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Going Through Depression Without Treatment Is Like Climbing Everest Without an Oxygen Tank

Creating a Sense of Safety Is Easy: Just Pretend Bad Things Never Happen

BDSM isn't a Slippery Slope That Sinks Into Domestic Violence

If you can convince someone to honour their feelings, they might find the power to get through one more day.

Suicide Always Looks Back, Not Forward

The Kink Scene Made Me Unashamed

I'm Going To Get Sucked Into a Tornado With Glass Shards and Great White Sharks Whirling Around Me. No, Really.

Why You've Got To Eliminate Triggers From Your BDSM Experience

The Miracle Will Happen If We Don't Quit

And Mind Games Can Never Hurt You

BDSM requires us to break free of tradition. As a woman, I only broke free halfway.

Rejection and Celibacy Were Never the Problem

At War With My Body

BlackHippyChick Day: Getting Published

Criticism Week Day Three: All Writers Need Polishing

Submission Feels Like Stillness

Getting Criticism From Someone Who Can't Read Will Only Teach You To Create Terrible Work

Master One Twue Way Never Became a Real Boy

Criticism Week Day Two: Coping well with criticism is one of the most important writing skills you will ever learn.

It's Criticism Week!

The 10 Commandments of Sex

Short-Form Nonfiction Week: Logical Fallacies

Short-Form Nonfiction Week: The Inverted Pyramid

I Never Wanted To Be Thin. I Wanted To Be Invisible

Short-Form Nonfiction Week: Are You Writing To Your Audience Or At Them?

Proof That Boyfriends Are Hobbitses

Memoir Week Day Seven: Memoir Writing Is the Skydiving Of the Literary World

Memoir Week[s] Day Six: Symbolism

Why Your Distaste For the Word Cis is Irrelevant

I'd Like To Be a Dominate Please

Subs Receive As Much As We Give

Memoir Week Day Two: I Don't Want To Read Your Story

Memoir Week Day Two: Things To Think About Before You Write a Memoir

Someone Was Stabbed On the Way Back Home

Black Hippy Chick Day: Writing in God-Mode

Shame and Suicide Are Intricately Linked

Word Choices Week Day Three: The Sounds Matter

Content Creation With Male Dogs

It's Word Choices Week, and I Have an Exercise For You

Blowjobs Are Objectively Important

The Double Standards Booty Call

Editing Week Day Two: You're a Terrible Editor, and This Is Why

It's Self-Self-Editing Week

I'm the Most Unsubmissive Sub You'll Ever Meet

If You Want Respect, Choose the Right Face In the Womb

In the Kink Scene You Can Buy Acceptance For a Few Cents and a Can of Beer

Black Hippy Chick Day: Adverbs

I Don't Give Mental Health Advice Because You Deserve Better

Woody Week Day One: Imposter Syndrome

Confronting the Challenges of Growth Day Three: Analysis Paralysis