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Hi there!I'm finishing up my time visiting family, and while it is really hard on me mentally, it's also very nice to see everyone in person again. I'm sleeping at my mother's neighbors house because of a lack of space in their house. My sister is staying there with the girls, as they lost their last place.The neighbors are sweet, and have a cute dog who has chosen me as their newest best friend. It's sweet with puppy love, even through my allergies 🤍My brain has been all over the place, alongside my libido, so a funky mix of audios have been planned! Being on the road towards where I want to be in my life, I spend a lot of time looking at where I am and where I have been. In that, I realize how happy doing this makes me. By this I mean create things for others, things that make a positive difference. It feels really good to make you feel good. Thank you for letting me know that I do through your comments, little hearts, patronages, and maybe even those sweet thoughts that end up in my coffee somehow. Makes the coffee taste really good. You're pretty great.I was thinking we could have little talks in the comments here again.. So let's talk about pleasure..! I give shoulder rubs to family and friends alike - I love receiving and giving muscle-relaxing and de-tensing attention. The feeling of relief is amazing. Platonic love for someone you care about, or even mixed with romantic intimacy too with a partner. Do you have something related to pleasure that is particularly special to you? ❤️ Here's an internet hug.-Crunch

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Ange

Hi Crunch! Hi chat! Not to get too into what is and isn’t a manifestation of which love language, but it makes me really happy to share food with people. I love to cook for my friends and family, or eat food they’ve made or recommended me. From a distance I love to share recipes, so even if I can’t make it for them, it’s the next best thing (I’ll never gatekeep food, if anyone wants to talk food or recipes, hit me up!) I also really really love hugs, so thanks for dropping one here. 🤍

blaze

Crunchy always do what makes you happy in life! A happy Crunch makes us happy too 💜 I think the best physical affection in my book is being a big spoon to people that are way bigger than me. Also just laying your head on someone's lap 🥺🫶

Phantasm Cat

Wishing you all the best for your mental wellbeing and your future, Crunchy (and for those allergies)! Thank you for sharing 💙 My family isn't too keen on physical touch/platonic intimacy, so sadly I don't share this often with them. But my main forms of pleasure, from both platonic and intimate moments, are head scritches. Something about my fingers feeling hair and scalp, seeing how relaxed the other person gets and just melts into the sensation is gratifying and satisfying to me in the sweetest way. Cuddling is a close second. Nuzzling into their neck or letting them nuzzle into mine and embrace each other's warmth? Please. 10/10. Thanks for the digital hugs. Sending many back, along with even more head scritches that convert to sweet sweet coffee energy goodness. Stay safe, meow meow 💙

Vergil

Hi there, Crunch. So glad to hear you're doing well. And let's face it, once you're *the chosen* by the family pet, you have both simultaneously lost and won. 🤭😉 Something related to pleasure particularly special to me... hmmmm... Though I'm not the greatest at expressing anything in particular, the concept of touch is very much reserved for those near and dear to my heart. The simplest of hugs from the right person can brighten up my day without even trying. But for the sake of the actual question of pleasure, I'd have to include: cuddles; foot rubs; back scratches; laying on their chest while they talk and have the vibrations send you to sleep; softly drawing tiny creatures on their skin with my fingertips; and lastly back hugs - oooh, those are great. In no particular order, and preferred if one of these leads to another of these... ☺️ 💜 Sending digital hugs through the internet wavelengths, and wishing you a greatly normal week ahead. 🌹🌹

yellow seong

Hi, Crunchy! Visiting family can be tough sometimes but I hope you end up enjoying somehow 😊 I think acts of service is pleasurable for me. Cooking and driving and doing random stuff for people in particular but I hate it at the same time? I don't know if being the eldest makes me inclined toward these things but sometimes I long for people doing the same for me. I used to looove physical affection and the 180 degree switch from loving it to hating it was noticeable among friends because they weren't used to me not being clingy. But recently the thought of it isn't so bad. I think I don't mind being cuddled and coddled. I think I want the old touchy me back, it made me quite cheerful. Anyway, it's really nice to hear (to read?) that you're genuinely happy 💛 Also, beautiful photo! Thank you for sharing! Biggest hugs to you~ 😙

Amber

Hi everyone!! Hope you're all doing okay 💛💛 I just came back home after a rough weekend and Felix is laying down next to my head, purring and smelling my hair (I think it still smells funky bc it's bleached and dyed blond). It's hard to think positive atm, but I'll try. Platonic affection or pleasure for me is when my friends are comfortable around me, when they feel at home. I enjoy helping others and taking care of them. I'm absolutely not a fan of friends/family hugging or touching me without my consent. Hate it, don't fucking touch me. Romantically? Cuddling, napping and sleeping together, holding hands, kissing (and especially kisses on the nose and hands), spending time together, even just being around them,, god I am clingy af UNLESS it's hot outside, NO touching when the sun shines directly on me 🤺🤺🤺

CarelessWhisper

Hi Crimchi 😊 Hi Chat ❤️ I personally love to give gifts. I live for that "helpers high" 😂 it's my favorite way to show my affection for someone. On the receiving end, I very very much love being petted and having food made for me. Also weirdly, because I've not had much acts of caregiving done for me (I was raised to be the caregiver) I get extreme amounts of joy watching someone perform acts of care for their beloved. I watch a lot of Asian romance and when someone is sick they get a sponge bath or if they are struggling with life their love washes their hair for them. I just eat that shit up. Thank you so much for the update. ❤️

Mrs. Dubose

I love that the neighbor dog loves you. 🥰 You can really tell a lot about a person by how animals respond to them. You're pretty great, too. 🤍 I'm not a terribly physically affectionate person with most people (that's for the chosen trusted few), but as I've gotten older I've really come to appreciate a long tight hug where you can FEEL the other person loving you, or where you transfer your love to them. There's something so comforting and safe about being embraced in that way that just melts my anxieties, and I hope that I'm able to transfer that peace and comfort to the people I hug as well. I also find a huge amount of pleasure in deep conversation. Really getting to know someone that's on the same frequency. Conversely, it makes those moments of companionable silence all the more enjoyable. Today I had the pleasure of traveling with a very sweet coworker and the conversation flowed so easily. We covered all manner of topics, very few of which were work related. Some silly, some serious, some just plain old weird. But it was pure pleasure unraveling thoughts as they came and sparking new ideas and realizations with each other. I do so love a good brain stretch. Your sunset photos are always so beautiful. Hang in there with the family stuff. Sending you a hug right back. 🤍

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Beautiful photography, Love. Take care. ♡ ♡ ♡

Nan

Hi ! ! I love giving hand massages, like really work the palms and knuckles and everything. Maybe that's why I've always been attracted to men who play instruments, because in my mind I think they would love a good massage. And when it's about me, back hugs are my weakness

北落师门

Hi, Crunchy! Glad to hear that you’re doing well! Love your photo of the sun rays! We also saw a beautiful sunset yesterday here in China. I guess that being in nature is the greatest pleasure for me. 💚 Walking through the clear autumn air, listening to the rustling of leaves and feeling the warm sunshine touching my skin are so wonderful. Hope you enjoy being with nature too! Love you!🫶🏼

_S

I feel like my shoulders are always tense and knotted so shoulder massages are nice ❤️ Other pleasures...? I mean romantically, everything! Hugs, cuddles, kisses, holding hands, head pats. Also getting movie-style physically picked up. Didn't know I liked that until it happened lol. Between friends I like good conversation. Or rather, there's pleasure in that feeling of when you spend time with friends and you don't notice the time pass. It's comfortable and fun, and the good times happen naturally. Personally, I like going on music hunts sometimes through Spotify so I love it when I find a new song to listen to, especially if I find a "single repeat" song that I'll just keep smashing out on loop in the car. I'm a serial music hoarder so I have a lot of playlists. I've had to divide a couple of my older ones recently because they were ridiculously approaching 30 hours play time 😅 Aside from that, there's the usual stuff like fresh coffee, a hot bath, lazing on grass when the weather is warm. In that regard I am a living stereotype ahaha. Glad you've safely made it back to Denmark. I hope the situation improves for your sister, and you too. At least there's doggo cuddles to be had. Take care Sir ❤️

Dixpourpre

Hi hi! It seems like pets really love you! That's so cute, just take care of those allergies handsome. For me the pleasure comes in many forms but one of my favorites is coffee. It comes from my family we all love it so I guess it makes me feel comfortable because it reminds me of breakfast together. I love going to cafes and enjoy a cup while I think or daydream, or just look at other people. I also love to prepare it for others, that's how I share my warm fuzzy feeling. I love to just start my day with the smell and taste of it, it feels promising. So yeah coffee... it's a big pleasure for me even better when I share it with someone. 🩷☕️

Acedia

The causal intimacy of just cuddling on the couch with a leg thrown over your partner's lap, or wrapping an arm around them, while watching TV is great. The thing where your head's under their chin and they just kinda nuzzle the top of your head? That's the best feeling 🥰. I'm such a slut for cuddles and touches in romantic relationships probably because of how touch adverse/touch starved I am with every other type of relationship. My personal space bubble is an impenetrable force field is most cases. Sending extra tasty vibes specifically for your morning coffee lol

Lindsay Graff

I enjoy it when someone plays with my hair. It's so relaxing.

Yellow ✨

I miss your photography, Crunchy! I hope today's better for you and for everyone here :) Long tight hugs are an absolute favorite whether as a giver or a receiver, although just for people who are close to me or I connect with. And oh, turning up the AC and snuggling under a duvet is the best. 😊

Labrini

Being with family can be exhausting. I mean, I love my family, and I would do anything for them, but they have an uncanny talent for mentally draining me in a matter of minutes. Except for my nephew, he's my comforting blanket. I've always been very touchy-feely, both with family and friends. Little touches on the back of the neck, running little circles on someone's back, just giving comfort to the other person, knowing that you are there. For more intimate moments, I love having someone's head on my lap and running my fingers through their hair absentmindedly as we talk and watch them experience little shivers. Also, the unexpected kisses, you know, when you're doing something like reading or working, and suddenly a kiss lands on the top of your head. I'm a sucker for that. Additionally, I love making coffee for my people. I don't know why, but I find it very satisfying. I love seeing the delight in the first sip, which is usually followed by a sigh. Time for work. Good morning everyone. 🌞 ☕

june

I'm very late to this because my life is chaos now 🥴 but my favorite is running my fingertips across someone's skin (or my own). My mom used to do this when we were growing up and it's so soothing 🥰

Miss Lilac

One of these days I m going to accidentally discover that my irl crush is my favorite spicy url artist 🤤 My last one still owes me a back and shoulder rub with that perfectly textured bouncy ball I wanted to steal lmao. As for visiting family… my parents are gone. My only sibling is a teen mom, she just moved across the country for school and I get to go visit her next month (which will inevitably exhaust me no matter how much fun we have . ) And I’m now sitting on the floor of my hygge themed apartment; buying danish advent candles (ironically) that came across as advertisements while I scrolled internet. They are stunningly beautiful compared to most American products and more affordable too. My parents were very good at hygge things when they weren’t sick or causing chaos . Now I m super relieved to be out on my own (and also glad to not get tied to a cinnamon pole ) . I have three girl cats. I love hiding from the world in my cosy den and listening to Crunchy reprogram my brain 💜 Which reminds me that I can go get some nice evening wine tomorrow to go with my candleslight and misty autumn equinox