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18+ [M4M] Blurred Lines [Friends to Lovers] [Straight to Gay] [Questioning Sexuality] [Queer Theory] [Lots of bro talk] šŸ˜† [First Gay Kiss] [Fucking his face] [Throating him til he's red] [Riding him] [Cumming inside you] (Patreon)

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jpmaza

Best M4M story of yours Iā€™ve heard so far!

Roan

Wonderful audio! It resonated with me very deeply since everything you said from the beginning insisting to be straight to the end not caring about gender matches my own experiences. Telling yourself you strickly like one gender and blinding youself to the rest...it is just fascinating how much a person can convince themselves to believe something they deep down know it's not right. I still sometimes "judge" myself for being so "dumb" nor realizing from the beginning, hearing that it's a real experience for others too has something comforting. You did a wonderful job again ā™„ļø

Panda

Hey Tom, Panda here. I need to talk about this for a quick second. There are not enough words to describe how much I love your audios *anyway,* but this one especially. I can go on and on about how amazing your acting was or the top tier sfx during the fucky stuff like I always do (and the music in the background? There were multiple instances where I thought I'd forgotten to pause my music in Discord; it was so cool), but more specifically I want to talk about the end. The ending was so... nice. That's the only way I can describe it. Please correct me if I'm wrong but, it almost felt personal. I know that there's a personal aspect to all of your audios but hearing you talk about gender at the end sounded like it was coming from *you* and not your character and it was really good to hear. I can relate to what was talked about at the end. The label I choose to use for myself is bisexual, but really my own attraction to people is kind of a spectrum in and of itself. I was 14 when I came out and in these seven years I've since realized I'm non-binary and my attraction changes from person to person no matter their gender identity. While I experience an equal amount of attraction for everybody, it's still different, and I never heard someone relate to that or even put that into words and I have to thank you for that. Three days from now will be 6 months since I joined your Patreon and Discord server (yes, I went back on Discord and looked) and I'm finding myself reminiscing over my time here and I'm thinking about not only the friends I've made, but also the things I've learned about myself and I must say what a wonderful 6 months it's been. You did great with this as always, Tom <3

HoneyBeetle

Oh what the fuck that was the cutest thing I've ever listened to Tom- when you told me i could expect more M4M audios i got very happy, but i didn't expect to get emotional lmao. You've outdone yourself yet again man.

Brit_a_Filter

I am... well a little loss for words right now. This felt far more personal than any other audio that you've released Tom and it was so beautiful. When it came to the intimacy part I felt like I was intruding, there was a few times where I was thinking 'I should not be listening to this.' It was so special and very very hot. The ending dialogue discussion about gender especially once the confinements of it are removed and you just look at the person you're with, being intimate with them bc of who they are, that really spoke to me as someone who is both pansexual and demisexual. This was amazing Tom, probably some of the best script work and voice work you've done so far, ā¤

Ralph

This is every gay boy who has a crush on his straight friend's dream. I really loved the conversation between the two guys. Everything that led up to the fucky wucky felt organic and made it extremely easy to immerse in. The tension is always the hottest part of sex, not even the act itself, and you really delivered on that. 10/10 would nut again. PS: holy fuck that facefucking scene. ALSJGD;LSAJGD;LDSAJGDSALKJG;LADSLKJGSA;LGD;LSADJG

Tombanter
>>65911091

I like exploring the limits of what we find conventional as a society when weā€™re talking about sex. I am glad for this is something that you resonate with and can offer you some familiarity with yourself. Exploring sexuality and identity is definitely one of the things that I think drive me as a creator in all of my mediums.

Tombanter
>>65912205

It amuses and delights me that you find no sound design to feel so realistic. I definitely do not mix down every single sound that I imagined happening in the scene like I used to do in the past. This is a known technique when creating audio or audio visual art. Itā€™s not the things that you include itā€™s the things that you donā€™t include (negative space) that allow what you have put in intentionally to be heard the way you want them to be heard. You asked me if this audio was personal because it felt personal and I think it felt personal because it was personal for you, not necessarily me. Thatā€™s what I believe after experiencing audience reactions to all sorts of different performances whether itā€™s audio or film or watercolor or piano or whatever. This is a topic that I am very comfortable discussing and when it comes to my own sexuality and deciding what I like what I donā€™t like I am kind of unique in that I never came out because I never thought there was a reason to. I never felt like I was in the closet about anything and I have just been cavalier about it all. I honestly didnā€™t give a shit what people my parents or my family or my friends at the time or strangers in the world thought about my sex life. If they didnā€™t like it they could suck my dick to put it bluntly lol. Anyway Iā€™m glad that you liked this. I donā€™t want to forget the gentleman so I want to make sure that I am consistently creating MLM content. Everybody else is free to listen and enjoy just like everybody else is free to listen to my M4F and M4A and enjoy. But MLM content is scarce in this medium and I am comfortable making it and feel I should! Cheers to six months.

Tombanter
>>65921303

I am a crybaby and a sentimental sap and an emotional wreck pretty much every moment of my life lol. I like exploring those aspects of us especially when we put them against raunchy things like face-fucking. Iā€™m glad you liked it!

Tombanter
>>65921707

Thank you for listening! You are not the first person to tell me that this felt personal to you! Although this particular story or scene is not personal to me specifically, I am glad that I can still tell a good story and make it feel that intimate to the listener. Just curious but what about the intimate scenes felt so real and palpable to you? Asking for science lol. Iā€™d like to know stuff like that because it helps me when creating things in the future!

Tombanter
>>65925481

What part would you say delivered the most tension and why? You should know that I actually had you on my mind while creating this because I knew that you were uniquely identify with it. It is literally every gay boy fantasy lol. I thought it would be fun to do something to honor that for the guys which is how I came up with this. Also, the face-fucking was art lmao. There were so many segments that I added and took away and deliberate it on for so long haha. Iā€™m glad it worked for you or at least I hope it did.

girlonasurfboard

From now on, my comments are gonna be part of a CONTINUUM of thoughts on why gsb thinks tom is so good at this lol. (Already established facts that Iā€™ve mentioned before: you can act, you can write a damn good script, you have a lot of unique personal experiences that you are not afraid to draw on for inspiration. Oh, and your voice is kinda pretty, too šŸ™ƒ). You make porn (and non-porn) with a plot, but you are also making porn with a *purpose*. You write these stories examining some really difficult and emotional themes (e.g., this current piece) that resonate with so many of us and, at least for me, help me feel not so alone in some of my human struggles. Your moans, your beautiful pretty-boy MOANS oh my god. I had an epiphany (I think). First of all, you just moan beautifully period. But I love how you donā€™t moan for the sake of moaning. Like, a lot of porn has the actors making ridiculous, over-the-top noises that just isnā€™t very believable and it ruins the experience. You, however, do not do that. you make it seem like the moaning and noises that you make are involuntary, like whatever you are feeling or experiencing is so profound that you canā€™t help but moan. Makes sense, brah? šŸ¤™šŸ¼ā¤ļø

Tombanter
>>65950509

Continuum har har šŸ¤« I think maybe my strong background in storytelling before finding this gig at least for me having a background like that colors everything I do. I donā€™t set to make things with purpose necessarily but I do create things with the goal of making something of substance. I think those stories end up turning into very human experiences and things that a lot of us can relate to and on very different levels from each other as well. One thing Iā€™ve learned doing this is that there are people out there that donā€™t feel as alone in their situation, whatever that may be, by listening to my work and thatā€™s some thing that I can be proud of. I will try to keep moaning responsibly ha ha. I definitely like playing with the idea of silences and not being afraid to have them in a purely-audio work. Sometimes not saying something, or not making a noise, and complete silence between two people, can convey so much more than words could ever. And on that note I do try to visualize whatā€™s happening as best I can when I am recording these and some of it is scripted and some of it is improvised; obviously the moaning is improvised which I think might help LOL

Syn Unknown

This was wonderfully cute, awkward, and real feeling. I enjoyed the feel of confusion in feelings and not knowing exactly what to do... simply going off base instinct. You could feel the intimacy and underlying unresolved tension. I always enjoy listening to your audios Tom. Can't wait to see what you come up with next. ^^

Brit_a_Filter
>>65921707

Friends to lovers has always been my favorite trope, it feels far more natural and I experienced it myself. There is also trust involved with intimacy especially if you are exploring your sexuality for the first time, so for your first experience with the same sex is with someone you whole heartedly trust like a best friend, its much more meaningful.

Soltarak

I really enjoy the audios that start with intimate conversations. Sometimes the buildup and the tension is more exciting to me than the actual dirty business itself! (Maybe Iā€™m speaking from personal experience here haha.) But anyways, thereā€™s something beautiful about someone discovering a new part of themselves. Someone who is hesitant at first but ends up genuinely having fun exploring new territory.

DanseTheAtomBombDance

Funny story but the way you discribe preferences... I got all thatšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤ÆšŸ¤Æ

Ralph
>>65925481

Oh my god it was the immediate change from "dont tell anyone brah" to begging for tongue to "i am so hard right now". In that instant, all the sources of fear and anxiety coming from the fantasy washes away because not only was the straight guy okay with it, you got him begging for it. AND THEN HE WAS ASKING TO BE FACEFUCKED. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. To me, as a gay guy in that fantasy, the "power" to continue completely rests on the straight guy because I'm never going to demand reciprocation if the guy I'm pining for doesn't want it, and to be completely given that "power" back to me through the begging for tongue, desperately calling for the bedroom, and asking to be facefucked? Jesus my guy. I coom.

Ralph
>>65925481

ALSO CAN I TALK ABOUT THE O-SOUNDS IN HERE. I don't care my headcanon is that it's a real one. That shit was intense to listen to. A+

jennywitha_y

There's something so very special, personal, intimate and warm--not to mention hella sexy fucky hot--about your M4Ms. I have always felt this way, ever since BYLM, which was the very first audio I ever listened to of yours. You have this magic of showing off every nuance of someone's self-discovery that bleeds through beautifully, even when it's confusing or scary. There's a wonderment that comes out in these journeys even if it's awkward, it's still pretty amazing and sexy. I appreciate your time, skill & effort as I always do in bringing your ideas to life. It makes me grateful that ages ago, authors like Forster, Wilde, Waugh, Ellison told the stories they wanted to tell about such situations and were often taken to task unfavorably for them. That persistence, talent and sheer beauty of courage to try and give a voice to a marginalized community has stretched out and found a home here with you and us. TL;DR You do these very well, Tom. Your tenderness and emotion here remind me of the duo from Forster's Maurice--but with less angst and tragedy, lol. And somewhere, in my imagination, narrator/listener would DEF be roaming The Greenwood as hero/man right alongside Maurice & Alec <3

Tombanter
>>65978952

The surprising thing is that I didnā€™t really prepare the listener role very much, much less than I typically do and I did a lot more development on the speaker roll. I am pleased that the level of intimacy is received by most actual listeners as incredibly palpableā€” that is very satisfying. I think maybe developing the dialogue for the speaker kind of lets us assume certain things about the listener and in turn end up developing the listener role by proxy in our heads as we experience the audio. As a person who is incredibly awkward and shy himself I think I relate a lot to the characters that I create with the same traits. I think relating with the character more probably allows me to enjoy the role better which in turn reflects in my performance haha. Anyway these are just observations based on your comment and Iā€™m glad you liked it!

Tombanter
>>65994659

You are not the first person to mention that they thought the buildup and tension leading up to the pinnacle moment actually contributed a lot to the success of the audio. What scares me is that I nearly missed this opportunity because I thought the initial build up was a little too long and people would get bored long before we even got to see any action. I was considering changing it to be shorter. Iā€™m glad I didnā€™t listen to myself lol

Tombanter
>>66020721

I actually have a trait that Iwish I didnā€™t have, and thatā€™s overthinking, and I feel like in these situations it actually helps me when plotting out nuances in a characters journey through an audio. And besides, completely horrifying and terrifying moments of self discovery are probably my specialty because Iā€™ve had more than my fair share haha. To mention the likes of Wilde and Ellison is incredibly flattering. Iā€™m not quite sure that I am innovating or challenging the conventions enough to warrant being put in the same or similar or even adjacent category as those authors but Iā€™ll take what I can get. lol Iā€™m very glad you enjoyed it!

jennywitha_y
>>66020721

Overthinking is highly relatable and also the tendency to ramble on often comes with it sometimes tooā€”or for me at leastā€”because anxiety makes me want to attempt to say a lot while wishing I could do it more succinctly. Itā€™s nice that you allow yourself to overthink for parts of your audios because it lets me pay attention to what youā€™re saying more and attach to whatā€™s going on as the listener more too, no matter what audience itā€™s intended for. I appreciate a longer audio for this reason, itā€™s a more immersive experience for me when thereā€™s a bit of Tombanterā€™s banter going on. As for the author comparisons I madeā€¦you mention time and again about being proud of your community across platforms, about how maintaining a safe space for all is super important. I think that those authors were attempting to reach out and do the same, in whatever capacity they felt they could. And at the time they were limited on how to do that. It was a stressful time for them Iā€™m sure, to have a passionate message of support, kinship or the like, and be dismissed, banned and belittled for it. Their persistence to be seen/read/heard on behalf of people not of the normā€”especially during their different erasā€”probably seemed as if theyā€™d never make a difference. I used them as an example to compliment not just how you use your passion for all creative arts to tell a story but to also show you just how youā€™re reaching people in a way they never could have even imagined and in a much easier and accessible way. There are elements of their MLM novels in your content now, whether youā€™re aware of it or not or even want to consider it or not. TL;DR (again šŸ˜†) Whatā€™s most important here I think, is that you understand that there has been, is, and always will be every conceivable type of person and this comes through in your art and across your platforms. And you probably couldnā€™t have done that without some influence from creative mediums, artists and even these authors Iā€™ve mentioned. You are paying it forward, please be proud of that and let yourself slip between the Same, Similar, and/or Adjacent categories as neededā˜ŗļøšŸ„°šŸ¤Ž

Lisa

I really love those stories. Especially when youā€™re taking time to build up some tension. I definitely prefer those more than just a short audio. You did great as always :)

Whatsacheryl

I love when you talk about sexuality. I havenā€™t really been around people who have these kinds of conversations and itā€™s really nice to see. I also only came to accept my own bi/pan sexuality shortly before I joined your community, so I really appreciate when you talk about it. Also, this audio was šŸ”„hotšŸ”„ and really made me want to kiss a girl