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Maybe Pleasure and Sexual Satisfaction Aren’t the Same Thing — Book Club Replay (Patreon)

Published:
2025-09-24 19:10:47
Edited:
2026-08-29 20:27:28
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2026-10
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  • Maybe Pleasure and Sexual Satisfaction Aren't the Same Thing - Book Club Replay.mp4

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Couldn’t make live book club? No worries, the replay is up and ready for you!

Grab a comfy seat and hit play whenever it works for you.

In this book club session, we talked about how pleasure and sexual satisfaction aren’t always the same thing. We looked at how perimenopause and asexuality can shift how we think about sex and intimacy, and why satisfaction isn’t just about sensation or frequency. We also shared some ways to study your own satisfaction—like asking why you choose to have sex, what feels good, what feels right, and what actually matters to you.

Did you like me reading the chapter out loud? Drop a comment and let me know.

Next up: Good Sex Is Orgasmic.

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Maybe Pleasure and Sexual Satisfaction Aren't the Same Thing - Book Club Replay

Maybe Pleasure and Sexual Satisfaction Aren't the Same Thing - Book Club Replay

Comments

Eddie Mendez

That would be awesome if you read your chat or even if you wrote a cool Sexy exotic educational book. Not only educational but "Hot" too. not to be disrespectfull.

Guy

Just finished listening to the replay. Does pleasure mean orgasm? I'm not interested in going for orgasm and have no expectations beyond being able be intimate with J and holding her. After a certain amount of arousal an orgasm is desirable to relieve the tension, though. I like the word content rather than satisfied. As I've posted before, the least satisfying experiences were sex for sex with no emotional involvement. I need to feel that my partner is someone with whom I can share deep emotional feelings. As I wrote in Literotica about my first time with J; "But this time it was different. There was no hot passion. There was a gentle passion, a quiet passion, a caring passion. We touched rather than groped. The touches were hesitant and tender. The room was dark so I could not make out her form, but I discovered her through every other sense. I let my body drink her in. This time I learned how to make love rather than have sex."

Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

Hey Guy! Great question—no, pleasure does not need to mean orgasm. Pleasure can take on many forms as you so beautifully shared in your comment. Yes, I like the word content and emotional bond is an absolute must for me too!

Guy

It's interesting that when I lost my virginity is a strong contender for least satisfactory. It was a surprise I wasn't prepared for as it contradicted my world view. No prior discussion. I was quite confused and conflicted.