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Kendall joins us to share her story of a hellish 6-week relationship.

Jarvis recounts hosting New Years when surprise guests join the party.

Let us know what you think of the episode! :)

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chronicrow

immediately when jordan said Zootopia i knew he would end it with furries

Asterya

Well Kennie got me to subscribe I couldn’t help it . My faves together !! I’m having an insane amount of fun with this, thank you to you 3 for making my week 🥹🥳

daniel

Kendall is awesome, I just found her through the main podcast and now I can't wait to watch her video on Neo Ned

Mariya

I was born in Lansing and i still live in EL. I wish i knew cool people like you! we're close in age and both capricorns lol

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freddie

such a fun episode! :D i was so invested in kendall’s wild ex story omg

Ari

This is hands down one of my favorite Sad Boyz Nightz episodes. Poor Kennie though, I remember hearing references to the ex sometimes on twitch but I never knew he was THAT bad 😰

ks ks

Had to subscribe because i needed to see more of you and Kendall together, loved this collab!

Olivia Ross

first, kennie jd as 3rd podcast host when! and second, jarvis and jordans reaction to her dating story was so hilarious, i wonder what they would think about her experiences clubbing in south korea cause those are some funny stories!

Jess

I legit finally subscribed to the patreon because I wanted to listen to Kennie J.D. AHAHAHA she is so awesome

doginatrenchcoat

Jarvis and Jordan always reminded me of my brothers who passed away. Kennie has always reminded me of myself. Definitely too much of a self-insert. Ethier way, this was a wild crossover for me. Five dollars for you good sirs!

🌸 Carly 🌸

I'm so used to everyone wearing shoes in their homes on television, that I'm also painfully aware of when someone is barefoot on screen and can't unsee it 💀

Kschiwy

okay so this is actually in reference to the first half on youtube, but I needed this comment to be seen. I overheard my boss in a heated staff meeting say to her supervisees, “so the math that aint mathin for me…”

Ristorante Pastaroni

Whoa, Kendall's ex sure was...something. So many red flags. He sounds like some people I've encountered working in tech, particularly SF/SV types. Nowhere near as intense as computer science lawyer spy, but definitely the type to deploy bots to someone's stream to monitor them. STEM bois truly need help lmao. Being the only woman on an engineering team really exposed me to some weirdos early on in my career. I'll never get over these dudes asking me who was the best looking among them 🥴.

Peri

Kennie was dating a CIA agent… poor guy had Havana syndrome 😞 /j ofc, that story was a helluva ride. another banger ep y’all, absolutely loved this collab!

Peri

the small pause of both jarvis and kennie processing what jordan had just said before busting out laughing was perfect

Joelle

Idk why but this conversation is giving me cousins of around the same age meeting for the first time at the family reunion and hitting it off

chronicrow

he was havana bad time for sure

Peri

no apology needed that was a 10/10 pun

Rebecca Shailor

I’m obsessed with this trio I could listen to you guys for houra

SL

I did spend $5 for this episode and it was indeed worth it 💕😊

Leoné Jordan

I relate so hard with Jarvis on trying to make everyone comfortable in your space. I was often the *house* where the party was at. Fr fr

Leoné Jordan

God, Jordan Just plays all the awesome games. Talk about XCOM lfg.

Anna Sitchet

i have been manifesting this collaboration for so long and you guys blew my expectations out of the park!! i need kennie to come back, pronto ‼️

Brianna

The look on their faces at: 1:02:06 lmfaooo, Kennie: “no, I was annoyed for most of it” J&J: 🤔😵‍💫

Drawn at Random

can't wait for a romantic thriller called WICKED TWITCH or something to show up on passionflix in a few months with a suspiciously familiar plot

Tyler

I love Kendall and it made me so happy to see you all together 🥰

Jasper Black

Another great episode. PLEASE put these videos on a private YouTube channel, though! Watching in the Patreon app is clunky as hell.

Angelica Shipps

Enjoyed this Sad Boys Nightz ep, especially the dialogue on natural hair!! PS: My dad is a fan of you, Jarvis!

stella

This episode was so fun! Love the three of you together 🩷🩷

Kschiwy

her story reminded me so much of my freshman year of college ex that I recovered lost data in my brain. I forgot she told me in passing that she met me when she was on the verge of getting back together with her ex. through our whole relationship would tell her ex EVERYTHING about me, down to personal details about my dad passing away when I was a kid??? Its been literally years, Im in a healthy relationship now and Ive moved on but I thought I had a good understanding of her manipulation but didn’t quite put the pieces together and thanks to kendalls parallel horror story, I finally get it all lmao.

Sarah

the only time xqc was ever early for anything was for Jarvis’ party lmao

xiaovalu

commenting on your skin -especially after Creator Clash- is so rude. I'd be so pissed

Theodora Undergrove

I listened to the first 8 minutes of this podcast very high and I don't remember much of it. The next day I finished it and enjoyed it. During that day I was kinda feeling down, just a bummer of a day, and I felt this podcast would bring me out of some of those feelings which it did. I think my favorite part of the podcast was the dating story at the end, and the Iran joke was a good one. Very good, can't wait until the next episode!

madi

literally just subscribed for kennie's dating horror story😭, the 3 of yall have amazing chemistry btw I could listen to y'all talk for hours!

marcy

I can't find the discord link lmaoo

Joanna

I wonder what this guy is doing in Russia, with war going on right now it makes me think that he might have really been a spy lol.

Joanna

Jarvis - it must suck to receive DMs like the ones you mentioned in the beginning. My anxious ass thought complimenting your freckles on insta was out of line and in the meantime there are unhinged people like that.

Vi's corner

Not gonna lie, I joined the Patreon solely to hear Kennie's story 🙈 But if I'm gonna support men in 2023 (eww), it's gonna be Jordan and Jarvis

Frank

Watching Jordan fight back the urge to read Jarvis’ address out loud when he pulled up the messages with him and Hasan- I’m dying 😭😭

Kaitlin Stevens

If you have an iPhone, it’s easy to cast Patreon videos to your TV!

Jasper Black

I have an android 🙃 I usually watch on my phone anyway, but I can't minimize the video to check other apps or temporarily turn off my screen if needed bc patron doesn't play in the bg or become a PiP.

jay h

they rlly be the only valid men

Lars Milberger

Really loves this episode, also I just caught up on these and the Chad Chad eps while I worked for hours on a procrastinated project, so thanks for body doubling me!!!

transientbeast

sorry for the wall of text in advance, i just wanted to disclaim the narcissist talk. As someone with multiple PDs and friends with PDs (including NPD), the idea that NPD is an ’abuser’ or ’scary bad person disorder’ is mainstream to the point even well meaning people parrot stigma. I think it comes from the really poor name choice, using a negative term for the name of a disorder and the coining of ’narcissistic abuse’. NPD is a trauma based personality disorder that makes people with it ashamed to not be perfect and well liked by others, it is conflated through stigmatized ’wellness’ talk and a recent trend of pathologizing relationships with actual cult leaders. lovebombing is a cult tactic, if we pretend this guy is actually someone with NPD, he states he wants to be a good person and hes rethinking his friendships. He was probably actually trying to compliment kendall the only way he knows how which comes off weird because pwNPD are conditioned, usually by their parents, that they are only worthy through proving their love and being perfect superficially. This doesn’t mean anyone should stay in a relationship with someone that makes them uncomfortable (or that this guy isn’t weird as fuck). Just that NPD isn’t ’malicious intent’ disorder, it’s your way of connecting being maladaptive because of your upbringing. It does not mean they’re going to be toxic or ’bad’. The term ’narcissistic abuse’ was never mentioned but this route of thinking of NPD always comes from people weilding that term in the first place. ’Narcissistic abuse’ is just abuse, it would be like labling people who hurt you with other disorders. If people said ’bipolar abuse’ or ’autistic abuse’ that would be equally appalling to hear. Best way to learn about NPD (and ASPD, because it has similar ’bad person disorder’ stigma) is through personal blogs by people with them. Anything you hear by ’professionals’ or goddamn psych2go is going to have ableist fearmongering because the psych field is deeply flawed and full of outdated thinking.

Mariya

It might be because abuse from a narcissistic person is unique. there are support groups for people who have endured that type of abuse. I dated someone who has npd. It is a unique type of abuse and caused me ptsd :(

transientbeast

its not though, its just emotional abuse. all abusive people are abusive because theyre just abusive. the reason those specific support groups exist is because of how crazy npd stigma is. the ammount of people just diagnosing their abusers as ’narcissists’ and claiming theyre experiencing ’narcissistic abuse’ doesnt add up at all with how many people actually have npd. not to mention that if you actually have npd and tell people about it theyll label you as a bad person and leave regardless of anything youve done or who you are as a person. im sorry your partner was abusive and ptsd sucks. but he wasnt abusive because npd makes you an abusive person. hes just abusive and has npd.

Christian Smith

Me learning today that I need to moisturize

Rhys P.

oh lordt, that DM you read at the beginning was legitimately upsetting. why do people think that's okay?

Mellow.Mystical

Ya know... You guys should really invite Kennie back onto the show sometime. What a great guest, would love to hear you all converse again.

Catarina Erba

I’m always truly baffled by white people’s lack of moisturizing, like even me, a pasty bitch, always grew up with lotion and was taught that lotion is applied right after the shower. So many white people, (unfortunately) mostly men, firmly believe lotion is “training” your skin to not rely on its own natural oils and so it dries your skin out more. And then I’m just here like ??????? Not at all, put some damn lotion on????

Batya

I get so freaking itchy in winter especially, I don't get how people survive without lotion ☠️😂

LadyTastyFace

damn i'm watching this almost a year later and remembering that I left a comment about your ashy knees, and I'd like to apologize.

LHZOZ

I hope to GOD this doesn't age badly

Rachel Eakes

this is literally the smallest part of the video but hearing that Kendall, Jarvis, AND Jordan all got their licenses late made me feel better about only trying to get my license at nearly 25 due to such awful driving anxiety!

Lance Elliott

This Kendal story sounds upsettingly familiar, we're all in this together ✊🏼😭

Mandy McMaster

I’m so late to this, but the amount of times I let myself get reckless in Lansing and kissed people I had no business kissing is wild. So I feellll you on that. My friends were just as much trash as I was so unfortunately no one intervened. I still live in the area, but I know longer play it so fast and loose with my safety.

nyxie

This is by far one of the funniest episodes ever, the spy bit is too good. And Jordan's mum dating an obvious ass spy 😭