Boundaries (Patreon)

Hi My Darlings 💖

Today I had to ban someone from both Patreon and Discord for routinely pushing boundaries that I had enforced. Such as:

• Revealing too much / spoilers

• Complaining about other series being posted instead of just Attack on Titan

• Guilt tripping responses when addressed

• Not taking no for an answer when asked to be patient and wait for the react to come out before I discuss (because where is the fun in discussing something you haven't seen yet?!)

• Consistently falling back into old habits without change

I made excuses for 3 months but the moment I had people on Discord reach out about feeling uncomfortable around them, I had to do what was best for the community first and foremost despite the guilt I feel at having to put my foot down.

I just want to reiterate that whilst I am so so grateful for the support I receive from you all, that does not entitle anyone to make me feel uncomfortable to the extent I avoid Patreon or Discord. Financial support does not mean that I am not worthy of respect when enforcing boundaries.

Outside of this one individual no one else has ever pushed me to this point - don't worry 😅 BUT I felt it was important to remind people that I am a person too and I deserve to be treated as such.

Love you all and have an amazing week 💖