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As the couples meet at the altar, they each face the ultimate test of love: Will they say "I do" to marriage or call the whole thing off.?

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April Schmapril

So glad the reunion got bumped up to Sunday. By next Friday I will not remember any of these couples 😴

Lydia

Just wanted to say, as an OG sissy, I love the LIB intro song…it’s classic Mattie and Poods 💕

Rizzy Ramone

I have to push back on what Daniel’s dad said about his sister. His word choice was awful. The way he spoke could be translated to “I was so relieved you were normal”. I know, because that’s how people have talked about me my whole life, as if they want a gold star for parenting/teaching/hiring me. From the first second Daniel was on screen I knew that his family parade her around as the “burden they were blessed with”. I bet they’ve been patting themselves on the back since the day she was born. Not triggered at all….

Laura Taylor

As a nonbeliever, I'm generally neutral on religious folks praying for others, but I really got irked by Ben's friends praying for Sarah post break up. It felt like they were trying to "change her heart." Re: Jungle wedding - I figured it was a nod to Joey being Tarzan (specifically Disney treeline surfing Tarzan).

Ana Patterson

I was shocked by the ladies spilling tea in the truck with their families after walking away from the alter. I would love to know the serious talks they had, that was left out. Seems like they edited the men to “look good”

Brittanny Tucker

We have only had one couple get married since season 5 😂

Kimberly

This is the sisters season. Every couple had a sister arch in their storyline.

Val McCue

Shout out to this episode’s MVP, little Hazel ☺️ And yeah, I said out loud “ouchies” at the end when cutie patootie asked what was going on?

Tiffany Begley

Women responsible for original sin. This is absolutely what I grew up with in Appalachia. I also had some stomach-turning moments during the conversations with family on this season. So. Much. Prayer. It's showy, pretentious, and unnecessary.

Lizzy

I had to watch Virginia and Devin’s at the altar scene twice because I couldn’t stop laughing

Lizzy

She was so cute, but I know the family is going to demonize Virginia to her 😩 instead of telling the kid that it’s a tv show and not that serious

Patchuey

The most shocking moment all season is Poodle not having a problem with the long board.

Melissa Stetzel

For me what stands out is the twinning dresses on Devin and Virginia’s mothers. V’s mother definitely wore it better 😂😂😂

Amy Kalasunas

Music episode was for 100 reviews .... AND IVE BEEN WAITING FOR 84 years !

Val McCue

I’m with you! The way they reacted wasn’t very ‘Christian’ of them.

Indira Mitchell

Love is blind UK is the one with all the gym bros 😂!

Ariel Koch

Well Virginia made the biggest mistake of her life…who else is going to accept that spinster from a broken home???

Melissa Stetzel

Ariel, Virginia is going to be just fine. Altso, 1950 called. They want the terms “spinster” and “broken home” back.

Lizzy

I would never allow that, not just because I personally find it cringe but imagine if he fell.

Lizzy

Her only chance was that children’s basketball coach in debt from shoe purchases with his Head-On (apply directly to the forehead) addiction!!!

Emily K

I did not think Joey was that big of a douche. His behaviour with his friends felt so one dimensional. The LONGBOARDING into the ceremony was so cringey to me. I noticed her face fall flat after he gave his vows. They were incredibly vague and non-committal. I know she had doubts about him being all in and I think that sealed it. After that I could almost watch her make up her mind. She needs words of affirmation(and physical touch) and he could not or did not give her either.

Melissa

The mom from Dinosaurs💀

Amanda Hite

I think they made Monica go first because she straight up said her answer was hinged on what his turned out to be so production was like Nope! We gotta put this girl on the spot and make HER choice (because obviously his was too predictable to everyone else but her)

Sarah Kratt

Has anybody ever told Poodle and Mattie that the sirens aren’t picked up on their mics whenever it’s “Don’t pull over yall!” Haha. Sometimes I even rewind to see if I can hear it, but no luck.

Lizzy

People like Devin’s family: - has medical issue, try to pray it away or use some holistic junk - doesn’t work - bonus step, not required: develop a harrowing biofreeze addiction - finally go to a doctor who diagnoses them and gives them proper treatment - they get better - “Thank you god!!!!!” - Doctor: “…..”

Melissa

Daniel always reminded me of Leonardo DiCaprio a little bit. Anyone else see that?

Anna Mowry

I was so worried that Sara would say yes to Ben and then the show would spin it as two people setting aside their political differences for love. (More specifically, a progressive woman capitulating to a mid dude.) So glad she stuck to her guns.

Lizzy

They IMMEDIATELY started shit talking Virginia as soon as she left! A family of assholes. Don’t feel bad for them one bit, laughed at their dumb misplaced anguish.

Cris Sanchez

So glad Sara and Virginia rejected the trad wife trend that the Bens and Devins of the world are looking for. I fast forwarded through the episode to the altar scenes.

TheKettralWingLeader10

Sad for Ben but ELATED for Virginia I didn’t have a problem with the prayer. I found it sweet. He was clearly heartbroken

Madeline Rose

OMG THE MUSICAL EPISODE 😂😂😂 how many years 💀🫣😂💖

kasha v

The very "no homo" moment of the prayer boys suddenly realizing they were holding hands before they moved their mouths closer together for their Godly Not At All Homoerotic prayer cuddle huddle asking to be wrapped up in Dear Sky Daddy's strong loving arms. 🙄

karla

“Politics are our lives” - Poodle…. 🎤drop

Leslie Kasten

Isn’t Monica’s sister dating Monica’s ex.. she must have brought something good home once lol

jey

could not agree more on all of poodle’s joey takes. i want chelsea to answer for this season’s casting 😆 kudos to sara and virginia for not settling for mediocrity 🙌👏👌 the entire time jojo siwa’s sister sang and played piano all i could think about was the two of you and how y’all were reacting 😆🥹🥲 it was so sweet and she was great.

jey

yeah, it was good-intentions but the impact is so very ableist. it was not ok.

Nicole Lynch

Poodle did a 360 on Daniel???? WTF?

Carey Addis

Thank you for the Ted talk on thin lips! I was just recently thinking about all the “older” actresses on White Lotus this season. They are all beautiful and none of them look fake because they have not overdone it with the lip filler

Rizzy Ramone

Just to clarify my thoughts a bit (I was very tired when I wrote it), I do understand that having a disabled child is challenging for a parent, but there’s a world of difference between having a child that’s blind, and having a child with an inevitable terminal condition like Joeys sister. With the right tools and support, someone who is blind or low vision can live a mostly independent and full life, which it looks like Rachel has. That’s so much different to raising and loving a child you know is in pain and needs constant care. I have a disability, have grown up with many others with a disability, and then for a while I worked with severely disabled and ill people, so I’ve met every type of parent you can imagine. There are ways of speaking about the challenges you face without the ableism, this is not it. ESPECIALLY on international TV. Ok rant over.

Rizzy Ramone

It was PEAK destruction of fragile male ego and I loved it. This is a man that’s never been told no in his damn life.

Tricia theisen

Did y’all see Monica’s face drop after Joey did his little spiel? It was like she knew it wasn’t there. It was super sad

Cris Sanchez

So did anyone have sex this season? I’m trying to remember. Help me out Sissies. This Carl’s wife can’t remember.

Ariel Koch

I’m not lost, just a sarcastic bitch who hated the her mom asking if Devin could accept her being from a “broken home” 😂

Val McCue

And if they did, it was all jump humping 🥱 TBH, I don’t think any of these people were physically attracted to each other and it was all lip service for the show.

fieldnotes

Oh shoot—not all were bitchy. But the bitchy ones stood out unfortunately…

fieldnotes

I think this is the season of the most “no’s!” Or at least the biggest ratio of no’s at the altar!

fieldnotes

I have a friend who lives in Germany, but is Indian (from India, grew up in the state of Kerala), who loves to talk LIB w me every season, and she was asking me why there was so much political talk this season, “is it a Minneapolis thing?” I had to think about it! (I know nothing about Minneapolis really!) I’m from Seattle, so everyone here is no question liberal, you’d have to go out of your way to find a conservative… (but at the same time, they had to recruit from Portland for the Seattle season, haha). So I was trying to explain, I think Minneapolis might be the most 50/50 democrat/republican millennial city LIB has done? Obviously I didn’t do any googling myself. 🙃 Just a guess, and like Poodz said, politics are our lives these days.

fieldnotes

I love to blame casting on “Kwame’s wife” Chelsea too! But last season (DC), I *JOKINGLY* made some social media posts about how Chelsea is ruining LIB and her cousin (who I went to high school w, oops, but don’t even follow!!!) messaged me to tell me it’s NOT her fault! 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ Sooo I can’t even say “wow Minneapolis is a small town city” bc Seattle is just as small! 😩 (don’t narc on me, sissies!!)

Kimberly

I 💯 agree, it would be Daniel's who ends us on a positive...who would have thought the blind sister on love is blind would be the hero of the season. She was amazing at the wedding.

Peggy Ann

The editing in Monica’s bridal suite was OFF. That hairdresser kept magically going back and forth between Monica and her sister

Megan

I just saw a tiktok that Sara found out about Ben leaving his YT business card after hookups 5 days before the wedding!!!! I wish they would’ve showed it 😭

Peggy Ann

I’ve heard about women are at fault for things because Eve ate the apple, but not that her action is the reason for the pain of childbirth and why we have menstruation cycles. Whoah 😳

Peggy Ann

The reunion trailer teases that she backs up what the TikTok was about. Either by her own experience or maybe something she learned

Lisa

Please report back on Virginia’s bouquet if you get some info.

Kristina Vlaisa

“Drinking game alert” Every time Matty repeats Poodle’s last comment 🥴

Peggy Ann

March 18 was the wedding date and it was on a Monday last year. Having the weddings on a Monday was another way to save money after splurging it on the music

Hollan Read

I think it’s a fairly purple state. So yeah, 1/2 n 1/2. But interesting because I always think of it as more blue. Tim Walz!

Hollan Read

I totally thought the same thing. Like she just said no because she could tell he wasn’t in it.

Hollan Read

Evangelically raised here. Yup. It’s all very upsetting. Sometimes I try and explain the subservient role of women that I grew up with to my girlfriends who were not raised that way and they are always shocked. My one friend who was brought up JW gets it, but she’s the only one. We naturally trauma-bond lol

Iheoma Okeke-Banks

I agree with the perspective the editing was way off this season. But I think Netflix chose to do it this way. It was boring AF, because they wanted to show middle America like this. I’m going ‘tin foil’ here, but I think they knew this was going live after the election and edited it for the post election world. Sara/Ben in particular. I don’t believe Ben’s ‘apolitical’ Christian edit would have occurred in any other season. They would have shown multiple other conversations, her friends/family questioning him more, his family showing their “faith” more, etc,

Iheoma Okeke-Banks

I wasn’t a Virginia fan until final episode. I didn’t care for the baby voice, eye lash fluttering routine. But when she said that she was protecting him and it was ‘cultural’, I got it. As a professional, graduate level educated Black woman I felt this in my soul. Virginia was torn between having conversations on screen that would have diminished him in ways she doesn’t want to be a part of, so she said nothing. That’s a strong cultural expectation (not saying I agree with it). I’m so very very glad she didn’t marry him and I have respect for how she handled this season.

Tiffany Begley

Tin-foil hat or not. I agree. The entire season felt off, like there was another edit waiting to be used.

Elizabeth Marks

Yes, but the way it was presented I kind of got the feeling that Sister Monica got Monica's leftovers.

Elizabeth Marks

Too many! Even if it was just a retrospective of all their theme songs at this point I'd be happy (Labor of Love was the best, in my opinion)

Elizabeth Marks

You're probably right. They needed the drama. I actually gasped when they said she was going first.

Elizabeth Marks

My brain translated that talk immediately to "I was relieved you were normal" - unless he actually said it. It was really gross.

Lizzy

Ah yes perfectly put!! That’s why I loved it so much 😂

Steph 👩🏻‍🦰

“Cut to the wheelchair” was hysterical, glad you left it in 😂

Dixon Syder

OOOMMMGGG. Did anyone else half expect to see Miss Karen and Seekits barge in during Devin’s conversation with his dad about how men and women don’t think alike!! 😂 🤣

Dana Tabala

Joey and Monica’s wedding looked so bad all around. Devin and Virginia’s too, but her face and dress were fantastic! He looked like a damn magician! Also, wasn’t it winter?! In Minnesota?! Why are they all strapless and in beige and florals?! Oh, NiCCole looked like she was taking her HS senior photos in that outfit and pearls LOL!

Dana Tabala

When Sara said no to ignorant vocal fry having Ben (Love is not Deaf) and then said “I just always thought I was gonna be with someone who was more curious about my brain and how I think about things” I screamed GOOD FOR U, GIRL! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

jey

same. it’s really hard for people to understand if they weren’t steeped in it. a lot of evangelicalism is cult-ish/cult-adjacent - the version i was raised in was like that. the boys (jake&matt) are so helpful for me with all of their “suck a dick suck a dick suck a dick” and “jesus doesn’t care if you suck a dick y’all!” shamelessness😜🥰

Lalalacey

I’m sorry, but Sara’s whole shtick just gives me “white girl savior” and feels extremely performative. I hold the rights of LGBTQIA people and POCs very highly. These issues are very engrained in how I live my life and who I am as a person. Because of this, when I was dating, on date 1 I would ask men about these topics and if I ever caught the slightest whiff of misalignment, I never spoke to them again. There’s no conversation to be had, no second chances with things like that and there is certainly no getting engaged… IMHO the answer he gave in the pods was gross and told her everything she needed to know. I don’t see how she can be as passionate as she claims to be but then say yes to his proposal. It just doesn’t add up for me… seems like she wanted to continue on the show to play some part to win over audiences. It made me cringe at times and felt a bit exploitative of those communities (and of her sister) to make herself look good on TV. I’m glad she said no and I think it was a good storyline for TV but something about it did feel put on.

mjenkinsify

I know we have our opinions about this season. However, I do think that this season demonstrated like what’s currently going on and dating right now. Which is more conservative men trying to date women who are more left, leaning and kind of being offended by being asked you know where you are on the political spectrum. I get their frustration with that, however, I do think that the women have a right to know, especially if you’re like left-leaning like is the guy I’m dating or in this case potentially marrying like against the woman’s right to choose doesn’t believe in LGBT right you know are they a bigot? Some of them even lie chile until the women is “invested”, or try not to talk about it like in the case of Ben and Devin.

TheKettralWingLeader10

THIS!!! it’s becoming more and more evident that conservative men are just straight up lying or remaining silent so that they don’t get caught up. And the funny thing is that they’re doing this because there’s not as many conservative women running around

Mandy G

Bonnie Rait’s original is the absolute best, but I will say that Bon Iver does a lovely version as well. Either way, that song makes me SOBBBBBBB. 😭😭😭

Liza Windmoeller

As a member of the LGBTQ community and a poc I’ve been saying this since the start. I can’t stand Ben either, but she gave me social justice warrior vibes and I could t shake it. I have been told many times by white women like Sarah (had to delete a comment on this thread because yt people think they know more about being a poc and living in Minneapolis than I do) how I should be living my life. What I should be grateful for. My views are wrong. The damn list goes on. But saying that pretty much just gives people the right to ignore you and think they are right regardless. It’s irritating and i wish more people could question the white savior complexes of so many white people. It’s frustrating. Thank you for pointing it out, because I’m sure if I did there would be multiple people telling me I’m wrong 🥰

Brittanny Tucker

I think Daniel and Taylor were inspired by the wedding in crazy rich asians with all the greenery and the “only fools fall in love” entrance

Steph 👩🏻‍🦰

I agree! If it was enough of a dealbreaker at the alter it should have been a dealbreaker before the even got engaged

ES

After all that was said and done, I’m thoroughly convinced production found a surplus of $$$ since there was nothing to show for and decided to splurge on music licenses lol

mjenkinsify

Yes there was this video that went kind of viral of this girl playing this voicemail she received of this guy crashing out because she had said she wouldn't be seeing him for another date. On the date he had something like Trump was the best orator since Kennedy or something and she was like no... He was saying like almost crying "Everything was going so well, I thought I could be honest with you" Like sir no one has time for your foolishness. Go and find someone that agrees with your tomfoolery and leave her alone lol

TheKettralWingLeader10

I’m sorry but the more I think about it the more I’m convinced Devin and his entire family were trying to scam Virginia. Like all these tears and anger? The upset over the pre-nup… They clearly saw Virginia and her family as a meal ticket. Virginia dodged a huge bullet

Natalie S

Omg your intro was spot on 🤣

Captain of Something

Spoiler alert! In the wake of Devin’s heartbreak, he reveals at the reunion he’s fighting an addiction to snorting crushed up Gas-X tablets 😢

Jujuy

I totally saw that (for the first time) when he was at the altar

Brittney Scott

It seems like one marriage a season is the norm now… Season 5 with Lydia & Milton, Season 6 with that Charlotte couple I can’t even remember, & now

G to the L

I wish I was in my 20s again just to drill dudes about their fucked up political views. Fun fact, the more Republican, the more they liked to get pegged.

Gabby Gencheff

Is there a pod talking about the reunion?? I need to know because the reunion was more drama than tho whole season put together

Jennifer Riester

I've grown very old waiting for the musical episode, he keeps moving the goal posts like so many people on 90DF 😂

Annie

We def need a reunion pod!

Olive

She's able to be performative because these issues have a larger spotlight on them now and they don't directly affect her. Even if her sister is queer, it isn't HER, so she can tap out of the conversation when it doesn't suit her.

Olive

I LOVE hearing Matty's echolalia! 🥰 It's endearing to me... Probably because I do the same thing and don't know anyone else who does it. 🤭

Erica Lynn

Poodle, I think you meant to say, “I respect the BUCKETS out of you,” re: Virginia

Jade Higa

Will there be a reunion recap? Apologies if I missed an announcement about this! I’d love to hear Mattie and Poodle’s take on some of that nonsense, but I couldn’t watch the live because I’m not on the $15 tier.

Reality Gays

Yes! We are collab-ing with another pod, and it will be out later today or tomorrow—it will be LONG!

Linda Newman

Worst season ever. However, I’m kind of looking forward to the union.

Carolina

yaayyysss! i’ve been coming here an embarrassing amount of times like- ..is …it.. posted yet !!!🫢🫢

Becca Horsley

Monica's family's outlook is common in the midwest- kind of like "hope for the best, prepare for the worst".

Courtney Ramirez

Motrin is no-trin, baby. 💀💀💀 I am deeeead 🤣🤣

Kristi Burks

OG sissy here. I’m still waiting on the musical episode! 😂😂😂 the way I cackled when Mattie brought it up!! Also still waiting on that sissy cruise. 😂😂😂