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Can…

  • 100% yes! 72
  • Hard no. 11
  • Maybe, depends! 80
  • At first probably, but might get complicated. 93
  • Other (comments) 2
  • Mia, go take your medicine and sleep 16
  • 2025-02-18
  • 274 votes
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You be friends with someone you’re attracted to? And I mean just friends.

Also, thank you to one of our community members for making this poll suggestion! 🥰

Comments

No0ne50

Ma'am this is a Burger King Drive Thru. I'm not qualified for this question

Asianboi_6190

There’s a girl I’m friends with currently who I have a crush on, I know she likes me and I asked her out on a date for valentines, I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but I’m scared she’s going to reject me because we’re both nursing students in college and the relationship is going to affect our studies.

Lv5WoodElf

As a pan guy who's really only been in two different 7+ year relationships and who's had many different friends, it's totally possible. Attractive people are everywhere, you just gotta not be weird about it and you'll be fine

Matthew Snedden

I think that if you think you're attracted to a friend, ask this question to yourself: am I attracted to them, or am I just touch starved/horny? If you think you are, just masturbate before hanging out with them, and see where you're at then.

Zamairiac

Hard no. I've tried it, and had it tried with me in turn. It always turned into something more and, more often than not, not wanted. Friendship became awkward or turned into FWB's and faded out over time until we stopped talking to one another. If you can make it work, good for you. But more often than not you're kidding yourself. You find them attractive, therefore sexually appealing. It WILL turn into more or you'll get frustrated and step back, ending the friendship over time anyway.

Hot Space 🚀

I think you can at first but it will definitely get complicated over time. I'm in that situation, not that good and kinda sucks but still friends. So that's something I suppose.

Kj

Depends on the type of attraction. Aesthetic or physical attraction? Sure. I would say I’m physically attracted to all my friends in some sort of way. Not to brag, but they all kinda hawt. Intellectual attraction? Absolutely. Above all, that’s one thing I look for in all my relationships platonic or not. But not just to people who have the same worldview as me, I love having stimulating and respectful conversations with people who have opposing views to mine. That leads me to emotional attraction, when we have the same values and beliefs and we connect on that more soulful level. Hell yeah. I have a handful of friends that I connect to on an emotional level. Those are my most deep and meaningful friendships. Sexual and romantic attraction is where the line gets a bit blurry. Although I think all my friends are physically attractive, I wouldn’t want to fuck any of them… well... nvm. There may be one exception, but for the majority, yeah, they’re not my type. I don’t think physical attraction equates to sexual attraction. If I’m romantically attracted to someone, meaning it’s a combination of all of these with the added desire to be in a romantic relationship with this person, then imma have to take a big step back. Unreciprocated love hurts and I’m not tryna put myself through avoidable pain. Also, side note: are you sick again, Mia?! Girl, add some immune system supplements to your throne or something cause this is wild. I hope you have a speedy recovery!

Victus's Cavern

My best friend is someone I have been friends with for 7+ years and then we dated for a few months but broke up cause long distance is hard. We’re still friends, there’s occasionally(like once a month at most) horny involved but like if he got into a relationship or I did I could 100% just be friends. I’m sure it depends though. Cause if I wasn’t already friends with him for so long then maybe it would be different.

Victus's Cavern

Oh and attraction, yeah he’s a baddie so it qualifies for sure.

No0ne50

Glad to give you a laugh. Greatest pleasure

Mia Girlfriend Audio

It’s hard when you’re in school. Especially a rigorous program as that. Maybe when you both finish and graduate? What a beautiful and wholesome story that would be. 🥰

Mia Girlfriend Audio

This is great. Except when I masturbate I just get hornier. So maybe I have to cum a whole bunch before seeing them?

Mia Girlfriend Audio

You’re absolutely right. I love this so much. There’s so much more to simple “attraction.” What a beautiful way you put it too. 🤍 And ugh. I am. I’m getting better but. It’s rough. I just may put some on my throne. I need the help lmao

Mia Girlfriend Audio

I can definitely see this. And it makes sense if you already have that established friendship too.

Hot Space 🚀

It's fine! I'd rather us be friends than nothing at all. We've been friends since High School but we've never crossed that boundary as she had boyfriends, which fair enough.

Kj

Haha you’re welcome! 😊