Speak up (Patreon)

Okay so I’m passionate about this actually! Have you noticed that when you expose someone for how bad they treated you they always pull the « pfft no you’re just crazy » card? Especially when you’re a woman? And they use the times you went off on them (after you accumulated so much stress from the abuse that you could no longer take it) to gaslight you into thinking that they abused you BECAUSE of the times you rebelled against it?

It’s like « No Chad, I didn’t threaten to broke your jaw if you touch me one more time because I’m insane, I threatened you because you almost beat me to death one time. » You know what I mean? (Fake exemple but you get it)

Insanely narcissistic and abusive people LOVE to make you out to be the bad guy for barely defending yourself in a dangerous situation. Anyway.