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This is OUR part 1 of Tell All Part 1

Tonight, we catch up with the couples of Before the 90 Days and learn where their relationships stand. It's one shocking moment after the next; as we find out who is broken up, who is back together and whose ex reached out with a shocking revelation

Poodle’s Broadway corner: (18:11)

Main Episode Discussion: 32:35

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Ronz

WHAT IS THE REASON! WHAT IS THE REASON!

Reyna

As someone said on Reddit... Veah didn't have 50 lbs to lose.

Yuly

She would have landed in the hospital if she lost 50 lbs.

brook vanderford

This episode didn’t download into my overcast for some reason. Just thought I’d post that in case Mattie or poodle see it. I’m just gonna listen here this time (I typically just use my podcast app).

brook vanderford

OK just a few minutes in and I have to say one more thing. I completely disagree Poodle. I am neurodivergent and I have several family members who are as well… and many of us have something called injustice sensitivity. I have it big time. It makes it really hard for us to see someone being mistreated either by a person, a system, a government, etc. and keep our mouths shut. And Niles clearly couldn’t keep it inside. It may have come across as over-the-top like he was trying to portray a role, but in reality, we get so heated about it that it can come across that way. And because social norms are not baked into us, it does come out in ways that can be unnerving to some people. I could give you so many examples from my own life and from watching my siblings and my dad… but this was like looking into a mirror. Niles had Loren’s number. If he had just displayed general disgust, maybe I could be swayed. But he didn’t. He was very specific and even nailed Loren on making people upset or uncomfortable as a power trip. He’s probably been treated very poorly in his lifetime for being autistic (to a degree that he doesn’t really pass) and a person of color, which means he’s very sensitive to others in minority communities being mistreated as well. Tigerlily being treated like less than equal clearly bothered him too. I think he’s genuine and I am here for him reading Loren in particular for filth.

Rizzy Ramone

Don’t worry Poodz, I’m the same way with making things, nothings ever good enough! I’ve restarted this baby blanket 3 times since Friday, I guess because I’m afraid of being judged by someone who isn’t even born yet? This is why I don’t make things for family 😂

Rizzy Ramone

Also, I’ve been busting to say this but couldn’t Zuck the sissy squad - WILL SOMEONE PLEASE ROLL BRYAN OFF A BRIDGE?!

amy

Tigerlily and Adnan's baby is named zeyn eleven! poodle, Adnan was saying, "i love you, bubbie:), which i think you mistook for his name xo

Danielle G

Same here with pocket casts. Glad it isn’t just me. 😅 Did your feed reset back in December around this time too and mark everything as unplayed but archived? (Similar to what it did Nov 1 with the feed switch over.) Hoping there isn’t some bug that causes this to happen every month around the 12th.

Peggy Ann

I have a few friends in the Broadway community and they shattered what I know about Hugh Jackman back in 2022 by telling me it’s a well known secret in Broadway that he’s gay

Elizabeth

Sending Mattie and Poodle and everyone in Los Angeles lots of love ❤️

Colleen 🗑

Yes! I haven't listened yet and I'm mid-tell all but I had to come here to say Niles clocked Loren. And honestly I think he is the only one who could penetrate Loren's armor. Other people get clouded with mitigating factors "oh it's kink" and "oh he's sending money." But Niles sees him for EXACTLY what he is. And Loren tries to diffuse "this is supposed to be fun, we're having fun." He's gross. Get off my tv!

Caroline Dickie

Same. I got the regular feed one with ads but the Patreon one didn’t come through on overcast for me. I got LDLU just fine

Elizabeth

Poodle’s Flag should just be a peach emoji 🍑

Val McCue

Hear, hear…2025 officially sucks and the mf'er hasn’t even taken office in the White House yet.

Amanda

I don’t think Tigerlily is pregnant again - she said she just gave birth 6 weeks ago.

Dana Tabala

Omg Poodz, I wanted to see Teeth since it looked so weird! lol. Seeing MHE next week. Dying to see DBH! I saw The Outsiders in Sept with some of my 4th grade classmates and teacher and we were supposed to go to DBH next… I was asked to go see Swept Away and said no and I’m really regretting it! How about Operation Mincemeat? That’s supposed to be hilarious! But I don’t think it’s open yet.

TT

How did Niles win this Tell All?

Brooke

Why does Adnan look and sound like Andy Kaufman?! Down to the neckerchief lol

Shmiaaaaah

Tiger Lily looks like she just came from a Christmas pageant rehearsal

Elizabeth

It’s really interesting, I feel like a lot of us neurodivergent people may not always be comfortable with human interaction, but a lot of us are also really good at seeing people for who they are, better than a lot of neurotypical people. I think we just pick up on things that others don’t…so I think Niles can see through bullshit. and you made such a good point about injustice sensitivity as well. I feel like Niles could make a really good human rights paralegal or something like that. Obviously wants to stand up for the little guy, and he also cuts right through the bullshit!!

Hillary Dunn

What isn't funny is how often Adnan throws out there that he will unalive people. He says it ALLLLLLL the time.

Kelly Osterman

The pet names! I usually hate them and once broke up with a really hot guy bc he called me his little snickerdoodle. Literally one time. He said it and responded with "I think we have to break up".

Anita Carol

Did anybody else want to throw things at their TV when Brian would question the partners from other countries about their true intentions? He would put on a accent affect and speak in what seemed like broken English when talking to them? Did anybody else notice that? He is a horrible human being and I don’t understand why people aren’t pointing any of this out during the tell all.🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Ted Danson

omg i remember watching Teeth on netflix when i was way too young to be watching it… lol also Kids !!!!

Sheilah Rossow

I assumed Loren was "giving" her money to hide it from his ex, doesn't he owe like a bunch in child support?

Ted Danson

also i hooked up with an australian guy once who called me “a squisher” during sex and i was like turned off lol he was super ripped and i was a little chubby at the time

Hollan Read

😂 “Babe” is the worst. All it ever reminds me of is Michael and Jan in The Office. “Hubby” is also gross. I won’t even respond if someone refers to my husband as my “hubby”

Jujuy

Hooted at Blue Velvet! I saw in theater when it came out (I was 21) and was traumatized!!! Go poodle (and mother poodle)❤

Devil's Cabana Boy

Saw Death Becomes Her yesterday- loved it! And I thought that Matt and Poodle would slay in the two leads. Also saw Gypsy with Audra this weekend- extraordinary. Sorry you missed it. Also enjoyed Our Town. Disappointed with All In. And finally saw Six- better than I thought it would be.

Captain of Something

The off-broadway musical Teeth is based on this cult indie horror dark comedy called Teeth from about 15 years ago! It’s really a fun romp so recommend watching it

Hannah

My husband still claims to be traumatized because I made him watch Teeth with me when we were first dating. 🙄

Nery Herrera

Omg yes!! I was 20 when I watched it and had to drive to a tiny theater like 30 miles away to watch it!!

brook vanderford

After watching Nile’s with Loren and Nile’s not being affected by Loren or Loren’s friend’s excuse, I was like…he’s like Neo at the end of the Matrix seeing all code but it was him seeing directly inside of Loren seeing all his bullshit. 😂

Danielle G

I’m seeing part 1 now. Cristina, Patron Saint of Patreon, is working her magic to get it fixed :)

Renee Revolinski

I subscribe to a few female Muslim You Tubers. Islamic women actually welcome non-Muslim women wearing their cultural clothing. The topic often comes up when non-Muslim women admire the Muslim women's clothing and style. Like Tiger Lilly, I too am half Japanese. Japanese people do not care about non-Japanese wearing a kimono as long as it is not in jest. Not every ethnic group concerns themselves with cultural appropriation when it comes to their own individual culture.

Megan MacKenzie

Loren is like if a raccoon wished to be human

Lesley

OMG, yes!!! Insinuating that Faith’s family is monetarily benefitting from Loren and Matilda only wants to experience America’s “milk and honey,” etc. Sorry, “bro” (he’s also calling everyone “bro”), Ingrid can just not like you (b/c you’re an ass)…that doesn’t mean she was using you to get to the U.S.

Amanda Eerdmans

I had a gallstone for a year and didn’t know. They found it before my first back surgery. Her symptoms don’t add up

Lizzy

Veah made a very strange post about how before she went to South Africa she apparently got diagnosed with a brain tumor, but she decided to try to “holistically” heal it on her own (not possible). So she went to this crackpot woman (who she said was “licensed”… in what we don’t know) who told her to do lymphatic drainage to get rid of her brain tumor… so she had this lady massage her all the time, and apparently the massages were killing her and made her spit up blood?!?! And then she never mentioned the brain tumor after that…. I have no idea what’s going on…. She said she’s been going to a lot of “specialists” for her massage-induced illness and no one had answers. But like… what about that brain tumor???

Crystal Cole

They filmed Loren coming out of the subway at the beginning because he currently lives there.

Angie C

So glad you both are safe!!! Praying for Los Angeles and may all of the first responders be protected 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️

Alison

We were in NYC too! We saw The Outsiders with the original cast. It was visually very cool. I struggled bc the guy who plays Ponyboy sings with a clenched jaw and kinda nasal. I struggled to understand the words he was signing. Beautiful voice but too tight!

brook vanderford

I can be a little slow to pick up on somebody being a covert narcissist or something like that because of my literal nature. It’s like my bias is to give everybody a fair shake, and until they give me a reason to look at them sideways, I don’t think to do that. But once they give me a very solid reason? I start to see through them very quickly. And I can’t unsee their bullshit. 😒

Dixon Syder

Is anyone else not seeing this on their Apple Podcasts app under RG+?

Starr D

I am always late to the party, but did you all know Tigerlilly’s dad is the drummer from Queen? I was gooped and gagged!!

Starr D

**retraction** upon looking at the photo’s this has to be “different” Tigerlilly

Lael

Yes, I kept refreshing yesterday and even this morning. It’s not up on Apple. Luckily I can listen here !

Kimberly Saginario

I’m setting out clay right now for my elementary art students 😂 the broke-in-the-kiln trauma is Emmy gentle reminder to make sure the kids’ greenware is ok before going in the kiln. (Im guessing you used too much water 😂❤️)

Lizzy

The pigeons were actively running from him. He probably fights them for scraps.

Lizzy

I feel like Loren has battled many a raccoon in dumpster turf-wars

Lizzy

I think she’s just a little chubbier after being pregnant. I’m sure Adnan is already on her ass for it.

Ashley Elizabeth

I find it nuts that Loren can send money to Faith but not pay his child support. 🙄

Ashley Elizabeth

I feel Loren's "gullibility" suggests maybe he has a personality disorder, the fantastical thinking, power plays, sociopathy, it all adds up.

Ashley Elizabeth

Faith is an unreliable narrator because she has been gaslit, broke down, lied to and love bombed. Her eyes say it all. She doesn't even trust her own emotions and logic, that is the goal for Loren.

Sally

Poodle’s Rodney Dangerfield reference took me out ☠️

James Pullman

It reminds me of that scene from Glee of “We Found Love” where they’re at the pool and Artie (in the wheelchair) just flings himself in the pool

Bita Hodaei

Still not showing up On Apple 🙃

Elle Schalow

It's so true about studying the arts at a young age! I started piano at 6, did the music minor thing, and now I'm a 35 yr old officer worker who's go to fun fact is "I'm a classically trained singer." I never had time to get good at anything else because I was always practicing.

Allison Mangini

I did not hear anything about Vivian (Lily’s daughter) dying. I also don’t see anything online. Can someone clarify?

jey

i thought loren said, “i have sex with my penis and my rectum 👍😀👍”. hated the sex-shaming/loved the loren-shaming. i’m so disappointed faith went back to him. niles seems to be reacting authentically to me. i’m on the spectrum and i worked with kids on the spectrum for 10+ years. i think he is pretty rigid with his “right and wrong” thinking and i think he has to work hard in a situation like this to keep his reactions in check. but i do see what poodle is saying and it’s possible he’s being performative. brian is cruel and dark and absolute abuser vibes 😬 Hate him.

jey

also let’s give annie sprinkle her flowers 💐 she has done the lord’s work and documented squirting extensively 🤠 yes, there is likely urine components to the liquid but no, it is not strictly urine. hee-yaw who’s thirsty?!

Ashley Elizabeth

She's now saying it was 90lbs in another article I read. I think poodle nailed it, she may be a hypochondriac.

Gracie Ham

Love the movie version of “Teeth”! Poodle if you haven’t seen it, check it out!

Chelsea Raycraft

I don’t like tigerlily but to be fair, she’s 6 weeks post partum. I would and did feel the same way as her and not wanting to wear tight clothes. But I wouldn’t be surprised if she was pregnant again. adnan wants several and she’s 40? 41?

Linda Coy

Yep! And her sister and mom thinking Loren is handsome and a catch is not helping either. Faith’s sister is willing to accept any man, and is reinforcing that she will not do any better. 🥲

Steph 👩🏻‍🦰

Omgggg Wall-E is my absolute favorite Pixar film and one of the best animated films of all time. The first 20 minutes particularly before there is any dialogue. (Wall-E’s love for “Hello Dolly” helps lol)

Steph 👩🏻‍🦰

I hated that this tell-all made me want to stand up for the world’s worst men! I hate Loren but him drinking piss is not the problem. I also hated that Adnan dissed Brian for being a wheelchair user. Brian is terrible but that was messed up.

Madeline Wysong

Poodz! I saw the Avett Brothers NYE show in Charlotte and they brought out the main actor from Swept Away to sing Murder in the City with them. It was beautiful and he was HOT! It makes me happy that their Broadway show was so moving. They’re very beloved here since they hail from Concord, NC.

Lizzy

I feel like there’s a lot of overlap with RFK fans and people who try to heal brain cancer with massage 😭

Laura Vega

Also - "milk and honey...streets paved with gold"? Bro, you drive Uber and you're probably on SSDI. Total American success story.

Laura Vega

That episode of Little House on the Prairie when Laura Ingalls pushed Nellie Olsen's wheelchair down the hill into the mud.

Kylie Erinn

The problem is he doesn't know the difference between what squirting is and peeing.

Lisa

I wish someone would specifically ask Faith if she knew that “sleeping with” is a colloquialism for “having sex with.”

Em

I feel like Loren has a humiliation kink, he wants to see people’s reactions to the insane things he’s saying and gets off on the attention from it

Amy Diehl

I LOVE NILES SO MUCH!!!