowed to have whatever profile pic I want. Neither Cassie nor the moderators have said anything about it. If you have a problem with it, it just speaks volumes about what kind of human being you are.

2-Can

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. Dedicated to the losing side - whichever that is - could be an election day perennial (if we let it . . . )

Jon

I came here to say V for Vendetta.

John P Tucker

Kevin Costner’s “Message in a bottle” would be another good one for November.

Michael Gilbrook

There are a lot of good choices on this poll, but I'm surprised that "Out of Africa" isn't getting more love. Compelling story, beautiful cinematography, fabulous score. Knowing their mutual soft spot for romance stories, I think this would be a great one to watch with Carly!

Clarence Newman

Coming To America well out in front, with Officer and a Gentleman a comfortable, cosy second place. I'm off to do some Gangnam Style down the hallway.

Clarence Newman

Poetic, Kevin. A great way to say that this is Eddie at his very best!

Clarence Newman

Oh it's happening, Tara. We all know Officer and a Gentleman is a Made-For-Cassie movie.

Catherine LW

Every shot is perfect composition.

Miguel

Went to school with the writer/director for Peanut Butter Falcon... thats it, thats the message. I have nothing else to add....

Chris Thom

She probably would like that. I think she's going to have to just choose some of these without a poll if she's ever going to watch things she'll really enjoy.

Dean Holt

I know everyone has there own taste in movies. And even though I voted for Coming to America I kinda agree with a few other that say it doesn’t really belong on the list. But for me it’s the best film and I’ve been wanting to see Cassie react to it and Beverly Hills Cop for years. But the worst two on the list for me would be Officer and a Gentleman as I just thought it was so boring. it didn’t help that I’m not a Richard Gere fan i just think he’s so overrated. The other is Sense and Sensibility as I just don’t like period drama’s, them and Musical’s are the two worst genres for me as I just don’t find them interesting and a bit annoying lol.

Dean Holt

Well most of the Horror polls were won by superhero type movies that weren’t really horror films lol. So I thought I’d vote for Coming to America which kinda doesn’t really belong on the list 😂. But I yeah I’m with you on just watching comedy film in November.

Dean Holt

I definitely agree about Howard the Duck 🤦🏻‍♂️, but I’m going to be very interesting to see what she thinks of it. Especially a particular very weird scene 😂😂.

Dean Holt

Sorry I voted for Coming to America 😂😂

Clay F

Dean, good points. I am not a huge fan of the four movies you mention. I am not a huge fan of Officer and a Gentleman or Sense and Sensibility but think Sense and Sensibility is the best quality movie in the poll. An Officer and a Gentleman is a movie that was part of our culture and worth to watch for that reason. I was age 19 when the movie was released in 1982. My ex-wife and daughter like Officer and a Gentleman. I think Cassie would very much like the ending (which is important to her). I am not a huge fan of Coming to America or Beverly Hills Cop, but Eddie Murphy is a comic genuis and worth to watch for that reason. I like 48 Hours and Trading Places the best of the early Eddie Murphy. Beverly Hills Cop is good. Coming to America my last choice. My personal favorite in the poll is Peanut Butter Falcon.

Rick Williams

I think Carly would like it also.

Dean Holt

Clarence, I’m a Yorkshire lad from Sheffield where The Full Monty was filmed lol. Some of that message to Brett did sound I bit more Yorkshire. But Sheffield, Leeds and Manchester aren’t too far away from each other.

Monte Durbin

Where's "Love Actually?" Maybe Caiise plans to include it as one of this year's Christmas choices?

Chris Thom

Oh I was thinking of Fish Called Wanda.

Chris Thom

I remember the child actress being really good in it. But yeah it's one of the ultimate Sandra Bullock movies.

Vlad D

Hi Cassie. I hope you watch the runner ups as well. Officer and a Gentleman is definitely a you and Carley movie

Clarence Newman

She probably watches that one every Christmas, Monte. It's on her watched list, that's for sure.

Clarence Newman

I've got that beat, Miguel. When my Mum was 6 months pregnant with me, she walked past Ringo Starr in the street!

Clarence Newman

This is how Cassie just read your post: "Kevin Costner's...Yep, add that one to the list!"

Joe J

Hold up Nellie, what if she only reacts to the winner?

Clarence Newman

That would be acceptable if Officer and a Gentleman is the winner. Otherwise....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

Cole Jennett

That’s not a movie a rom-com/Christmas fanatic would ever have missed. It is “THE” Christmas Rom-Com

bgb1975 (Brian)

Haven't seen "Message in a Bottle" yet, but when it comes to Costner - I gotta go with his team up with Clint Eastwood in "A Perfect World"

2-Can

And for the winning side - whoever that may be - Anchorman ("You stay classy")

Jens Kristensen

"You can be all the things... youve always wanted to be... Beautiful, sexy, easy as 1,2,3..." "Just let it shine through, yeah Just let your soul glo" "Just let your soul glo, baby feeling oh so silky smooth" "Just let it shine through, yeah.. Just let your soul glo" "Soul glo"

MikeLL

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jeff Rogers

Coming to America is a really fun movie, but doesn't fit this poll.

Larry

FINALLY!!! Moonstruck made it to the polls 👏👏👏👏👏😀

ChristopherTracy

This poll has a lot of good movies, you really can’t go wrong. Watch them all! lol Did not vote for Peanut Butter Falcon, but it is such a good movie. Very underrated or hidden gem kind of movie in my opinion

Arturo

I ask for movies, not a documentary.

ChristopherTracy

You should check out the Peanut Butter Falcon. Read the synopsis of the movie and if it peaks your interest, I’m sure you’ll like it

Reneeboy

Should check out Grave of the Fireflies. Cant get more tender than that. Hopefully in a future November.

BriGuy

If you loved Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, you'll love her Sense and Sensibility. Btw, though, your poll indicated it's from 1985 -- that must be a typo, it came out in 1995.

JD

Peanut Butter falcon is awesome fyi! I didn't look up much about it and my boss highly recommended it. Me and the wife watched it and LOVED IT. Such a heartwarming movies. Its a twist on Tom and Huck in my opinion.

NJC

I would like to see a reaction to "A Walk to Remember".

Art of Free Speech

So sad to see Officer and Gentleman not win. It was the movie which made me want to become a military aviator (which I did).

Vlad D

Civil War 2024

Arturo

Again, I ask for movie not a prediction. PS: I saw that one, didn't like it, thanks.

rakesh
>>154160626

she still may watch it... ♪ Who knows.. what tomorrow brings..... ♬

Clarence Newman

Don't worry, guys, I've got a plan in place if Cassie fails us by not watching Officer and a Gentleman. " I'm 'Enery the Eighth I am, 'Enery the Eighth I am I am. I got married to the widow next door, she's been married seven times before, and every one was an 'Enery ('Enery!), she wouldn't have a Willie or a Sam. I'm 'er eighth old man, I'm 'Enery. 'Enery the Eighth I am. Second verse, same as the first!......."

Clay F

Peanut Butter falcon is an awesome movie.