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I love being a sex educator! And sometimes that means showing folks how to put a condom on… using a synthetic dildo. 🙂

Because safer sex is sexy when you know what you’re doing—and when it’s taught with comfort, clarity, and confidence.

Sex education often includes things like:

How to fit a condom correctly for safety and sensation

How to put it on without breaking the erotic connection (or the condom)

How to introduce toys and explore new sensations consciously and consensually

How to support receptive vaginal insertion with fingers or a penis by following the body’s natural pacing

How to communicate before, during, and after sex in a way that deepens trust and pleasure

These are essential skills that help people feel safer and more connected in their bodies and relationships.

💬 Got a sex ed question you’ve always wanted answered but didn’t know who to ask? Drop it below.

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Eric Hegeman

Why use a synthetic dildo when you could use an all natural one? 😂

Guy

Is this going to be in today's conversation or do you have a video? I'm not in the dating game these days and hope I don't find myself there, but do use condoms to keep things tidy when I need to go solo. I'd be curious to know more. Might find something new to explore. I have thought that condoms would be awkward with multiple ejaculations and if back in the dating game would have much to consider. Probably wouldn't be good to do as in the past with ignoring STDs and assuming a woman who is being aggressive is already taking care of birth control. Actually I think my first partner wanted to experience a virgin and may have discovered that virgins can cause pregnancies.

Guy

Multiple orgasms are pretty much driven by what I perceive my partner to need, not much need when solo. Maybe I'll have to rev up and just for curiosity sake learn whether multiple orgasms in a condom are messy or manageable. Or maybe wouldn't be informative as I have a much reduced ejaculate being on TRT and having been through the cancer treatment.

Danny Hendrie

While I've been married for 23 years now, not using condoms... I have to admit, I'm 60, and the thought of "how to fit a condom" has never crossed my mind. I just buy the ones that don't say "Magnum" on the box. I only ever looked for the name brands I trust, and got ones that said stuff like "thin" or "bare skin"... and were lubricated. I never knew, aside from the larger ones (Magnum) about "fit."

Sk

I think it would be helpful to provide instruction for how to put them on uncircumcised units as well. Many women (and probably men) have no idea that the foreskin should be retracted first

VitoPagoda

I agree. I wish you could have two designated dicks on deck, one circumcised and one with a foreskin, so you could demonstrate proper condom, use and maybe proper condom fitting. Is that asking the impossible? It would be groundbreaking. I also appreciate that you mention to keep air out of the receptacle end so the cum has somewhere to go. I don't think most women are aware of that. Anyway, thanks, as always.

Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

I'm with y'all on this one—it's a challenge finding models with foreskin. Unfortunately, the standardized patient group I work with does not have any male urogenital teaching associates with foreskin but they are on the look out for me!

Danny Hendrie

So now I'm curious. Not that I'll be needing to buy any... but, do you have an instruction post or video explaining how to properly/effectively "fit" oneself for condoms? I mean, all these years I thought it was "Buy condoms unless your penis is really large, in which case, buy "Magnums"

Danny Hendrie

You're gonna give me an ego boost, making me feel all proud that I sparked an idea! 😁🤭