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First of all, I want to thank all of you for the amazing support over the years. To my pleasant surprise, you steadily achieved several Patreon milestones that I had set.

The goal for an in-person Patron event was reached all the way back in December of 2019! As soon as this happened, I started planning it for mid 2020…

Anyway, several world-changing events later, we’re in 2025 and I still haven’t made good on the promise I made back then. After a lot of reflection, I have decided to cancel it entirely.

There will not be any in-person Patron events

I’m very sorry for not delivering on the promise I had made to you with the goals/milestones I set.

While the current situation in the world plays a part in this (politics, changes in the acceptance of hypnosis), as well as the practical efforts of setting up an event like this, the main reason I’ve decided to cancel is because I don’t think it is appropriate to have an event focused solely on me.

The conferences and events I’ve participated in before, with a team of presenters and organizers, allowed for a much safer space with separation of safety crew and presenters.

I wouldn’t be able to do that if the event is run and presented solely by me. Hypnosis is a kink that requires extra considerations related to safety and consent. Those matter more than my excitement of talking to my fans.

Another big reason is that I have learned a lot more about the issue of trust for a listener and interacting with me directly. Do they recognize that the voice in the file, and the trust they place in that voice, should not be transferred to me personally?

I want everyone to be able to safely enjoy what I make. That means stepping back sometimes.

The Patreon Goals Are No More

Patreon removed the goals/milestones feature in May of 2023. Anyone that started supporting me after that may not even have known that these goals existed. Despite this, I still felt it was important to update everyone about plans that have been made in the past and mentioned during various Live streams.

Thank you for your patience and support. It is, as always, humbling.

Comments

Cry Crying

boundaries are insanely important and it’s good you can recognise you wouldn’t feel right doing the event! i’m sure everyone will understand :)

Twilight

I understand, but can't help feeling disapointment, this was something I was looking forward to. but I do see your point and how impossible the events would probably be. Love you, and hopefully we'll see the lives come back in the near future?

Nimja

Thank you. And I don't have any specific plans yet for the YouTube lives. For now it's only the Live Lights.

West Lake Angel

Thank you for being open with us and giving this update.

Twilight

Unfortunately, I can't take part in the live lights. I don't have the funds available to upgrade my subscription.

Nimja

It's okay. Make sure to take care of yourself first.

Nimja

You're welcome.

Annalise de Fere

"Do they recognize that the voice in the file, and the trust they place in that voice, should not be transferred to me personally?" Well and even if they - well, we - recognize that consciously, conditioning is still a thing. Navigating situations that blur the parasocial and the social is indeed Fraught. I think this is a wise decision.

Nimja

Thank you and I agree.