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Happy New Year! Ask us more questions for next episode of Therapy Time!Also, throw in a question for Dr. Love! (He probably won't give you good advice)Disclaimer: We may skip questions we deem to be too tough to answer. We are not licensed therapists, but we appreciate your questions and hope you are well.Love,Mika & Aztro, and Dr. Love

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Vee

Dr Love, thank you for your advise. This is probably a less whimsical question, for the others. Does it ever get easier to be yourself? I recently started HRT but it still feels difficult to be myself or dress more femininely. I go to a very accepting uni luckily but I still feel like I’m unable to present in the way I want. Really any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

Vee

Also thank you for saying my name is sick, it’s short for Evelyn both of which I chose myself a couple years ago :3

Craftley

Dr. Love, my wife’s vocal stim is “om nom nom”. I am going bananas, and now stim it back at her. What is your prescription?

Astrid K (xheophes)

How do you guys pick up hobbies? I always struggled to pick and maintain ones, and even though I've picked up making a website lately thanks to the banana channel discord, im even afraid that this will lose its spark. Glad to see banana channel is keeping this series alive, wish yall the best!

Vel

I need help. I’m currently a junior in high school, and I just don’t feel right whenever I’m in class. I never really had this problem before, but I have 0 motivation or aspirations anymore. Last semester, I was sent to the psych ward because someone called a wellness check on me for suicidal thoughts. When I got out, I didn’t feel any better. And for a while I sort of have just stopped caring about life in general. I am diagnosed with MDD, and I haven’t been happy for a long time, I haven’t cleaned my room or done my laundry in a long time. I lay in bed all day. And still I was fine. It was like I was hanging on by a thread, and recently that thread snapped and I’m falling into a deeper hole. I have no desire to do school. I have no desire to do anything. I don’t see myself having a future, I don’t desire going to college anymore, none of that. I don’t know what I want in life. I don’t know what will make me happy. I know we all go through hard times and I should just keep going, but I don’t exactly know what I’m “going” for. Why would I finish school? Why would I go to college? I’ve always struggled with motivation and getting stuff done but this is different. I feel like I want to drop out. I don’t know if that is the right decision, but my mental health has been extremely bad lately and I just need to figure out what to do with my life. I can hardly bring myself to do laundry or take my pill in the morning, how am I supposed to do school work? I was thinking if I were to drop out I could take some time into improving my mental health and then testing for my GED, let my license and start working (or go to community college, which idk why I would). The alternative would probably be doing online or homeschool, or sending me back to the hospital. I just feel really stuck, aimless, and pessimistic. I have no desires anymore for my future or just life in general. I especially feel empty because I’m on antidepressants. I’m just not sure what the best option is right now.

Bunkybells

Hi gang! Ok so recently I have cut ties with a friend group who I have been very close with for years. The reason I have distanced myself from said group is because I have had a really hard time feeling included. There is a lot to the situation but to sum it all up I felt very excluded and decided it was better for me to take a step back! Unfortunately I am having many second thoughts because we have been through so much and still remained so close. Even when we all distanced from each other in college we still talked almost everyday and continued to visit in the summers. I just wanted some general advice on how to keep myself away from them and avoid contacting again. All of them were such a big part of my life and it hurts to let go even if they hurt me. Thanks, Love the new brand! 🫶🏻

Bunkybells

Dr love, Do I go for the huzz if he’s my boss? Maybe he’ll give me a raise if it works 🤔

Johnnyhotbody

Dr. love I have a question for you, what is the best way to rizz up a top tear woman, please give me any and all advice, thanks. But genuinely some advice would be very helpful.

LucGamerCool

Banana Deprived listener from Norway here and i want your thoughts about what i should do after high school. A lot of my friends are taking a gap year while i am pretty sure i want to move away to study economics at a university a bit away from the city i currently live in. Should i stay and bond more with all my friends i like very much or go solo and pursue my education in a city i barely know? Btw just call me Lucas don’t mind the name i chose for my online accounts when i was 10. Also been listening to the free pod on repeat for hours on end for many years and now finally decided to give you my hard earned Norwegian Kroners. Thanks banana therapists!

RegularDude

Hello Mika Pandah and Astrid! I have come here because I’m not sure if I’m being tricked into a date or not. I have this coworker I’ve known for like half a year now, and recently we were talking and I mentioned how I like sushi and she said she likes it too, and we planned to get sushi together soon. Well, today she sent me videos and photos of her in a dress asking what I think, and we talked for a bit and she said we should totally dress up together for when we go and get sushi. We also pretty much chat everyday and she keeps talking to me about relationship related stuff, and making semi-sexual jokes. Am I being guided into a date or just reading too far into this? -little bit of an edit but I should probably mention she likes to call me a twink and we tease each other like that all the time. And personally I could go either way with just being besties or more.

Soüp

This episode hit kinda close to home... It was very helpful. Thank you Mika, Astro and Dr. Love.

Jacob

Hey Mika and Astro Recently I have just gone to college in my hometown due to it being one of the only places that does the degree I want to do, all of my friends from high school have moved away to different colleges away from my home town and are making friends and having a fun college experience, me on the other hand has struggled to make friends that I can talk to outside of class, I just feel like all my friends are moving forward in their lives and I’m being left behind and soon I’ll be left alone. I just want to know how I can move forward with my own life and catch up to my friends who I feel are light years ahead of me. Thanks so much for hosting therapy time it means a lot having content creators who care about their viewers

Aly

Hey guys! No Therapy question! Just wanted to say that I'm super pumped to see where the new channel goes! I know a lot of your videos on the Sleep Deprived channel were based on what got views and what did well, so I'm really looking forward to seeing where "Da Banana Channel" takes off to going forward, now that it seems like it's more fun, with a "friends shooting the shit" type of vibe! :D This is the content I've been craving from you guys!! And of course, Schlatt will be missed! Hopefully he's okay!! Either way, I'm still super happy (even with the hole left in my heart left by Schlatt's departure.) That this is where you're taking it. I'm super-duper impressed with what I've seen so far! :)

Pancake_Muncher

Question For Doctor Love… I’ve been talking to a really cute girl and we both really like eachother. But she lives far away and I don’t have the money to visit anytime soon. What should I do? Do i chase the hottie, or stay on that sigma money grind?

Emily Klute

Ooooh Dr.Love you should fall in love with me Dr.Love and upload a video oooh check reddit Dr.Love ooooh (im so sorry)(high as fuck crying laughing typing yhis)(picturing the oooh from gartic but im wiggling my fingers in his face in a zoidberg-esque manner :3 )

Russel Manzanarez

Dr.love I’m going onto my 5th year with my partner that I plan to propose to, they want me to propose already but I’m broke to the point that flies come out of my wallet when I open it, how can I get 8k fast?

Suilverio

For Doctor Love: Is it gay for a dude to date his exes Dad as revenge and then reciprocate his feelings on the porch of his house under the stars? Theoretically. For Mika and Aztro: Wow guys, I'm impressed at the new setup. To think we've gone from rented logs surrounding a sad fire pit in the middle of some random woods to an iluminated sleek office with padded chairs and formal uniforms. Why, it makes me shed a salty tear to see you all crawl out of the financial trenches. Now with the performative crying finished I can bring up my issue this time around which is my need to have more confidence in myself. I know it's hard to believe a Yogurt male like me lacks the confidence needed to write these disgusting monthly prompts but unfortunately it doesn't translate that well to when I leave my screen and talk to others. I'm not fumbling while talking or anything like that but I find myself unknowingly being a people pleaser at times to family, teachers or at my [REDACTED] job. And so when I fall a little short or get slightly reprimanded it affects me more than it really should and I don't often defend myself or hype myself up after to feel better. How do I gain more confidence in myself in simple things like my decisions or self value so I don't need a moment everytime I slightly dissatisfy someone. I just can't keep up this chud behavior when I know I can be an Aerodynamic mewer if I tried harder. P. S. I'm actually going to use my extra 5 minutes for this therapy time to visit the new 4D gooning VR experience I saw in the department next door. It's real high tech stuff.

Benny Dough

Hey Dr. Love you have any advice on missing your partner because it seems like that is my biggest struggle as I get very anxious and it kills my mood

abby

Thank you sm for the advice!! I’m certainly not giving up and tho I still get a lil sad when I think too much about what could’ve been sometimes I’ve mostly come to peace with the fact that if it’s meant to be then it will be! I’ve always been a strong believer that things work out for the best in the end and I still do trust in that <3 On an unrelated note Mika I just finished reading Beware of Pity and it will be forever haunting me so thank you for that. If you have any other good book recs of any kind I would love to hear them cause you have great taste

Nep

Hey since y'all are the youtube people and now I'm also a self employed mostly working my desk but can only afford one small room and I don't know how to do work life balance especially when there no physical barrier it feels like I'm my own abusive boss I heard alot of youtubers talk about this as an issue and I just wanna know how to seperate myself especially in such small environment,thanks much love

Nep

Also dr.love should I start thinking or stop? I can't decide it's been bogling me

Francisco Ibarra

Sorry if this is a jumpscare (being acknowledged by some random bloke) I was/am in a pretty similar scenario where I completely lost all motivation to pass college, and I completely flunked. -$980 am I right 🐸. I found that my biggest issue was self confidence cause I'm pretty large, 2x to be exact. So I've been focusing on losing weight, I think you may need to find what is holding you back. I still suffer with depression and suicidal ideation, but the slow progression I've made has kept me going. Also, I've found that socialism has given immense hope for a possible better tomorrow. Not trying to indoctrinat you or anything, just saying that it helped.