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An apology (Patreon)

Published:
2024-01-22 17:15:48
Edited:
2026-05-11 13:38:04
Imported:
2026-06

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I wasn't sure whether or not to make an offical audio to adress what has been going on but in the risk of me not being able to reach everyone that has been affected, I felt that this was the right thing to do.I won't go into details here about the situation or mention names of anyone involved. Those effected will know what this is about.

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Jay

I'm actually so lost rn. how did you make someone feel like that? I'm guessing this apology doesn't apply to me bc I don't feel anything negative towards you

Naomi

🫂

Patrick

I want to try and say this as respectfully as I can, because I don’t know exactly what happened. However, It’s almost impossible to keep up with hundreds of people who all have different lives, jobs, and time zones. Unless I’m missing something, I think you’ve done a good job at trying to be as active in the community as you can be.

rellimerdna

This kinda broke my heart 🥺. I'm so sorry you've been feeling this way Sarah 🫂 I admire your will and want to do better and take responsibility, but please know this, if you can't be present all the time in the chatt, it should be okay -it is totally okay. Like you said, it should be a safe and comfortable place, for everyone in the community, yourself included. It's not your fault, that you didn't get to "notice" everyone in the chatt yet, it's a pretty large community. You shouldn't have to take this responsibility on your own, whoever commented something like this should realize that you are busy as well, timezones and life outside of the chatt are a thing, and that you can't be present at every seconds in the chatt. You're already doing so much (and more) 🥹. It's good that you're aware of their feelings, but again, understand that if you can't acknowledge every single person, it's not your fault, and they should know that too. I hope you feel better and that the situation calms down. Thank you for all you're already doing! 🤍🫂

IAmAnonymous

I am really kinda confused. As much as I find positive reinforcement strange, I don't feel neglected. If I'm neglected, it's my own fault.

ZigZagKangaroo

I'm not sure if it's okay to share my point of view because I can be too direct. I don't mean to be offensive. I also didn't feel left out. I can see that you try your best to talk to everyone in chat. I think that's great. I've also seen you talk to some people more than others. I'm not hurt or offended. I just thought it was natural. Some people have been longer around than others, making that you know some people more than others. That doesn't mean you don't try to get to know the new people. From my perspective you were just a person with emotions. I've listened to this audio so I now know and accept that might've not been the case. Thank you for clearing that up. Hopefully I'm not too rambly. Much love, Cat

Michelle

I appreciate your authenticity and honesty! I haven’t felt this way personally because I know you have a life outside of the chat for sure just like us all. You are very humble and mature for posting this because I know it took a lot of courage on your part. We love you Sarah! You are forgiven and loved! ❤️🫂

Korey

Unfortunately, these situations tend to happen in open communities like this. For what it's worth, I think you did the right thing talking about it openly like this. Not only to let those who feel upset to know you're trying to improve, but also to hopefully let more active members know that less direct communication is you trying to find a balance and not ignoring them. You're extremely sweet for being so concerned about this but I hope you're not being too hard on yourself. It'd be impossible to keep up with everyone, especially with all the different time zones. I've always felt welcomed and happy here and hope you're doing well.

Jest

I also value communication over sweeping things under the rug and appreciate your honesty, Sarah. I don't think that you did anything wrong. I've seen your generosity and thankfulness about our participation and I know that you interact with us more than a typical asmr artist. Thank you for that. You've always tried to make the chat a welcoming place. I do think that fans and listeners tend to be very attention-seeking at times. We can't expect you to spend all of your time with us, that's unreasonable on our end. I think you're doing a good job. I'm a bit quiet in the chat because of the overwhelming messages sometimes, I'm not always in the mood for enthusiastic positivity lol. It's all good.

CoffeeNerd

It breaks my heart to see someone so sincere and constantly updating their work and communication be so upset. We are all human and sometimes we miss things. Juggling this in tandem with a job is a difficult task. I have a few patreon subscriptions and you are by far the nicest and most hardworking person I know. Hope this doesn't affect you too much, Sarah. You are an amazing person. Much love, Coffeenerd.

Vivian

I don't want to claim to know 100% what this is about but i think i know enough based on the chat that i can say this: Don't be to hard on yourself! It's so obvious that you care and worry about those of us who share things in the chat and as nice as it is and as appreciated as it is, i understand that it can get overwhelming to say the least! And sure, if you feel like you need to change or to "do better" then that's what you gotta do but please know that you are already doing plenty! Dry those tears, put your head up and keep moving forward because at the end of the day that's all we can do... learn our lessons and move on. I'm sending hugs to you, beautiful 🫂💚

James

I won’t claim to know what this is about but what I will say having listened to you is you’ve got nothing to be sorry about, you are an amazingly special person Sarah and 99.9% of us couldn’t be more thankful for you. This probably sounds cheesy but I feel like you’re my best friend even though I’ve never spoken to you, but you know how to bring comfort and support to us. Please don’t stop being you, we love you ❤️

Jarrett Adams

Sarah, you do such a wonderful job doing what you do and your heart is as big as the entire world. I understand it can be upsetting about what you are feeling. If there is one thing I can relate to is being left out in my past and not being acknowledged. I always feel loved and appreciated by you Sarah. Keep doing your best and keep your spirits up. You too have a lot of love and support and you’ve made me realized I am loved even when I’m in a season of depression. Love you always Sarah 💗🫶🫂

⁀➷Conner (っ◔◡◔)っ

Well I think that your very brave for addressing this and talking about it, in my personal opinion I think that in a large community like this it's very hard to keep up with everything, and alot of people think that content creation is easy but it isn't its so time consuming along with keeping up with everyone and yano doing things you enjoy/ having you time. Me personally I have never thought that you are inactive or ignore people or don't take time to keep up with everyone. Now obviously some people may think otherwise and they are obviously allowed to feel that way, however I think that you saying you will try harder is an amazing response. and it does show how much you care about us.

LeatherHun

Hi Sarah, I feel like you've created a wonderful community here and you are much more involved and dedicated than most other asmr artists. You are very sweet and thoughtful at all times and I personally don't think it is your responsibility to cater to everybody's needs in this way. The conversation in the chat will take certain natural turns, that's normal, just like in real life. This is a one to many platform, which creates an imbalance from the get go. Expecting that you are 100% involved for each and every single person is pretty out there according to me. I just wish you wouldn't beat yourself up like this, I just love your audios, which is the primary reason for the existence of your channel. Thank you for all your work!

porpal-goji

I apparently missed a bit when my depression was bad in the later part of January (yikes) so I missed this somehow! I'm sorry for the late reply! I definitely am lost, so I know I'm not affected, but 100% respect anonymity. anyways, as always you are SO great at communicating with us! that's a really good quality to have. You're really kind hearted and it's obvious you care about us. I dislike that it made you so upset though :( personally, I'd think it would be pretty hard to answer to everything in chat. I used to (well somewhat still do with my own friends and discord) get really overwhelmed with answering things asap. which, is a bit hard. especially when I'm going through something rough or my depression gets too heavy on me. I understand things happen sometimes and life gets in the way. I personally just appreciate the chat just being there cause I got to meet some lovely people there! and it's helped me to sort of be somewhat of a soundboard when I get to points in life where things are extremely heavy. sometimes it just helps to get it out, whether it's to be the very funny and sillier parts of myself or the mental stuff I deal with occasionally. I like to talk about things that are circulating in my brain at certain moments, I enjoy conversations and meeting new people from different places. as some people could probably tell in chat or my comments, I just REALLY like to conversate. I'm sorry that people felt left out with the chat, I know that feeling and it's never good :( I hope everyone involved, including you, are alright and feel better🫂💜 we're all in this together right?