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HIS MAN 3 — EP 10 (Patreon)

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2024-07-20 17:00:04
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I LOVE these two latest episodes! Feels like a lot of progress is being made and a lot of change is happening... I don't want to spoil it for anyone but towards the end of the episode? I DID NOT SEE THIS COMING. I wonder if I was the only one. SEUNGJIN being all in his head and thinking kind of makes more sense now.

I just want to give HWI a big hug. Same with MYEONGKYUN honestly. His and YOUNGJOON's talk was really good, a lot better than the previous one. I would have really liked for YOUNGJOON to specifically apologize for ghosting MYEONGKYUN like that. It still feels like he doesn't understand how shitty that actually was? Or is it just me?

The way MYEONGKYUN apologized... I JUST LOVE HIM NOW LMAO is it weird that he has kind of turned into my favourite? I just feel like I finally understand him and it makes me love him. I have so much sympathy for him and I think he's a beautiful soul. It's crazy because of how handsome he is? Sorry that it took me so long!!! I don't really dislike YOUNGJOON but I think he could have handled things a lot better. But I also understand him in a way, but still..

HWI falling over and SEUNGJIN and him turning it into a photoshoot... best moment ever. I hope to see more of them... 🥰 Let me know your thoughts~

🔵 HOPE YOU LIKE IT 💙 LOVE YOU ALL 🩵

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Lucy

I really think both of them, Youngjoon and Myeongkyun, are at fault here, they had a lot of miscommunication in the past and made mistakes. Myeongkyun thought of them as a serious relationship and for Youngjoon it kinda seemed to just be a situationship, they never really declared that to eachother. And I think you were being a little harsh on Youngjoon, he was trying to talk to Myeongkyun before but all he did was bringing up random stuff and eating his snacks. I would also get annoyed when talking against a wall... But anyways I'm just really happy that they both resolved this calmly and shared their story here on the show with its ups and downs.

Hannah

I agree totally! Youngjoon never really apologized for how he did that in the past and no matter how you try to justify it, ghosting is a crappy thing. I agree that both parties did not communicate well at all, what so ever…..but I feel like Myeongkyun got a lot of hate for the card he wrote but even Youngjoon said he changed his behavior to fit what he thought Myeongkyun would like because he wanted to impress him, but that it wasn’t the real him. So in a way, Myeongkyun was kind of right, because that’s how he knew Youngjoon personally. How was he supposed to know that this is the real Youngjoon, if Youngjoon wasn’t showing him that side. But that aside, I do love the communicating they’re doing now. Myeongkyun came a long ways and really explained everything that Youngjoon had an issue with and that was great. I think drunk emotional talks are not the place for confrontation which is why I’m not surprised the last one went horribly. But now that both have had time to think it over and to get their thoughts in order, it was for the best and now they can both move forward. I’m glad for both of them.

nins

Both Youngjoon and Myeongkyun suck at communication, and this whole fight could have been prevented, but I really don't like the way Youngjoon has treated him. He's treated him way worse in the house than Myeongkyun has, even with Myeongkyun being petty during the fight and eating snacks and teasing him and that anonymous question. Let's not forget, even before the fight, when Myeongkyun would speak in public conversations that everyone else in the house was having, and participate like any normal person would, Youngjoon would snap at him or make cold comments that made the atmosphere uncomfortable for everybody. Youngjoon saying he 'fxcking hated him' is still too harsh, even during a fight, and it really doesn't matter how angry you are, that is not alright. Youngjoon asking him over and over what he thought ghosting him meant is not cool, like it was Youngjoon's responsibility to clearly end things and explain why he did it, why make Myeongkyun guess when you didn't even block him and overthink when you can easily say what you want? And lastly, during the conversation this episode, Myeongkyun acknowledged what he lacked and what he could have done better (saying he, himself, should have expressed more and been a better lover), but it really felt like Youngjoon didn't acknowledge any wrongdoing he did. He did say from Myeongkyun's perspective he'd be sad and hurt and apologized for cursing at him, but that is not him saying what he could have done better nor is it an apology for ghosting him. He didn't hold his own actions accountable nor say he regretted what he did in the past, and he didn't apologize for the impact his ghosting caused. Both people need to do some growing, but Youngjoon especially. He seems like a generally good person and sweet friend, don't get me wrong, I don't hate him at all, but he needs to grow a lot. I am super proud of both of them though during the conversation, Myeongkyun for being super vulnerable and brave and Youngjoon for not letting his temper get the best of him. But I just don't care about Youngjoon anymore. Him and Hanmin's love story doesn't interest me either.

Amber Domi

I do agree with all your thoughts Johan! Like, ghosting is so shit and idc how normalised it is lol he should've apologised for it. however, I do think what their relationship was like before probably really influenced Youngjoons actions. If I'm in a fwb/flirting type of situation with someone and I really want a serious relationship but they dont really respond or contact me much and they don't show me they like me in any sort of way, I would also assume I was not being taken seriously as a partner LMAO Maybe I'm making assumptions but what if Youngjoon just thought 'oh if hes not responding much to me, I'll just stop responding to him'.. Anyway, im trying to say that the nature of their relationship, with its lack of communication (from both sides) and regular showing of affection, really facilitated the ghosting. none of this actually excuses Youngjoons actions at the end of the relationship, but I do understand how he'd never gotten the vibe that his actions hurt Myeongkyun.

Amber Domi

maybe I like drama too because I would actually think its iconic if Jaeseung and Hwi end up together gfdhjgfhdzsj like Hwi is writing a k-drama plot and we are all just side characters

Lucy

Oh and totally random but have you seen the picture on twitter? Myeongkyun was in the background of a scene in Light On Me

Jessi

Myeongkyun is actually so adorable😂 I feel for him. It seems like Youngjoon is still clueless on WHY Myeongkyun was upset. YOU GHOSTED HIM. Don’t ever put the blame on the other person for not catching up🙄 Annoying, but whatever LOL at least they’re on a good term now🤞 Jaeseung wearing red to stand out is hilarious😂 People are saying he’s being childish but you know what? When rent is due… you have to do what you have to do🤷🏻‍♀️ ALSO, he didn’t say he “hates” Hwi.. to be exact, It's more of a nuance like "he makes me upset” or "he annoys me." I feel like “Hate” is too aggressive.

chelsey

hwi and seungjin's friendship has carried this season for me & i'll actually die if they end up together. that little preview has me more invested than i've been all season 🫠