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Thank you for all the support on my previous post, everyone. This was the main reason for my crashout lol. It all felt too much, and completely beyond me. I'm getting better though. I talked to a friend and got some much needed direction. I'll continue a few more despair comics to get it out of my system.

(also its hilarious to me that being born where i was is more of a detriment to me than being born trans)

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Juliette Dianne Moss

I'm sorry hon :( I'm in the US, and it's "complicated" here. I'm sure it's a whole thing wherever you are...

Joel Demetrius Johnson

I'm about to be 39 at the end of this month (30th), and I was a preemie. I spent my life trying to figure out what's wrong with me and why was I different, then I started being depressed because I didn't have no friends at school like that. No sleepovers, no prom, no dances, nothing, never even had a romantic relationship with a girl/woman. I was insecure with my body until I started to embrace it and the messy parts of my life. All of it. I can't imagine what it's like being Trans and from another country, but I can tell that you love creating comics not just for your audience, but to let out your feelings, which is similar to me with my writing which saved me. Thank you for sharing these.

HighonLullabies

I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with all of that. Don’t blame you at all for feeling overwhelmed and not knowing where to start with such a huge and difficult change. Glad you found someone to talk to and give you ideas for how to make some progress. Best of luck with it!

Dragon5e

I'm trans and from USA. It's complicated here but I'm glad I have done it. I'm also glad you're part of the LGBT community.

Aria Eternal

The mere thought of moving around between the U.S. stays is so daunting and fear inducing for me, so moving between counties is terrifying. I hope you are able to feel some pride in being able to do that and much more. Not everyone has the determination needed to jump over such hurdles. Keep strong, your gremlin army is rootng for you!

Charley

This is completely understandable. A major life change (even when there's a more hopeful life in sight) is a legitimately massive amount of stress and uncertainty. It's no wonder if it feels overwhelming. It sucks that the world is so on fire these days that this kind of thing is forced on anyone, but stay tough, gal. You can get through this!

Danielle Church

42yo trans reader from the US here, and right now I really feel the heartache of "my home country is becoming so unsafe, especially for people like me... maybe I should leave... but it's my home??" keep on fighting, precious gremlin, you mean so much to so many of us 🫂💞

Addie

Come to New Zealand, gender is just a marker here. You'll still be whoever you want to be in every way.

Terry Friedman

I don't know what your home country is, obviously, or your native language. My only experience with transitioning is Israel, which is everything you could hope for. The government will even provide the surgery and pay for it. The catch is, you need to be a citizen, and to be a citizen you need to be Jewish. It's not a polite or sensitive environment, but you do just about anything you damn well please. If you make a living via your comics, you can do it there. Hebrew is not a particularly difficult language. English is much harder and you have already done that.