True Story: Having the feedism talk with my GF (Patreon)

So I mentioned I'd be willing to share some personal stuff from my life involving WG, feedism, and excited female weight-related situations.  I think I'd also like to share a bit of relationship stuff too.  I've already hit my word count  for this week so you can just consider this extra content for this week.

Let's get to it.

So, I've been dating my current GF for almost 2 years at this point.  I told her about my fetish after about 4-5 months together, and we moved in together after a year of dating (and we are still struggling with rent).  She is not the first GF I've lived with and, I've even shared info about my fetish to another previous gf too.  However, this girl is different.  She isn't a feedee (not that any of my previous gf's ever were), and she isn't really into the WG fetish, but she loves that it excites me and isn't shy about bringing elements of what I love about feedism into the bedroom.  For someone like me, who always found it embarrassing to communicate my fantasies in relationships it has been truly amazing to have such a accepting partner.  She even knows about my online life as polarisdreamer, my patreon, and has even read a few of my stories (she thinks I'm a decent writer, and has complained my stories don't include enough sex).

In case people are going to ask me questions about what she looks like, I'll just say, she's my type.  I'm not going to share pictures of her, that's not what this patreon is for.  If you've read my stories, you probably know I have a type.  Imagine Mia's sister from "Mia's Junior Year".  That's pretty damn close to what she looks like.

Anyway, what was I saying?  Right, talking about feedism.  Well, it was christmas time, 4-5 months after our first tinder date, and my gf was complaining about having put on some weight over the holidays.  She's around 5'5, and was around 150lbs at the time, although she said she'd put on 10ish pounds so maybe she was closer to 160lbs, anyways...  I complemented her, which she appreciated, even though she felt a bit bad about how she looked.  That night, I brought it up.  We were lying in bed and I kind of just nervously asked if she had any kinks or fetishes.  She shared some kinks she felt she had, and I shared that I had a fetish, one that I was a little embarrassed to admit.

After some convincing on her part, I spilled the beans.  She was speechless, for a moment, but told me she was happy that I shared it with her.  She asked if she could share the info with her therapist later that week, and I said that was fine.  After talking with her therapist, she had a lot more questions for me about it.  We ended up going to jar of kinks ( https://www.jarofkinks.com/ ) so she could understand more about what I personally liked about my fetish, what I considered exciting in fantasy and the stuff I'd like to do in a real-life relationship.  Frankly, it was an amazing conversation.  My gf even filled out her jar of kinks (more mainstream, but still fun to learn about none-the-less).  We realized we had a lot of overlap in terms of what we liked, even if she didn't really personally understand how the feedism stuff could be sexual.  

Regardless, I am pretty sure it was that night, or maybe a few nights later, that she guzzled a ton of water before getting intimate so that her tummy would bloat out as big as it could.  It probably goes without saying, but we've incorporated a lot of stuff I like, and she likes, into the bedroom.  Thanksgiving, she even let me tie her up and feed her a ton of food, but that's a story for another day.

So, that's the story of my feedism talk with my GF.  Some other things I probably want to add...  One thing my gf has made clear is that she doesn't want to gain weight, she tends to yo-yo a bit and has admitted it is a real comfort to her that she knows I'll like her if she ever lets herself go a little bit.  Regardless of her weight, I really like this girl and couldn't imagine being with anyone else.  I find her really beautiful whether she's heavier or skinnier.  

Just last night, she was stuck getting home very late from work so I offered to make her a maple plant-based hot dog receipt my mom gave me (she doesn't eat meat, and I've recently given it up too).  And these were the texts I got in return:

 "YES!  Get me the low carb hotdog buns please!"

(A minute later)

"And french fries"

"I'm hungry"

(A few more minutes later)

"Sooo"

"Are you gonna feed me that hot dog?"

...

I love this girl.  And she's very supportive of my writing, she actually encouraged me to make this patreon and talk about our relationship.

Okay, that's all for now!  Have a great day!

-Polaris