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We only covered two today. We are going to dedicate Tuesdays to Patreon moving forward for recording. We are seeing people jump in. Pay for patreon to expedite their email and then leave.

We dont want that. We want to build a community here. So Tuesdays is a dedicated read for Patreon. We are also open to reading emails during the live streams on Fridays.

ALSO we are contemplating doing lives on Thursday nights on our youtube. It would help drive youtube content. Is that something anyone would be interested in seeing?

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Jen A

Thursday nights are actually better for me lol

Holly Hampton

I personally am all for the extra content and time with you both, as long as it isn't a strain on your end. It sucks that people are jumping in and out like that. Hopefully that dies down!

toni

I wrote an email once then canceled to switch card numbers and re signed up under a different card. Just fyi. Some of the cancels could be due to that :)

2 Be Better

I have no idea. I appreciate you saying that though. When I see people cancel it feels like being dumped with no reason LOL

2 Be Better

I also want to add that I left a lot of real conversation in this on purpose. We dont have to all agree on everything. And I am good with discussions and respectful opinion sharing. So if anything in this video bothers you. I apologize. But its real

Lindsay Berry

I am all about the extra content! After you guys answered my email I had a talk with my husband and he listened to what you guys had to say and we watched your apology video. He now really wants to do the inner work and wants to be a better man. He even suggested we watch one of y’all’s videos a day together as our one on one time in the evenings! I can’t thank you guys enough!

Maryann

Nah, as much as I want my email read, its not going to be a fix-all. I'm sticking around because you guys consistently provide solutions to problems that I'm sure will come up in the future.

Heather

I so want to be there for the lives Thursday night but it depends at what time. You do so much already outside 2 Be Better, personally I enjoy what you give already and don't want you to feel pressured to produce if it's not to your standards. Quality over quantity. The weekly lives are so worth the Patreon alone. You are still human, a couple, parents, Business owners.... Don't burn out. Heck I want more crazy travel stories. And yes, those chairs are sick. You can add some pillows to them if you want but seeing them in place....yes. Side note: If you're down for it, a video about your personal tattoos would be cool. I keep seeing *new to me* tattoos every video and some are pure master pieces (Peaches the face on your arm gorgeous).

Emily Randolph

I’d be happy to watch YouTube lives on Thursday nights as long as it won’t be too much of a strain on you two. Totally understand what you said about dedicating days to reading emails. I hate that there are people jumping in just to get theirs read and then leaving, hopefully that will calm down a bit as the community continues to grow. Appreciate all that you two do!

2 Be Better

It’s all speculation right now. We don’t know when we are still talking it all out. The goal is to allow this to really be a full time thing. With real money.

2 Be Better

We aren’t getting burnt out. We enjoy all this. And when we don’t feel like doing it. We don’t lol

Emily Randolph

Still not done with the video but had to add 2 things lol. 1. I would totally buy and wear a “blah blah blah communication” shirt. 2. Peaches, can’t speak for anyone else but I find it extremely helpful when you point out “hey I was frustrated here and here’s how I handled it vs how a lot of people handle it which ends in arguments”. I struggle a lot with verbalizing my emotions and doing so in a way that doesn’t come across as if I’m being rude or attacking my husband, so it’s nice to have an example.

shawnna bellinger

I actually just ordered the eggshells book yesterday. However this is also why when hubby to be and I got together instead of forcing him into groups and into therapy I took the time to learn his diagnosis and his way of communication. He has ptsd and bipolar and one of us has to be grounded because sometimes he understands and hears things or situations come at him differently. Everyone (monster inlaw included) thinks he has no say so in whats going on and I just boss him around or manipulate him when hes having those moments because I am the logical grounded one who took the time to understand him and how he communicates I can get through to him when and where others cant and we change things and process things TOGETHER because we communicate and figure it out together. He has had to tell me and or others (friends or kids and family members) he was sorry for how he spoke or reacted he misunderstood what they were saying and doing after he and I talked it out. His mom views it as him having no say and he and I view it as me being his peace and us both understanding our partners communication. People from the outside dont understand and he is the same when Im having an anxiety attack after a episode he can be my ground and he will tell me Im okay. He will run his fingers through my hair untill Im at ease because he took the time to learn and communicate thats what I needed from him my partner in that moment.

Paige K

Go figure there had to be some real turd burglars that would abuse this like that 🙄. I loved all the extracontent we we’re getting than YT/podcasts! I’m so glad I came across this to try Patreon out, as I’m a first time user so I was nervous how it worked.

2 Be Better

This isnt about not having a say. This is hands down the most logical way of thinking, accountability and personal growth you can have.

Tiffany Harris

Hey! New here on Patreon. I have been nonstop watching you guy's videos for going on three weeks now. Finished every episode within the first week on YouTube and learned sooo much. I feel like a new person. I view my relationship totally different now. Will eventually email you two to get some pointers on a situation y'all haven't talked about.. and to go into detail how much y'all have affected my relationship and life 😌 I'm also gonna try to get my man to email y'all if he wants to cuz he watches y'all as much as I do 😁 I can relate to so many things y'all say and some I don't..(different boundaries and views on religion, etc.) But I am a firm believer in agreeing to disagree. A lot of people cannot do that. One of my closest friends is Christian and I lean more towards wiccan than anything. Could talk all day about absolutly anything. Excited to be a part of the Patreon family as I've been wanting to get on here for about two weeks! Y'all are amazing, empowering and love that you say what people NEED to hear and not what they WANT to hear. Cuz I'm the same way and get slack for it lol Sorry for the random comment. I never know the best place to leave a comment but I take it Patreon would be the best option 😌 I love you guys! Keep up the hard work! Both of y'all are badasses