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I normally don't check comments on social media posts because I try to post art and then get back to work or whatever else asap because I don't want social media to become a time sink. But recently I decided to check the comments from my last reddit posts because I noticed it got a lot of upvotes. Apparently a lot of people liked the recent summer pin up I did of Ellie, but majority of the comments were shitting on me for calling her "chubby'". They were gatekeeping the term because they felt like Ellie wasn't "big" enough to be described in that way even though chubbiness is a spectrum. The post was deleted by mods or the filters, but you can still read the comments here. [apparently the post was reinstated recently as of 8/15. It was up for a while and got a lot of traction, then taken down, and now it's up again. That's odd...]The other post is still up here.For the record, I am a chubbier, fluffier, more marshmallowy woman than Ellie. I'm also Asian, so I was definitely considered chubby by my family and by Asian standards. I've been bullied by my family for my weight and called really mean things by strangers on the street when I visited my family's home country. I know from personal experience that my body type and Ellie's body type is NOT the norm there. I'm also bi, so I do like a bit of chub on bodies like Ellie's and even chubbier bodies than hers personally. It's not for brownie points or whatever people were thinking; skinny, fit, thick, chubby, etc--I just find all different body types on women attractive. I may not draw every single type I like, but I typically save that for my personal life.

Anyway, I've showed some pictures of what I look like on here. I'm a bigger lady, so I don't care if someone smaller with less stretch marks than me calls themselves chubby because growing up, the term originally referred to someone with a little extra cushion, whether they are on the smaller end of the spectrum or bigger. I don't know why it matters to people since I was just sharing a drawing I liked and promoting my work like everyone else. I'm not going to bother to explain that to people on reddit, but I thought I'd share it here because the whole thing was silly. [I did end up defending myself but I won't let that distract me from my work]Redditors can be fucking vicious lol they were also shitting on me for drawing a self-insert as if creating fiction / fantasy that caters to yourself and others like you is a moral failing and a heinous crime?? 😂They say "write what you know"; I don't know anyone better than I know myself.I'm not going to dox myself to prove a point, but here's a less flattering photo of my waist. I'm definitely a "marshmallow" girl and I like drawing a bit of squish. It genuinely is just cute to me--I don't think more needs to be said.

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Sarah Mahapure

I feel bad now for not being more interactive but girl nothing about you is anything less than perfect. And one of the reasons I have loved to be here is the fact that Ellie has a little squish here and there. It’s such an unreasonable expectation to always think of main characters as someone who doesn’t have rolls when they Bend over or are squished themselves. Beauty comes in every shape and size. Fat is there to protect organs. Everyone carried weight differently. As long as one is healthy, no one should be saying anything to anyone. I love that Grave has always loved her body. In a way it has always made me feel loved too, as a girlie with a little extra squish than Ellie You are lovely, your characters are lovely. Block out all other noise 🤎

Ally Lambert

Hell yes. Fuck the naysayers, they’re nothing but weeds in your glorious artist garden. I myself am a curvy, fluffy (thank you for the new term) girl. Though I struggle with my relationship with my body I ultimately love my curves, and I definitely love them on other people too. I’ve said before that one of the multiple ways that I relate to Ellie is her body as she closely resembles myself, which makes me think and feel better about myself. I firmly standby the philosophy of “Say/do what you feel. If you piss the world off they’ll get over it.” Definitely don’t ever change🩵💜

Makenzie

It’s so wild how society has trained people to treat 'chubby' like a bad word! It’s literally just a descriptor—and honestly, a cute one at that. Extra fluff just means extra softness and love. Reclaim the word! Your creation is gorgeous just as it is. 💕

ajoji_comic

Thank you ❤️ I don't mind if you lurk silently lol As long as you enjoy my work, I'm happy. I think the issue was that redditors did not like me using the term "chubby" because they felt like it should only be reserved for bigger bodies. Ellie might have a normal body in America, but she would be called chubby in Asia where my family is from. The setting for my comic is also inspired by Asian countries, so she would be considered a bit chubby by the society in SWFTD, especially if people saw her with her belly exposed.

Dristyn

Don’t listen to those people on Reddit that have nothing else better to do with their lives than put other people down. They’re just jealous of your artistic ability cause they can’t do it themselves. I’m a thicker, “fluffier” woman as well and I have been bullied for my weight by strangers as well as family members who think that being a twig with no extra meat is what’s considered as normal and healthy, so I understand how you feel. You just gotta let it roll off your back, girl. If you’re happy with the way you look then don’t let anyone bash you for it. I personally don’t always like the way I look, but my man sure does. He always tells me I’m beautiful just the way I am and he wouldn’t change a thing about me and he makes me feel better about myself.

Samantha Cassidy

The people that call others names are 100% just insecure about their own bodies.. I’m on the heavier set side and even though I wasn’t always, I’m very comfortable in my own skin now. Don’t listen to what the negative people say because you are the way that you were meant to be.

ajoji_comic

Thank you Ally ❤️ I think the issue redditors have with my art is that they want to gatekeep the term "chubby." I've been called all kinds of names throughout my life because of my body so idk why it's suddenly not ok for me to use that term. I'm fine with anyone using it even if they are smaller or thinner than me. It's just a descriptive word that means someone has extra fluff whether it's a little or a lot 😭

ajoji_comic

Thank you 💕💕💕 I agree, it's very cute indeed!

ajoji_comic

Thank you💕💕💕 It's the same with me. Sometimes I'm ok with my body, other times I want to be able to move faster and climb trees and stuff. I'm trying to love myself regardless of what I decide to do with my body or how I describe it. Chubby is just a cute descriptive word, it's not that deep.

ajoji_comic

Thank you 💕💕💕 I didn't think saying "chubby bodies are cute" would be so controversial, but here we are lol

Samantha Cassidy

There are two people, I think, in this world that should care about your body, your doctor and yourself.. your doctor obviously because you get yearly check up so you know it’s all about your health. If you’re on the heavy set side, but you’re super freaking healthy then don’t worry about it and if you’re heavy set, but unhealthy then maybe there’s possibility for growth in terms of making yourself healthier. My doctor has talked to me in length about my health and everything is perfect. Anybody else is just noise.

Dristyn

You’re welcome. 🖤🖤 I’m trying to work on loving myself and the way I look too while also thinking about losing some weight so I can be more comfortable in my own skin. And I agree. Some people are just wayyy too sensitive about things that don’t even really matter. I honestly don’t see “chubby” as a way of calling someone fat. I see it as a way of calling someone fluffy, which to me is also not considered fat.

ajoji_comic

I agree! I think everyone can decide for themselves what is best for their body. It's their life, I'm all about personal autonomy~

Amber

But you make her pleasantly plump in purpose. Sometimes I hate Reddit

ajoji_comic

Yeah, idk why they're so bitter. Some dude called me an asshole because I didn't make Ellie chubby enough for their personal standards lol

Amber

GROSS 🙄.

Ally Lambert

Yes, reclaim the word, I love it. Chubby, fluffy, cute, full of extra softness and love. Like your favorite snuffed animal🧸💕 Who couldn’t love that, right?

DestinyC.

Ajoji, hunny, you are stunning! Lowkey diggin the outfit a lot 🔥. To hell with those that just wanna hate because they want. In my family we call ourselves "fluffy." We love and enjoy food and all the good things in life. I hope you know that you are dearly loved and I appreciate all the beauty you have added to my life. Screw the jealous haters 🫶🏻

ajoji_comic

Thank you Destiny 💕💕💕 I'm gonna keep promoting and doing my best to build the comic and this community back up. I don't have time to dwell on that silliness~

Margaret Miller

You are lovely as you are. I myself am a big gurl, very much apple shaped. I appreciated your work as its hows reality. Wonen should be proud of how they are including their looks, we are unique :)

ajoji_comic

Thank you Margaret 💕💕💕 our bodies should be cherished, it's the only one we've got~

Duck

my #1 favorite thing about both characters designs has always been that ellie is a little chubby and everyone still thinks she’s hot as fuck. it’s never been part of the story that grave is hotter than her or anyone is out of each others league, she’s just normal and pretty. it’s very refreshing

ajoji_comic

Thank you 💕💕💕 I like the dichotomy of chubby to rip lol I feel like Ellie and Grave could have a similar amount of prospects in the real world because so many guys don't care about an extra bit of fluff, while many women aren't always into ripped guys. A lot of them are into more gracile aesthetics, like pretty boys or just less robust features. Honestly, I would like to have a dialogue about beauty later on in the comic. People are so judgmental about couples like this, even in the reddit post there were comments criticizing me for making Grave ripped. They said stuff like it's wish fulfillment and it comes off as me trying to force people to be attracted to "chubbier" bodies, but at the same time people said Ellie wasn't chubby enough to be called that??? Do they think she's normal or not? Can they not fathom that maybe I just find a little bit of chub attractive? I like thin women too, but I haven't felt like drawing that in the past. I do plan to draw more OCs with different body types though, both thicker and thinner. I just felt like drawing Ellie's chub for a while ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

yassmine kelly

As a black woman with a gut and DDD size boobs, girl you are 🔥🔥. I know you said that the beauty standards of Asia are different and because of that you were bullied by random strangers and put down by your family. Nonetheless there are lots of people who like think women. It’s messed up how social media has also contributed to unrealistic expectations and standards when it comes to women’s bodies and beauty standards. As much as I love Beyoncé there isn’t enough plastic surgery or makeup to make me look like her 🤣🤣🤣. Obviously I can’t see your face but I think you are beautiful the way you are and I see nothing wrong with your body

ajoji_comic

Thank you Yassmine 💕💕💕 I personally wished people didn't feel the need to go to extremes to change themselves in order to be loved, but I understand wanting to do things for ourselves. As long as people are happy with their body and they're being kind to themselves, no matter what their body goals are, that's what matters the most 👑