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Regretting her actions, a participant asks for a second chance.  One man's dishware sparks an argument. Accusations fly between exes at a reunion BBQ.

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Ivette Cortez

Uche can fuck right off making Aaliyah feel like shit for doubting the “connection “ they had in the pod.

ColeenSkygal0330

I was fuming! On the producer’s phone, Uche starts verbally berating her, then she asks to meet him for more lecturing?? Come on girl, you’re better than that, and deserve more. She dodged a bullet with that one.

Claire Pancerz

Honestly, I believe Uche only slightly more than Lydia. Yes, I see the love bombing, but I still think there are some unflattering things Uche hasn’t told us. Side note: Queens, I woke up at 3 a.m. and just HAD to listen to your thoughts.

Carey Addis

I too woke up at 3am and listened. But not from commitment. A policeman knocked on our door at 3 to bring me my sons backpack that he found on a park bench.

Carey Addis

Stacey feels like a transactional thinker. Like everything Izzy does brings some loss or value to her personally. He will constantly be buying her love and paying for mistakes until she decides they are even again.

Nikki

I think production set up the Uche and Aaliyah meeting. But how humiliating for Aaliyah to have Uche be able to berate her not only in the pods but in person too. Production is not doing a good job of redeeming themselves this season.

Nikki

I feel there is truth on both sides. Men that try to paint women as “crazy but yet can’t leave them alone tell on themselves. I believe Uche and Lydia were never in a committed relationship just FWB but they don’t want to admit that on tv. If he is “scared” of her stalking him he wouldn’t have got back together with her to “protect” her. Nah the crazy sex was good and that’s all the two of them had in common.

Nikki

I actually like Stacey. Why is Izzy keeping a “lost and found” drawer of mementos of women he banged?? It seemed very immature to me. Let go my guy! It reminded me of when I was in college and guys would keep random things of girls they would hook up with. She was right about that with him. It came off very fucboish of him.

Alexandra MacQueef

I was raging at an inanimate household appliance when that happened and yelling “You’re in danger, girl, RUN!”

Jenn

Did they say how long ago Izzy and his fiancé broke up? Maybe he doesn’t have proper cups/plates because his ex took them. I also kind of understood his side of not cleaning out the drawer. We don’t know if he was being filmed before she showed up - so maybe he worried that if he threw things out, they’d show that. Not an Izzy apologist, but I fully expect a straight man under 30 to not have his apartment be perfect. It’s more of a surprise when it’s clean and doesn’t have a sink full of dishes.

ColeenSkygal0330

Uche, picking up where he left off with Aaliyah, then goes after Lydia verbally. I can’t stand him! He’s the ultimate gaslighter. “LOOK WHAT YOU’VE DONE TO ME!!!!” Excuse me sir?? Cautiously, I’m leaning toward team Lydia, even though I know she’s cray cray. Uche is pulling things out of his arse to prove his point. He’s so condescending to women. What gave him the idea he could go to that get-together and go off on Lydia?? And THEN, he basically tells Milton to get lost because he wants to continue the verbal diarrhea with Lydia. 😤 I’m glad Lydia walked away, even if she was guilty of Uche’s accusations. He deserved that. He’s 33 and acts 17.

ColeenSkygal0330

I think Stacy is a spoiled rich girl & Izzy is still a frat boy who keeps trophies of his conquests in a designated drawer. Thinking “It’s not gonna go good!”

Jen S

👆🏼👆🏼this right here, took the words out of my mouth. HE IS THE WORST

Tess

I feel like the more I see of Stacy the more I feel like she went to the show to be an influencer and never planned/wanted to get married.

Mina Friberg

I think Stacey and Izzey acted like such gross, immature, mean girls at that party and I’ve lost any respect I had for them. Adult bullies are the biggest ick. Also Stacey is the definition of “daddy’s money”, she’s so shallow and materialistic.

Steph 👩🏻‍🦰

i couldn’t get over Uche bringing out screenshots of Instagram DMs like it was fucking Exhibit A…🙄 Also, it makes me doubt the whole “you sent me a picture of my house” thing because there’s no WAY he wouldn’t have whipped that out too.

Moy

What in the serial killer hell is with Izzy collecting trinkets from women he's f*cked in that lost & found drawer? And a grown man without plates in his house? Even the laziest college guys I knew had plates. Yikes. This is probably a somewhat controversial thing to say. We talk sometimes about how black women on reality tv often have to be careful not to fall into the 'angry black woman' trope which is absolutely true (& I definitely identify with as a black woman), but I feel like there is also a conversation which needs to be had about how dating based reality shows in particular, choose to cast and edit black men (especially if they end up dating white women). I watch A LOT of reality tv, and my base assumption is that every single person that chooses to go on these shows is some kind of creep or douchebag. I mean EVERYONE. But after years of watching I can't help but feel that there is a tendency in casting & editing to play on the fact that society conditions people to be inherently suspicious of blackness, and black men especially; even more so in a romantic/sexual context. There will be literal domestic abusers on these shows who are edited for us to be less creeped out by them than black or brown people. The Uche & Lydia of it all aside, I have no idea wtf is happening there, but the examples of reality show seasons that don't put black/brown people in a villain/ red herring villain role are few & far between and it's starting to feel gross. LIB included. It’s also ridiculous that the show continues to pretend that race plays no role in the couplings. I’m sure it’s just a huge coincidence that very few black women make it out of the pods and outside of Lauren & Cameron they only ever end up with black partners. No way that America, where the overwhelming majority of white people don’t have a single black friend would pick up on race in their pod dates. It’s even more obvious in the Brazilian version of the show.

Jaide

Is it not remarkably obvious that JP, Izzy, and Uche give red pill, manosphere, Andrew Tate vibes??

Jaide

Also, I know everyone loves Aaliyah, but she frustrates the shit out of me. Like girl, STAND UP!! All that sliding down the wall crying, begging and pleading she was doing was just too much. Bird behavior. She don't even know Uche like that and he is mean and rigid to her, but he "has her heart in his hands". I can't 🙄🙄

Rose

Izzy did not want to clear the air. He wanted to shit on Johnie and then immediately ran over to Stacy like a cat presenting a dead bird to its owner. The wording he used. “I RAILED her!” while laughing at how pleased he was with himself. Is Johnie a great person? Meh. Was the ENTIRE little lecture Izzy gave her completely unnecessary? Yes. It changed who he was to the viewer. Petty and nasty and bullying and WEAK (he wouldn’t have done it if Stacy weren’t there). I hope Mattie and Poodle can see it too and don’t defend or dismiss that sort of despicable behavior.

Becky Raeta

Interesting, I DONT think Uche is telling the truth… or: I think he’s twisting context. He’s a lawyer and a narcissist, I wouldn’t put it past him

Hollan Read

1000%. It was the same weird conversation with Lydia in Mexico. That conversation felt fake until now. He doesn’t like these women moving on and being OK without him. He has to run them down/soothe their feelings or whatever he needs to do to feel like the better person who made the “right” choice. And Stacey - cause she’s self aware - could see it and was rightly irritated by it.

Hollan Read

I agree. I do detest Uche though so it’s probably clouding my judgement. I think he’s telling a very specific narrative and trying to make her look crazier than she is. And I’m not saying she’s stable but I don’t know. I somehow don’t think she’s as bad as he is.

Hollan Read

Except for Milton and Chris - I think the rest of the guys we’ve seen are pretty garbagy

Jaide

THANK YOU!! He absolutely wanted to shit on her. And did you notice how he told Stacey that Johnie said they were sketchy but left out that she said that in response to HIM telling HER that everyone thought SHE was sketchy. He's a real POS.

Moy

💯 they are all garbage. The way Izzy was vibrating through his conversation with Johnie was creepy to me. Johnie sucks in a lot of ways but the way he talked to her didn’t sit well with me, and I can’t help but think if he looked different people would be responding very differently to his energy. Then there’s Captain USA JP, he scares me more than any of the other overt douche bags because he’s exactly the kind of guy that society is designed to give the benefit of the doubt. They skate by with a simmering creepiness until they snap. I went to boarding school with too many guys like him.

Jaide

Imma be honest, from the minute I saw JP, I thought...oh he's for sure going to murder his wife and kids one day. Something about him sets off alarm bells in my shahnana

Megan Cannon

I think she’s a bunny boiler, and a Borderline. She’s like a less polished version of the chick in Gone Girl. But he is absolutely a narcissist, and I think in some ways they are evenly matched in their crazy. Not good for each other, but they keep trying to out-crazy each other and neither of them is winning yet 🤣

Kay

Uche is a very dangerous and unsafe person. I’ve been with a person like him, and this triggered me and almost brought me to tears. He wanted to control this narrative down to breaking things off after completely tearing this woman down. He’s not safe. Sis deserves better than this. And honestly, respect is just the minimum and this petty child disguised as a man couldn’t give her that minimum.

Hollan Read

Yes! He left out a lot and spun it so it made him sound better than he acted! So irritating

JenBett

I find it horrible that Uche told Aaliyah that she was crazy for thinking that Lydia signed up for the show because of Uche....but then he confronts Lydia at the party about it. Also, I hate that there's only 2 couples, I can't stand Stacy and Lydia and Milton I feel like are a joke

Sadie Smith

Not sure if this counts as a spoiler, but I saw on Reddit that Carter + Renee got engaged and went to Mexico but their relationship was completely edited out, wtf??

Moy

I’d have been a lot more skeptical of his so called ‘receipts’ if Lydia hadn’t come back with, ‘I don’t know how the Instagram algorithm works.’ I can’t take the idea that the algorithm just organically led her to view the stories of all the women that he followed seriously. That’s not at all how that works.

Alison Batten

I REALLY felt like Stacy and Izzy were very much the Alexa and Brennan of the season after that party. I did not like his demeanor when he was talking to johnnie, as awful as she was.

Bobson Dugnutt

Izzy's 'apartment' is an Airbnb right?? No way that man put together that weird fake flower display. When he said that it was giving Mahogany 'these children's bunk beds are for when I have guests over'

Kristina

Thank you for taking a stand on cantaloupe and honeydew!!!! Gahhh I hate those! They taste awful 😬🤣

Marcy Rodenborn

Oh I was TEAM JOHNIE in that fight with Izzy. He was arrogant and mean. She didn’t do that much. Watch it back - she said everything she said you did. Izzy wasn’t with her and tried to make her feel bad. Love you both but disagree with you.

Bridgid

Poodle, im a flight attendant and your recount of your flight has me in tears... as soon as you said there was a crash I said out loud "the food is all over the floor isn't it".☠️

Chelsea Raycraft

I heard Renee had a secret boyfriend whom she’s now married to and Carter may have asked/begged Netflix not to include his scenes. According to storytimewithrikkii on tiktok.

Carey Addis

I thought that too. Then he said it was My Best Friends Wedding. Very different type of movie 😆

Erika Claeys

Don’t know if this has been posted. But, it’s not a crisis wig on Aaliyah. That’s her natural hair.

Ann Druseikis

I was dying at your airplane story! I was a flight attendant for 21 years and…yeah that sounds about right 🤣 I’m sure I did at one point say,”Wow, this plane is falling apart!”😂🤣

Angelica

Right? It felt weird and off for him to get on attack-mode with her considering that HE was the one who broke up with HER. And then he had this weird adrenaline rush-boner afterwards from bullying her and felt the need to excitedly tell Stacey about it. To me it seemed like he wasn’t over her.

Irene Granados

A place in the sun with Montgomery clift. I think that's the movie they were trying to name. Poor boy trying to mix with the rich family and the woman he fell in love with. He killed his wife to be with her. Good movie.

Jenn

Ever since I learned Stacy was a makeup artist on her IG, I've been waiting to hear Matty's reaction. Can we get a Matty Makeup Corner? I need to hear his thoughts on products and colors that work best for people's skin tone.

Shane Herr

i’m not completely team Johnie but what Izzy did was low. He already broke up with her what is left to say? It might be preduced but still, such an unnecessary, low blow.

Shane Herr

i doubt he’s even that good of a lawyer what he did in front of milton is SO BLATANT any person would see where he’s driving at from the jump. Objection YOUR HONER!

Shane Herr

My theory is Izzy will do anything that Stacey wants just to please her so she can keep his bills paid! he “railed” johnie coz he knows Stacey doesn’t like her.

Me You

Agree. Who cares about that pod drama? Izzy was WAY out of line and going for blood just to humiliate her. This season should literally be called “MEN MAKING WOMEN FEEL LIKE SHIT ABOUT THEMSELVES.” Period. With the exception of maybe Milton (or not), every. single. man has tried to break these women DOWN. Thank fucking god I’m gay (coincidentally, that’s The other name of the show for queer women)…

Me You

Agree. It is getting to the point where his completely flat affect and voice are becoming too much and are too upsetting.

Me You

Agree. I think they sometimes miss the issue of men doing this sort of thing to women as a form of humiliation and control even if the underlying concern is “warranted,” it’s the way these men DO THIS that is a long-standing problem in our society. It’s emotional and psychological abuse to make a person feel that badly for some sick pleasure like that. Please.

Me You

The vibe is: Amphibious men’s podcaster in a gamer chair.

Me You

Yeah but a lot of people dooooo kind of look into followers and stuff. I think it’s odd, but, girl, it’s not THAT uncommon.

Amy Diehl

Izzy and Uche were both assholes in this episode!

Amy Diehl

When you said "Uche comes in and Lydia has diarrhea" I totally thought you were gonna say "Lydia promptly vomited" 🤣🤣