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This was the first one of the shorter clips. I am not sure how I feel about it. I am 95% sure I want to re-record it. As it was a 45 minute conversation clipped to 25 mins.

Can you guys give me some feed back on things, what you like, what you dont like etc. 

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Opposite sex friends

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TheorymanDan

I love how relaxed yall look, are yall doing like the inbetween setup right now?

Luca de Wind

setup looking great guys, nice situational video

NicoleL

I absolutely loved the relaxed atmosphere and interactions. I think some topics do need a little more than 20/25 conversations to hit the majority of issues. I get want to keep it short and simple. But I think some topics will need more depth. But over all I love the new layout and set up! And this Playlist style will be so beneficial!!

2 Be Better

This is actually the set up until the new chairs come. This was the original goal. But I think these big chairs are to much.

Jennifer Pollock

I really like the set up! I want it for my house!! I will say I felt that in the first like 16 mins of the video it seemed hard for you guys to almost relate to the issue cause it doesn’t happen in your relationship, but you pulled through and got the point across that you were trying to make. I honestly had a hard time relating at first cause of how my relationship is now. Overall though I would like to see more of these sessions in the future so if I do struggle with this at any point I can take a look back at this video and find guidance. Again love you guys!

Lilidh Harper

Got it! I had to log into Patreon in the Google browser. My phone defaults to the Samsung browser and it wasn't letting the link work.

Craig

Ok straight into the hard topics I see lol. I think the main thing around opposite sex friends is comunication and openness-willingness. If the partner is kept out of the loop either physically (meeting up with friend without partners knowledge or not allowing partner to join in on those meetings) or emotionally wether it be your turning to your friend for emotional support instead of your partner, or your friend is relying on you emotionally but your not allowed to discuss with your partner, or even just long conversations that partner is completely disregarded in there will end up being problems caused within the relationship , you shouldn't be actively seeking or encouraging new opposite sex "friendships" that could be a likened to keeping your opinions open , which would possibly undermine your relationship. Not sure how well I've articulated my thoughts my mind keeps jumping around loosing focus still sorry . Love the new outlay it's much more relaxed

Crystal Maez

I’m going to preface this with I do not have female friends (nor male friends) I know that if I had a true friend like Peaches, I would 100% be comfortable going to her for a perception check. I am like Chris and will get into my own head and overthink, perseverate on my own emotions, negative self talk and make things so much worse between Skyler and I. I know that if I had a Peaches she would not grab a torch she would grab the fire extinguisher and tell me to calm down and take 50 steps back. She would make me look at my own lapse of accountability and get me leveled headed. Skyler and I agreed to have opposite sec friends and after a while those friendships ended on our own accord because our boundaries were not respected and people played the what if game.

Heather

So this format, the relaxed feel of it, does allow the viewer to relax as well and subconsciously be more receptive to what your saying. I did enjoy it. The wide shot was really nice.

Emily Randolph

I have to agree with the majority of this. I have a singular male friend who I've been friends with since we were toddlers, never any funny business, and now he and my husband are just as close if not closer, than we are. He never gets any of the "oh my husband did this or that" and neither do my female friends. I have my sisters who I will go to if I need perspective and need to be told if I'm acting like a fool and over exaggerating, otherwise what my husband & I argue about is our stuff to work out because at the end of the day my sisters are going to be (in many situations) biased towards me and his friends will be biased towards him unless one of us is clearly in the wrong. We both have people who will hold us accountable and call us out if we are acting disrespectful or like a jerk in general and would neither one be ok with each other going to an opposite sex friend for that advice.

Julie Armenta

I enjoyed this. Sweet & to the point. Hit all aspects of the main question in a good length of time. I can dig these specified vids

Mindy Latstetter

I love this! Feels like we are kind of just sitting in your living room with you having a chat. I agree and think the opposite friend thing is like walking through a land mine because you may have the best of intentions and set boundaries, etc. but you cannot control how or what the other person is thinking which could possibly get you into a situation that you really don’t want to be a part of. It’s tricky and I think the juice is certainly not worth the squeeze in this scenario.