How Any Woman Can Gain More Sexual Confidence (Patreon)

Did you know that the more you stress about sex, the less likely you are to enjoy it? With bae on the way, you've eaten your pineapples, shaven your vagina, and sprayed Febreeze- but in the pit of your stomach is a seed of doubt about your impending sexual performance. What if you're too loud? What if you taste funny? What if you throw up on his dick? What if you cant take the dick? Whether it's your first time having sex with your partner or you guys have been doing it forever, these kinds of questions plague your brain and make it hard to sit back and truly enjoy sex. How can you get over this? How can you become more confident? I've got some tips for that ass. 

1) Masturbate More- If the thought of sex causes anxiety because you're nervous about the ability to cum, the solution is simple. You need to masturbate more. You can't expect others to make you cum if you can't do it yourself. Masturbating allows you to explore your own body, learn it's crevices, and understand what makes you cum. You pass this knowledge along to your sexual partner(s) and reap the benefits. Take your masturbation sessions to the next level by recording snippets (sound recorder or video) and listening/watching yourself cum. The next time you're having sex and having trouble getting comfortable enough to let your guard down, think back to the orgasms you have when masturbating. Were your fingers on your clit? Were you biting your lip? Incorporate whatever it was into the sex you're having and enjoy.2) Do More Things Naked- I'm so serious. I never feel self conscious about my body. I've got huge breasts and a big ass, with crazy big thighs and a stomach that is only flat when it wants to be. I love being naked in front of my man and I enjoy being fully unclothed during sex. Why? I enjoy being fully unclothed in most situations. I eat naked, clean naked, cook naked (sans frying chicken), and generally walk around the house doing nothing butt ass naked. Nudity is so normalized to me that I only remember that I'm naked when I walk past a mirror.... and when I do, I'm so turned on by the sight that I usually have to masturbate. 3) Toss the Notion of Sexual 'Performance'- Performance would imply that the main goal of your sexual encounter is to entertain someone else. I'm going to say what you're not supposed to say- your sexual joy should come first. Instead of 'performing', simply enjoy. Most men find a woman who is in tune with her sexuality arousing. Enjoying the sex naturally- instead of thinking in your head about when to moan, when to grab his back, when to say his name- will make everything much more natural and fun. He'll appreciate your genuine reactions and you'll enjoy sex without a checklist of performance actions.4) Chuck the Porn- If you watch a lot of porn and also have sex anxiety about the way your vagina or body looks or how you sound when you cum, you may want to stop watching so much of it. While porn is great for giving new sex position ideas or helping you visualize your nastiest fantasies, it also subconsciously influences how you see your own body and expect for it to look during sex. Porn is filmed from professional angles to highlight the best aspects of an actress's body. REAL sex includes less angles and more rolls, bumps, freckles, and random patches of body hair. REAL sex isn't edited to show only the most attractive parts of your body. REAL sex shouldn't be an edited performance. Again, let it be natural. Your man is enjoying your body, and you should be enjoying his. Don't worry about your titty going sideways to your armpit or the little bit of labia that doesn't exist on your favorite pornstar.5) Ask Your Partner For His Opinion- If something is plaguing you, you should be able to talk to your partner about it. Usually, your fears are irrational and something he'll probably laugh at because you're sexier and more appealing than you realize. He should soothe your fears and then fuck the shit out of you. Your partners confidence in his attraction to you and your body will only reinforce YOUR confidence. However, if there is something that he brings valid attention to, like your vagina smelling a little fishy, perhaps you should go to the gynecologist and see whats up. If he tells you your riding skills or something of that nature could use a little work, tell him that you want to practice more. What guy would say no to you using him for practice?