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jerv

it might be just me but i do think HJ is ONE OF the most honest people in this show. like idk how to explain it but shes definitely one of the most honest for me, i havent really seen her lie that much. shes getting hate because of some reasons and some of those reasons came from being honest iykwim (like her talks with baekhyun that made many irritated at her) so personally i think her honesty is getting ignored. and also i think touching is not that big of a deal in korea edit: what i mean by "touching is not that big of a deal in korea" is when the people are familiar with eachother. and HJ BK love language is quite obviously physical touch

Cherali2

It’s wasn’t a spolier 😭. I could never.

girlygirl9983

I would have to highly disagree with her being the MOST honest contestant. She SAYS one thing but DOES another when it comes to BAEK-HYUN and YOO-SIK for sure. She def. Likes to feign ignorance when in fact she knows exactly what she is doing. She has BAEK-HYUN and SEUNG-YONG on the back burner while her heart is really with BAEK-HYUN and keeps YOO-SIK on around just for the attention, bc she’s definitely NOT that interested in him.

Cherali2

I don’t know if you notice but when Yoosik talk to Yunyeong about the woman he want/like to date, he say « someone i can learn from » exactly like Minkyung.

Yang madter

The penguin beach you mentioned, is it safe? I’m surprise they don’t attack you

jerv

then u definitely have a different way of seeing things from me. i dont see her doing much different from what she says except for the first few episodes of her. so shes still ONE OF the most honest in this show FOR ME RN.

jerv

i think he thought it was a spoiler bc u said "lastest" that made it seem like "latest" episode. u shouldve said the previous episode/the episode before

Ssarcastic_Loser

Saying HJ has SY in the backburner shows you have a slight bias against her. Its ok, everyone has a bias. but objectively speaking, HJ is Honest. She never said out loud that right now she has zero feelings for BK. Even in this episode, she said she liked YS more and more and thus kept texting him because her and BH have not reached any form of agreement about their reunion. She is always very straightforward SY, anyone who is watching the show even with a little objectivity can say that. She definitely has feelings left for BH but currently, she likes YS more in the present and that's exactly what she said.

hanbitna

Minkyung is just so cute I love her sm like how come you didn’t fall for her cuteness

Ssarcastic_Loser

As always Appreciate the post Dr. love! I don't try to defend and become a stan for any of the cast members as i enjoy understanding the relationship dynamic, no matter how messy it might be. I find BH-Hj dynamic to be the most complex and people often clock out of it because of their long timeline, which becomes difficult to keep track when you have so many different couples to also pay attention to. Also, as far as i have seen, HJ is really honest. A small timeline of Hj would maybe clear things up a bit because its such a long show and not everyone can keep track of it and it understandable. - In the prelim meeting, when she met BH before moving into the house, she saw how BH treated her and his words made her heart flutter again. Also BH said his heart fluttered too and she replied with " its a relief". - After the prelim meeting, in the next 10 days before actually moving into the house, she definitely had those feelings grow a bit, as it is natural. - When she moved in expecting there to be at least positive reaction from BH because thats how it was in the prelim meeting only to find him going for another girl and at the same time disrespecting her by moving mad and saying things which he was not supposed to like throwing the intro letter and leaving her stranded when they were supposed to meet. - This confused her and thats when they had their talk till the morning in the stairs and they cleared their misunderstanding and BH said he wanted to get to know YY. - In the meantime she started going on dates and started to actually like YS. After this, she clearly explained her entire timeline to BH in their talk in the previous episode and made things clear. BH has definitely very deep feelings for HJ but being with her reminds him of his past pathetic self and how he was so tough to handle. his priority is HJ's happiness, which he mentioned at the end of last episode where he broke down. And the main reason he got so emotional because he realized that he was not the one (according to him) who can keep HJ happy and he feels he reverts back to his old ways of always misunderstanding her and only hearing what he wants to hear which ultimately leads to HJ having a more tough time. Honestly, i kinda feel for BH because i get him and i can also see why people are against him, because in the process of him realizing his truest emotion YY somewhat seems like a collateral as she has done nothing wrong and went straight for the guy she liked and fell for him.

girlygirl9983

Sarcastic_Loser —- There’s no bias here. This isn’t about liking or disliking HJ. Calling her ‘the most honest’ is a stretch. Your bias accusation comes from me simply disagreeing after I came to a conclusion by looking at her patterns and actions in the past 17 eps.

girlygirl9983

vrej —- By that logic of you saying “u dont know hows shes really feeling u cant just say that” then none of us can say she’s the most honest either, since we don’t know her personally. We’re all interpreting the same footage that’s shown on TV. I’m not saying she’s a liar, nor am I saying she’s extremely honest. Honesty isn’t only about what you don’t deny — it’s also about what you allow others to assume. HJ leaves emotional doors open and benefits from that ambiguity. I know HJ never said she had zero feelings. Her behavior keeps multiple people emotionally invested without fully acknowledging the impact, especially when there’s a clear, simple way to close the door on 2 of the men and focus on Yoo-Sik.

girlygirl9983

Code Kunst ❤️😊 he’s funny I’ve seen him on other reality shows but most “I Live Alone”

Ssarcastic_Loser

I apologize if i sounded crude. We all have biases and its ok. But just to understand you a little more, when you said ambiguity, whom has she been ambiguous with and left a door open for? There is her current interest YS and there is BH, which she has clearly mentioned that she had regrets left and i think it is natural considering the environment and also their relationship history. But who else?

Jadaaa12

I’m sorry i just don’t like minkyung. She’s veryyy annoying to me. I genuinely can’t and won’t feel bad for her. We get it they dated for 8 years mostly high school and only a little of adult hood so I feel like……..all she doing is just too much.

Jadaaa12

What exactly could he even learn from her?

Cherali2

3 years High School and 4.5 when they entered the adult life. it's understandable, her behaviour can be too much. But I fell like I can understand her because I'm a person sentimental who could act like her if I was in her shoes.

Cherali2

I was just saying that they're both looking for a partner they can learn from. You weren't in the relationship, so you can't know. I understand that you're judging Minkyung based on his behavior and that we all have different standards, so what I can accept in life/relationships isn't necessarily what you would have accepted, but to say that Minkyung is someone from whom you can't learn anything, whether in a relationship or in life in general... that's a bit much.

lifeless

I feel like you fluctuate between love and hate for everyone except HJ, no matter what she does, it's just hate... I feel like her scenes have been pretty chill lately tbh. And maybe my eyes work differently, but when she touches SY's hair, it's giving motherly vibes, especially since she does it in front of everyone including BK, it's really not giving mysterious sexual tension. It really looks to be as she says, just worrying about him and wanting him to do well. As for JY, again I'm watching a different show, of course she went all in with WK because from day 1 my girl said I believe when a relationship is done, there's no coming back. We can't seriously be comparing her story to WJ's story, they are not the same. She was trying to find new love and he actively tried to get her back, at no point did she say he needed to do that, he chose to. Then she said honestly if you're gonna change my opinion on this you better be ready to give it 100%.

girlygirl9983

HJ does not need physical touch to communicate concern (BH too he would do the same). This is a dating show with exes and new partners, where every interaction is under constant observation not just by us the viewers but the contestants and her "lovers". Whether it happens in public or private doesn’t make it appropriate to do on this show. Relying on physical touch instead of clear verbal boundaries reflects a lack of emotional intelligence in itself — being able to express care or encouragement without creating ambiguity is part of emotional maturity. Saying HJ has been ‘chill’ in recent episodes, but calm scenes don’t equal emotional clarity. Even subtle behaviors matter when multiple people are still emotionally invested in her and she's aware of it. Touching an ex in this context sends mixed signals, especially when done in front of Baek-Hyun, who still loves her deeply, and Yoo-Sik, who is developing feelings for her. Seung-Yong still wants her, and this behavior keeps that door open. This isn’t about intent — it’s about boundaries, and the impact of it. All I just said can be applied to her EX Baek-Hyun too. I do agree on your JIYeon points tho.

lifeless

I don't really agree with that, I don't think it was that deep. We just see things differently then, fun part of dating shows. To each his own...

girlygirl9983

I don’t think it would matter if SY was her “choice” & focus but he’s not. So it’s overstepping boundaries that she keeps boundless. It’s disrespectful & inconsiderate to YS who she claimed on couch a few eps ago he was her #1 it’s just like when BH was comforting HJ in front of YY but he quickly removed his hand bc he knew it wasn’t ok. HJ’s also the woman who argued with BH over a “high five” with JH. But yeah we can agree to disagree

lifeless

Yep agree to disagree