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Hola my dear patron loves. I just posted this to socials as well - but I’m reading and responding to all comments here.


Okay, let’s get this fucking year started.

Bye 2022. Didn’t love you, but you did your best.

First polar swim of the year belongs to you, California.

FIRST OFF Thank you to everyone who came to the dolls show last night … so much rain, so much confetti … photos coming but oh my god, what a truly epic homecoming for our little band.

Happy 2023, truly.


This past year was a difficult one for pretty much everyone I know. May this coming one bring ease, togetherings, and whatever it is you need to feel like you’re back on the ground.

If you have goals and wanna hold yourself accountable, put ‘em here and encourage each other.

We aren’t alone and saying our stuff out loud is nice.

I personally plan to swim every day possible (yes, even in the ice back home), drink less, get outside more, nourish the new friendships I’ve found at home, and let go of situations that keep harming my heart and just aren’t fixable. I want to organize my kitchen.

I want to pay more attention to my patreon, teach the world more about how wonderful it is, and get more clear-eyed about social media and where and how to deploy my voice.

I want to work on a possible new book about the new tsunami of hatred, fear, unresolved trauma, and the disintegration of community and family.

I want to write more advice columns, finish up all the lost projects I dropped in 2019, and get a great team working around my writing work and band.

Way More piano playing. I want to work on my songwriting space.

I plan to write the best damn record of my career and record it.

I also want to figure out more about how my car works, cook more meals at home and waste less food.

I plan, above all, to go easy on myself and know that I am doing just fucking great even if none of these things happen and another pandemic hits and I simply survive the year without dying or having a mental breakdown. 😃

Ok you.

Let’s hear it. Just say it out loud.

x

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Michael Pollock

Happy new year Amanda. Enjoy New Zealand. Hope to see you perform when you get back.

Lisa Jackson

This year I will be proud of myself, depend on myself and look after myself. Years of treating others better than myself. I AM worthy. Self love is not a dirty word 💗🌸

Kim Nagorka

Happy new year, Amanda! This year is one for budgeting, boundaries and wing Chun. I'm excited.

Robyn Pearson

I put this on IG but I'll put it here too. I want to listen more and ask more questions rather than wait to talk. I want to keep working on playing the piano now that I have one again, it's one thing I do that I'm not really very good at that I still truly enjoy doing. I want to cook food for friends as often as possible. I want to make sure the people in my life know I appreciate them . Love you and Happy New Year. '23!!!!!

Zomino

If you need help with Discord, I've learned a lot recently and happy to impart!

Stephanie Rowe

Posted in IG, but cross posting here. I am going to embrace my soul’s purpose and finally start teaching creativity via Soul Collage and any other medium that I can. I want to let go of any and all situations and relationships that don’t help me grow or ones that continually break my heart and spirit. I want to purge my home and make it lighter of stuff and spirit. And I want to give myself grace when I fall and get back up. Again. And again. And again. ❤️

Bane

Happy 2023! I want to take 12 MasterClasses, write every day, yoga every day, do Dry January, finally get my shoulder tattoo, and get back outside! (I’ve been in an uncharacteristic indoor funk)

Douglas Neudeck

I'm trying to decide if living abroad and making more money is worth the disconnect from family and friends back home. I'm torn,and I don't know how to Figure It Out.

Sahrami

This year i want to take better care of my bipolar, watch as many movies as i can and start believing in myself again. The last one will naturally be the hardest but as you said amanda,i can do hard things xx

Mira Ge

I want to use less plastic. Make more art without worrying if it's good. Be kinder to myself and my loved ones, even when we fuck up. The NYE show was amazing. Glad I got to be a part of it. I have a piece of confetti tucked into my phone case for good luck in the coming days

Francine Hibiscus

2022 really was utter shite though in terms of my 60 years of life (!) far from the worst. Adapt or die? Power through? Keep on keeping on? Every new day is another chance, and while we can't control the world we can (mostly) control how we respond to it. I am learning how to navigate life with long Covid, and aging parents with the same. THIS RIDE IS AN E TICKET

Christie LeMaster

Happy New Year. The last one sucked balls for me and I am well beyond burnt out. My only “resolution “ this year is to be kind to myself and really focus on making self care a priority in my life, even if it means sometimes having to say no to something for someone else. You cannot pour from an empty cup.

Meg Amber Rose

Happy new year Amanda, I hope you have an incredible new year!! My goals for 2023 are to regain my passion for making my own art after losing it during a horrible breakdown, learn to talk to myself kinder and treat myself kinder, learn to say no and put myself first more and also save up to and hopefully actually move into my own place, it's time and I deserve peace❤️

Zoltanina

I want to learn to enjoy my own company without needing to silence my brain with a podcast. I want to start a new job and give it all the benefit of a doubt to be exactly what I need. I want to sew a jacket. I want to be there for my 3 1/2 year old goddaughter and her family who are finally going to move close to me. I want to find a new apartment without letting the fear of sparing energy costs stop me. I want to make some art. I want to be an active and happy part of my relationship transforming to something less close and binding.

Nicole Mack (Molly Angst)

I want to lose weight and hopefully get my chronic pain managed, be a better human, mom, wife, nurse…. all while simultaneously recording my bands first album in my new home studio! Sending it into the universe!

Maia Villa

I stopped journaling in 2020. I started the year off journaling and I would love to continue in a nice new journal. I ended the year going on long walks and I’d love to continue that as well. I’d also love to create web videos with friends and new friends. I’d love to keep my job for a sixth year. I’d love to cook for friends. I’d love to go on TV/film/commercial auditions for the first time in my 16-year theatre acting career. I’d love to keep the many good, reciprocal friendships I have. & I’m saving money to visit Chicago & its comedy scene for 3 weeks in the summer! Happy New Year, Amanda. I was front row at the NYE concert and you both rocked. (It was so good to see Brian playing under Astronaut!!) 🔥🖤🥁🎹🔥🖤🔥

Cath Juta

This year is about a house move, I’m going to learn diy to save money. Had weightloss surgery in Aug 22… continuing on that journey. - working on my self esteem and body image. Self loathing hasn’t been working for me. When does it ever. Happy new year, all. May 2023 bring only love and joy. X

Dörthe Genatowski

Happy new year to you and everyone ~ a more healthy and wonderful year hopefully ~ I hope I will get some very important decisions clear and then well decided…

AnaMarija Abramovic

Happy New Year! Getting the kitchen in order sounds like a plan 😃 I want to pay off my remaining debt and get my finances in order. And I want to take things a day at a time and stop punishing myself by denying myself little fun things if I think I didn't work hard enough or long enough on any given day.

Laura Payne

Happy New Year, Amanda! In 2023, I plan to become a veterinary assistant, be kinder to myself, learn to throw away/part with what I don’t need in my life, and make art - something I’ve not done in a long, long time. All in all, I want to make 2023 the best year possible! Love to you, to Ash, and to everyone here! ♥️♥️♥️

Dorit

Had a swim in the north sea on the south coast of Scotland today. So cold but it put a big smile on my face. I guess my main aim for this year is to try hold on to that smile and not take life too seriously. To keep perspective and have more fun. Let's see how it goes.

Liz

The show last night was EPIC! I'm always, and still so blown away by your talent and heart! Happy new year, Amanda! Thank you for giving us a most exceptional way to ring in the new year! This year, I intend to focus on my art in a way that is frightening and exhilarating and hopefully, productive. Most of all, this year I wish to cultivate self compassion; to learn to be a truly good friend to myself.

Bellana

If Christmas was hard, NYE was a joy. I got to see my very first panto (with Sir Ian McKellen!), and I wandered about London and finally got around to seeing some of the iconic places that I’ve missed (in favor of going to cemeteries instead). And I was standing across from the London Eye to see the incredible fireworks. I’ve been to displays that have had a better atmosphere, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen more impressive fireworks in my life. There were so many, and they were right THERE. This year I’m going to be trying to push myself (gently) to be “out” a bit more. As an introvert, I’m pretty happy to stay home and paint, but outside is beautiful, too.

Angel Rosen

Happy new year, lovely human ❤️ I wrote (or finished drafts of) 250+ poems in 2022. I doubt I can outdo that number this year. My goal for writing is to what I normally do. Write when I want to, when I need to, and especially when I don't. I read 63 poetry books, I want to read about as many this year. I want to read every poetry book I own, which is not impossible. I sold almost a thousand books last year (including ebooks), so I hope to sell SOME this year even if it's no great number. I basically am just going to keep saying yes to everything that I have access to even though that often isn't a lot. Grief kept me in a "no" for a very long time, and I ran away from it in June and kept running with all my yesses. They've now halted and I am stuck in an ugly, sticky "no". December is always filled with a freeze, depression paralysis. I plan to keep going to therapy. I don't have any big goals this year because I don't know what I will have access to and when. I have my driving permit, and I want more than anything to be able to learn to drive and get my license. So much of that is out of my control, but if I learn, that will be the biggest accomplishment of my life. I want to keep being active in this community and sharing and supporting. I want to be a part of your team in whatever way possible. ❤️ This "place" is my sanctuary, and I feel like I matter here. I turn 30 this year, which feels so Not Good because I don't have much to show for my life besides thousands of poems and a hard drive filled with pictures of dogs. I guess I hope I learn to forgive myself in some way for what I couldn't do to help myself because I've had to figure so much out on my own. If I get my license, I'll do so many good things. If I don't, my goal is to just forgive myself and try to not lose my mind.

Lauren Wilde

This is maybe a bit silly, but I’m learning to weave and I want to have woven something really beautiful that I’m proud of by the end of 2023. I don’t care whether it’s a blanket or a tea towel, just something that I can look at and say ‘yes. This is mine and I made it and it’s really beautiful.’

Melissa Cummings

Thank you for last night! I didn’t realize that I needed permission to let go and scream it out. So strange how hearing that out loud from outside my own head made me realize that I needed to let tf go. I don’t do resolutions for a variety of reasons, but I do have some things I’m working thru and I will do my best to wake up and do the scary thing, or maybe just any THING, because that’s how it is sometimes. And that’s okay. I feel better than I have in a long while today, so it’s a good start🖤

Erika Ward

I want to figure out who I am in my new home. What things are mine and what scares me. What are my touch points, my anchors, that let me feel like me, feel safe, and give me the slack to explore and fly.

Lynn Robinson

Happy 2023 to everyone. I plan to do more yoga- I feel so much better mentally and physically . I want to walk more - despite the weather. I want to drink less. I want to read more - I have so many new books at the side of my bed and so many books I want to re-read. I want to sew and knit more for family and friends from fabric and yarn I already have. I also want to keep seeing more of my close family - share more meals and time with them and organise some weeks away with them.I also want to reconnect with my brother who I not always had a great relationship with. I want to continue to support the arts - from attending more theatre productions and live music events .

Rod Williams

I have three goals for 2023: 1. To get an E-bike 2. To raise $25,000 from my rejigged business Rods Rocking Research so I can go to Thailand and have my teeth fixed after 20 years of not caring about them 3. Raise $1,000,000 for the Asylum Seekers Resource Centre in Naarm/Melbourne to assist them to restore the dignity of their members that was stolen from them by governments of both ilks when they created the disgraceful distinction boat people in the name of political gain.

Katja van den Doel

Last couple of month I have the feeling my depression is finally really leaving. So I can say with much more heart I hope all of us have the best year we had in a while. I am still working on being self employed as an illustrator and it's slow going but I need to do this on my terms and speed. And apparently that is slow. But I will get there. So yeah for change and make bad things better

Angel Rosen

Beautiful comment. "What things are mine and what scares me"— I hope you discover so much good ❤️

Jenna Bruner

Happy New Year Amanda and Patrons! 2023 brings a wedding for my son, big family vacation, huge move out of Alaska after 30 years. My goal is to be present and enjoy, set boundaries so that I can avoid any toxicity, and be mindful of my own energy, my own needs and go gently into the new year. I wish all of you a very happy beginning to the new year. Let's see where we are at this time next year. 💜

Melinda V

Happy New Year, Amanda! Thank you and Brian for an excellent show last night. It ended the year of attending many amazing shows and it was my first Dresden Dolls show!! I've seen you so many times but this was the experience I've longed to experience. 2023 I'm working to be debt free, I'm challenging myself to be part of a book club with women at work which means reading books I'm not particularly interested in, but I'm going to try because I may learn something, I will learn something. I'll be turning 50 this year (wow) and am planning a trip to New Orleans with friends. I'm excited. I'm not ready to mend fences with my family but I think I may write something that will will eventually be shared with them. I'm done apologizing for who I am, I like me. I'm so grateful for my kid, my partner and my chosen family. Have a very safe trip to New Zealand. I'm so excited for your new music! 💜💜

Amanda WouldGo

Goal: write a screenplay. Strange and scary to think about, but I have an idea, so why not!?! Other goal: see the Dresden Dolls play! (Pssst…Amanda, come near Santa Cruz)

SField

My 15 and 16 didn't want to do Christmas this year (finally! I never want to). It was great and I actually like Winter without the overhang of the capitalist nonsense and people moaning about getting ready for it. So, even more of shunning these fake constructed things that everyone is expected to do is my goal. Except it's not a goal! I don't bother with self improvement either. Enjoy life! It's not a competition and there won't be prizes for running to stand still. Yay!

Drag Queen Jesus

My biggest hope for this year is that I can continue to be firm in my dedication of my life to myself. The next; I am going to start a charity in Massachusetts that is dedicated to getting disabled trans people service dogs and make sure they can have them in the most important places of all, psych wards!! >>>And get one for my F'ing self!<<< I have a bit of a prayer to the universe and that is that I can develop relationships with people that will truly hold me accountable, especially my relationship with myself. I believe the statement "power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely". Well I have found my power. Dear Goddess don't let me every have absolute power! Sending as much care and support out to everyone as I possible can! "Love."

Cathi

Happy New Year. This year I’m focussing on finding a job that works around my vestibular rehab and the new ‘normal’ that I’m slowly accepting. I want to get out in the fresh air more and to scratch the creative itch in some way. It feels like I need to do something tactile and new to me. I want to be open to feelings too, have shutdown too much this last year and I miss them.

Mike C.

Happy New Year to all. Just want to share love. Keep inspiring us to help move the world in the right direction. Enjoy it. Xo

Laura Keenados

That was SUCH A GREAT SHOW OMG. I love you. Safe travels.

Alyssa Sabar

I'm sure I'll add more as the year goes on, but... I want to be joyful. Not in the toxic positivity way, I can't force myself to be happy... but I can embrace all the happy my brain can muster. And I can dive into things that could bring me joy. I also want to learn who I am when I'm not trying to be invisible. I am very quiet, generally speaking, but it doesn't suit me.

Cassie Harris

The main thing I want to work on is my flexibility and mobility. Movement without restriction, as fuller flexibility and range of motion as I can achieve. I also want to complete my social transition and live properly as a woman. If I can find a new job and move out/make new friends as well that's great.

LJ

I hear you on this, Doug! I’m trying to figure out if living in California when my family and many of my chosen people are in New England and wow it is a doozie of a question to try and find the answer to!

T Nonya

I just moved house with my spouse to a better neighborhood so my goal this year is to walk our dog every day the weather cooperates. This is big, I have trauma from being attacked in our old hood. Walking her alone is a BIG thing. I also want to be kinder to myself, I'm plenty kind to others but not so much to me. I want to nest. Bake, cook, sew, upkeep my life in ways 2022s depression kept me from doing. Yeah. Love y'all.

Zoé Grin

"I don't have much to show for my life beside thousands of poems" I pictured a road scattered with thousands of poems and it's actually beautiful. 🌻

Amy Chaplin

I need to read more books! I've really fallen behind on my book piles, so this year I will start to catch up!

Kendall Lovely

2022 was hard. I started out sick with COVID and suicidal and away from my family. I’m still sick somehow, starting out this year still away from my New Mexico family, bedridden and waiting for an MRI. I was supposed to be at the Dresden Dolls show last night, but I’m in too much pain. Heartbroken that I couldn’t be there. A little bit devastated, since I was so looking forward to it and hoping I’d have the energy. I’d love to see the Dresden Dolls in 2023, but that might be too much of a long shot while travel remains difficult with the ongoing pandemic. Be safe out there, everyone.

Sahrami

I wish you all the help with this decision. Im sure youll find the right one❤️

Cassie Celaya

Happy New Year Amanda! The Dolls show last night was AWESOME and so are you! We were right in front against the wall that went backstage last night. It was the best way to close 2022 and start a brand new year. Its also my wife and I’s 7th wedding anniversary today so we are going to celebrate all day! My goal above all others this year is to not say yes to everything and allow time in my schedule for myself and to live life rather than just constantly doing a to do list. And to also pay off all debts. I will do both ❤️🤗 we hope you have safe travels to New Zealand and then back home! Happy 2023!!! Love youuuuuuuuu 🤗

Sahrami

Wishing you courage and strenght and all above happiness for the ride❤️

Laura Heck

I'm planning to publish at least one knitting pattern, eat food that makes me feel good, and stop writing ridiculous "to do" lists.

Rachel Whitmore

Find where I buried myself and resurrect her. When you came on the FB live the other night post rehearsal and you began to play a song, within a handful of notes I knew it was The Jeep Song and it sparked something. That deep seeded knowing, opened a door inside me. It was a glimpse at myself pre-motherhood, someone I have been longing to return to, but quite honestly never devoted enough energy to find. How could I, when I had two small humans to feed, teach, bathe, entertain, clean after, and nurture? But the truth of it is, I have to feed myself, no excuses. I am a mother, not a martyr. I am a mother. Not a martyr. I am beyond depleted. This year my plan is to devote time, even just 1min, 2min, 5min to myself each day. I want to find and get to know myself again and introduce her to my children. All I need now is a way to hold myself accountable.

Lucy

Happy new year Amanda and everyone else. This year I want to finish my masters degree (I can't wait until august when I get a slice of my life back - working full time and studying in the evenings and weekends is something I'm proud of but it's taking a toll.) I'm hoping to buy a house. And I want to offer my body more good things: more vegetables, more water, more happy movement, more sleep. But most importantly I want to listen to myself and go easy when I need to so I have the energy to push hard when it's important.

Róisín O'Connor

Dear Amanda - Happy New Year, and thank you for this space: can I just put this out there… 🗣️I just want to get my 3 surgeries, one for a cancer removal, done. No more cancellations. Here’s hoping the NHS queue gets help. One of the 7 million waiting. It’s already been a year🙏🏻 But also, taking it a day at a time. The focus has become all about love & my people. And living from the heart.

Coila

I'm fascinated by people who can swim in cold. I'm not there but I can almost get it... 😅 So glad the show went well!! Wish I could have gone. In the crowdcast a couple weeks ago, I meant to be nodding along with you when I mentioned my miscarriage after you mentioned yours... And then you and everyone was so kind about it. And it was so comforting. But I wasn't trying to steal attention from your story. For what it's worth. Thank you for sharing the story later, too. And I'm sorry you had to go through all the pregnancy loss that you have. You've been through a lot in general. ♥️♥️

Janet in Georgia

I want to continue to better myself FOR MYSELF. I want to organize my supplies and make more things to put out into the world. I want to attempt to be more motivated to do the things I don’t want to but need to…like actually FOLD the laundry and not let it pile up into a mountain in the corner chair of our bedroom and become an unbearable back straining task 🤣 I guess that can apply to emotional and psychological things as well. NOT to let them pile up. Get them sorted as soon as possible. Cheers to 2023!!! May your best day of 2022 be your worst of 2023!! ❤️

Lynn Parlett

If I may offer a thought? If you have a hard time looking after yourself for yourself, then start by looking after your children's mother. Set an example for their future of being a parent who cares and looks after them AND is strong, independent, fun, smart and knows how to look after themselves. Show them what you want them to become.

Lisa Marie Fuqua

I want to finish cleaning through my mom's house and get both mom and dads homes out of our possession. I want to travel more to my friends homes and visit people and places I have yet to be or that I haven't been to enough. I also want to get back into cooking which means overhauling my kitchen. May your 2023 be amazing!

Angel Rosen

I believe in you. It won't be easy but it'll be worth it. What kind of movies do you plan to fill your year with?

Aleksandra

I simply want to keep working on all that is important for me: my thesis, my relationships, myself. I also want to not give myself up to my anxieties and find a way to love (and not to hate) myself every day. Best of luck to you all in 2023!

Angel Rosen

Good luck with everything ❤️ the vet assistants at my vet's office always made the sad, hard visits much kinder.

Marina Peneva

I don't really have any resolutions... I feel I've been trying so hard already the past few years and all I am thinking for 2023 is - I'd like the year to take it easy on me. I'd like some things to finally be easy, I'd like 2023 to give me a break, of some kind. Not having a potentially nuclear war break out days after I've had my second baby might be a good start? (Ok, I guess that can't technically happen again, but still.) Here we go 2023...

Doug Ryan

Love you. Love you all. Love this. I pushed myself quite a bit last year and would like to keep the ball rolling on all of those things this year. Being more open to trying new things and really getting to know new people . My intentions this year are the same plus some low key additions. I want to learn more sign language. It’s such a beautiful language. I want to go back to Australia and New Zealand and visit some friends and my previous stomping grounds. And I want to learn to dance like Sam Rockwell. I hope 2023 brings everyone all the best things!!!

Sahrami

Thank you angel❤️🥹 I really want to be astonished by new unique worlds and be genuinely touched by the classics and drama. I'll probably cry a lot but it only does good✨️

Carmen J

My wish for you is simplicity and enough, time to learn, wisdom to grow, empathy to accept and that everything you give out is returned tenfold. May you see yourself as others do and focus only on the energy you need. 💜

Angel Rosen

Organizing is so enjoyable and I hope you succeed in all your sorting ❤️❤️

Laura Wellner

This new day of the new year has been a mixed bag, a lovely morning spent walking in the woods with my Fred, but unexplained anxiety hit me this afternoon like something was not quite right. I have puttered in the studio, but nothing seemed to spark... that's okay; I just finished a major project, and there's always a lull in between. A good deep cleaning and reorganizing of my art supplies is in the plan for this week. I went around the house to make sure everything was all right, nothing out of the ordinary. I went to the barn to check on the wee donkey and tinier goat; they were fine...(I am cautiously optimistic that the wee donkey's laminitis will get better soon, she's been her normal sassy self, the medication is working on keeping her comfortable.) I stacked firewood to do something physical, it was a temporary satisfaction. Whatever weirdness is poking my buttons, I'll figure it out soon enough. I poured myself a mimosa...fuck it. Happy New Year!

SewTara

Love the soon to be book topic! The world needs to hear that stuff. I’m going to move more, create more, read more and get outta this funk I’ve slipped into.

Eleanor

Happy New Year Amanda and all of the patrons here :) This year I want to get outside more, get my paperwork in order, and find a way to deal with my depression (that I have been ignoring and powering through)

Jody Linklater

Content warning- difficult life stuff- some trauma ………… 2022 was a very difficult year for me. In May My brother had extreme heart failure-almost ended up on a list for transplant. Had major open hear surgery and survived it all so far. I was in hospital with him for 16 days as support for he and my mom. Then in mid September we lost our girl kitty at 8 years old to a very sudden painful condition it was horrible. At the end of sept I went home for my first visit in 2 years and my dad collapsed in front of me. When he stopped breathing my niece and I did cpr while on line with 911. We couldn’t save him. It was traumatic. It has been the most difficult time of my life. And I’m struggling. I welcome a new year! I need new and better. But I’m feeling shell shocked and can’t thing as far ahead to positives as I’d like. Im sorry to pour this out here. It’s been hard. Im am hoping that the new year will bring joy and I have asked to be referred for counseling from my dr. So there is hope with that. Wishing you all much joy. And thank you for letting me share. I guess my wish is for healing.❤️‍🩹healing for my self and my family. And to my human family-you all. That we all have healing.

angela b

Happy New Year to Team AFP and fellow patrons! I wish happiness and unconditional compassion and love to you all. This year, for me, is about herbs, diving deeper into nutritional herbalism and how I can help folks and the planet by learning more about it all. Also, weirdly/not surprisingly, most of the things on Amanda's list correspond with my wishes for this annum. I am going to write and think some more on my intentions this month. And then ACTION! Love to all. ❤️

Nicole

I've been saying this for years, but I would still like to somehow actually get myself to exercise

Julie Samms

This year I'm going to finish my book ❤️

Alessandor Earnest

I think I need a break from great gigs in the sky. I need to focus on kaizen. I love the razzle dazzle of all my giant projects, but it’s not sustainable for me. If I succeed, I burn myself out. If I fail, I burn myself out and feel like I should have done more. My life doesn’t need to be a hamster wheel of projects, bingeing and purging my own energy. It’s okay to do a tiny thing. A whisper can be as powerful as a shout, and it probably won’t leave your throat sore, yeah? So instead of being caught up in making this the year I do XYZ, I’m just going to focus on what’s in front of me, one day at a time. Today, I will visit a friend.

Barbarella

Firstly, I can't believe you're up and swimming! I'm exhausted from last nights show. You're a (lovely) machine! -I want to work on my patience. -I want to write more. -I want to make more art. (photography) -I want to photograph more musicians and more film sets. -I want to work on my overall physical health. -I want to travel to Italy. -I want to attend Campersand!

Janet in Georgia

Yes it is!! I did a bunch in 2022, buying small shelves and decorating my walls with supplies. I also started doing shadow boxes with other things collected like YEARS of buttons, pins, matchbooks, collages of concert tickets…just anything really to get it out of a bin or drawer and out for all to see. If I’m saving it because I like it or it means something, WHY HIDE IT AWAY TO FORGET?! happy new year angel!!

Jane Waterman

Learn to show my authentic self without fear. <3

DebbieG

Happy New Year Amanda and patrons! I need 2023 to be the year that I don’t lose anyone. Since 2020 I have lost my boss and several dear friends (none to Covid, ironically). I know nothing is forever but it would be nice to have a break from loss. I need to stop stressing about things I cannot control ( like death and bad weather) and focus on the things I can (getting rid of stuff). Glad the concert was great, looking forward to reports!

Barbarella

I'm not sure where you live, but I traveled to Algodones, right over the AZ border to get my teeth fixed. It's a small town dedicated to dentistry.

Shanna Wall

Thank you for being unafraid to share your true raw authentic self, and for being real about how goddamn horrible these past few years have been. I’m a nurse, so you can guess how they’ve been for me. It reminds me that I’m not alone in that experience. This year, I would like to get my shit together. Leave my job for a better one. Write again. Read more books. Have a healthy relationship with food and my body. Get my finances in order. Spend time outside. Train the dogs more. Be more decisive. Adopt some healthy coping skills for when shit inevitably hits the fan again. Spend less time grocery shopping. And also like you, be at peace if none of these things are accomplished and stop beating myself up when I fall an inch short of my goals, because I’m doing my best and it’s really fucking hard to exist in the world right now.

Mollie Isaacks

Happy New Year! So glad to see 2022 in the rear view mirror. It was the year all my façades broke and anxiety and burnout took over. It wasn’t supposed to be that way, it started out as a year of growth and looking forward. Instead, I spent the last half of the year trying to figure out who I was, what I needed, and how to move forward. I think I may finally be rounding the corner on my trauma recovery work with my therapist and coaches/friends. I am focusing in 2023 on how to be the real me, maybe for the first time in my life, and build a new world for myself with my own business and new creative projects. I hope that everyone here finds some small bit of peace and joy that you’re searching for in this new year. ❤️

Liz

Of course you already know the answer to how to figure this out, right? Twitter vote!

Liz

Wishing you good luck, extra energy, and loving support and fellowship. I've been seeing some of the Long Covid community bumping into the activists of the 50+ year old disability activist community but...you're tired and it's hard to just BE. <3

Samaire Wynne

I'm an author and I personally plan to write and market my books every day possible, drink less, get outside more, nourish any new friendships I’ can find/start,, and let go of situations that keep harming my heart and just aren’t fixable. I want to organize the middle floor of my house. I also want to get to the gym several times per week, work on my anxiety, and try to get better sleep. When I only get 3 hours of sleep it literally makes me ill, and that's what's happened the last two nights. I want to worry less, and smile more. I want to stay up to date with all my goals and not fall behind.

Liz

Thousands of poems makes you an extraordinary human, Angel. And there's no rule about age 30. I wrote a musical in my 50s.

Liz

I hope your health improves and that things get figured out. <3

Liz

That's really a lot, Jody. It's OK to focus on the daily stuff of life and not worry about stuff ahead. It takes time to grieve, you get as long as you need. I hope you find a wonderful counselor and sleep and rest and eat good food as you heal.

Issa Rodri

Here's to surviving. Been burned out, still in the middle of recovery, working a part time job that pays enough of a dent of the revolving bills. You can do it! ✨️

Tyler Criswell

Ive been a fan for a long time. But last night was the first time I was able to see you live. I flew across the country for the NYE show last night. So glad I did, it was a blast! A wonderful way to see off 2022 primal scream therapy and all.

Stephanie Quinlan

I so wish I could have been there last night, but I also had a lovely evening with people who are dear to me. After two NYEs spent in isolation, to celebrate with people felt like such a balm. As I thought about the things I want to accomplish, I realized they fall into two distinct but related categories; specific tangible things I want to do, and understanding what has prevented me from doing them in the past so I can stop wrestling with myself over them. I want to read more. I want to write more. I want to dig into why I want to read and write more, and connect with what will actually motivate me to do it. For example, I always wondered why it's so easy to make time to read while on vacation, and I just figured it out. In my day to day life, I'm TIRED at the end of the day. Work, gym, house, errands. I wish I had more energy to read or write at the end of a long work day, but I often don't. So how I can arrange my days to have more time and energy for what I love? More yoga and working out. I love the results and I feel better when I do it, but it often feels like a chore. How can I shift from "I have to work out" to "I get to work out". There's a hard topic I've been putting off addressing in therapy. I want to start tackling it. I want to finish that huge cross stitch project I started in late 2021. I want to practice calligraphy again. I want to sit in local bars and cafes with a good book, or a pen and notebook. Or both. I want to keep weaning myself off social media.

Liz

I moved my big projects forward, all of them, at least a little bit, in 2022. I'd hoped to have them all further along but that's the way it goes. And there were some unexpected good things. In the year to come, all I can wish for is that I keep them moving. I was hoping for a big career change in 2022 but perhaps that will happen in 2023.

Liz

PS The show last night was awesome! I was with Betsy and Scott right up front, and Scott held Amanda's beer when she jumped over the barrier to get back on stage. Great to be in a room full of beautiful people hearing music LIVE AND IN PERSON!

Chris Valentine

The NYE show was a-fucking-mazing! I’ve missed your beautiful faces. Exciting to hear that Brian lives here now. There were some really awful parts about the last three years (and some positive parts), but I can feel a shift that has already begun and 2023 is going to be great! No resolutions for me, but I’ll be turning 40 this year and doing everything I can to achieve artistic independence and leave the traditional corporate world for good. We all got this! 💙

Jenny Hippensteal

I finally got to see you perform in Woodstock! Can’t wait for that to happen again! My best friend from home (PA) introduced me to The Dresden Dolls some time ago and we were waiting for you to perform for what seemed like forever. Not the point of your post I know but I managed to get he and I tickets and made him beyond happy! He is legit the best and I miss him every day (I moved to NC during the pandemic to be closer to my grandma who is essentially my mother). Regardless I thank you for being you and being real. This year I just have the goal on working on myself in every way, mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. Learning to love me for me and realizing that I’m not hard to love, I’m just not for everyone and that’s okay. Just thank you for everything. I’m so grateful to be a part of this. 🖤

Stacy Belinsky

*this* type of post and conversation is why I stay here. I'm working on simplifying, starting with getting rid of physical things and reorganizing. I really want to have a regular group of friends who'll have meaningful conversations and automatically include me in outing invitations, plus just check in. The people I had are gone or slightly more superficial. So glad you are returning to NZ. I can't wait to read your experiences from that. Happy 2023!

ghostKat

Read more Get better at sleeping Make cool art Make music from the soul, for the soul Speak more on the phone, less texting Share and hold more space with others Stay curious and open Love deeply Organize kitchen ;)

Sandra Marek

Happy new year. I wish everyone reading this all of the prosperity, kindnesses and love I can muster. We’ve all been through the wringer this last year and damn, what a washing machine it’s been. I would like to invite more kindness, spirituality, and introspection into this year. Spend more time in nature, doing yoga and meditation. Teaching me kid something fun, helping her thrive and foster growth. I need some brand of stability and security, a place to call home. My family needs that too. I am welcoming in these versions of success and will work toward them. I hope that each of you find what makes your heart sing and that you all feel safe and supported. Sending love from the frosty Midwest.

Tessa

Manifesting love in all aspects of my being❤️Doing things that bring me out of my comfort zone. Being a fierce strong female!This year will be epic!! Sending 💕

Gabrielle Shearer

I'll be an empty nester this year after 10 years as a single mama. I plan to ramble more, move more and get strong, cook for fun, read my book pile, draw, spend more time with friends, grow more food, and work more on my home

EmVT

Jody, I'm so sorry for all the trauma you and your family endured last year, for the loss of your dad, and your kitty. All the best to you and your family as you heal ❤️‍🩹

EmVT

Hi AmandaWouldGo, if I may make a recommendation, I've recently encountered a YouTube channel called "Film Courage" that has a lot of really interesting interviews on writing screenplays and such, from experts in movie and TV industry "https://www.youtube.com/@filmcourage" I know absolutely nothing about screenplays, you probably already know what you're doing! But from a storytelling point of view these interviews are very enlightening. People in the comments (many of whom seem to be writers) rave about how good / true / helpful the interviews are. May you have a wonderful 2023 (including getting to see the Dolls play)! 😎

Tracie

These are the 8 goals I have written in my journal for 2023... - Have house project finished. - Enjoy live performances. - Complete Day Zero project. - Good day routines. - Write to my friend monthly. - Have a witches garden. - Make Connections. - More nature. 1) Have house project finished - major renovations/repairs to my house. Its very necessary but incredibly stressful. Getting a very large mortgage at age 50 is daunting, as is having to deal with so many strangers. 2) Enjoy live performances - I have tickets for a bunch of shows (mostly comedy but also a poet and a stadium concerts) and want to get the most of those moments esp. as financially the ability to do so in the future will change. 3) Complete Day Zero Project - 101 Things in 1001 days. I have done 74 already and finish date is Sept. Most are little things like 'learn to hula hoop', 'dance in the rain' etc. Not necessary but a great way to break up the day to day routine. 4) Good daily routines - Need to bring back routines I had started doing when I was working from home for 6 months at the end of 2021. I was eating better. spending more time outside, doing tai-chi etc. Went back to the office and whoosh it all went by the wayside., Need to find a way to bring them back that works with the rush out the door every day. 5) Write to my friend monthly - we have known each other since the 90's and have never met and while we talk several times a week we used to write long lovely letters. I want to get back to that as a different and more creative way of communicating. 6) Create a witches garden - plant a garden full of healing herbs and other plants. 7) Connection - Continual searching for a way to connect with people in a meaningful way. This is something I am never that successful with but its definitely a need. Anxiety makes real life stuff esp. hard though online spaces have proved almost as difficult. I have joined a couple of book clubs with discords so I'm hopeful they will be a good fit. 8) More nature - whether is be sitting outside in my yard or feeding the ducks at the local park. More time in the fresh air (away from screens) with my feet touching the earth.

Jen

I don’t know. But I’m trying. ❤️❤️❤️

Rahula Janowski

In 2023 I’m going to rest when I feel tired. And try to get outside more.

Linda

It's been around 4 years since I've done any art and I think it's time, no more posting on social media for a while but I can still use it for keeping in touch with friends, get back into baking I really loved baking, take care of my body to show it appreciation and focus on good things before bed to calm any bad memories intruding I really struggled with that a lot, take better care of my apartment and spoil my cat more and try to find more things he's interested in he really doesn't care about much lol

Paul Grimsley

I bought some paints and some canvases to start painting. I got a bit crushed on this from my ex-wife and finding out my mum threw out all my old art. Panic would set in whenever I tried to paint or draw. I would love to make it to one of your live webinars or to catch you when you are live answering posts (today everything conspired against that). I need to rebuild my publishing site after a DDOS attack erased it. I need to write more this year. I want to read at a spoken word evening again. I want to start running my own spoken word evening again. I am going to build out the number of authors I am publishing and work up that company into viability. I have this thing I do called Emotional Support Poet, that I started on TikTok, where I write poems for people who can't voice what they need to say, or want something written for a special moment -- I am going to get that rolling again. I've been a bit backwards about saying this, but I wrote a book of poetry inspired by you and your work, called Honesty For Amanda, which I sent a copy to you. I want to do more stuff like this. Being more creative is the idea.

Natalie Gelman

I made a human in 2022 so as much as I'm dyyying to have big goals I know that my only real goal is to keep her alive and nurture her well and as you said, not have a mental breakdown myself. It's been hard to see the year turn over and I feel like I've neglected my career and it just makes me sad but I'm just going to aim to do my best for this next turn of the marble.

Adrian Helton

First off, Thank You, Amanda - Last night's show was fucking everything! I went to the show alone and made many new friends. I met your friend who gave you the vibrators you posted about a few weeks back; she's a great hugger BTW! My 2023 goals are to drink (way) less - it's very much been my crutch since the pandemic started. To lose the weight my crutch gave me. To let go of the past anger and hurt and to let the people close to me love me instead of keeping things a safe arm length away. To find more positive and healthy outlets. To not allow my job to consume me. I also want to take the exams I've been putting off so I can become a *licensed* architect. LET'S GO 2023!!!

Soso

Better to do this before getting out of bed or else I won't do it at all. Goal is to continue to make socially engaged art and break the intensity of criticisms to said art with a shrug and a smile. Another goal would be not to become cynical towards this fossil fuel led world and to try to look closer into what makes people more altruistic and less self centered. Try to tip the balance in that direction to keep joy alive. I'm going to try to stave off my addictions and try to keep an inquiring mind to everything that makes me uncomfortable and try to lessen the grip of bad habits that keep me from being STILL. This is not a binding list but it is good to put it down somewhere. Thanks for the opportunity! P. S. Would really like peace in Ukraine to go with this ego depletion ride that I'm trying to get on.

Jane France

I plan to yoga and swim in the sea more, and spend more time in nature to nurture my soul x

Lexi Anthony

My goal is to be financially independent. To not be controlled by other people and the government. To have my own money means freedom to me. And for my kid. Also to get a driver’s licence, after trying to get one for 20 years this is the year! My goal is Freedom and Independence. 💖

Cate Whitehead

Firstly, love to everyone, everywhere, wishing you all a better, happier, safe, exciting and downright fabulous 2023. Today I finished my first Lego - a seriously epic and sexy Boba Fett's ship, Slave I, complete with tiny Boba Fett and a lurking Mandalorian, also tiny. As I keep saying, I am proud of what I do and have to occasionally pinch myself that I'm nearly 68. I'm not worried about it, however, and I loved hearing today my husband Peter telling me he's proud of me. The next three months are/will be taken up writing a history of 50 years of the Friends of Hamilton Art Gallery. I live near Hamilton, Victoria (southwest Victoria) and during last year put my hand up to do the job. It's giving me great confidence and self-belief as fellow committee members are quite happy and pleased for me to do it. That and working on an exhibition plan potentially for abovementioned regional gallery with an amazing young person who totally digs my art and they have become an important person in my life. Much love to you Amanda, and everyone xxxxxxxxxx-

Lindsey Lubow

I cut my father out of my life towards the end of 2022. I'm glad to be free of him, but there's a lot of unlearning to do and a lot of previously unidentified damage to repair. Meanwhile, I have "suitable for general audiences" goals in categories like "overhaul my body" and "do more fiber arts" but... I'm about a month in to my latest round of talk therapy, which is FINALLY ptsd focused, but also finally NOT group therapy. My instincts are saying it's more than is reasonable to put on myself to do all of these in the same amounts concurrently. If my body situation stays stable, and the other two improve, so be it. I'm currently working more routine hours than I ever have in my life, and I literally just got done pointing out to the Federal District Court that I was at one point declared disabled by Social Security Administration for my psych issues. And that the revocation of that official status had to do with getting married, not with symptom abatement. I'm... I'm really TIRED. I'm really... fucking... tired... So at some level, my goals are "try not to have a net backslide for 2023" and "get to 2024 and remember to marvel at how much it took to make happen when you get there". I am a force to be reckoned with. And I am also very tired. (I will go make some nice aromatic tea, now. That might help.)

Deborah Schwarz

These will happen, as the ball has already been set in motion. So much more goals than resolutions: • To survive two major (9-12 hour) surgeries • To recover in the presence of love and kindness from family and friends • To thrive post-surgery with pride • To continue enduring no less than 4 hours of electrolysis each and every week – with a smile. • To grow existing friendships and explore meaningful ones with new acquaintances. • To read one novel per month that challenges and forges my perception of the world around me and how I interact with it. • To maintain my pace of 100 miles biking each week • To shed five pounds of fat from my mid-section • To continue supporting my LGBTQ+ community, emotionally and financially, and educate those outside of it.

Lindsay Rickman

Dude I'm crying because this parallels my own story so closely. So right YOU ARE a force to be reckoned with! It's so human and OK to be tired right now. <3

Lindsay Rickman

I'm going to get my promotion at the Franchise Tax Board here in Sacramento inside the next 3 months. I'm going to get more generous and effective at supporting other artists, alongside getting more generous and effective at supporting my own talents as an artist. I will be blessed this year to get to travel to Cuenca, Quito, Mexico City, and Antwerp. My long term goal is to get a new community space up and running here in Sacramento, 2-3 years from now. So stoked. Thank you Amanda and Friends!

Laura Courtney

I’m not one for New Year resolution per say but I am starting a annual reading challenge to expand myself. I am currently reading Rest is Resistance by Tricia Hershey. As I read, I am thinking about some of the narratives of Amanda and others in this community about self care and rejecting cultural pressure on our time.

Lindsey Lubow

Being tired doesn't mean being defeated. I feel your fighting spirit through your words. [Affirmation nod of solidarity] more tea. Last batch did me some good.

Lindsey Lubow

There is such a joy in creating community-space. Stoked is a good word. I'm gonna be using it; thanks for that.

EmVT

hi Adrian, for what it's worth I think your drink less and lose weight goals are, happily, the same goal--at least that was the case for me when I stopped drinking beer, I lost 20 pounds without trying, the weight evaporated. I think the metabolism changes or something. Anyway, all the best on your other goals too!

EmVT

In 2023 I'm going to focus on listening, being more patient / less reactive / taking a breath, and not wasting time--keeping in mind that managing my energy through sleep and a healthy diet is not at all wasting time. The kind of listening I'm thinking of is the introspective kind. In one of your posts Amanda in the last couple of years you used the phrase 'use what god gave you' which was relevant to me at the time, for personal creative reasons. I interpreted it as a quiet (non-religious) sign to pay attention to the thing/idea I had, which I was secretly about to abandon. And then it turned out the thing was good! blessings to all in this community! long live the punk cabaret in 2023! :)

worm32b

I want to get my driver's license this year, continue saving money, and give myself a lot more self love and acceptance. I'm tired of berating myself. As for creativity, I would like to try some new things. Maybe yoga? Or how to rap. Find fun DIY that make use of the endless clutter. Or purposefully use bootleg materials for something else entirely. I want to tap into my own appearance and try to get into my own fashion sense. I usually wear shirts, hoodies, jeans, and shorts. I love being a blob, but so does my depression after some time. Wearing something that feels good on me goes a long way. So yes, I should buy more rings, necklaces, and get a damn pair of doc martens. And try perfumes, maybe colognes. Good luck everyone! Whether the new year gives you a boost of inspiration or not, we're (mostly) all in the same astral plane on this ever-changing blue ball.

Llaura Sanacore Rubin

☀️🪐☄🌙🎼🎵🎶Felicitous Covid-Free Celebration Of The Completion Of The Earth's Revolution Around The Sun 🎶🎵🎼🌙☄🪐☀️

Sean Parent

Resolutions: Lose weight, be more patient, less overwhelmed, more direct, less snarky, more loving, less suspicious, and spend more time helping. Oh, and I wanna hear my new favorite album: Perhaps, Virginia.

Rebecca Ryan

I didn’t love 2022 either..a little anxious and wary about this one. Me this year..-l’m going to try and be more open to people. Like I have forever. And lost it for a long while That’s important I love people And have neglected friendships. ..say maybe a yes for a change, when invited to kids bbq movie night with parents u haven’t met. I guess....If I have to…:More yes. I miss the old me. Turn up to anything and no flying fucks about it.. Maybe this is me now..at 46.. I like her too. Maybe even more. She’s just more sensitive..indecisive grr…impulsive..ok..and borderline boring ..but so isn’t…but is..☺️ Let’s keep learning about ourselves hey. Hope travel to NZ all good so far 🥰 it will be awesome xx

Malgorzata Rzewuska

I don't really know, what are my plans. I would like to finally decide, if I want to stay with my husband and feel not accepted and not loved as I think I deserve or to leave and face everyday struggles with 2 kids (one with intellectual disability) on my own... Or at least partly on my own. No idea. This roller coaster of ups and downs is going on since YEARS. I also plan to be good to myself and spend as much time with women as I can. Women's support is what keeps me going. I would also like to take care of basic stuff: more cooking instead of sandwiches, more moving and less scrolling. I need that to longer be around for my kids. My older will never live on her own. But these aren't NY resolutions. I always have these things in mind, but somehow I fail all the time. Much love from Poland <3 I think I live in the same building as your friend Gaba Kulka :)

Andrea R

I need to reconcile with being good enough instead of trying, and dramatizing over failing, to be the best (mom, cook, and everything in between). I want to be able to laught at my own mistakes. Hope to retrieve genuineness and kindness to other after having my circle of empathy drastically narrowing down to my pregnant belly. Want to try out pottering, or free dancing, something to let out my creative energy. Find what is fun in renovating the apartment and try to enjoy the process. And yes, cold swimming does wonders to my mood, hope to find time for a trip to a lake or coast twice a month or so. And just be near the sea, whatever the reason, more often :)

Natalie Gelman

Thank you Laura! It really is the only thing that's important though it's such a hard adjustment. Happy New Year to you and yours.

Stephen Hanrahan

I usually set 10 goals a year some big some small I want to get to 250 followers on my instagram art page , lose 8 kg by June . Do 200 yoga sessions and 100 dance lessons on Apple fitness . I’m going to write 50 songs and try record the good ones(that I need to learn a bit for that mostly how to record ) , I’m going to finally do that online course in ai that I bought years ago try to publish the book I wrote and the lenormand deck I designed also my husband is trying to get us to move house

Natalie

I’m not setting any new year’s goals because it’s too much to be a mostly stay at home mom (I’m an occupational therapist and work per diem a couple times a week when the nursing home and home health companies need me), and I’m taking course work to transition into pelvic floor therap, and don’t want to set extra goals that I probably won’t keep. However, I’m continuing to work on the goals that I’ve been working on for a while. I’m finishing up a pelvic floor movement course and hoping to start teaching 6 week classes starting in February or March. I have 3 additional pelvic floor courses I plan on taking this year and I hope to start seeing clients sometime this summer. Just 2-3 half days per week because I’m also CEO of home, shuttle driver for school and doctors appointments and extra curricular activities (currently swim, music, and ice skating lessons), at-home-after- school art and science teacher, home chef, housekeeper, gardener, mama-milk-maker (the hours that go into tandem feeding a 3 and 1 year old…), sleep couch, family therapist, etc… you’re a mom too and juggle all of that with your career. 😅 but I have been prioritizing exercise for myself and plan to keep that up: my goal is always 5-6 days/week for 15-30 minutes (I also count walks outside), but some weeks I’m happy when I exercise 3x/week. But honestly, most days my goal is just to tackle a couple things on the to do list, spend time with my kids and husband, and keep everyone fed and clothed and being nice to each other.

Kathryn Weber-Boer

I'm intending to dedicate phone-free time to my kid, take the space I need to find my body again (I live far too much in my brain and on the computer, and sometimes I feel like a disembodied glob, and I think I just need more time finding out what this body is even capable of anymore), and grow a tidier garden. Also, I was going to say that I want to cook more at home, but the truth is that cooking daily has been exhausting me and maybe what I really need to do is figure out how to order out in a way that is most healthy and least costly? Like... how long can I make a massive order of white rice last as a base for meals? Hmm... ideas!

Stefanie Oepen

Another musician I follow (Singer/Songwriter Jim Kroft) asked about our new year's plans as well, so I'm just gonna crosspost here: "New year, new you" always has the bad aftertaste of "you are not good enough as you are" and I am working hard to resist that thought. Yet, January usually means I don't have many plans in terms of traveling and a lot of time to reflect. So I often use it to get back into exercising if I have fallen off the wagon. I do not like workouts, but I know they will make me feel better in the long run so that is why I commit to them. This, however is a yearly thing and not so much a resolution, a routine more than a plan. This past year I have tried to catch up on so much I missed during the two pandemic years so I have traveled a lot and see lots of concerts. It was great fun, but I do feel exhausted, so the one overall plan I have for this new year is: S l o w d o w n ! Get over the FOMO, you can't do everything and you can't be everywhere and that's OK. Choose wisely. Here's a list of ideas for things I wanna do in 2023: - see friends as often as possible - make memories - continue to go to concerts that will make me happy - play my ukulele (badly!) - see a play or a few, preferably in London - rest when I need it - not feel guilty when I realize I can't manage everything I thought I'd do - capture travels and concerts with my camera, but also enjoy moments without - remain curious A comment on your list, Amanda: It seems to me that doing everything you plan plus "going easy on yourself" is unachievable, unless that ois your list of things for the next 5 to ten years. Either way, I am curious as to what's to come. Especially looking forward to new music. Side note: I have the feeling you won't tour Europe any time soon and that makes me sad, because I very much enjoy seeing you live. That thought aside I am sure I will find content here that I enjoy. :) Because I think I never said it: A belated thank you for the Shadowbox to ypu and everyone wo posted there. It was my lifeline in the first pandemic year. I must admit I have gotten busy and abandoned it since, but it helped oh so much against the loneliness of those days. <3

Eli Joseph

Imma plant more gardens, and start a buskers festival in Wellington.