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Transitioning back into their everyday lives in Dallas, the couples navigate frank conversations around finances and meet each others' families.

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Jennifer Riester

I haven't liked Raven since the pods and still don't like her. What does she do? I"ve been a lawyer for 20+ years and can't afford her life. SK needs to run to Berkley and never look back. She also said in the pods that she didn't want/need a man to take care of her and now she wants him to pay half her rent?? Definitely not acting like me!

Raie

Nancy is pathetique and I'm gonna need her to stand up. She is so much better than Bartise and she's letting him treat her like trash. She is seriously gonna let him have access to her money after all the shit he has said to her?! And I'm sorry her reactions to Bartise it's like she's talking to a child- red flag!

Sage Morton

I don't understand how you can say Nancy is is so much better than him and call her pathetic at the same time? I adore Nancy and I truly hope she isn't going to say yes in the end. I think Bartice is the pathetic one and Nancy is just showing how amazing she is as a smart, independent woman more every episode. He is definitely a child-no doubt.

Alexandra Harbert

Totally agree with Matty, Bartiste is dumb. He goes through the motions and doesn’t understand social situations at the least.

Raie

She's looking so codependent to a man who clearly has zero respect for her, that to me is pathetic. She needs to love herself more IMO. It's very triggering for me to see women acting like this over * checks notes* Bartise.

Raie

SK is a data scientist, it's basically the people who decide what companies should do w all the information we give them. Extremely lucrative career.

Claire Pancerz

Honestly, I think she has always been taken care of by older men, and this is a shock for her. Yeah, Pilates + bottle service doesn’t equal her $500 hair lifestyle!

Jessica Pyper

Nancy is a speech pathologist, very different from a nurse tech 😂😂

Natalie Duarte

Bartise is a child parading as an adult, & the facade is falling apart quickly. He annoys the fuck out of me, & then I remember he's naive & clearly has no experience of the world, & then it all makes sense. I love how Raven shot him down in the previous ep. I'm a Raven fan, I don't care if I'm one of the few! It takes me a while to warm up to people, so I understand the distance she maintains.

Nikki

I love how Nancy had the nerve to call Raven “negative” to Bartise and SK as if to plant doubt in their minds about her but it only made her look petty and insecure. Meanwhile Raven is unbothered! I’m team Raven too! That’s a woman that knows her worth and won’t settle! I stan!

Nikki

Hey, if she wants a husband that will provide for her and he is in agreement, I see nothing wrong with that!

Mandy G

This recap just really made me miss Darcey and Stacey. I miss those two so much!

Kai

i think she’s a sugar baby or just likes rich men, which is fine but i don’t know if SK is looking to be that for her.

Nico V

talking about abortion rights by only saying you should be able to abort your disabled child is straight up eugenics and in support of fascist policies. fuck nancy, that was so disappointing to see on tv with nobody to argue against her. and if she was a caregiver of some sort while feeling those children shouldn’t even exist, i feel so sorry for any kids who had to deal with her.

Jaide

I, too, an a Raven fan as well!! I love a woman who maintains high standards and sticks to them. She is my unbothered queen who doesn't walk around skinning and grinning to make people comfy. Love that for her

Jaide

Something about the way y'all talk about Alexa's standards vs Raven gives me pause....🤨

Honora Greenwood Rodriguez

My psychiatrist had 3 daughters and said she took their doors off the hinges more than once when they were teenagers.

Amanda awadjie

Guys I couldn’t figure out who Nancy looked like to me and this episode FINALLY solidified it for me.. she looks like Abby from Frankie Abby and Gaby aka mama con and baby con from love in paradise

Cher W

Angelino who grew up in Dallas here. Busted out laughing when Matt referenced “the” 635.

JK

Nancy is a Speech Language Pathologist

Amanda Schnitzlein

I am the youngest of three girls + at one point my sister did not have a door to her room 😂 we still laugh about it to this day. It was definitely extreme and not related to boys. We loved a dramatic exit and my sister would not stop slamming her door shut so my dad removed it LOL I was down the hall like 👀👀👀👀

Lily C

I appreciate a good candid discussion on abortion rights, but what Nancy was discussing in the first part was straight up eugenics. These children and families only suffer because society refuses to provide the proper accommodations. When we look at suffering we have to remember that all suffering is suffering we enable and ultimately have the power to alleviate.

Lily C

Thank you!! I work in/studied biotech and in an ethics course, no less, heard so much of that eugenics type reasoning. She got me agreeing with batiste in that moment 😭

Nikki

Yes! Why is it acceptable for Alexa to want to be a SAHM and her family to expect her to be taken care of? Alexa doesn’t wear the same clothes twice but Raven buys a coffee everyday and she’s shallow? Come on! It’s a reality show where they all are looking for fame. Everyone on this show is shallow.

Nikki

I’m not surprised Bartise is in finance. I bet he was teased for being smart and considered a nerd when he was younger. The working out and new body is to cover up the geek he feels inside.

Peggy Ann

In the Freaky Friday remake Jamie Lee Curtis took the door off of Lindsay Lohan’s room. I think it was because of bad grades. That’s the only time I’ve heard of that happening. A friend’s mom would cut the wires on the brother’s PlayStation as punishment. The mom told mine and another mother (one day while us kids were in dance class) and my mum and the other mother stared at her and asked why she didn’t just take it away. Every new PlayStation my friend’s brother had was to replace the damage the mother did to the previous one

Brittny

So how does Barista’s abortion stance work? Is it one pass per relationship? Like, he gets one girl pregnant. Abortion. Another girl pregnant by accident, and forces her to keep the child because he already aborted another?

Diana Lee

I’ll be thrilled when we get to the point where we can be pro choice without promoting ableism. No one is guaranteed an able bodied child, and it saddens me how often we as disabled people are forced to see specialists who don’t even think we should exist because we’re such a burden.

Jill Kemp

Alexa’s das looks like Ted Cruz. Yup.

Lori McElroy

Brennan said he was a water treatment engineer but the show keeps putting under his name sales manager. How are these the same thing 🤔

Vanessa Blackerby

I think she looks like a younger Christine from 90 day UK but I can also see the Abby resemblance.

Kelli Cvercko

My son is high needs autistic. I actually don’t take issue with her personal choice if genetics came back, she does get to make that choice with her own body and life. That’s fine. Where I was enraged was her, as a speech therapist, perpetuating the myth that our families are all tragic characters to be pitied. That we are suffering through everyday in darkness and sadness, which is deeply offensive, and simply untrue. This is the autism speaks method of speaking to developmental disabilities, and it’s wildly ableist. Her stating she went home crying every night lets me know she took zero time to understand the families she worked with and their life experience, and merely saw them as sad because they are different. It’s so so gross. I resented her making this declaration, with nobody to contradict her, as a professional that works with our children. She can go fuck herself, and find a new line of work.

Timmi Stepanov

I feel like you guys are way too hard on Nancy and WAY too gentile with Cole…. Are we ignoring the racial undertones of what he said about her name being Zanab and the mental comparisons he was already making to “his type” just from that info? Cole is gaslighting trash man. I’ve been listening to you guys going on 3 years now and this is the first time I have so heavily disagreed with your takes…. Anyway, still love you even though I think you’re blinded by Coles blue eyes and boyish charm. Keep going Queens!

tara s

She is an aging sugar baby. That job gets tougher and tougher as you age. No wonder she exercises every minute of the day.

Jennifer Boehner

I'm a Raven fan too, I usually agree with Mattie and Poodle's perspectives but don't agree with their hate for Raven.. I think she is successful, I think that she is level headed and I think she is used to men falling all over themselves because she is beautiful so I get why she's waiting to have sex with SK. I think SK is exactly what she needs, he is patient and supportive and he is letting her do this in a way that is comfortable for her. I think they'll last!

Sammie Antonio-Guillermo

When he said the girls he dates are not named Zanab made my physically sick. It had racial implications that were more than clear. I am with you on that one.