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00:00:00 - Intro (cool bong rip)00:02:18 - How to travel alone / How to ask people to let you pay for their trip00:13:52 - *CONTENT WARNING* My boyfriend is anti-abortion, and doesn't know I've had one00:39:00 - My friend is a debate bro, and insufferable to talk to.

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Abrar Rahman

Hey, Stranger here, I really hope you are doing fantastic and left his ass.

bee

sorry to leave a comment on a three year old question - i just became a patron and i've been going through old episodes. if there are any other girls/women listening to this after me, PLEASE take seriously the advice to have a plan to leave the situation when telling a partner about something like sexual assault or abortion, especially when they've used such violent language in the past and expressed such strong negative views. know when you're going to have this conversation with your partner, and tell a friend beforehand. plan for the friend to check in on you afterwards, and have a plan of action if they don't hear from you. if you drive, know where your car keys are, and make sure your car isn't parked in. have a bag with a change of clothes and your wallet in the boot. if you don't drive, see if a friend can be nearby to pick you up if you need them. know if your phone is charged or not. just make it as easy as possible to leave, plan to be ready to leave, and do so the second you feel unsafe or uncomfortable. don't think of it like "well he'd never be violent so i don't need to do that," think of it like you're about to have a REALLY hard conversation with someone, and it might be healthiest for you, emotionally, to be able to exit that conversation at any point. women in these situations often focus on managing their partner's emotions, and while this is a conversation that will be fraught no matter what, your focus should be on your own emotional, mental, and physical safety. sorry to be a bummer, and i'm really glad aiden did touch on this. i thought overall your advice was very good. just wanted to say this in the off chance someone comes across it later.

Rohan Swami

I frew up like 5 minutes ago

Wille Kolu

Thanks guys for the solid advice guys. Its honestly a bit scary how accurate you can pinpoint his behaviour from my explanation. I will attempt to not engage with him in the future and see how it pans out. I had a very ridicolous argument about the "vietnam song" where i tried to get some progress and it had no impact so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and im guessing majority of those who will read this will hear fortunate son when reading it. but i was asked for sources to prove that it was the vietnam song even though one of my friends who only heard the term "vietnam song" started humming it.

Versace_Sheets

30 minutes on debate bro i cannot wait poggers

liam cooney

Does anyone else have trouble with the volume in these? I have the volume on max and have trouble hearing when there is even slight outside noise interfering

Garrett Gilfoyle

With the debate bro, try and get them to say why they believe something in 1 sentence. If they can't its cause they are bogged down with stuff they have consumed but nothing that they have critically thought of themselves.

@xaikgupt

I love these thanks for putting them out

Brent .

this boyfriend is a monster

Darragh Close

always talking about holding the mic up to your face in the main pod but when it comes to the advice show y’all sit on the other side of the room from the mic

Quinn Freedman

With debate bro, I think it's possible to just bypass the debate entirely and just say "you are making me not want to talk to you anymore." They will 100% be defensive and respond with some argument about "What's wrong with just asking you to defend your position?" or "So you're admitting you're wrong?" etc. But if you just totally ignore their argument and say "Look, I don't care if you're right; when you talk like this you're not fun to be around and no one is having a good time" I think if you say that really directly once or twice they will get the memo

Bimmy

I really hope thing go well for the girl with the anti abortion boyfriend. She deserves so much fucking better than to have to hear that. Wether he changes or she leaves him, I hope she finds happiness 🥺♥️

MoAzza

loved this one, im currently solo travelling and it was cool to see someone elses perspective on solo travel

Aidan Baker

Thanks for this my brother is a debate bro and I hate talking to him it helped me talk to him more