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LOVE IS BLIND: 0305 "Trouble in Paradise" (Patreon)

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Romantic dates and a pool party cement bonds for comes couples but raise doubts for others.  Cole is surprisingly honest, ruffling a few feathers.

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Natalie Duarte

Steve Irwin died from being stabbed in the chest by a stingray's barb (Aussie sissy here).

Kelly Savoie Samora

Stingray! Ahhh! Stingray! (This was me screaming.) Douchebag Barstool and that horrible dangle earring. I’ve been waiting to hear y’all talk about it! Once I saw it I knew y’all would mention it. Raven nailed it in her ITM when she spoke on Barstool’s not saying anything about the real Raven. She made me laugh! She wouldn’t touch Barstool with a 10 ft pole! I think SK is perfect for her. He has enough seriousness and is very cerebral. That’s what she wants and needs. I see a little of myself in her and I knew SK was going to be her choice. I don’t buy Cole’s religious bull. If he was so religious and knew his family was so religious and against this …. He wouldn’t have gone on the show! Something isn’t mathing with him and his situation. Barstool was fishing for his “in” with Raven when he and Nancy were talking after they all met. He was fishing for validation for how he really felt for Raven. He is the worst! A fuckboy is a fuckboy, is a fuckboy. Yes, Poodle, he was setting up his out. I felt so bad for her. Xenib (sp?) has so much hurt and trauma. Watching her is like watching my stepdaughter. Her mother abandoned her as a toddler and would come in and out of her life until my husband got the courts involved. She has so much hurt and trauma. Her behaviors are always validation-seeking. Always looking for compliments and never receives them. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. I think she is so much prettier than Colleen. Colleen is cute, but not nearly as pretty as X. Alexa needs to wear better outfits that flatter her more. She is so beautiful, but her clothing choices do not flatter her at all.

Lois Molina

Thank you for mentioning, “It’s the_____ for me.” It was like nails on a chalkboard.

Rennie
>>94400559

And it wasn’t just Zanab! I was shocked how many of them were doing it throughout the episode

Danielle Kugler

I think Cole came off stronger than Bartise Because (in my opinion) Colleen played into Cole's hand and flirting, and Raven shut Bartise right down

Jennifer Riester

Mattie - that Alexa story was crazy!!! I totally believe it!

Rennie
>>94399066

I think Alexa looks great in all of her super cute dresses!

Georgie

Michelle Collins posted on her Insta that Bartiste looks like Roberto Benigni, and now I can’t unsee it 😂 (@michcoll if wanna see the side by side)

Rennie

My advice is very simple: if your partner, who you love, asks you to rate them out of ten, rate them a 10! Or 11! And especially don’t compare them to another person you dated!

Raie

Nancy IMO did NOT address the Raven Bartise situation head on. She beat around the bush and was being passive aggressive, because she is afraid to confront him as she thinks if she does she'll lose him.

Jen
>>94394759

Just heard this part and keeled over laughing at Mattie thinking it was called a praying mantis. Then (as a Floridian) shouting "stingray!!" as they tried to remember the animal LOL

gendissapoint

Zanab is not perfect by any means but you give Cole sooooo much credit for no reason. He's from day 1 demonstrated he's just an asshole.

gendissapoint
>>94406595

Agreed! Nancy was so passive-aggressive when she put down Raven to Bartise and then also critiqued his taste in women. Head-on would have been, "what you said was hurtful and I don't appreciate the way you talked about your attraction to Raven in front of me." it won Nancy no points from me.

Raie
>>94406595

Exactly!! I think her exact words in that convo were "so you were talking to Raven, how did that make you feel?" Instead of letting him know how it made HER feel. Then she puts Raven down saying she's shocked that they even would have a connection, and tries to sideways get at the issue.

Jessica Pyper

Does anyone feel like Matt was abusive? I slightly agree with him, Colleen should have set a boundary with Cole, because appeasing him only means that he’ll continue pushing—but our conditioning as women makes that extremely hard. But obviously she was into him as well, because if she wasn’t, it would have looked more like Raven and Bartise. Idk. This was concerning, and his outburst in a later episode is as well. I worry that all the alcohol they push on everyone will lead to someone completely loosing their shit on their partner eventually.

Jessica Pyper

Erased, haha. Yep. It was disturbing. I thought for sure he was going to hit her. It’s worse in the last episode. He’s so fucking scary. I’m glad she went to the club instead of coming home.

Val McCue
>>94412142

He was, he acted like a possessive, controlling jerk. I was concerned for her. Huge 🚩

Raie

Matt was giving abusive vibes that made me anxious, and I'm scared for Colleen. I also want to add that Matt doesn't have modern dating experience, he married his HS gf and per Colleen he is not active on any dating apps. His views on what is acceptable and disrespectful and cause for concern are not informed by any modern dating culture which you do learn to kinda let shit go (like oh ya they matched and dated but it didn't work out- ok) Secondly, Colleen and Matt had JUST had that convo on the boat when he tests her and she tells him she would love to tell a guy hitting on her that she's taken!!! Matt is toxic and needs therapy and then do date casually for a year or two before getting serious again and Colleen just needs to grow up.

Nikki
>>94400559

It’s a sad example of people taking African American catchphrases from tik tok and Twitter and not using them correctly and at the same overusing them. It’s exhausting.

Emily V

“STINGRAY!” I was yelling through my laughter.

Tay

My Alexa devices are going wild during the Alexa segment!! 🤣🤣 She even said “did you say find a psychic in your area”. Love you guys and all the unexpected laughter you cause!! ❤️

Jaide

It's the (blank) for me is AAVE that went mainstream and is now overused.

Felicia Thomas

Bartise and Cole seem super similar young, accomplished, oblivious to how to talk to women🤔

Nikki

I know you guys find Bartise so “hot” and thought Raven would just find him so irresistible but um nope! He has a nice body but his face is not that cute and he’s so corny! I continue to think he is a late bloomer. Men who have gotten attention all their lives don’t have to tell other people “ I get attention.” Raven works in the service industry and meets guys like Barf-tise all the time. She can pull sooo much better!!

Nikki
>>94430295

Yessss! Just like Deepti and Shake with “it’s a vibe” every other sentence! It’s AAVE that is overused and not used correctly.

Robin black

My fiancés ex wife took the door off of their son’s bedroom earlier this year; I felt it was a true violation of his privacy. (He’s 18/19 and is suffering from anxiety depression- he doesn’t do drugs/drink/or does anything questionable). He now is living with dad/my fiancé, and is doing much better. I have some strong opinions about her parenting discipline choices and I feel badly for Brennan.

Jilliann Gardner

I agree with Poodle, Bartise was much more hardcore. I do think Cole would potentially act on it if it were reciprocal, but I think Bartise intended to actively try to get with Raven. Also I find both of them not hot at all. I don’t get all the fuss over them, particularly Bartise. He’s in good shape but his face is very unappealing to me. None of the men in this season do it for me.

Jilliann Gardner
>>94434829

I don’t find him hot at all either. I don’t think his face is cute. Even if it were his personality is so off putting.

Nikki
>>94468155

Right! Yea Cole has nice blue eyes but I don’t see the pretty in him and Bartise is not cute at all.

Nikki
>>94434829

Ughh him and the word salad! I think he has to say how good looking he is hoping others will eventually believe it! He was so awkward in the pool with Raven it was comical! “Atta girl!” What is she a golden retriever! 😆

Rose
>>94412142

Everything he said and did, and how he said and did it, was terrifying. That displayed behavior was a massive, massive red flag. He is an abuser. He is dangerous. Colleen needs to get away from him, for her own physical safety. Did you notice how everything he did was her fault, she made him act like that, she wasn't clear, she should have explained it better? That is textbook what men who hit their partners always say "If you hadn't ____, then I wouldn't have had to hit you". Please, please Matty and Poodle, please call this behavior out for what it was. It wasn't just jerky. It was dangerous. Colleen is not safe if she is with him.

Jessica Pyper
>>94412142

He was likely abusive to his ex partner as well. IMO. Maybe that’s why she cheated on him.

__fieldnotes
>>94400559

Raven was doing in the first chunk of episodes released, then zanab said it 3 times within the first 5 mins of the second chunk of episodes 🫠 THEN Colleen said it, then Alexa. Yes, I counted and made note. Where did this phrase come from?! When did it “come out” … I need a timeline!

__fieldnotes
>>94412142

Colleen should’ve set a boundary but she didn’t bc she’s 25 (like bartise) but I straight up felt Matt’s energy as abusive and was afraid he was gonna hit her…

Peggy Ann

I’m interested in meeting Mattie’s psychic

Lisa F
>>94412142

I got controlling/abusive vibes also watching it. I feel like he’s blaming all women for his ex wife cheating on him and he probably needs major counseling to address before getting into any relationship. I didn’t like how he was forcing her to use an “I’m taken” type of response for all future imaginary moments of guys hitting on her. Like…dude…we’re not in the future yet.

Vanessa Blackerby

I live for the "Is Love Blind?" at the end of every show!

Sam Leon
>>94410551

I agree... "it's a Yikes for me" to quote everyone on this damn season. I'm not caught up yet on the show, but even by Episode 5 Cole is giving me "massive douche", I don't see why he deserves any credit for acting half-hearted and insulting toward this poor woman.

Marcy Rodenborn
>>94412142

I was SCREAMING “GET OUT COLLEEN GET OUT!” Matt is an ASSHOLE. I’m sure I saw him being followed by Security in one shot. I was sick to my stomach watching.

Marcy Rodenborn

Does anyone remember that Zinab’s Dad died after a day with the family on a lake? Maybe that’s why she doesn’t get in water

Francesca Tomasini

Ok when my dad passed he would turn our stereo on and off. My mom did this thing to release his spirit and it stopped. I believe you Mattie!

Alexandra MacQueef
>>94434829

I read somewhere that he’s called “Barqueef” which made my day. Today you’ve made it with 🤢- tise. LOLOLOL thanks!

Alexandra MacQueef
>>94405047

Michelle C. said her mom calls him “Barista” lol - I hated his stupid sumo wrestler hair at the reunion

Jennifer Boehner

I know I'm behind.. but I really don't think Amber was pissed about the Sephora thing I think it was what you said about her trying to start a makeup business like every other basic white girl... still, girl needs a sense of humour tune up.

Amy Diehl

Zenib doesn't want to have any fun at all. She is so serious all the time. Cole is so playful & he's trying, but his whole speech to her about Colleen was so cringey. Some things u can keep to yourself homie 🤣

Amy Diehl

I don't think Colleen was flirting with Cole either. I think that fight with her and Matt was all matt's insecurities ☹️