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SECRET SONGS Reaction: East Rutherford, NJ (Night 3) (Patreon)

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2023-05-29 06:01:08
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with a lil bonus merch haul!!!!!

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Joe Weaver

Merch haul? Exciting! I have merch on the way finally. 🥳

Ava Jeffs

I’m spoiled as hell with the last 2 nights but me not being at the one show she played clean again in New York for clean is my 13th reason….also I wrote Taylor a letter that I gave andrea yesterday (sweetest woman alive) and I wrote so much about clean which is kind of fucking me up 😭 anywho love you girls

Paul Zhang

You guys hard work is literally on Taylor’s level right now 🥲

sammi snyder

i’m really distraught over clean being played again… also over her lack of words the last two nights hahah

Katie LaFave

i just don't understand why everyone hates welcome to new york??!!

Alex Fraser

beyond obsessed with the 1989 shirt

Morgan Murdock

ITS ONE OF MY STAN SONGS I FEEL OFFENDED

khushi04

PEOPLE HATE IT?

Alisha Bulmer

yesss i love a merch haul! i have era's tour merch on it's way!

Ally ❤️

Your tweet was devastating!!! I can’t wait for the fathoming!

Bianca Doyle

I want to point out the lyric change in "sweet nothing" when Taylor said all you wanted from me is "nothing". I always thought that sounded sad and actually not good. And in context of "you're losing me" when she says "do something risk something choose something". It kinda feels like the relationship was stagnant. Taylor wanted more. Marriage and getting out in the World together etc and Joe didn't. He wanted nothing!

Cara M

I’m home sick and I’ve just had NOTHING to take my mind off You’re Losing Me. The references, the sadness, the SOBBING. I need to get back to work y’all fr

Katie LaFave

ya i always see people talking about how they don't like it. like i don't relate to it either, but then again the only song of hers that i relate to is the man. i don't need to relate to a song in order to like it. welcome to new york is a great song that deserves more love & respect!!!

Alisha Bulmer

i’ve been binge watching your videos all day and i was so excited when I got the notification for this video!! ❤️❤️

Katie LaFave

i love that she did the 1989 album opener & closer as surprise songs!

chatsandreacts

I said in this video that its a bop and a great song but its just not as special as other songs! With the hype around secret songs and what people want at their show, I just don't think that this is the song that many people are anticipating when they feel so deeply connected to, and seen, by the emotions that are held in most other songs Taylor has written. But it's still good :)

chatsandreacts

No I must say I did think of you bestie because how dare she not give you clean??????

Ash W

I'm so fucked up over the fact that this show was the last one before the one I’ll literally be at. So ready and so NOT ready. The secret song reactions have been such a welcome serotonin boost and merch mini-haul on this one, too-! J’adore 💘💘💘 Also the glasses are so cute!!!

Katie LaFave

ya i get that. i heard what you said in the video about the song. i was more talking about swifties in general. like i see it all over twitter how people don't like it.

Katie LaFave

emily i am also loving your darker, natural hair growing in ☺️

PaulaPaula

I was there too tonight!! Seeing clean live changed my life. Taylor crushed my dreams by playing it earlier on tour so she basically healed my heart by playing it for us tonight. I was sooo excited to see your reaction for it. It’s literally 2:30am here and I didn’t want to go to bed until y’all posted!!!

Morgan Murdock

I definitely understand since it’s such a specific song it probably isn’t listened to or related to as much but it slays

Saskia 🩶🤎🖤🤍

Emily we have the same Top 4 Songs ( All too well 10, ivy, august and cardigan). The fifth one is Ready for it for me - such a banger 😅

Kristen G

Okayyyy, so Mother definitely said NJ/NY is my baby and I love her THE MOST!! lol This weekend was offensively superior and I say that as someone who was at the Speak Now TV announcement show. Sooo happy for the besties there but like y’all said, super mad for me haha! love you two sm!!!

Can

Do y’all sleep?!!! Thanks for all the content Bon & Em 💕✨

sofie sandrini

GUYS, I thought it was UR merch ! 😭 anyway, slay

Kristen G

I sobbed and sang on the couch while live-streaming, just like the first time clean happened! :(((( lol but seriously, this is the redemption story we love to see!! I’m so happy for you!

Aloha Record Sargent

Do we think there is any connection to her playing Clean, and You're Losing Me? I think a lot of us thought that You're Losing Me had Imogen Heap / Clean vibes. Interesting....

tay

no weekend night or show night feels complete until i stay up to 1:30 am to watch your reactions 💖 also i was there for the first performance of clean and i’m so happy she decided to play it again in this key, it sounds soooo good

Clash Fan

Pro tip to extend the life of your shirts. Soak them in a little cold water and white vinegar before you wash your shirts. It will set the color so they don't fade as much. Kind of how you die an Easter egg. Not important for the white shirt as it is for the darker colors. It's not the silk screen you are setting it's the shirt itself.

PaulaPaula

THANK YOU x1000!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖 I was with my mom at the concert and it was so beautiful! My mom said she has never seen me happier🥹

Ash W

I had this same thought

tay

um thank you SO much for assisting in my adulting, life lessons like these don’t come easy

Bobhog

Em in those glasses!! <33

Jas

Losing clean not once but twice now feels like a personal attack 😭😭

Clash Fan

I know it's a weird thing to say but I know how precious those shirts are and they never last as long as you want.

Clash Fan

It's so beautiful live on the piano. I cry every single time.

kienan

Echoing the comments of love for Em’s glasses 🫶🏽 loved to see all the unboxings too lol I’m inspired to get a purple case now too— thanks Bonny 🥰💜 I’m going to another show (Seattle N2) and I’m reeeeeally hoping that they are a part of evermore set every night that they open I would dieeeee

JC S

Watching at 3:30 in the morning and semi-dozed off but woke up terrified that I heard vibrations-sounds of someone running up the stairs in my house. Pulled out my AirPods only to see that Bonny had just ran up her stairs with a package. Lol

Emmie Kruger

Am I the only person that actually likes welcome to New York? :D

Candice Plendl

Absolutely concerning how she hasn’t had her little chats before the songs! And 1989 opener and closer? Taylor.

Fahmeen

Omg I accidentally listened to the clean version of hits different when till dawn first came out and I thought she changed it and I was so upset for like 2 mins 💀

Georgia Thompson-Chase

I think everyone in New York would love Welcome to New York, mostly because a good portion of the crowd are likely people who live in the city and moved there for the ‘New York life’ so it probably hits different for them! Also the fact she repeated clean means maroon could be repeated…..imagine maroon and Ivy on the same night, July 29th 😭😭😭

Emma Skilbeck

no, i love it, it's such a bop, especially when you're entering a city haha

Katie K

I saw that the girl who Taylor replied to on Tik Tok about Clean, how she “could’ve played it in a higher key so it was technically a mess up” WAS THERE LAST NIGHT!! Coincidence?! 👀

Ashley Wright

Loved the Emily moment with clean ahaha

mieke

nope, it‘s actually my favourite opener!! or at least equally offensive as ready for it!

Emmie Kruger

I agree! I almost never skip it. It just always puts me in a good mood haha

Nin Reckermann

Em, I'm as much of a Clean stan as you are and I simply must agree, this song cleanses on a different level

Vladimir

Emily, I wanna see your TS50 update with Hits different on it. :)

Kat

Muna were my openers in Atlanta, actually! Love them

Katie K

You’re SO RIGHT about You’re Losing Me. It truly is superior and the most deep cutting of all her break up songs for me because of that meaning behind it and the devastation of how much she would be giving up of a life together of 6 years. It’s so relatable!! I can’t stop listening to it 😭 The Moment I Knew was definitely a fathom but she wasn’t losing so much then. There is also an unreleased song called Thirteen Blocks (Can’t Call It Love) - which I’ve had on my hard drive for about a decade, great song if you haven’t heard! - that has a similar fathoming but it’s more youthful or potentially fictional. The first time she performs Your Losing Me live we’re all going to DIE DEAD and that’s it 💀

Katie K

Well this is highly useful information thank you so much for this!! 🫶

Katie K

Omg THIS!! I haven’t managed to listen to Sweet Nothing in a while because 😭 but I for a while I have thought the “all you ever wanted from me was…nothing” didn’t actually sound as positive as I first thought! Like want SOMETHING!! We all need to want something. Ohh Joe 😭😭💔

maya zutra

just a silly note: she said to the crowd "you guys always give 113%" and then she played track 1+ track 13 :))))

Nina Conte

I’m a special ed teacher for kids with autism, and one of my students was going to night 3 with her older sisters, and so I asked her what her favorite Taylor song is. She said it is “Welcome to New York!” I was pretty surprised by that song choice since it is not really a fan favorite and probably came out when my student was like 2 years old! Anyway, I can’t believe Taylor played my sweet student’s favorite song on the night that she was there! 🥹

Mia Gregorio

Can’t wait for the hits different and you’re losing me breakdown.. i’m ready to die 😭

Emma K

I’m going to Chicago night 2!!!! 🥳🥳🥳 it’s my first Taylor Swift concert ever!

Candy

Loving Em's glasses!

avieon

you guys should come out with merch!!!💗💖

Jenna Aguirre

MUNA has opened twice before for Eras I believe! One was in Texas and one in ATL maybe?

Maria Carmen

You guys talking about how to adjust the chairs was my favorite part of the video 💛 love you both, thanks for blessing us with SO MUCH CONTENT lately!!

Jaimie C

love your 'silly note' - such TEA!! did not put that together. you are sooooo right. wow taylor loves her easter eggs at every chance doesn't she!

Jenny M

I think she is silent because she has an even bigger surprise for us, and she is leaving us in anticipation with the thought at what it might be.

Lively_Ash

I would LOVE if y’all reacted to Lover again but through the kens of You’re Losing Me 😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀

RoyceT227

The girl from the TikTok video where Taylor commented she’s gonna play Clean again actually gave Taylor the dates where she’s attending the tour, and she’s actually there that night, sobbing her eyes out because Taylor fulfilled her promise

Jentallygirl

I’m surprised y’all didn’t film a reaction to Ice Spice at the end for Karma tonight! I was caught off guard when she returned for night 2, wasn’t actually expecting that, lol… but I was (finally! sheesh 😉) ready tonight! 😂

Peter Oldham

I’m going to Night 3, also my first ever!!

Jentallygirl

And can’t believe how long you had to wait for your merch order! I have a major merch addiction, lol… I just ordered the grey cropped Karma is a cat 🐈‍⬛ shirt and the Olivia galaxy popsocket! 😻 And *obviously* I would have continued ordering if everything else wasn’t totally sold out, lol… had to talk myself out of the puzzle! 🤣 The only reason I could is because I already have the unfinished Midnights clock puzzle 🧩 taking up half of my dining table! It’s *definitely* MEEEE. Hi. 🙋‍♀️ I’m the problem, it’s me. 🙇‍♀️😜 (BUT… it’s such fun! 😻📦)

Hannah S

Next week is my show in Chicago!!!! Now she doesn’t have strong connections to Chi. but it is K*nye’s home town so maybe we could get a fuck you song like TIWWCHNT or IFTYE. Also, Bon Iver is from Wisconsin very close to Chi so I am clowning hard for him to come and do Exile, Evermore, or Renegade!!! Rogue prediction would be The Lakes bc the stadium is on Lake Michigan! MIDWEST SWIFITES ITS OUR TURN!!!

Cassandra

I THOUGHT IT WAS CHATS & REACTS MERCH😭😭😭😭😭

Heather Ann

Can we talk about Debut a bit? At first I thought she just didn’t want to give it attention during Eras or didn’t have time. Then I realized that if she gave Speak Now 3-4 min she could have done the same for Debut. That album is so great and I know she’s really proud of it. And we know she doesn’t leave things out without a reason. Anyone else fathom a big 20 year Debut…. something?? Not sure what. Also, I saw online someone point out that one of her Karma merch shirts online has butterflies on it. My peasant brain isn’t smart enough to figure it out but maybe yours is!!

Jaden

can't believe we have to process the loss of clean again :(((

Shannon

Omg I also think you’re losing me has Imogene Heap vibes!

JJ

Bonny, your midnights shirt looks super faded? Is it supposed to be that way?

PaulaPaula

Y’all I am so sorry but how do I get to the chats and reacts discord

PaulaPaula

🚨ALSO YOURE LOSING ME WAS WRITTEN BY TAYLOR JACK AND AARON!!🚨

Breejmc

Obsessed with Emily’s dance solo 😂

Robin Page

I think they are supposed to look like "vintage tee"s

Kacey

Some of us are so grateful for the clean versions not just for kids but for US. When you’re a remarkable lyricist you don’t need foul language. You can get your point across in an incredibly powerful way without it. I don’t judge her or anyone who prefers it, but for those of us who don’t? Well, we love the clean versions and appreciate Taylor offering this option.

0opsieDaisie

would love a 'you're losing me' breakdown like you did with the other midnights tracks once you've had a bit of time to fathom even more!

Landon Talbott

I’m thinking of getting a tattoo with “air is thick of loss and indecision” because they represents so much and the most relatable lyric

Landon Talbott

Also I’m going to be at Chicago night 3 and I’m excited!!

devin dear

Emily! I think you legit punched a hole in the roof for clean lol

Karolina

Ngl I have the biggest crush on Emily ❤️

Clash Fan

OMG my heart just wept.

Jenny MacRunnel

I'm so obsessed with You"re Losing Me, I don't even know how many times I've listened to it now, but I easily have the whole thing memorized. I'm so proud of Taylor, this song is incredible!

Hannah S

I’ll be at Chicago night 2 too!!! What section are you in?

Ryann

I'm wondering if she's waiting to play the ones newer to streaming and releases so that the fans know them better? Maybe even because it helps her separate herself from the songs more when the fans make them about their lives etc so maybe You're Losing Me and even Hits Different won't come for a while. Just a theory though cause she really just whips stuff out sometimes, I never actually know what on earth will happen truly

Maria Hatch

Gals! I've been meaning to ask this. Is there a way you could post Patreon videos on YouTube in an "unlisted" way where people can only find them if they have the link? I'd really love to be able to watch these on my TV instead of my phone. Apologies if you've already covered here or on the discord why you're not doing it this way! Thanks!

Christine Violet

Tell me how I’m just finding out now that the line is “blood runs COLD” 🫠🫠🫠

Kristen

her replaying clean the show before mine hurts 🥲

Meghan Carty

My friend and I were absolutely ~blessed~ and got to go to nights 2 and 3 in NJ and for WEEKS we talked about how we were glad we weren't going to night 1 because she would def play Welcome to NY then and we didn't feel we needed that in our lives. The way we cackled as soon as we fathomed what song she launched into with no preface 💀

Jaz

This was SO fun to watch because this was my showwwweee

chatsandreacts

If you hop on the desktop version of Patreon and go to the membership tab, you can join there 🥰 for some reason it doesn’t work on the app!

chatsandreacts

It would be so great if Patreon allowed an option for you to watch on your TV!! the reason we don’t upload to YouTube is because it goes through extra copyright checks and it becomes even trickier with video content (vs just audio reactions etc). Patreon allows us to upload with none of that, which is why so much of our video watching goes on here!

PaulaPaula

Thank youuuu🫶🏼🫡

Anika W

i love you both with my whole heart which is why i’m sorry to break the news that she will be playing ivy chicago night 1

Allison

Omg exciting you guys will be there July 29th, that’s the show I’ll be at! I’m so excited I can’t wait 😄

Laurie A. V.

ALWAYS WASH NEW CLOTHES BEFORE WEARING!!!!!!!! You never know where it's been and what can get absorbed into your skin. That's my mom advice for the evening, thank you.

Maria Hatch

Thank you for replying! Love you guys ❤️❤️

Jennifer

If you have an IPhone you can airplay onto your TV. That’s what I do to watch these videos on my TV ☺️

Ashley

Maybe Dear Reader was when she fully knew it was over. No more fathoming. The true end.

Beatrix P

Are you still planning on releasing your own merch? I know it was talked about a while ago but not sure if you’ve given an update about it xx

Kylee Newberry

I've just been having a moment because in New Years Day, she says " I want your midnights" and now this album is called Midnights and its over :( he's becoming a stranger whose laugh she could recognize anywhere

Meg

Anyone tell me how to get to a livestream of the chicago concerts this weekend?

Aloha Record Sargent

You can go to TikTok and search something like Taylor Swift Eras Tour and then click the Live tab after you get your results. Or, on TikTok you can search @tess and click on her live feed because she always does a livestream where she finds them for you.

Sav Miller

Someone needs to fathom how you’re losing me relates to the song Happiness in Evermore. It’s insane to me that Taylor wrote a song 3 years ago about a hypothetical 7-year relationship that was breaking down. Both songs occur in the middle of the breakdown, but Happiness feels like a very different stage of the grief cycle. You’re losing me is hovering between bargaining and denial. And Happiness is just beginning to reach acceptance… All I know is I am 100% not ready for that surprise song 😂

C

Emily this is SO random but where are your glasses from? I love them!!!

Hannah Rose

Yes I use AirPlay too and love it!!

Hannah Rose

Where did you find this?!

Hannah Rose

Probably most likely evermore since they did exile already and she’s only seeming to play her stuff (renegade was big red machine). I hope that for you!!

Maria Hatch

I don't have an iPhone 🥲

Megan Clemens

Besties I would love to see you guys do a reaction/breakdown to Kelsea Ballerini’s short film/EP Rolling Up The Welcome Mat that came out in February. I really think you guys would love it!! It’s her best work yet imo! Love you besties 🩷🫶🏻

Geneva

Omg bahaha “this whole fandom deserves a break.” Literally when do we ever get the opportunity to say that?! 😂 This woman leaves us crumbs at all times but as soon as she gives us multiple pies, we’re like MA’AM WE NEED A BREATHER LOL

Geneva

Yessssss such a great fathoming to do!

Laura Vargas

I was there and this night was soooo epiiiic 😭 also this was my first time visiting NY, so it felt like a gift lol aaaand Clean was my absolute #1 song of all time so both songs were chef's kiss

Paigelinagina

I was here on this night. I am not at all a 1989 stan so I was slightly disappointed (although I absolutely adore Clean so I was happy to hear it). In the days after, I realized that she gave us the opener and closer to 1989 which is kind of a sweet little treat, I'd say. Definitely would have rather have been there for Getaway Car with Jack but every night is special and I'm going to treasure the memories forever!

Becky Tucker

Back here December 2024…. This is magical to watch!!!

Steph

You guys talking about wanting wanting Ivy and You’re Losing Me knowing what happens for your Aus shows 😭🥹

JC

The beginning of the low/no-talk SS - she also sounded pretty sad or at least low energy on this one. Perhaps this was the weekend where things with MH were really breaking down, considering she goes into her very sad breakup song era for the weekends after this