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Mad Men 4x10 Reaction (Patreon)

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2025-11-27 00:04:12
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Sami

First.

bondbond53

Random question since Black Friday is coming up and I'm trying to find a new signature scent– what is your girls' favourite fragrance, if you wear any?

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my everyday parfume for years has been narciso rodriguez for her musk noir but they told me a few months ago its being discontinued so i dont think you can find it anymore, my other every day is the ghost in the shell by etat libre d'orange (it just smells clean).. another parfume that i really love for the winter thats kinda sweet is sugar addict by btso (milena would agree with this one) if you want one that last forever that all my friends like most but i haven’t worn it in years try instant crush by mancera, and the one ive gotten most questions for is probably another 13 by le labo

LM Reactions

but see now im googling and i can order musc noir online so maybe ive been lied to because i purchased them in bulk when i heard the news..

bondbond53

Thanks for the detailed reply, Lola! I've heard about some of these from my friends so will definitely try them in store this week before the big sales. My fragrances for so long have been Chanel Chance 'Eau Fraîche' and Aqua di Parma 'Fico di Amalfi' if you girls are ever looking for refreshing scents

LM Reactions

love trying new parfumes, ill have to check them out, let me know what you end up getting ❤️

Taya

Just a heads up since we're almost there, the season 5 premiere is a two-part episode meant to be watched all at once. A Little Kiss part 1 & 2. Not sure if it shows up on streaming sites separately or combined. There is so much going on in these episodes though that it might be easier to split into two reactions anyway? Idk lol

Taya

@bondbond53 you didn't ask me but my signatures are Diptyque Fleur de Peau and Replica Bubble Bath. And Hermes Eau de Rhubarbe Ecarlate. I'm obsessed with all three of these!!

Taya

Henry IS hot!!! I've BEEN saying this!! I'm so glad you guys agree with me. There's just something about him...

Darrach

Roger ripping up the business card whilst talking to the widow of whoever he was trying to poach is so good

Jen H.

This is my favorite show of all time but I haven't re-watched it in years, so I just wanted to say I'm really enjoying watching it with you guys! I love the appreciation you have for the stories and the characters. Thank you!

Juanma88

Even Betty, a woman stuck in the 50s, understood how much of a big deal The Beatles were.

bondbond53

@Taya thanks for your input as well, will try them too <3 I've been actually eyeing Diptique's Eau de Papier for a while now

Julmor

I feel like Lane Pryce might be the saddest character on the show. It feels like he’s never allowed to be his own person. Both his family and his workplace have expectations that he must be this dutiful, obedient provider. It almost mirrors Don Draper in a way — both of them are forced to uphold a façade that’s killing them on the inside. But the difference is that Lane is more vulnerable and endearing. He can’t escape or reinvent himself like Don. He’s just stuck in the trap that is his life.

Eric Viola

On the topic of desertion, yes there definitely would've been the potential for imprisonment. Many Americans were imprisoned for desertion during WW2, the Korean War, Vietnam. The law finding out about Don wouldn't just be about hurting his reputation.

Scott

"I don't owe you squat. You inherited this account." And Lee inherited his entire work and life and more from Daddy. Nepo babies! I'd sure hate to have one running my business or country...oh, wait.....

Julmor

Hes also generally speaking a pretty damn decent person, atleast compared to the vast majority of other male characters on the show. The bar is set veeeeeery low tho.

Scott

My Boomer mom, born in the same year as Sally, also went to see The Beatles at Shea Stadium. She still has the upper deck ticket stubs.

Scott

It's crazy that the first 3 seasons of Mad Men all won the Emmy for best drama series, and then the showrunners casually made a 4th season that obliterates the previous 3. Mad Men should've set the record for most consecutive Emmy wins with 5 (season 5 is the best season imo) but voter fatigue likely played a role in giving it to Homeland season 1 instead.

Kara

betty listening like "i DO wanna hold your hand"

Kara

I rewatch once a year but it's a binge watch where all the eps gloriously blend into one. Watching 2 eps a week has been an amazing change of pace.

Kara

i said it before and i'll say it again: we all just want someone nice, highly competent, reasonable, who has arms that look like they could build a shed

Kara

yippee someone said it! 5x1 and 5x2 should be watched together, with a short break in-between for discussion yes.

JBK405

Eric Viola (above) is correct that desertion would be a prosecutable crime, so it's not just a matter of Don's reputation. This could result in jailtime, asset forfeiture, etc. It's a life-ruiner if it's discovered at this point. BUT...the government wasn't LOOKING for evidence of desertion, and they didn't think it was a possibility. They don't have Dick Whitman marked as a deserter, they have Dick marked as Killed in Action and Don Draper was Honorably Discharged afterwards. This investigation was looking for pro-communist remarks he had made at home, or vacations to socialist countries, or even current gambling debts or personal habits that would make him susceptible to blackmail (i.e. is he gay?). So they probably would have been fine and gotten a good new client if Don had been willing to risk it. But even the chance that they might STUMBLE upon it has Don completely lose the ability to function. It overrides EVERYTHING else in his mind. I don't think "cowardice" is quite the right word, but I can't think of any other word to describe Don's panic here. The Beatles' concert at Shea Stadium was a watershed moment in US popular culture. The band was massively popular and sold out the entire 55,000 seat stadium. The fans were screaming so much that the microphones on-stage picked it up and it overwhelmed recordings that were in process. It was talked about for years -- it's STILL talked about -- and was one of the factors that ushered in stadium concerts for big bands on tour Last year I attended a concert at Citi Field, which is the stadium that replaced Shea Stadium in 2009. It was an AMAZING event: The Linda Lindas, Rancid, Smashing Pumpkins, and Green Day. It went for 5 or 6 hours and it knocked my socks off.

Infode

"I wanted them to" - I dont think Don has ever acknowledged that part of his story to anyone, not even Anna. Also side note - Don really is the living embodiment of being self-destructive

Kev (edited)

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2025-11-27 03:09

Julien

You're under-selling the background check. Sure, they weren't specifically looking for Don but they would very likely have found out and and he would have been fucked. Pete said his DoD contact said he had been flagged. That means something stood out. Don isn't some deep cover agent who covered his tracks with professional intel means. He's just some guy, a garden-variety imposter who took someone else's name. Had the background check proceeded, he absolutely would have been rooted out. Even in the 60s. Let's not forget that the original Don Draper also had a civil record and probably had people beside Anna.

Kev

Lane was definitely aware that his father would disapprove. The only reason he brought that girl to see his father was probably to try and be rebellious. It's telling that the first thing he says when she leaves the room is basically "what do you think of that?". Falling in love with that girl just to show how interesting you are..

Mike

That cover of "Do You Want to Know a Secret" at the end is so funny. Edit to add: V pna'g erpnyy vs Jrvare rire qvfphffrq guvf arrqyr qebc va gur jnxr bs gur gur "Gbzbeebj Arire Xabjf" fghss arkg frnfba. Qvq gurl jnag gb hfr gur erny genpx urer? Jrer gurl erohssrq / jnf vg gbb rkcrafvir? Be qvq gurl cersre guvf zber boyvdhr irefvba jvgubhg gur ylevpf? Va nal pnfr, V'z tynq vg jnfa'g gur npghny Orngyrf fbat urer -- gur nofbyhgr fubpx & guevyy V sryg jura gurl qebccrq "GAA" va Ynql Ynmnehf vf bar bs zl sbaqrfg zrzbevrf bs gur fubj. It's wild to watch Don coming clean to Faye but it's also striking how much *easier* that seemed -- easier to unburden himself, but also easier to explain the details -- than when he told Betty. Psychologically, I think this gets at the (obvious) truth that keeping the secret is doing more harm to Don than coming clean ever could. Faye is right; he committed a crime, but there is probably a way to plead out of it. But I also think that moment, and Don saying how tired he is of running from the secret, is a little bit of Weiner & Co. saying that it's OK for the show to move on from that plot point? Don's big secret identity was kind of the mystery box hook in S1, but the show has obviously evolved way past that now. I do understand the irony in my saying that after an episode that wrung so much drama out of the secret. The FBI visiting Betty is a plot point that really sticks in my mind, and I love her phone conversation with Don afterwards. (The funny, "well there's nothing wrong with that!" for starters, but also the quite tender thank you that Don has for Betty.) IMO this one can't help feeling a little forgettable, coming so soon after The Suitcase the The Beautiful Girls, but hey, 7/10 Mad Men is still pretty damn good. Edit: I would be remiss to not mention how Roger revealing that he knows about Lee being gay puts such a sad twist on the stuff with Sal last season. We thought that Roger was so adamant about firing Sal because Lucky Strike was important to the company. The fact that he could (and presumably did) piece together what really happened both explains his reaction and makes it more cruel.

Kev (edited)

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2025-11-27 03:34

ruseka

Throwing my vote in here: 5x1+2 is one reaction; maybe slight break in between, but ultimately, should be watched as if one episode.

Mike

I assume it was a subtitling error here that had Pete saying Don *wasn't* flagged? The way the conversation continues (and Pete's ultimate decision to acquiesce and drop the account) suggests that things were heading towards Don being found out.

Kara

"This never happened. It will shock you how much it never happened. Except when you think about it, constantly, in the back of your mind, when it weighs you down like a backpack of rocks making everything you do slightly harder for your entire life."

Mike

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ruseka

One thing unmentioned so far: a subtle, lovely, part of Lane’s characterisation is his love affair with America. Early on, he says to another character (Don, I believe), “I’ve been here weeks and no one has asked me where I went to school.” The contrast here being England’s rigid class system and the dominance of certain posh schools in elite spaces (Eton/Harrow & Oxford/Cambridge) vs. America’s “pull-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps”, anyone can be anything, ‘American Dream’ culture. There are obviously a lot of asterisks to add to the above - by no means is the American Dream attainable to everyone - but the foundation of Don & Connie’s relationship was the lives that they managed to build for themselves. Both born poor, out in rural America; now in the WASPs country club. Anyway. All of this to say: Lane’s little red, white, and blue balloons & Mickey Mouse stuffed toy; hilarious, and sad, and very on point writing. Gets at some really interesting conversations about 20th Century America.

Mike

@Kev I'm not sure what else it could possibly be about. What other reason would Roger have to repeatedly lie for Lee?

Taya

I haven't tried Papier yet but Fleur de Peau has me in a chokehold. I'm in love with it! I've seen comments on Reddit that it smells like vagina but they're wrong!! 😭

LtotheoG

”Stop looking for signs you need help!” 😆

Sebastian

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Sebastian

He says Don hasn't been flagged, doesn't he? So Don lets out a sigh of relief and tells Pete to get rid of it, because that means dropping the account ensures he's safe and it stops here.

JJ

The government not specifically looking for it seems kind of irrelevant, when they could *easily* stumble upon it. It’s a background check… interviewing his ex-wife is likely just the beginning and probably the least scrutinized part of the whole process. The truth is simply not that far beneath the surface.

JJ

Desertion in 1965 was definitely a big deal and not just to Don. Jail time wouldn’t just be an abstract possibility. But even in the plausible scenario in which he doesn’t go to jail, his career (and life as he knows it) would likely be over. People with a vested interest in Don’s success knowing his secret and it being public knowledge are very different things.

LM Reactions

and my favorite perfumes and the ones i use most ofter are bohemian lime by goldfield and banks , sugar addict by btso , xerjoff naxos and mizensir cologne de figuier 😁 and the last two i love to mix together as well -milena

Mark M

Love this episode. I love seeing Betty look out for Don in this episode. It's a nice follow on from The Summer Man, where Betty and Henry are angry seeing him dating and seemingly being unaffected, but eventually realising that he is suffering from the divorce. They both seem less wound up. I think everyone can sympathise with Don doing what he did, and so don't want him to get in trouble with the law for it even while it causes problems. Don is leaning towards confronting everything head on, but he's not fully committed. It's also great seeing Sally excited for the concert.

Kara

I agree but Henry doesn't care who Don dates, it only bothers him because it bothers Betty and he wants to live a nice life + with a happy new wife and her kids. At the end of that episode Henry switches from annoyed to happy as soon as Betty shows (or performs) not being bothered by Don turning up to the birthday party.

Kara

It's hard to understand if you haven't experienced how nasty England can be but class mobility was (still is tbh) much more restricted. America is the land of opportunity where any old sod can get lucky and become a millionaire - except not really and not for anyone who doesn't fit the vision... but at least it's a dream. In England we didn't even bother to dream. That's why Lane's bosses at PPL didn't even once think he would betray them, that's simply not possible for a good subservient "boy" like Lane to do.

Kara

Arkg rcvfbqr onor. 🙂

Kara

@mike: on your rot update: ur zragvbaf yvxvat gur irefvba ba gur pbzzragnel ohg abguvat nobhg jul gurl pubfr vg fcrpvsvpnyyl be jul gurl qvqa'g hfr gur bevtvany. gou vg jnf cebonoyl orpnhfr bt genpxf ner cebuvovgviryl rkcrafvir naq gurl unir gb qverpgyl nccebir rirel genpx (frr gur fpevcg rgp) naq gurl erwrpg n ybg bs fghss. Gbzbeebj Arire Xabjf vf nyfb bar bs zl sni frdhraprf va gur fubj, V pbhyq gnyx nobhg vg sbe na ubhe yby. Naq V jvyy!

Kara

V guvax n ybg bs jbzra unir rkcrevraprq orvat gur tveysevraq gung tvirf gurve oebxra oblsevraqf hayvprafrq guerr gurencl/rzbgvbany ynobe gb uryc gurz trg gueh fghss, bayl gb trg qhzcrq jura gurl'er "svkrq" naq jngpu gurz zneel fbzrbar ryfr. N pbzzba guernq fnqyl... znlor haqrefgnaqnoyr. Bapr lbh'er "orggre" lbh jnag fbzrbar - fhopbafpvbhfyl be bgurejvfr - gung bayl xabjf gur serfu arj lbh naq abg gur fuvggl oebxra byq lbh.

Kara

I accidentally deleted my earlier comment but I +1 this. even if don somehow got through this check, what happens when they do a good job and get offered higher clearance stuff? it's gg

Kara

@sebastien: he says "you haven't been flagged" yeah

Kara

@Kev: there's precedent on the channel, Mr Robot S2 opened with a two-parter. I trust the girls to make the best choice for them, they just need the info.

Mark M

I meant when Don left them with the babysitter, that annoyed Henry. It can be hard to be both succinct and unambiguous lol, sorry.

Clay F

I like the metaphor of riding in the car with Don.

Jamie

"We all make our choices. Those choices put us on a road. Sometimes those choices seem small. But they put you on the road. You think about getting off, but eventually... you're right back on it."

Mike

@Sebastian V nffhzr zbarl jnf gur qevivat snpgbe ohg V nyfb guvax hfvat na npghny Orngyrf genpx evtug gurer jbhyq gbgnyyl birefunqbj gur fhogyrgl bs gur zbzrag, fb V pbhyq haqrefgnaq vs vg jnf fvzcyl n perngvir pubvpr. Ba gbc bs gung, gur bevtvany irefvba vf zber hcorng naq gur vageb rfcrpvnyyl jbhyqa'g unir svg gur ivor. (Gur "V'z va gur ybir jvgu lbh" ylevpf jbhyq unir orra jnl gbb ba gur abfr, gbb.) Gura ntnva, gur fubj unf arire fuvrq njnl sebz hfvat cbc zhfvp, rfcrpvnyyl ng gur raq bs rcvfbqrf. Gur bayl pbzcnenoyr pubvpr V pna guvax bs vf gur Znegva Qraal irefvba bs "Zvfveybh" va Gur Wrg Frg -- fvzvyneyl, gur zber snzbhf Qvpx Qnyr irefvba (juvpu vfa'g rira gur bevtvany) jbhyq abg unir svg gur ivor bs gur fprar ng nyy @Kara Vg jbhyq unir orra gbhtu gb jevgr n fubj nobhg ubj gur jbeyq punatrq va gur 60f jvgubhg npghnyyl srnghevat gur Orngyrf. V'z tynq gurl chyyrq vg bss, svanapvnyyl-fcrnxvat, ohg gur zbzrag gurl jrer noyr gb ohvyq nebhaq vg -- jung vg fnlf nobhg Qba & Zrtna, gur oebnqre phygheny fuvsg va gur yngr 60f, naq gur Orngyrf gurzfryirf -- vf fb zhpu zber guna "gurl jrer irel snzbhf ng gur gvzr, fb urer'f n Orngyrf fbat." Bar bs zl snibhevgr zbzragf va gur frevrf. Zber gb pbzr va n srj jrrxf!

Virgil Hawkins

"Fucking Depressing" - perfectly summed up how i felt when i finished watching the episode. It feels depressing seeing don so close to genuine connection romantically, but he’s clearly more fascinated with a particular fantasy. You can feel Don inching away from faye and more intrigued with the fantasy of Megan. His look at her at the end reminded me of how he looked at Miss Farrell in season 3.

bondbond53

Thanks for the reply, Milena <3

ruseka

“Class mobility” is absolutely the phrase that I was looking for & lost. But since i have you here Kara, what is the site y’all are using for decrypting these spoilers - bc I need to see what’s going on in those conversations

on crip ...

another L for the writers on black characters. the last scene does go somewhere interesting though Don's gaze towards Megan reflects dominant, stunted, illusory perceptions of women. It's ironic the ad man fails to realize he's chasing an imaginary product, not companionship. He's been sold that there's a product that will heal his emotional trauma, fulfill his sexual desire, and mother his children. Overwhelmingly, the fantastical product he's chasing has been informed by white supremacy and heteropatriarchy. His beauty standard is young and white. His behavioral expectations include 'modest' and 'motherly.' Accordingly, he pursues young, beautiful, modest, white woman he perceives to be the promised product. Notably, while fulfilling all those specific traits delineates who Don considers a fling and who he considers a potential 'partner,' it's not a rigorous process. In a complete misread, after marrying and having kids with Betty, he tells her, "I would have given anything to have a mother like you, beautiful and kind filled with love like an angel.” In the last scene, we see Don project, once again, onto Megan. It's not a coincidence this happens after discovering Faye is not 'motherly.' A trait he likely assumed to be included in the 'product.' anyone connecting to Don's relation to women: seek help, you're stuck in a corrosive trance

Mike

@Kev Hell yeah it is

Sebastian

This is a good analysis overall, but I think it's a bit extreme to use terms like white supremacy and heteropatriarchy about a white man being attracted to young, beautiful white women.

Jeff

I used to be attracted to white women until i realized i was perpetuating white supremacy and heteropatriarchy.

Mike

@Sebastian It's white supremacy to think that Jessica Pare is attractive

on crip ...

lmao. how did you even get to "Don has a fetish for whiteness" from my post. i'd even baselessly argue the literal /opposite/, that Don doesn't find white woman more sexually attractive than racialized women. ??? *the argument is that he's never seriously questioned the validity of the racial and gender social constructs he's been sold all his life i'll further explain the role of white supremacy & heteropatriarchy (hetpat) in my analysis. it's in no way extreme btw we know Don views heterosexuality as normal and homosexuality as deviancy (tolerant at best), vulnerability as a weakness, overall devalues femininity, you get it. he's embodying the hegemonic masculinity of his time. it's no coincidence. that's hetpat at work. he was socially conditioned towards certain behaviors and attitudes. and it would not go well for him to deviate like the gender binary is violently enforced even now. hetpat shapes /us/ now. Don is undeniably influenced by it as well in particular, it influences who he pursues. Don is attracted to woman. But he doesn't go after just any woman. They are feminine, thin, young, nurturing, beautiful, etc. again, not a coincidence. These traits are society's expectation for woman. Being with a woman not fitting these traits would hurt Don's social status and masculine persona. it should be clear that hetpat shapes his dating/romantic interests now and it should also be clear that white supremacy further constrains his options. He can't marry just any feminine, thin, young, nurturing, beautiful woman. it must be a /white/ woman. otherwise. well. we saw the episode. you get hit with a cane. and that's AT BEST reminder, the supreme court case definitively legalizing interracial marriage occurred in 1967

Sebastian

Idk man, I just vehemently disagree with the notion that men being into young, gorgeous women is the result of societal forces. We are biological creatures with drives.

on crip ...

that's cool, but not what im putting forth to be clear i'm not arguing that humans experience sexual attraction to other humans bc of societal forces. horny jail exists after all. ppl just be horny my argument is that societal forces such as gender, race, and class constitute the physical, social, and emotional aspects of Don's ideal partner. Predictably, his ideal partner perfectly embodies femininity, elevates his social status, and provides all-encompassing emotional support. And so, that's why he chases after young, feminine, beautiful, white women again and again. Because, for example, a non-white wife would decrease his social status (JD Vance type shit). Similarly, a non-feminine wife, or cold woman (Betty) would fail his other ideal traits. So, it's nearly not even about his sexual attraction at all. It's more that Don cannot 'be better' until he critically questions the societal forces around him. One of the consequences of not questioning is that he will continue to chase after an illusion, but more importantly he will continue to spiral from unresolved emotional trauma, continue to be an absent parent, etc due to the masculinity confines he's normalized within himself

on crip ...

@Father of the Year omg, this onion vid is great i couldve been far worse tho i'm still readable D; imagine if i actually majored in humanities

Sebastian

There's definitely a point to be made here about how Megan's more traditionally feminine, motherly qualities fit Don's idea of ideal womanhood over Faye's intellectual challenge (and the show is consciously making that point). And that the "Don" persona is very much a mask based on what he perceives masculinity to be all about, strangling his own softer, healthier "Dick" side in the process. I guess I just don't understand why you keep underlining young, beautiful and white. Those aren't really the qualities that lead Don astray. After all, Faye's a total (young, white) knockout as well. I don't think Don would solve his problems by going after an ugly old black woman.

on crip ...

right! A relationship with an 'ugly old black woman' would not solve his problems. Crucially bc /no/ (romantic) relationship with any woman can solve his problems. not even w/ model of the year Anok Yai. he needs trauma therapy As you noted, Faye is young, beautiful, and white. Yet, Don still cheated. And importantly, with another young, beautiful, white woman. that's why i repeat 'young, beautiful, and white.' it's to emphasize they're not neutral attributes. how a woman is valued depends (simplified) on her age, appearance, and race/ethnicity. some tuples to illustrate: (middle-aged, average, polish) (young, beautiful, native-american) (young, average, hmong) (middle-aged, average, southeast asian) (young, beautiful, white) changing a single attribute in each tuple makes a dramatic difference, a consequence of race, class, and gender constructs

Luis

I also love the small detail that Lane shows no sign of transferring the abuse he received to his own son.