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An important conversation.

I'd like to say a few things about how J & J are handling this topic ; o;) Because I think some readers might expect... more support?? from Jacob for his brother? In the form of telling their mum off? Which is definitely something that's happened before, but going off on a parent doesn't always solve the problem, might even make it harder in the future, especially when you can't or aren't willing to risk having to cut them out completely.

So sometimes.... just accepting the fact that you can't get through with certain topics might be the best way to deal with things. Jasper and Jacob have each other's backs and they both know that, but after 30+ years they're tired of trying to fight, it's not worth putting energy into that anymore so the boys mostly just try to get each other out of those dicey moments and reaffirm each other that despite what they're being criticised for (which their mum mostly even means well!! but she's a very hardened person with very little emotional intelligence?  ̶p̶o̶s̶s̶i̶b̶l̶y̶ ̶a̶l̶s̶o̶ ̶w̶i̶t̶h̶ ̶s̶l̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶n̶a̶r̶c̶i̶s̶s̶i̶s̶t̶i̶c̶ ̶t̶e̶n̶d̶e̶n̶c̶i̶e̶s̶  ), at the end of the day they can just leave and go back to their own independent lives. (except little Eli of course)

I'm hoping this comes across through this scene itself but in case I failed... I wanted to type it out like this a bit more clearly. I thought a lot about this family and I really love their dynamics, in a way I'm a bit sad I have to cut their relationship so short ; _;

We will hear a bit from Eli's perspective in the next episode~! 💜

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toblerone231

Come oooooooon baby broooo you’re sooooo close to getting that foot back out of your mouth!!!

Courtney Bannigan

I love the brotherly advice and support Jacob shows jasper! Communication and being there for each other is always wonderful! Also, happy pride month everyone!

Kendra

I can't wait to see what Jasper left for Kai! 💜 Also, families are so hard and this one does feel really real Kan!

ielly

I think the dynamics make sense! And Jacob doesn't seem unsupportive. I've got a similar thing going with my siblings where we mostly just try to "manage" my mom . >_<

Saia

This always makes me smile. Thanks for the update. It's interesting to see their family dynamic and I'm looking forward to seeing Eli's interaction with Jasper this time. Last time he was a bit harsh. Wonderful chapter again! 🤟💞

Kalida

that came across perfectly and honestly.... this came at a good time, I'm fighting myself with my family and moving across the world to be with my new wife, and if I should or shouldn't do it... I really liked to see the sibling support like that and I wish I had siblings to help me like that 💙

Kaeli

Can’t wait for the next episode!! And yes I think Jacob and Jasper handled it well, and this was a very realistic take on the situation which is refreshing.

Jamie Giessen

Awe my sweet sweet boys! Love them all so sweet!

Lapis

Jacob's love for Louise is SO sweet~ <3 >w< I did respond to your comment on the last chapter, but I'll say here too, as someone with a toxic parent, I do understand and relate to the fact that you can't always fight your parents on things, especially when it never gets you anywhere productive. I unfortunately am stuck living with my mom again, and it drives me up a wall. Like Jasper and his mom, we have our ups and down and back and forth on things. I know that deep down she does care, but when it does more to hurt me than to help, it's a struggle, especially when I've tried every means to portray this to her but she won't hear it. My sister used to live here and would sort of be my Jacob at times, but she's soured in recent years, and moved out a few months ago. It's nice to see these little moments between the siblings, where they're more than just their mother's kids. I'm glad they have each other, and their loved ones to return to. <3 They're very lucky in that~ (Also, WHAT DID JAS LEAVE FOR KAI?! >w> <3 unless I'm forgetting, I think this is new info~?)

Nicensweet

Kai please bring over those pastries over to my place 🙏 😍🥐🧁 me want them 🤤🤤🤤🤤😋

Blondie

God do I relate to being too tired to fight parents after thirty years. Instead just roll my eyes and not waste the energy on it. Too real.

Inma R.

I totally agree that sometimes it's best to just live your life happily than waste a huge amount of energy trying to change someone when they most probably won't OwO It's good the brothers have each other's backs, at least Jasper has a "safe place" within the family <3

Kalida

on a side note 30+ YEARS?!?!? how have I never noticed they were so old....

Cream

the psychological and the emotional details are so on point. thank you, Kandismon!

Cynthia Smith (Dex)

My own father still dislikes my husband and we've been together for almost 12 years, but he excepted my wife who gas been with us for about 5 years. I get the approval thing. Lol parents.