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Welcome to our Wednesday live stream replay. This week we have:
(00:00) - Saying hi to the WikiManiacs!
(09:03) - AITAH for breaking up with her after I saw her apartment
(16:57) - AITA for saying that I though my sister's wedding was immature and trashy?
(24:34) - My husband doesn't like when I get mine and tries to stop it when its happening.
(36:46) - My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family?
(42:57) - TIFU by taking the blue pill daily for nearly a year
(49:30) - Just tipped 0% on a $500 dinner
(56:06) - AITA for skipping my brother's wedding because I wasn't invited to the engagement party?
(1:07:02) - AITA For Accusing A Girl About Lying About Her Ethnicity/Parents?
(1:13:04) - The guy I'm dating and his friends "gatekeeped" me about my hobbies and career, I'm feeling embarrassed
(1:34:03) - Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guy
(1:43:26) - AITA for saying guests could go ahead and leave my 4th of July Party
(1:50:52) - AITA for making my boyfriend get rid of his toy collection?
(1:59:42) - Answering questions from the WikiManiacs!

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Maddie

Josh I’m DYING at anti-hysterectomies 😭😭💀

Sky

Just to add in an additional perspective in regards to the person with the messy apartment— I am certain that at multiple different times in my life my place has been that bad, as a result of how different mental health issues and neurodivergency has impacted me, and I know multiple others who have gone through the same. I can't say I've ever invited someone over for the first time at that level of mess (though, to be fair, I don't have a sense of smell so there is a non-zero chance I've miscalculated how bad it is), but I definitely have invited romantic partners over when it was far from in its best state. Often it has specifically been because I know it can be an issue for some people, which is super fair, yet also is a pretty solid sign that we aren't compatible, since I also know there are times when it gets worse. And since everyone tends to picture very different things when you say it is "messy", trying to address it verbally beforehand isn't all that reliable. All that to say, I would wager that the partner in that story is likely not oblivious to how extreme of a mess it is, nor that it could possibly be a dealbreaker. In terms of actual response, 100% agree with everything y'all said — OP is definitely not the AH, being uncomfortable with that level of mess is super reasonable. It could be nice to explain why to the person, but either way it is a valid reason to end a relationship. I more just wanted to add some additional insight, since a lot of the follow up was centered in "maybe this will be the wake up call they need". Everyone I've met who has struggled with cleanliness at this level, myself included, has been acutely aware of how much of problem it is, and has very much so wanted to be able to fix it. Oftentimes, the solutions or workarounds to these kinds of issues are just not consistently accessible, available, or affordable (e.g. medication, cleaning services, spending more time on cleaning, etc. etc), so while you keep trying to fix it, you also have to reorient your life around the assumption that you won't, and that includes when looking for a partner. To be clear, I don't think y'all said anything necessarily problematic or offensive! Just seemed like an aspect you might not've considered or been aware of, and since I've so often seen y'all learn things from the responses to your stories and incorporate that new perspective going forward, I figured it was worth mentioning! Also sorry this is so freaking long, I am infamously bad about saying lot word when few word do trick.