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Am I The Asshole? - Christi & Kelly Are The Jury! (Patreon)

Published:
2026-10-13 10:00:14
Imported:
2026-11

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Have you ever been in a situation where you asked yourself after, "Am I The Asshole"?🤔

We want you to comment your most wild, messy, and unhinged stories for Christi and Kelly to react to on an upcoming podcast! If you don't want to expose yourself, you can email your story to backtothebarrepodcast@gmail.com!🤫

It's time for Christi & Kelly to be the jury!⚖️

Comments

Enrique Olguin

I love a segment like this .. but I’ll say a girl friend of mine was moving away and she gave my other friend about a box a wine for her to use for herself so when my bf and I came over she shared that wine with us .. well our close friend that moved away got furious with us because she was expecting us to share it all together. She never said that we had drink it with her and here we are feeling guilty because she wanted to ruin our 8 year friendship leading to middle school. Years later we ended up making up because we realized it was a petty argument but yeah never forget

Eden-Anaya

I’ve had to email mine as I didn’t want it to be too long for a Patreon comment, but it’s about snooping and catching a partner in a lie

Francesca grace

AITA for getting mad at my friends when we will make plans, sometimes weeks in advanced and every time the plans come to actually happening everyone either sleeps through them or cancels

Ashton B 🥒

I got married in 2023, and my mother-in-law has never really liked me. My husband and I are now no-contact with her, and his side of the family thinks we’re terrible people for “abandoning his parents.” It’s a long story, but I’ll list some of the big catalysts, and please tell me if you think I’m the a-hole -MIL said that I’m a bad influence on my husband because I like to go to Disney and celebrate Halloween. (We are all Baptists, and she thinks, these are sinful.) -MIL doesn’t like that I wear shorts. She says it’s disrespectful to God and that I must want other men to look at me. (She also says that wearing shorts turns men gay? I’ve never understood that one, but anyway) -MIL asked my husband if he really thought I was the right wife for him. This one really hurt my feelings. Also, when I found out I was pregnant, she said I wouldn’t be a good mom. :( -She said that my husband was going to “get tired of teaching me how to be godly” and leave me. These are just the big ones, but after we cut contact, she tells everyone that we are being unchristian and unforgiving, even though I DO forgive her, I just don’t want her back in my life. I don’t think I’m the a-hole, but please weigh in!! P.S. Your podcast has genuinely helped me through some very dark times. Dance Moms started airing when I was a freshman in high school, and I have been fans of the Hylands and Lukasiaks since the beginning. The show went downhill as soon as y’all left. Thank you for being a bright spot in a very dark few years! P.P.S. Christi, I’m the Ashton that you did the Cameo for - thank you so much! My husband Marcus surprised me with it, and I screamed in the kitchen! 🤣

Amber .E

In highschool my friend asked me to come prom dress shopping with her and her family. When trying them on I thought she would want her mother or someone else in there with her. Nope she wanted me. Worst decision of her life. She tried on a dress that was a pretty blue and fit her body type perfectly. Yes she was a bigger heavy set girl but she was beautiful. She then tried on this pink dress 2 sizes too small. She tells me to stuff her in it. So im pushing her back in her dress. Then she asks me "Does this dress make me look fat?" I looked at her and said "yes, it looks like you need a bra back here you got major back boobs". She didnt say anything nor get mad as far as I know.

Melissa’s Deflection Fly

my ex and i dated for almost all four years in college, and we broke up bc of a pretty big lie he told in our relationship and he randomly decided he didn’t want to do long distance when i moved to LA for law school even tho he said he would all throughout our relationship. i just found out he got a new job coaching our college football team which is known to be the worst football team in the country, and they never played him and treated him poorly. he just hard launched that he is now dating a sophomore at the college right now who looks extremely similar to me and is also *shocker* trying to study law. am i the asshole for calling her an infant and a clone🤣 (not to her face)

Pinkelephant47

Am I the asshole for cutting off a best friend of mine after she stole my date? It sounds petty and ridiculous, but yes, our very meaningful friendship ended after she stole my date from me at a dance. To set the scene, you have to understand she started out as a great friend who supported me, defended me, and was genuinely amazing, until she was unhappy in her own life. She began cheating on her boyfriend and lying about it to everyone. I would have returned the same love for her as she had for me. I don’t care about cheating and never would have, if she had been honest. Turns out she was lying about a whole lot more in her life. She made new friends and seemingly replaced our other friend and myself for cooler people. I tried so hard to stay friends with her because after everyone inevitably turned on her for her bad behavior, I stuck around. I even started getting a bad reputation for even keeping her in my life. I knew things were headed in a bad direction after she started lying and shit talking my best friend. It all ended when at prom, she asked where my date was to which I pointed him out. She then walked across the room and in front of everybody, started grinding on him. It genuinely felt like a bad high school movie. I felt dramatic for crying, but it really felt like our friendship was over and she never really cared about me. She tried to apologize but I never spoke to her ever again. She and her mom try and paint me and my best friend as the villains, where in really she was. I’ll never know if or friendship was real or if she has always been a horrible person and faking it for me

Zainab

NTA. No offense but your MIL sounds like a piece of work and I’m really glad your husband backed you up. We all need a partner like that. Also the wearing shorts turns men gay one is just cracking bc it’s so unhinged like what??

Hannah Van Dyken

So my husband and I got married 12-21-2024 and he is not super close with his mom but she likes to act like they are. The wedding was very intimate with only like 35 people but before the wedding my mom hosted a little family dinner at her house with my husband his grandparents and his mom and his siblings. So his grandparents flew in from California like a week before our wedding so they were already here but his mom and siblings lived only 3 hrs from us and they were 2 hrs late for the dinner because my husband’s sister wanted to go to a mall in Atlanta (bc we lived in GA and they lived AL). So my mom was mad at that (bc we waited to eat for them) and also his mom and siblings were the first ones to leave at our wedding. So I really did not like that. Also my husband is in the US Army and went on a 9 month deployment two months after the wedding and his mom never talk to me once that whole deployment however his grandmother kept in weekly contact with me. So am I the asshole for not caring to go see her when my husband can just go alone.

Abby’s car burger

AITA for being upset that I missed my sister’s engagement party? So here we go. Basically my sister and I are not as close as I’d like us to be. HOWEVER, I thought we would always be close enough to at least have our partners know to call if the other had LIFE CHANGING stuff happen. Well apparently her bf proposed and they had a surprise party for her at my dad’s house. Instead of someone calling me before hand so I could drive the hour to be there for her party. A cousins wife, that I don’t know or speak to often outside of family events, had asked me earlier to go to a bar with them that night. I said no bc I don’t like going to a bar much especially an hour away. They all live in the same place. My sister FaceTimes me that night to show me. I stay quiet for a second and the cousins wife took the phone to say that’s why she asked to go to the bar with me. I was obviously ELATED for my sister but was confused and upset about the whole invitation thing. I cried myself to sleep that night and then spent the next day mad at myself for being upset about it. My sister had already made comments that implied we were not as close as I thought. Then I found out her fiance showed our parents and a cousin I didn’t realize she even spoke to the ring he bought. And it hurt more than I’d like to admit. I said nothing but told my bf I was upset and he agreed. He actually got mad on my behalf and said he didn’t see why I tried with my dad and his wife at this point. He said “It was at their house and no one thought, ‘let’s call our oldest to see why she isn’t hear’?!” He was definitely ready to cut ties over it bc it’s on top of them flat out saying they will not call me or reach out bc “you need to get your own life steadied without our interference” after already not calling me unless I called first. So yeah last I spoke to my sister, I got the impression my step mom said something to her about me being sensitive and she should be weary of me. She kept being weird about telling me about bridesmaids. I finally said “you don’t need to make anyone a part of your wedding unless you want them in it. I will do whatever you ask me to bc I just wanna be there for you and him.” She asked if I’d be upset and I said no. Then she seemed to get irritated. I just don’t know what to do. But lmk if I’m the asshole.

charisma diehl

AITI: Backstory: I was in an abusive relationship for over three years (at the time this took place I was 17, he was 20). He insisted I stayed over at his house every weekend despite being a high schooler who also worked 30+ hours a week. Anyhow, I was driving to work after staying at his house and I was rushing since he had made me late. He was driving behind me since he worked across the street from me and and blowing up my phone with texts. We get to a stop sign right by my work and I realize I might make it on time. (I had to be there on time I was working towards a huge promotion and was one of the only people opening the store). Anyhow, he's driving super recklessly and barely stops at a stop sign, and gets into an accident behind me. He was abusive as I previously stated and I could see from my rear view the accident wasn't bad at all. Had he not been flying, it would have just been a fender bender. Well he called me the worst names imaginable, and his family was super mad. I used to feel terrible about this... but after the treatment I received in the relationship I'm not sure if I should anymore. (I'm now 20, and have been out of the relationship for over two years, and I couldn't be happier!) P.S. I met Jill about a week ago at work and she told me she loved my name and it's been the highlight of my year!