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Kimba

Me neither but that’s no reason for me to be friends with more successful people

MarshalB

She needs a hug, and what until they get home. She’s going go psycho on that crazy twit watching the kid…

Arvetis

That tends to happen when you push away stabilizing factors because you don't think you deserve them.

Arvetis

Can be a legitimate reason for a breakup - you have to be at least emotionally in-shape enough for the relationship to not be one-way giving. But that should be the other person's call, because when you judge yourself like that, it's usually just a reinforcing cycle of self-punishment.

HorseHats

Thanks, Arventis. By golly - Hildegard will give you (Adrian) the stability you feel you are lacking. Come on! Let Hilde embrace you with her caring and supporting tender passion. She already thinks you (Adrian) are an amazing woman.

Dan Huber

Sounds like the preamble to a terrible decision. So relatable, I love this series.

rodso64

Should I feel like a schmuck for being distracted from the drama by how beautiful their hips and thighs are...? :/

Luircin

Strange as it may sound despite everyone else's opinions, I think she's got a point. The way it's going, the relationship is feeling like Hildegarde going "I can fix her!" That's a bad motivation for a relationship. On top of that, all give and no take can be pretty bad for the taker as well, especially seeing how Hilde seems like she wants to push it on Adrian like it or not. And a lot of the comments seem to be saying, "LET HER FIX YOU!" as well, though I admit I'm used to seeing that kind of sentiment in romance fans, heh heh.

Luircin

There is, true. Though it's coming across (to me) as 'I'm going to help you in the way I think is best and your opinions don't matter.' And while sometimes that may be necessary in the case of self-destructive behavior or mental illness, trying to mix it with romance is a recipe for disaster.

Pel

I have such little patience for this. If someone tried to throw a pity party because they thought my other partners were more financially stable than them, I would assume it means we have fundamentally different ideas about what makes a relationship valuable. Like, if you really have nothing better to offer me than money and are leaving because you don’t have money, than I guess I misunderstood how you feel about me ?? :/

Sartharina/Scow2

Hilde thinks Adrian is an amazing woman... for now. Adrian's probably terrified of the idea of being dependent on Hilde for her stability, because if things don't work out - she went through that rodeo with her last partner.

Backtolurking

It's an expectation of not wanting to economically slow someone down. People handle various levels of economic instability in various ways. The thing is, a lot of the time a person is unable to see there own potential in contributing to a life together. Relationships are complicated. XP