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So sorry I vanished.  People volunteered to read Claimings, and I haven't sent any out after that first round, but the universe felt the need for a little balance.  My mom fell.  Now she is okay, but she's a cancer survivor on blood thinners, so ya'll know what a fall can mean.  So I was answering some emails from the hospital and really trying hard to not freak out and call my older sister (I don't care if I'm fifty, when I freak out, I want my mom or my sister who is 15 years older, it's a thing when I don't feel like adulting).

Long and short--she's bruised and sore. She can't get out of bed or off the toilet by herself, and I had a fight with the hospital who wanted to send her to a rehab place for a few days, but I spent the big check from the first three Aberrant Magic books modifying the bathroom for handicap accessibility and I am home, so we won that battle.  So she's home in her own bed and bruised and she has a buzzer on the bed next to her if she needs to get up.

I will either get a hell of a lot of writing done in the next few days because I don't want to stray too far from her side, or I'm going to be such an emotional mess that I get shit done.  But it's okay.  It could be way worse, and after the strokes and the cancer, I know that way more than some.  So we're good.  I still wish I could give up adulting for Lent.

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Rix Owler

Give her my best wishes for a speedy recovery

M Humphrey

So sorry to hear that happened. Wish her and you the best.

Rosen Pavus

I hope she recovers quickly, and your stress levels level out. Stress is bad. :)

Mandy Lancaster

Oh sweetie! What a terrible thing to have happen. Thank God she didn't break anything. And Thank God this happened during Summer break when you can be home with her. I've been in the caregiver role and know there is nothing easy about it. Don't forget to do some self care. There are many agencies that can come in and take a shift so you can get a little non-caregiver time.

Ambitious

No need to apologize - stuff like that always takes precedence!! I'm very sorry to hear she fell, but very glad it seems to be more or less okay. Adulting definitely, truly sucks sometimes - hang in there!! Best wishes to the both of you!

Janelle Lun

Oh my goodness. Please don't apologise. Family always comes first. I'm so sorry that your Mum had that fall. I know what you mean about wanting to give up adulting. My father in law had a stroke, and the hospital wanted to send him to a nursing home after only 4 days without offering any rehab. That meant he would have never walked again. I had a big fight with the hospital, got him transferred elsewhere, and now after only 3 weeks he is walking with the aid of a wheelie walker!!! It's been physically and emotionally exhausting. My heart goes out to you and your mum and I hope she's okay.

IndiraIsReading??

My girl you always come first, and when you need to have some time to give something to us, well be here.

Lyn Gala

I am there with you thanking all the deities that she didn't break anything. She won't be down too long. She's already standing on her own, although the bruising makes her look like a radiation victim. She says it looks worse than it is.

Lyn Gala

I feel bad about dropping people. I was there one second, and ignoring everyone the next. But with your situation with your father, you get it. Dealing with the medical establishment is exhausting. Utterly exhausting. I don't know why they make everything so difficult.

Lyn Gala

Thank you so much. I love losing myself in my stories, but sometimes life is not a friend.