Feeling a bit miffed (Patreon)

So I was trying to close the "poll ideas" tier but I didn't want to just boot the last person in that tier so i asked them if they would be interested in joining commission tiers. Which they are so i offered to make a new slot for them so they could join it. Only for them to then vanish and some one else swoop in and take the slot, which I wanted to avoid. Now I cant just boot the person that took the slot cuz that would be rude and they didn't know what was going on. Which means I might have to ad another new slot, so instead of just adding one new commissions for next month i might up adding two which I didn't want to happen, damn it.

Im trying my best to help people on an individual level but it feels like I'm just bashing my head into a brick wall at times. Maybe I just have to be harsher at times.

ok venting over