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Love is Blind: 0604 “The Hardest Decision of My Life” (Patreon)

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Tensions escalate when two participants fall in love with the same person--who must make a tough decision. Another contestant puts a ring on it.

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Nicole

Mario Lopez cheated on his first wife, if that counts as being mean.

Laura Taylor

I am the other one who's never seen Grey's. I also loathe "my person"

Carey Addis

Mattie’s first girlfriend had the last name Beard? How am I just now hearing this irony?

Claire Pancerz

I’m immediately co-opting the Epi-pen comment. GENIUS.

Alyssa Holland

Wow, I have a totally different read on Jessica. I think she brought out that letter to her future husband thing to manipulate Jimmy as a desperate last-minute manipulation tactic. He’s a crappy dank towel of a human, but her tantrum at the end was embarrassing.

Claire Pancerz

My queens: he would be some of the financial support for Jessica’s child, and I’m not sure he wants to do that. To me, that is a legitimate concern (that he should have disclosed earlier). There’s more to this than just being a fun, helpful friend.

Julie K

Living for Grunge Poodle. And Jessica’s epi pen soliloquy. I wonder if Chelsea would seem quite so appealing to Jimmy if another guy wasn’t so smitten. Chelsea reminds me of Tsarina from Below Deck Down Under. I want to see Jimmy’s face when he gets a good look at Jessica Fox.

Jessica Silver

Mattie, I’ve also never watched greys anatomy

Rose

Did anyone else notice and get bothered by - and it really stuck out for me in this episode - all these women having this thread of "supporting" your man, propping him up, talking him up, taking care of him, babying him, helping him, being devoted to him, giving him so much credit for the bare minimum ("I LOVE when you call me baby" - AD, giving Clay a prize for fucking nothing)?? It's so cringe and it's driving me crazy.

C T

Same here Mattie. Not a single episode of Grey's.

Tatjana

Brittany and Kenneth remind me a little bit of Kenny and Kelly.. I hope it works out for them. I like them but…

Alyssa Holland
>>129816405

It’s so fascinating because these women are heads above these men, and it’s like they all know they’re giving mid, so the men start negging the women to keep the women interested in them while simultaneously trying to boost their own egos.

Alyssa Holland
>>129791334

Agreed! Plus, she would be bringing him into the home, and to do something so abrupt would be a massive change for anyone, especially someone who wasn’t expecting instant family. But there are day to day things he would have to do, like help with discipline or appointments or transportation. It’s a HUGE adjustment to make immediately.

Brittany McLellan
>>129750333

Lolol right he just seems like a fuck boy??? Didn’t he cheat on her on their honeymoon or something similar to that?

C Iyaji

As someone who is bIack Clay mentioning black love isn't purely optics because being with someone who can understand the issues you face in the world is important and I think that's what you're missing here. Yes he is definitely a fuck boy and someone who wants to be mothered which is an issue, but wanting to be with someone who can understand what you've been through and go through (colorism, racism, issues that are rooted from enslavement - black families being torn apart and generational trauma, etc) can also exist at the same time. Black love is an important ideology which is what needs to be remembered. Also it's Chelsea and not AD who says you fucked her in this season on btw!

Peggy Ann

Omg Sex Tape is an old movie 😅

Jennifer Riester

Generally I enjoy listening to you two chatter on about nothing before starting an episode but today I was screaming in my car "GET TO IT QUEENS" It was such a good episode I had no time for chit chat! I think Johnny didn't want to be with anyone who was "deflowered" and had a child to show for it. He wanted someone with less external evidence of prior hook ups. This is why if I had a kid and was dating I would always lead with that. Not wasting my time if they aren't interested in dating a mom.

Peggy Ann

Chelsea being a mirror of the person she dates reminds me of Julia Roberts’s character in Runaway Bride

Peggy Ann

Mario Lopez hasn’t been too great these last few years. In 2019 he got backlash for something he said about parents and trans children. He’s also joined that super conservative and religious Great American Family network that Candace Cameron Bure joined after her controversial LGBTQ comments and Hallmark gave her the boot

Mary Ajango

Jimmy handled it terribly, but marrying someone with a 10 year old is not just a little thing to get over. When I was dating 100 years ago, if I met a man who told me he had a 10 year old, I would be out. At that point in my life I had no interest in parenting.

Hollan Read

No brag but my husband built Eddie Vedder a custom designed sauna building and so got to spend days at his property in Seattle. And hung a surfboard for him. He likes to be called Ed and is a very nice guy. My husband likes hip hop and so doesn’t care but I was screaming. 🤣

Anousha Nzume
>>129857374

Thank you! And even his ‘baby’ behavior I can understand being black myself. Showing vulnerability while black, is a very complicated issue, for the same reasons (both historically and present) you brought up. I’d love for RG to another collab with 2 Black Girls 1 Rose about this season. It’s very nice to have a black and mixed couple in the mix.

Anousha Nzume
>>129816405

This show makes my hate for straight man grow stronger every season! And I’m married to one 😭

Melissa Smith

I’m not saying dating someone with a child isn’t a big deal of course it is but if that was a deal breaker for Jimmy he should have said so. I think the REAL reason he chose Chelsea is that 1. Another man wanted her and 2. She told him she looked like Megan Fox… come on what straight man is going to not choose that.

Melissa Smith
>>129788988

Was Chelsea not way more manipulative saying she looked like Megan Fox when this whole thing is called Love is Blind?

Elizabeth

Poodz, when you guys talk about Jimmy, all I can think of is Jimmy from Seinfeld 🤣

Alyssa Holland
>>129788988

I wasn’t talking about Chelsea, though. The whole internet has pointed how foolish that was. And the bad behavior of one person doesn’t erase someone else’s bad behavior. I’m specifically talking about Jessica because I had a different take on the situation than what I’ve seen/heard. It appeared, whether accurate or editing magic, that Jimmy was already pulling back from her and I thought presenting this thing that was supposed to be so sentimental and only for one person, felt like a desperate Hail Mary.

Elizabeth

Mario Lopez is one of the best parts of the Saved By The Bell reboot. He’s hilarious. Him and the new principal 😂

Moy

Brittany & Kenneth seem like they could work but I had to side eye her when she said “he identifies as a black man.” Ma’am he IS a black man. I worry that he’s going to have thread the needle as a ‘certain type of black man’ for her/her family to be comfortable.

Val McCue

Jimmy looks like Jesse Pinkman’s not-on-meth brother.

C Iyaji
>>129857374

I understand the mothering portion as well so it makes sense, but getting to the root of his issues won't occur at all unless he has some therapy with a dark skinned black therapist honestly. And I worry about Ken and Brittany because if they stay together and have children she's really going to need to do some deep anti-racism work to raise a child that's mixed.

Tay

I think Jimmy is a dud. Maybe it was the way he triggers you guys BUT my take was totally different on Jessica. I got the feeling she was upset it was Chelsea. Like how Clay was upset it was Matthew. Like a how could he pick that over this type of attitude. I could be wrong now!! Personally I think she won by not leaving with Jimmy.

MicaS
>>129937505

Totally agree. She dodged a bullet. And she’s right—he’s gonna freak when he sees her gorgeous self.

MicaS

Aww, I like Trevor. I would like to see more of him but I think he, like Jessica dodged a bullet. Any chance they could get together?

J Moore

Jessica is a QUEEN! I was cheering. Jimmy is going to cry when he sees her. 😂 😂

MicaS
>>129764995

I have never seen "Gray's Anatomy" either. You're not alone, Mattie.

MicaS
>>129791334

I would never agree to be a mother to children I had never met. He might have known he would not choose her but did not want to get the label of being the jerk who rejected the single mom so he kept going with her. What do people think?

J Moore

I will say, if a man is silent during sex, that's a no. I need vocalizing!! Moan, dammit. 😂

Claire Pancerz
>>129791334

I totally agree. To have protected herself, I would have told him this on the second day so that neither one of them felt they were too invested - or had to reveal themselves as the “bad guy”. He did want to walk away but was very conscious of those cameras.

Chelsea
>>129890733

Yea that “he identifies as a black” man thing gave me pause too. I’m worried she’s the “colorblind” “all lives matter” type and he’s going to have to do a lot of emotional labor to help her understand his lived experience.

Chelsea
>>129816405

Amen!! I hate the whole “my man, my man, my mannnn” thing that’s popular rn

Chelsea

I hated the way Laura acted so mysterious with the whole “he’s not your man, leave now” thing to Jess. Just TELL HER why! “Just trust me”. No bitch, I don’t know you!

Mary Scheske

Yall are def queer sighted: Jimbo didn't ask Chelsea to marry him. He asked the childless Megan Fox to marry him.

Mary Scheske
>>129973338

Okay the first few minutes of the next podcast absolutely validate this comment, thank you 😅

Natalie New

I wanted so badly to watch episode 5 but needed to hear Mattie and Poodle discuss episode 4 and Queen Jessica. Thanks for making the show so much more entertaining. And yes - “queer sighted” - love it!

Aly

Jimmy looks like a cross between Bart Simpson and the comedian Gary Owen 😆

Ben Koutsopoulos

Jessica gave me major influencer vibes before, but when she said "you ruined this for me," and then the comments about how she looks, it made me really feel like she was there to be on TV. I'm not hating on her, she would have been great television. Jimmy is a doofus, but he did them both a favor by not choosing her. It wouldn't have worked out.

Megan MacKenzie

I was on an elevator with Mario Lopez one time and he was super nice and smelled better than human I’ve ever smelled

Ali Balki

Hi… I’m Mattie.. not a single episode of Gray’s Anatomy viewed here

Lizzy
>>129963517

RIGHT LIKE SPIT IT OUT BITCH I hate when people are cryptic for no reason!!!

Lizzy
>>129937505

Jimmy is so dim I don’t know how tf two women chose him

Lizzy

I thought Eddie Vedder was in the room with me

Mary Scheske
>>129973338

I mean ... I see it in the face why people would say that... But men don't fall over themselves for her because of her nose shape lol

marytylermorgan
>>129890733

I kind of felt like that was her trying to sound more woke/educated on race than she actually is IRL

Kim Longo

Love the Greg Louganis reference!!! 🩷🩷

Jeida Mitchell

I feel like Clay was not that into AD when he saw her. Jimmy and Chelsea are going to be so bland and awful together. But Jimmy really should have dumped her right after finding out she had a kid because it was clearly too much for him. Which is fair.

marytylermorgan

I 100% thought Mr. Belding was dead too 🤔😦

Jenn
>>129788988

I agree! I feel like I’m not seeing what everyone else sees in her. I get mean girl vibes from her. She’s not here to find love - she’s here to win.

Becca Horsley

Thank GOD Mattie did not ask if Eddie Vedder is still alive!

Laura

I will say the “my person” thing from Grey’s Anatomy is referring to a best friend someone you consider a soulmate type of friend, a sisterhood, not a romantic partner in any way so people don’t even use it correctly lol

Becca Horsley

I was pulling for Trevor and Chelsea. I wish he would have proposed earlier. Chelsea probably would have said yes. Or maybe he dodged a bullet there. I am NOT a fan of Jimmy at all.

Carey Addis
>>130212585

Not a Jimmy fan. Trevor was my favorite. I was neutral on Chelsea until the last episode. Now I am so glad for Trevor that they didn’t end up together.

Carey Addis

I was at a playground in Oxford, Ohio. I was 13. I looked up and Mario Lopez was right there in front of my face asking me if I could move off of the swing because they were filming a show and needed it. In my shock, I said “oh, AC Slater? Why are you here?”. He got very pissy and said, “my name is Mario”. I said, “ok dude. Calm down. You’re not that famous.” Then walked away all cool. It was one of my greatest life accomplishments.

Charmaine-Joan DePaepe

Wait. You guys think Jimmy is cute? He looks like a toe Also “queersighted” won’t work. Lesbian moms face the same thing in the dating world You’re not wrong about Clay

Rayana Gilbert

Y’all there’s a psychologist on YouTube who dissects 90 day, LIB and other trash characters! “Psychology in Seattle”!!

Molly
>>129992157

i completely agree. her whole speech was so rehearsed. i find her totally unlikeable.

Eliza Gillliam

I actually thought Mr belding died, too

Bobson Dugnutt
>>129992157

Agreed. "You ruined this experience for me" -- no bitch, you ruined it for yourself by not telling these men you had a kid at the first date!

Bobson Dugnutt
>>130297439

LIKE A TOE lmaoooo. I kept thinking "these women are into him for his deep voice, are they going to be attracted to this pale egg of a man?"

Amy Diehl

I can only watch this trash because of you queens so thank you for that!!!

TheKettralWingLeader10

Umm Jimmy wasn’t affected at all by Jessica. The moment Chelsea LIED said she looked like Meghan Fox it was GAME OVER