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Curious about prostate play but not sure where to start? 🤔

In this live model demo, I walk you through the anatomy, safety tips, and practical techniques for exploring prostate stimulation using a prostate massager with more comfort and confidence.

We’ll cover:

Understanding prostate anatomy and what you’re actually stimulating

What prostate stimulation might feel like

Choosing a beginner-friendly prostate massager (Vector+ is my go-to recommendation!)

How to build up to using a prostate massager with a rectal dilator

How to insert a prostate massager comfortably and safely

Pelvic floor relaxation, breathing, and positioning tips

Using vibration, movement, and pelvic floor exercises to explore sensation

Common myths about prostate massage

Whether you’re new to prostate play or looking to better understand your body, this video is all about live model education, curiosity, and helping you make informed choices about your sexual health and pleasure practices.

🏎️ If you're curious about test driving the Vector+, use code GRONSKI20 for 20% off 🎉 (Discount valid thru September 14, 2026).

I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Have you ever been curious about prostate play? What questions do you still have?

References:Cochrane Review: Prostate massage for chronic prostatitis/chronic pelvic pain syndrome

Medical disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider before trying new treatments or if you have persistent pelvic pain, urinary symptoms, rectal bleeding, recent surgery, active infection, or other medical concerns.

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Prostate Massager (Patreon)

Prostate Massager (Patreon)

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Steve J

Another great educational video! Thank you for continuing to get this information out there. We need more frank, factual educational material like this. And as a visual learner, the live models are helpful to reinforce the material.

freddie

I’m excited to receive one and give it a try 😜

Bob L

Loved the information you always supply. Much thanks to your model. Seems he will give just about anything a go. The one you demonstrated is way larger that the one I have…the Molto by MV. Don’t know if I could use yours without help and gobs of lubricant. What do you recommend as far as how much to bent it? 45 degrees 90? I’ve used mine in combination with the Tenuto 2. The sensation is tremendous! Highly recommended it. I’ve also, noticed a higher than usually amount of seamen when I ejaculate. Thanks again and keep those videos coming. Pun intended. 😉 Give that model a raise!

Chris C

You mentioned some conditions with which one should not use a prostate massager. What about benign prostatic hyperplasia, BPH? Does BPH make prostate play and a massager dangerous?

Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

You're correct, Emerald. The Vector+ is slightly larger than the Molto. If you're interested in trying the Vector+, take your time to adjust to the size, insert slowly, and yes, with lots of lube. As far as the neck angle, that will depend on your own personal anatomy. I usually suggest making small incremental changes in the neck angle at a time to discover what feels best for you both for insertion and prostate stimulation. And we appreciate your sincere compliments and gratitude! We definitely plan to keep the content coming 😉.

MountainMan

Excellent video Dr. Susie! I use the MV Molto that you had recommended at my visit and enjoy similar results. Primarily after use I notice a very noticeable release in pelvic floor muscle pressure. I'm much more relaxed afterwards for several hours. I like to use it while getting a massage.

bill saunders

I became a member and then it told me I needed to upgrade or the option of buying this for $17. Now it is telling me I cannot view it

lamont jackson

Once again, another great video. Thanks a bunch. I have been curious about the sensations of the prostate vibrator since my prostate removal surgery a year ago. Although I no longer have my prostate, I will still give it a try. Thanks again Doctor!

TOSHI CHANNLE

Hello. Is it safe for an amateur to perform a prostate massage? I am concerned about potential risks, such as loosening of the anal sphincter or developing prostatitis.

Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

There's no evidence that tells using a prostate massager will loosen the anal sphincter or develop prostatitis. If you approach prostate play slow and gradual, keeping hygiene in mind, I do not see issues arising. That said, some pelvic therapists who have sexuality counseling or education background might be able to support you in safe and proper use.

TOSHI CHANNLE

For someone using a prostate massager regularly, what would you consider a reasonable frequency and duration for a session? Is there any concern with using it several times per week or for longer sessions?

Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

It really depends on how your body responds. There isn’t a well-established ‘ideal’ frequency or session length for prostate massager use. If it feels comfortable and you’re not experiencing pain, bleeding, rectal irritation, pelvic discomfort, or lingering symptoms afterward, using one several times per week may be ok for some people. I’d be more cautious about prolonged or very vigorous sessions as the tissues still need to tolerate and adapt to the pressure and friction from using the toy. Gradual progression, and listening to how your body feels during and after are more useful guides than a specific number of minutes or sessions per week.

Rich Novak

Hi Dr. Gronski. Great video! Do you have any videos on how to use anal trainers?