Good Sex Is Reciprocal: Giving, Receiving, and Meeting in the Middle (Book Club Replay) (Patreon)

If you missed our live book club—or want to rewatch—this replay dives into Chapter 8 of Good Sex by Dr. Nicole Hargons and the topic of reciprocity.

We talked about what it means to share sexual power and pleasure consensually. Not keeping score. Not people-pleasing. Not pushing past your own limits. But giving graciously, receiving respectfully, and noticing when things start to feel one-sided, tense, or out of balance.

We also explored practical ways to “meet in the middle” when desire, energy, or capacity don’t line up, and how to have those conversations without shame, pressure, or defensiveness.

If reciprocity feels confusing, loaded, or hard to name in your own sex life, this chapter (and this conversation) offers a lot to reflect on.

Grab the replay when you’re ready. Take what resonates. Leave the rest. 💛