Aftercare tips (Patreon)

Hey Lovelies, the image is a little blurry, I’m sorry.

Between kinksters, we all know that aftercare is one of the basics of bdsm. Cooling down after a session, even a not so rough one is super important! And that applies to all the partners involved, yes, even doms.

This image shows great exemples of aftercare and cool-downs but I want to add a few:

• Prepare a nice bath for your partner
• POSITIVE REAFFIRMATIONS (it’s already written on the image but I feel it should be highlighted cause it is really important so that your partner doesn’t feel used and disrespected outside the scene)
• Some alone time
• Some food like a snack, candies or a full on homemade meal
• A small walk outside to stretch muscles and reduce the risk of stiffness the next day
• An activity that you can practice together like going to the movies
• Whatever you or your partner feel like doing

Aftercare can and should be discussed during the contract phase, before any bdsm related activity imo.

Take care and practice safely, much love ♥️