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How do you feel about your kink?

  • I am very comfortable with my kink 10
  • I'm learning to accept it but still need to work on it 18
  • I'm embarrassed to be ABDL 9
  • 2025-01-16
  • 37 votes
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Content

Are you comfortable with your kink and open to sharing it with partners? We're making a special audio about this and we'd love your insight!

Comments

Smackledorf

I accept it, but it is definitely embarrassing to share it, and I think it objectively true I would be better off without it.

CreativeSteve69

I am still learning to accept that I am a baby girl, I still need plenty of work to accept myself as one.

Simon Whitehouse

I am comfortable to share with my wife. She has embarrassed it for me to explore, but it's not for her so it's just for me to explore solo.

Wayne Scott

I can share about my kink only with certain people. I've tried explaining it to my wife; but I don't feel she supports it. She doesn't want it in the house.

Ard

I think I am comfortable with it within myself, it doesn't make me feel bad about myself, I love thinking about it and getting a better understanding of it, where it comes from, how it works for me ... but it is not something I would be comfortable sharing with a lot of people, and I guess it is not something I need to become a bigger part of my life. While I'm incredibly turned on by the fantasy of being weak and losing control and wearing nappies and being under someone's control, I don't really want to 'live' that if you know what I mean? It would be nice to be able to have a 'session' every so often where I could experience it with other people, but that is a difficult thing to figure out how to do. But it is lovely to talk about it, and hear about other peoples experiences here!

Smackledorf

Well, as objectively as possible: 1. Stats. The fewer people who share one's weirdness, the smaller pool of matches. 2. Misconceptions. If a person has a [insert kink here] most likely nobody will associate it with Peter filia. But ours? I know 6 people irl who, without any knowledge about me, have brought up abdl and said they think it is about child rape. So I conclude I'd be better off vanilla. [Sorry to be a downer]

L M

I acceptet very good it was an long fight again my Brain but now im so Happy with my journy. I didnt use the Toilette many years.

Amy and Bella Wets

That sounds like a healthy way to think about your kink! Sometimes fantasy or play sessions are all you need to satisfy those desires. We feel that way too about a lot of DDLG or ABDL things.

Amy and Bella Wets

It's good that you can share it with the right people! And it's perfectly ok for them not to be into it. You can find plenty of ways to explore it without violating anyone else's boundaries.

Wayne Scott

How do I explore it without violating other people's boundaries? I'm still new to this.