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Help with subjects. (Patreon)

Published:
2023-02-18 22:31:24
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2026-06

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We have a lot of reoccurring conversations in podcasts and the side shows. We are putting together a list of things that we touch on often to do stand alone videos on that should be short. Like 10-20 mins max. For example, Porn, whats cheating, opposite sex friends etc. What are some of the things we cover a lot that should be stand alone videos? We are going to start a list lol

Comments

Mindy Latstetter

Exactly how you answer the questions in the check-ins…my husband and I had our first one yesterday and kind of struggled with things like “how am I doing as a wife/husband”

Kylie

Video game obsession. It's been brought up at least twice and seems to be a common theme

Luca de Wind

chemical imbalances and the effects these inbalances an have on your psyche

Luca de Wind

the rapport card list (if you want i could make a view templates for you guys)

2 Be Better
>>102221801

This would be difficult because our checkins are private and the answers vary. That struggle you felt is because its new and you are unsure of how vulnerable and honest you can be. The first questions are like trying to play catch with a water balloon.

Luca de Wind

accountibility issues with partners and working on them (could be multiple videos on aspects of it).

Mindy Latstetter
>>102221801

True…it was lol I definitely didn’t mean for you to divulge the private stuff, maybe define what a husband and wife look like to you all in a traditional sense?

2 Be Better
>>102221907

We posted the report cards and the list of questions and communication tips to our youtube. and pinned that in the comments. If you want to make a template for us to email people. That would be gangster

Luca de Wind

unhealthy obsessions with certain things

Kylie
>>102221801

I think be consistent. Keep doing them and it'll become easier over time. I think the check ins are different for every relationship so it's about finding out what works for you

Amanda

Differentiating between someone who really has traditional values and someone who wants to use them to control and abuse you. These people are often skilled manipulators and many have a hard time spotting the red flags. I have in the past and can name five others that have had this problem both male and female. I share your content with everyone I know who wants this type of relationship and I feel like you guys might have useful tips for this. Thank yall so much!

toni

Traditional roles Healong your own trauma before relationships Submission

toni

Maybe a book list too. I know you've done one but I'm bot sure where at b this point.. also I was the one who first recommended surrendered wife and I think you'd like the proper care and feeding of husband's and the marriage one by same author too. I haven't finished but it's good so far... I'd keep track of links to each of these too cause you could just respond to some of the emails with a link probably.

2 Be Better
>>102225577

I just got those books on audible. Thank you. I am a big fan of Laura Doyles books but after some research she is running a pyramid scheme with her coaching and it kinda turned me off to her as a person. Still tons of information but it tainted it for me ~Chris

toni
>>102225577

Yeah she also charges an exorbitant (or so it seems to me, maybe it's the going rate idk lol) amount for the coaching. I liked her books too though.

2 Be Better
>>102225577

To become a coach with her its $16,650 and thats if you watch a precourse. Otherwise its 29k. And she doesnt even teach it. Other coaches do. She sells it in a way that its about you starting a coaching business as one of her certified intimacy coaches.

Steven Caudle

How about the positive affirmation and how important it is mentally, and the difference saying "love you" and "I love you"

Amanda
>>102223166

Ya I realized I didn't follow the directive after I posted. Multitasking fail. Lol. My bad on that one.

shawnna bellinger

Food insecurities (both types over eating to fill a void and being worried youll run out if i missed any other kinds)

Heather

1) How to talk to kids / teens / young adults about values and setting expectations within relationships. Being raised in a family that holds it, young kids would see it, but how can we have conversations about this if the children are older and the parents are changing to be better: gender roles, values, dynamics, being submissive in a relationship vs a solid Dom/Sub relationship.... 2) How are big decisions or life changing moments discussed? Example: moving, big vacations not just getaways, planning university for kids, stopping/starting/changing careers / going back to school. 3) Best advice or tools we as adults can give to the younger generation so they can be better? I guess something that be transfered from work ethic to home life to relationship. 4) The importance of self-care.

Emily Randolph

I have one that you all may not be comfortable talking about for now, and that’s ok if so. As a fellow failed child, I would love any advice or even just discussions in general on breaking that cycle and dealing with the constant fear of becoming anything like the parent that failed me as a kid. If that doesn’t make sense I can elaborate a bit, words are hard.

Kerra Nauss

Have any suggestions on step parenting?

2 Be Better
>>102470303

This is a tough one to do as a broad subject. Honestly there is so much that could be said and none if it could be relatable. But I will absolutely add it

Kerra Nauss
>>102470303

I’ve been debating emailing about the coparenting situation, it’s just not something I’m comfortable sharing with the world in case the parties involved get their asses in a twist if they happen to see it. To help narrow it down slightly, I’m wondering your thoughts on how to handle step parenting when the bio-mom is very high conflict and doesn’t provide anything for the child. What you see as roles a stepparent should be expected to fulfill in this type of situation? Sorry if that doesn’t make sense!

LyndsayReads

Random idea because I was watching the bonus cast on YouTube. Would you two be willing to talk about your Dom/sub relationship. Not in a complete sexual way because the dynamic is much much more diverse than that.. but I feel like that’s a huge deal when being fully submissive in a relationship.. and it would be something I would enjoy even during a live so that there’s a back and forth with all of us. Again, totally respect if that’s a boundary for you two, but it was something that intrigues me. As well as comparing some notes from my own Dom/sub relationship.

2 Be Better
>>102506246

We’ve discussed doing this and feel it’s better to keep some parts of our lives private. Not to mention it would open a doo for others to message us and tell us about their private lives. Which we don’t want to hear about…. At all.

Kasondra Saladrigas

I’m not sure if anyone has touched on this, but you guys mentioned at one point how to bring up a talk without saying “hey we need to talk”. That the “we need to talk” phrasing can cause anxiety to immediately happen and put someone in fight or flight mode. And I wondered if you guys had some advice to give on creating a safe talking environment.