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Real talk #2 (Patreon)

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2023-11-19 20:59:34
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2026-06

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jeremy

Hey Tasha and Trey, so I’m currently 22 in my senior year in college. I was a foster care youth since the age of 15 and basically taught myself everything I know how to do. I.e. doing laundry, paying taxes, credit building, how to load a dishwasher…etc. I taught myself everything. I’m not close with my parents but I still talk to my grandparents occasionally. When my mom found out I was gay, she sent me back to Africa, hoping they would K word me for my sexuality, since she couldn’t do that herself. She used to do this a lot and the final time she did it, she sent me back without my green card so that I couldn’t come back to the U.S. I had to go to the American Embassy in Nairobi to advocate for myself at 15, explained my situation how I was homeless and my mom sent me there without schooling, supplies, etc. I gathered all the necessary funds and brought myself back to the U.S. She always made threats against me and when I was younger, she used to beat me until my bones fractured and I wouldn’t go to school for a week until the scars faded. In 2020, when the pandemic hit, I lost my best friends, was in isolation, and my stepdad was K worded in a shooting. (I wasn’t there for all that since I was already in foster care). Now that im adulting, it is so hard seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Every day I think about ending it all because I just can’t see myself continuing living this way. When people ask me where do I see myself in 5 years, I never know how to answer because..I don’t. I feel like im in a race against time. The world is spinning but my world is so still. Society is moving on and it doesn’t care if im left behind. I feel like im living to pay bills rather than experience the one life I have in this world, and I just don’t know what to do, where to start… Im doing so bad in school bc of this and im getting kicked out bc my gpa is that low. My chest has been so heavy that getting out of bed has been a challenge. I’ve been in bed since January. It’s hard going to class. I can’t make friends bc im socially anxious and I overthink every word that comes out of my mouth. I’m all alone and you guys are the only ones holding me up. I love seeing y’all’s relationship and wish you were my parents. That’s why I always come back (apart from y’all’s commentary). I don’t know what to do, please help

PureImagination

I'm a 23 year old female and my boyfriend is 33. I'm a very caring and nice person and sometimes that leads to people taking advantage of me. I'm terrified of confrontation. I've been the peacekeeper in my family all my life and it's hard for me to stand up for myself sometimes. He doesn't like the way I handle some of the problematic people in my life anf we've been arguing a lot because of it. I understand that he's trying to help and encourage me but sometimes it just feels like he's trying to dump his extra 10 years of life experience on me because he doesn't want me to go through what he's gone through (he's told me that he used to be exactly like me). I just feel like I should be allowed to learn at my own pace and I am having trouble getting him to understand that.

Jeremy Foster

Hey guys, following up. I am 25 yrs old and like tre said it is a f all of this for me. I do set money aside for food but my folks tend to blow majority of it and my twin sister doesn't necessarily help or pitch in. My father does charge me about 500 per month. But like I don't see why he has to since we live in a big house and he can easily afford it. I think he does that so he can offset the costs of certain things. I do know how to be respectful and talk to people, it never been an issue. But with my folks, especially my mom, will say I raised you, spent money on you, etc. Even though I have help out when I couldn't afford to. I can't even concentrate on the things I need to do since my mom is loud and I get frustrated having to hear her conversations and acting like she better just because we live in a big house. No privacy, no understanding of how things feel from my perspective, nothing. I'm just so over this. Right now I doing what I can and hopefully I can room with one of my best friends after I find a stable job. I live in loganville, GA which is almost an Hour away from Atlanta.

ramzan

hey tre and tasha!! there’s a lot of context so plss message me if there are any questions or i can reply the next advice post! i’m not good at telling stories haha. so i have 7 sisters (1 younger , 6 older) i’m 19 (20 on the 21st :( ) nd my younger sister (call her c) is 17!! it’s me, my mum, my younger brother and sister at home and we have a cat called lilo. my younger sister moved out in september to one of my older sisters house because she is still scared of the cat and wanted to go to college and my older sister invited her. the sister she was living with (call her h) has mild autism (asperger’s) and has an alcohol addiction after her husband left her last year (c supported her a lot thru this) . h was drunk one night and very suddenly attacked c, tried strangling her and pulled out a knife on her to stab her because she all of a sudden decided she wanted her to pay rent to live with her. she’s a big woman but c locked herself in a room and thank god my other sister (r) was there and called the police. h then called my mum and told her c is a prostitute ?? now months later my sister is back home obviously and lilo is staying in the top floor w me (lots of rooms don’t worry). anyway some of my older sisters have been arguing with me as they believe me and c are being unreasonable and petty for not wanting to spend christmas at r’s house this year (where h is going to be) they say that h was drunk and she should be excused as she was very drunk (it doesn’t make sense to me though because if a man raped a woman when drunk, i still think he is responsible.) anyway this is causing problems in the family and me and c aren’t talking to 4/6 of our sisters. some of my sisters i have separate problems with because they knew our mother had an affair on our father (who passed away 10 years ago) and that i might be a product of that affair and they didn’t tell me until a few months ago. i’ve ordered a dna test hidden from my mum to find out hopefully by my 20th bday haha. anyway so now my family is a mess but i really want to stick by c as we are so close and she struggles mentally. am i being unreasonable? h did try to apologise but then when c called her a pussy and didn’t forgive her, h called her a stupid wh*re and to fk off. h is 29 btw pls help!! idk if i’m being unreasonable.. i’ve been a people pleaser my whole life that now i’m trying to unlearn it and idk if i’m going too far. i’ve struggled a lot with this. i’m so sorry this is so long haha also i love your videos i’m a new patreon and i’ve been watching all your reactions and you’re both so sweet. thank you!! i have a lot more stuff but i’ll save it for the next one ❤️❤️❤️ love u guys

ramzan
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i know you weren’t talking to me but i’m so sorry all that happened to you. ❤️ life can be so horrible sometimes but i hope things get better for you friend, sending lots of love your way

Violet Aster

Hey Tre and Tasha I've been watching married2thereal content since the first YouTube channel and you guys have lifted up my spirits since and been the highlight of my days and I wanted to say thank you💚. I'm 20 years old and I wanted to ask advice on how to feel less of a burden on my family and the people I care for. I've struggled with mental illness for quite some time and within the year I've been diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder depressive type and OCD. Also, last march I tried to kill myself by overdose and ever since then my family worries I'm going to get to that low point again and I feel awful having put them through that. I still do struggle with suicidal thoughts but I'm afraid to tell anyone and worry them, and yes I'm on medication and been put on something new so hopefully it helps.