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After a shocking moment on stage, the cast return to dig even deeper into each other's love journeys; Caesar's love life gets crowded, Tania expands her horizons, and Debbie and Tony face off with Colt and Vanessa.

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TT

I'm so glad they dug into Caesar. I never liked him, never felt sorry for him, I think he's just hunting for a live sex doll.

Julia Praser

I agree with y’all 100% about Tiffany. While I do believe she’s a victim of an absolute monster, her attitude that’s she’s now this “bad bitch” who won’t be walked all over is just her bypassing having to do the actual work. It’s infuriating!! She’s always had this attitude and it hasn’t kept her out of Ronald’s clutches so far. That’s why she’ll either fall back into being back with Ronald or another man who’s just like him. She needs to get brutally honest with herself. I’m scared for her kids more than anything

Tonya Beth

I have been Tania right down to the divorce beliefs. It IS all about her pain. She can’t force her healing and that’s hard to learn. It took me 6+ years to finally deal with my pain in a way that allowed me to truly grow.

Jennifer B

Tiffany is all fucking talk. You don't stay in SA for 4 months after finding that shit out. She's not a good mom nor does she set a good example. She's trash.

Val McCue

Wait until Coltee watches the Tell All with Debbie announcing to the world he’s not circumcised 😬 he’ll bite Pewee right off Debbie’s face.

Alicia Andrews

That’s what I need her to answer- why did she stay so long? Did she stay in his house that long?

Robin H

I can't believe I'm defending Colt, but I hate the idea that you have to automatically respect your parent just because it's a parent-- if they have hurt/abused/been awful to you, you have the right to express that. With that said, I also did not watch their season and who knows what the truth is. I don't know. They are all awful.

Sarah Kirwan

Him yelling "A mOuNtAiN oF rEsPeCt!" while he looks like a mountain goat had me laughing so hard!

Amy Diehl

I do think that Colt was very disrespectful and cold when he was addressing Debbie but like you said you guys did not see their first season and the HEA with Larissa. I think Debbie has always controlled him and everything in his life and now he is finally starting to realize it so he probably has feelings of resentment

Carla Francisco

Did anyone else notice during Cesar's segment (about 10 min in on Discovery plus, wish I could show it here) that the twitter comment Shaun Robinson showed had a user name that said above it, "Blocked by Big Ed the Mucinex Snot?" I died. Also, keep going Queens, I love you guys so much!

Erica Garcia

Oh man I love me some Pee Wee in the spotlight. Sing PW Sing! That being said I think we are seeing Colt on 10 because he is in therapy and maybe realizing some things about how he grew up and his anger can’t be contained. He mentioned it in the first few episodes when they visited. So while I think he’s a dingus- he’s a dingus in pain so I’ll give him some grace.

Jackie Smash

Colt's in therapy?? Have to give you props for using the word "dingus" in a comment 😂 Love it!

Alicia De Toro

I cannot get Love Is out of my head!

Jackie Smash

I've been checking my Inbox every few hours waiting for this podcast ep. to drop!! Can't wait to hear the Debbie / PeeWee skits!! 🤣 (Keep going, Queens!) 2 other things: I did not see silent Vanessa coming with that Shade on Coltee being "100% a child"! I chortled with laffter. Also, I'm over Debbie coming hard for everyone (like Tania, WTH) and then sobbing into Bad Santa's chest like Scarlett O'Hara. Gimme a break, lady.

Jana Wilson

As a child of a covert narcissist I totally understand where Colt is coming from. They will be super sweet and nice to everyone else (like Debbie) but treat you (their own child) like crap behind closed doors. My mom was so emotionally selfish I didnt feel like she was a mom b/c I had to constantly coddle her emotions while she dismissed mine. I took care of not vice versa. I see the same in Colt and Debbie's relationship. I totally disagree with people telling other people to be nice and respect their abusive parent.

Matthew Gates

2 questions....is Mattie single now? Are you willing to relocate to the midwest?? 🤔😍😍

Katrina Coley

I need Cesar to not be with a woman with my same name. 🙃

Bobson Dugnutt

I think that's Vanessa's natural hair and she's been straightening it before! I thought it looked great

Nigel Eliot

Yeah, I am also a child of who could be described as a covert narcissist or untreated borderline personality disorder, so I totally get where Colt is coming from. There's a kind of 'playing the victim' behaviour that Debbie displays, that is so tyrannical and monstrous and can really mess with a person from that kind of household, and is incredibly emotionally abusive. Colt was probably raised as a narcissistic supply, with no true recognition of his emotional needs. I think what makes it twisted is the fact that people like Debbie are so good at 'performing' being emotionally available, which adds to the whole gaslight of it all. The fact that people from the outside of the dynamic don't really see it kind of adds to how messed up it all is. He's totally someone who you would find on the raisedbyborderlines or raisedbynarcissists subreddits. (Not to stigmatise anyone here who may have been diagnosed with these things and are in recovery for it)

Rose

It's clear Colt has been in therapy since his first or second season and he's since realized Debbie raised him to be a babyman totally dependent on her for everything, and Colt now expects this same babying from the women he dates. Debbie made him what he is, and what he is is not that great. When he says he doesn't feel like he has a mother, he means Debbie does his laundry, makes his bed, cooks his well done steaks, and has been completely emotionally absent. Not there for comfort or support or love or understanding, only unhealthy codependence. And when Colt gets frustrated and points any of this out, Debbie starts crying and Colt looks like the mean man who made this poor old woman cry.

Robin H

Not me but someone close to me was raised by someone like Debbie and this explains it so well. Sounds like you've done a lot of work 💕

Tracie

Polygamy is many marriages. Poly means many and gam means marriage.

Jana Wilson

I totally thought of those subreddits too lol. You're right. The covert part makes the abuse so insidious. I'm sorry and wishing you a healthy healing journey ❤️.

AnitaBonghit 69

🫢 Tania, girl.. Debbie all of a sudden had a South Park Terrance & Phillip style flapping head after being in Canada. Debbie: What do you say, buddy? Colt: IM NOT YOUR BUDDY, GUY! 💨💨💨💨💨

__fieldnotes

💯💯 she said it went bad after day 3… so why tf didn’t she leave? She was away from Daniel for 4 months, for what?! Carly isn’t old enough to even remember being there

Yuly

You have to try the fruitcake made by the Trappist monks at Gethsemani Farms. It’s delicious!

__fieldnotes

Serious question, how is Cesar not being arrested for human trafficking…? I understand his new gfs probably got a refugee visa from Ukraine to the US, however, don’t they have to include where they are staying in the US? The fact that he thinks they’re going to sleep in the same bed together and get them both pregnant… really grossed me out. Who does one call to report human trafficking? I don’t even know…

Laura Vega

I think Colt is using therapy as an excuse to blame Deb for everything and feel sorry for himself. He is still a gross sex tourist; mamma didn’t help him with that.

Bre

Great, now I want some cake.😆

Robin H

It would be upsetting if he was actually telling the truth.

anggg23

Caesar is definitely pulling a Stephanie from last season’s Single life and her “French boyfriend” George Glass lmao! 🤷🏽‍♀️😁

Kim Sarnoski

Except that he has sent his dick pics out to multiple women so it's probably already known.

Lisa F

I didn’t notice during the show but I always check out 90 day tweets after the show airs and I saw the person with that user handle tweet out with excitement that her tweet aired. She was stoked.

Jolene

Ya'll broke me with the Debbie/Tony sex talk 🤣💀🤢 My husband told said that ya'll need to go to detention. 😄

Heather Zoltak

Tiffany is an issue, she is exactly like my mom when it comes to relationships. She likes to be the martyr