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There is such thinly veiled slutshaming here. People do NOT talk about men moving on quickly from relationships like this at all - of course it's said all in good fun, but I've been noticing an upward trend of slutshaming and anti-feminist sentiment coming back into fashion all over again. Satanic panic is back, Roe v Wade overturned, and Phoebe Bridgers was fucking ostracized by her own fans for breaking up with Paul Mescal just because he seems like a nice guy. Lmfao. This is a micro, but it does matter in terms of the macro and the big picture, and I just feel like I've seen SUCH slutshaming comments being made towards Taylor by her own fans because of all of this. We don't even know what happened in regards to ANY OF THOSE relationships. It reads as shamey. 

Let the girlie and her friends do what they want, it really is not that serious. Can't we just be excited for the music, she was JUST pictured going into the studio again, the dead last thing she needs is her fans all pointing and laughing and calling her and her friends, like, "loose women," like this is 1956 or some shit. 

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Olivia Donovan

They’re reverting back. The zers have done a full 360!

sophie

mm, i liked this post on tumblr originally, but i see your point! people are so shamey, and the phoebe/paul shit is horrific too with how much crap she's getting FROM HER OWN FANS

Anastasia Kill

Just let Taylor and her bitch pack friends LIVE

Em Ev

Speak! on! it! 🫡 THANK YOU!!

Bre Mercadefe

I really didn’t like some of the attitudes of people toward Abigail remarrying. It’s totally normal and these people don’t account for how long some of these women might have been in a less than satisfying relationship. My friend filed for divorce and went public with her new BF the next day because 1. It’s not anyone’s business but her own and 2. She was deeply unhappy and just because he lagged it signing the papers she didn’t need to wait. Everyone is entitled to happiness WHEN THEY WANT IT. Don’t sit around and wait.

mya

let the girlies live in peace

kc

the casual misogyny……

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The worst thing about this is that the gp has been loving and supportig her so much since the start of the tour and the only people you see outraged at her are her own fans. Look how the tables have turned!

Mary Paige

Girlies are allowed to be a little messy

RiskBat

These aren't just sexist ppl. These are ppl I'm convinced never go outside and have almost no fully developed relationships outside of family ties. They don't seem to get how real life or relationships work. Saying she should have stuck with him because he was such a nice guy only makes sense when speaking about a character in your fav show. Not a real person. No one owes anyone a romantic relationship for any reason.

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I have said it before I’ll say it again: misogyny is RAMPANT amongst the swifties in ways they don’t even know. in the same breath that they think they’re saying some forward feminist thought they will say something soo deeply misogynistic

Melissa Ann

It blows my mind that people care THIS MUCH like matty is just some boyyyyy like I know we were all freaking out at first cause it was shocking but it’s been weeks let the woman have fun and write her music 😭

Daisha

“No deal, the 1950’s shit they want from me…”

Melodie Roehrig

Yes to all of what you just said. Thank you! I am HERE for the juicy new music and eras we will be blessed with. We snakes embrace the mess and roll with the punches and Stan the queen. Not the purse. 💯

Melodie Roehrig

Also, fuck the misogyny and America 🤣

malk

it's just very strange that there's THIS much judgement... like i think it only reinforces how strange gender politics are in "fan communities" and how quick to judge women people are. it just doesn't matter what other people do and these celebrities and their friends are not moral beacons.... i totally get that the op made that joke in jest but it also just highlights how much pressure there is to ... Figure Your Life Out by a certain age... these women are like mid 20s to mid 30s... and we're all just trying to figure life out! there's even more pressure on public facing women to follow this heteronormative process... does it really matter? it just kinda reflects how Young audiences are now too... at the drop of a hat you have people saying that 30 year olds are acting like teens or "too grown to be this messy" and she needs to settle down - like these comments come from people who've never even filed for taxes before in their lives i think they should pipe down lmao

Chrissy Bowen

maybe the Purple Smoke song made some points!!! JUST LET THE GIRLIES ROCK!

Elara Elkins

it’s just odd to care this much. in regular life people break up and move on and fuck up all the time. it reads as so shamey and weird when people post stuff like this

emma 🌷

there’s so much misogyny coming from people who claim to be fans

Melina

That is gross. Using this controversy as an excuse to slut shame her or her friends isn’t a cute look 👀

Michaela Wagner

Oh fr fr it seems like w a bunch of the younger generation, women being nice to women is out and being not like other girls is back in (kill me please). Mina Le has a great video on this too Like we’ve only had maybe ??? 10 ??? Years of slut shaming being bad and now we’re back at it?? I’m so tired. Where’s bimbotok when we need it

Lauren Eileen ✨🥀

Paul and Phoebe were SO YOUNG. Nice guy or not, I don’t blame her if she wasn’t ready for marriage. Plus her and Bo make sense tbh, they are very like minded artists.

Drose

I find these fan dynamics so interesting because when Harry styles was dating Olivia she got absolutely destroyed and harassed day in and day out by his fans who absolutely hated her, while he was their innocent boy who had to be protected from that devil who had him under her spell. They will excuse anything and everything Harry does and infantilize him to the greatest extent. On the other hand the swifties are willing to turn on Taylor in a split second. Men are simply never blamed for who they are associating with it is only women

Ashley C

"One night or a wife" becoming more and more relevant...

Blueasice24

I’ve definitely seen some weird “let’s punish the woman for the man’s actions” stuff popping up lately, and it’s super weird. Matty Healy is accountable for what Matty Healy has done. Substituting Taylor in that equation isn’t progressive and it doesn’t help or change whatever he’s said or done. It just makes ppl feel better about themselves.

Taralynn

It's honestly so disappointing that we even have to deal with shit like this still. It really feels like we've started regressing as a society in terms of misogyny.

Anna Cork

especially the abigail comment seemed so out of line to me… she’s not a public figure and she didn’t sign up for this

Clash Fan

Wait, Phoebe was dating Paul Mescal? My brain just made that whole messy connection of Joe and Paul being friends and Taylor and Phoebe working together and becoming friends. Funny, Phoebe's the new Selena.