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democracy (Patreon)

Published:
2023-09-06 01:13:06
Imported:
2026-06

Content

you decide what we talk about this bonus ep! comment topics/questions below <3

Comments

Alyssa

Ariana grande licking the donut

chloe

Shower routine/night routine

Sarah

the dancing plague of 1518

Ainsley Steger

the timothee and kylie discourse would send me over the edge please i need it

Bela

tumblr resurgence !!

Elena Pope

should i drop out of college

Ashlynn Long

the 8passengers abuse scandal & family vlogging in general!!

Sofia

did you guys see bottoms

Ania Kastrava

Moving away from home for the first time, feeling angry in the lull between places

M

Burning man! Maybe the history of it because I am confused on what it is

Olivia

I am once again asking for creative writing advice

Carli Leppard

Slightly unrelated but PLEASEE do an episode on sororities !!!

Emma Goodman

Girl boss summit art history edition 💅🏻🎨

em

how to power though uncomfortable feelings when trying something new (exercise, a hobby, skill etc)

Zoee Keiser

Julia I really NEED to know if you ever got your tin type done with Allegra

Sarah

making new friends after college that aren’t just work friends

rachel

a history of unions in america as a belated labor day ep?

madeline

Chowchilla bus kidnapping

Gabrielle Greco

reality tv like big brother and survivor 😍

Claire Heinle

your favorite fall inspired menu items coming back

Valeria Chavez

Wait actually do another call in episode!

Julia

whats yourgo-to little sweet treat for yourself

Lily

Adderall addiction

Rachel Diazena

i wanna hear y’all talk abt like fashion rules you have for yourselves….like for example i will never wear certain fabrics or like my partner will never wear old fashioned hats etc

Isabella

i fear i need official binchtopia commentary on the video of timothee and kylie…

Lacey Kohler

the so called MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC™️

Vaani Ghai

Calling your partner medium ugly

M
>>116887717

Oh maybe festivals in general and how they used to be inexpensive and now they are 15k to go 😅

maeve weeder

Enneagram deep dive babes 😽

Halley Linscheid

LIVING IN NEW YORK because I also just moved here and wtfffffffffff

alexis guzman

PLEASE TALK ABT RISE AND FALL OF TUMBLR AND ITS IMPACT ON THE YEAR OF OUR LORD 2013

jackie

reconnecting with exs😭

Rainy

have either of y’all worked a serving job? advice?

Ashley

Connie converse!!!

Marisa Modugno

What do you two disagree/have opposing views on

Kelly

New york update from Julia!

Isabel Taylor

talk about the cats’ quirks!!!

holly

conspiracy theories specifically the titanic

Amelia
>>116887648

Amelia minds think alike 🤩 this really could be brilliant. There is MUCH history to delve into here.

Haleigh

your opinions on jake paul

Ally Helle

ugh navigating changes early/mid twenties plsssssss

Chloe

An academic deep dive!!

Amanda Halbert

making friends in a new city i just moved plz help me

fiona

LOVED dear peach!!! sooooo good! What inspired you to write it?

Narcisa

Julia I would love to know what you’re interested in doing clinically once you’re done with school! Is there a specific setting you want to work in or a specific population?

Helen Meigs

Relationship anxiety! When you’re in something really good but have persists thoughts of not being sure but how much to listen to that!

Sophie Kussman

How do you deal with times of transitions help

Coyote

Update on Stop Cop City movement? Or the Mountain valley Pipeline movement in Appalachia?

emma av

How to adjust to living alone!

libby

what is the worst looking uppercase letter and the worst looking lowercase letter? discuss.

James

the rise and fall of adobe flash games 🪦

Tobi

Social workers and CPS. Burnout in social work, etc

kailyn mae

i started college three weeks ago and already want to drop out. advice? probably julia should answer this one lmao

Rainy

do you guys take probiotics

Maddy Lazarow

the essence of girl dinner, girl math, clean girl aesthetic, hot girl summer, strawberry girl, etc and what it means for feminism!

Maya Harris

i need to know whether julia thinks tom and lala slept together before ariana’s bday trip in season 6. he said he slept w one other person but wouldn’t reveal who and why else would she no show

hannah

joe jonas/sophie turner and the woman as a “party animal” narrative that men love to use in a divorce

claire

seeking your inner child/pursuing joy 🤭

Ellie Galt

Gender reveal plane crash

Erin Healey

Someone in the Reddit suggested this but DANCE MOMS

myfriendshannon

how to deal with envy in friendships 💕💕💕

hannah

also kylie/timothee????

Erin Healey
>>116887916

as someone who was deep in the wattpad dance moms fanfiction community I will be happy to help

Jess Tallman

ADHD and girlhood!! the way our silly little brains work and how meds change things🤔

Meg K

pls burning man or 8 passengers abuse stuff

johanna

you guys should talk about miscellaneous things you do to feel real (navigate The Horrors, improve daily life, neurospicy life hacks and suchlike mysteries)

Gabriella Reamer

More stuff you don't know about I loved that one

Alison

Toxic nonprofit work spaces

Bea Porges

Justin bieber hating his wife

Caroline

It seems like every celebrity couple/marriage is breaking up rn … who if anyone might actually last

Kay

Doja Cat👹 and maybe like artists using Satanism or the Devil as an aesthetic

saige
>>116887688

im sorry...the fuck?!?!? didn't know i needed to know

Kaitlyn Gill

I am in need of putting all my professors on the wave of binchtopia and my current mission is my food systems prof. what do you have to say about the state of americas food system (gmo’s, organic farming, CORN, tyson 😷)

☆Sara☆

Transitioning from girlhood to adulthood. I’m graduating high school next year and going to college farther away from home and it’s really hitting me how I’m fully coming into adulthood

madeline

1975 Japan airlines food poisoning incident

tree treee tree

thoughts on the bottoms movie?? (recommend)

Gabriella Reamer

wait I changed my mind ya'll should play M.A.S.H.!!!!

Maya Harris

also advice for a chronic ghoster

Tyler Love

Jeremy Wade and River Monsters

holly

younger brother (college freshman) is really shitty to his girlfriend and not sure how to talk to him or her about it help

Alison

Maybe a deep dive into are we actually giving our animals separation anxiety and general mental illness cause Sometimes I think about my Dogs the way Eliza mentioned her cats acting

cyansims

Another redditsode

Molly

Early aughts culture; your fav movies, cd’s, celebs, magazines, tv shows, accessories, places to shop, video/computer games, weird gross foods unique to this time, etc..

Hannah

TABIS THIEF

Riven Lihos

Serotonin and social media/videogames/etc

Rainy

what are y’all’s gas station drinks/snacks for long drives

Erin Healey
>>116887705

They have an old episode called honey I monetized the kids about this but I also wanna hear their thoughts

Tristan Breath

Mid twenties coming of age/mid twenties transition periods

Eilis

julia! what neighborhood in NYC are you living in? how are you adjusting to living in a new city and do you have any advice for ppl in periods of transition?

MaryBeth Monaco-Vavrik

Being friends w ppl w varying financial statuses (post grad parents paying for their stuff vs paying all your bills yourself) and stemming resentment 🤩

Bree

How to know if you should stick it through a tough time in a relationship or leave

J

History of playboy

Erin Healey
>>116887648

Not me commenting this before I saw this…I feel like we saw the same Reddit comment!! I wanna know their thoughts on this so bad

Kelly

I gotta know your experiences with this past venus retrograde!!!

Anna

This is kinda niche but it would be so cool if y’all could talk about male leftist misogyny (specifically thinking abt people like hasanabi who has some ~poor~ takes surrounding women lol)

Jules

Why im leaving Buzzfeed deep dive

Annabelle

Not a bonus but I think an episode about title ix could be super interesting

✨
>>116887721

.... is this part of the lore? She couldn't have, right?

Jess123

Relationship advice again pls

Maggie Howes

Workplace romance, need your takes

avery

MADONNA GOD COMPLEX

Ava

horoscopes!

Rachel

Why we’re so fascinated with the titanic

Ashlynn Long
>>116887705

I totally forgot how great that episode is, need to relisten! But would love to hear their thoughts now that there have been more documented cases of abuse online, etc.

Abigail Junae

Getting over a breakup when you did the dumping vs. being dumped. Asking as I just initiated my first breakup where previously I’ve been broken up with. Can’t decide which is worse lol

Annie Gleason

how to deal with the ego of it all😀

kenny

agism, kylothee, greek life, fidel castro, the industry of nostalgia, the kennedy curse, zarapocalype part 2

isabel stitchick

whoever said sororities/greek life that’s a great idea too!!! especially the “red zone” phenomena

caitie

Research and psychology being biased AF !! (& sexist! & classist and white & capitalist agenda gdmit)

amanda is mad

For REAL Julia for a fellow recent (5 days ago) NY transplant - what do we do? How to do… where and why and who and what???

Julian

Having my first-ever relationship after years of casually hooking up with everyone just because It Seemed Like The Thing To Do. How do I get my avoidant ass to give and receive affection in a partnership?

Grace

please talk about silly/cute/incorrect things you believed as children :)

Raerae

How to embrace and tap into the authentic self <3

Leslie Estrada

History of burning man & how it went from actual burners to influencer tech bro kingdom of waste and garbage

Lily

Burning man/music festival disasters

Claritin
>>116888254

Plenty of options there: it's current state, the YouTube craze, their supreme Court controversy related to their recommendation feature, the horror pop ups on kid content

Haleigh Lechner

How to accept that i actually don’t like my family after moving to college 😋 going back is a sinister malicious vibe shift

Kelly

your youtube journey... who did you watch as a pre-teen vs now

kiki

burning man 😵‍💫😵‍💫 and private jets

Katy

Relationship advice😭😭PLZ

Claritin

How airplanes keep almost hitting each other

Shannon Higgins

PLS give your thoughts about the 2007 cbs show Kid Nation

Grace E Sutherland

Need to know where y’all sit on Girls discourse/Lena Dunham/cancel culture

Sandy

greek life sounds so interesting like insane pledge things and why so many ppl join them! I went to a small college w/o greek life (tg) and would loveeee

Carla Golderer

Making friends in college as someone who hates small talk! I am also a freshman in an upperclassman dorm😭

Alan

Do a whole episode on Lana Del Rey 💐❤️

Jenna Guzman

body dysmorphia, the service industry, vanderpump rules

Nina Drop

Thoughts on cosmetic surgery/filler culture- Is it something that helps ppl gain confidence and acts as a form of self expression/gender affirming care? Or is it a byproduct of self obsession and vanity in our late stage capitalist hell, which promotes harmful and unrealistic beauty standards? Neeeed to hear your nuanced thoughts!

Bella D'amico

advice for going home for the first time after moving out(fears include…friend drama, running into crazy ex bf, and weird family dynamics)

Manon

Franklin’s lost expedition -from an archaeology binchie

Sandy
>>116888535

also if not that just anything that wont give me a panic attack about an impending earthquake or other end of world crises 🙏🏾

Nikita

I know its old news but can yall talk about bodies bodies bodies? Its a find movie but it really made me check in on my self centredness and like therapy speak etc. Was it good satire? I think so???? It's making me low key have some sort of crisis idk

Elizabeth

Fairy/fantasy smut

Bella D'amico

how to not get attached to someone your having a little fling with if they are moving away soon? like how am i supposed to not fall for this person (been exclusive since late july)

Madeleine Morgan

Burning man, fyre fest, woodstock 99 etc etc

Jesse

bottoms

Amber Ramos

movie set disasters in hollywood, the rise of american nationalism post 9/11, the ills of the restaurant/service industry, history of adhd!

Kay

Is having one best friend really a middle school type of thing

Tori D

do the girlies watch horror movies i would love that as a halloween ep

Sevy Smith

A post-13 reasons why world💁🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️

Daisy

Would love to know more about BPD and like specifically recovering from an abusive relationship with someone who has BPD 😔

snailgirl

desperately seeking advice on making a big career jump/finding a field of work that doesnt make me want to k— m——

Kay

Substitute teachers. They're either chill, strict, or a pedo

Ryan Setchel

munchausen’s by proxy BOY DO I HAVE A MAILBOX MOMENT FOR YOU

madeline

Which Sanrio character do u identify with (I feel like Julia would say keroppi and Eliza would say kuromi but idk)

andrea gertsacov

Topic/episode ideas: - lesbian erasure over time - an episode kinda like the horse girl one but on emos - the native american diaspora - how the kinds of toys or books that we had as children shaped our lives - a HOW TO decenter men - ronald fucking reagan

Jocelyn

Teachers interacting w/friending/following students on social media.,… instagram twitter and namely Snapchat. Modern rich text . And boyfriends feedback “there’ll prob be so many mailbox moments for that one”

meagan moon

I think it'd be fun if you basically did the "make a Pinterest board about your bff/ sister" trend but in pod style like you came up with more categories and described each other through them? hope this is English

cays

tumblr controversies (my beloved hellsite ❤️)

Lydia

Hi I’m probably one of your youngest fans any advice for high school life :)

bigbootae

Best place to get high for the first time

Madeline Mauk

ladies i really want you to do an episode on bowe bergadahl. so much nuance there so much you could slay

Krib

history of monogamy !

Ryan Balthazor

We need another “am I the asshole” episode. I live for those.

Ivette!

Takes on traveling to places that aren’t necessarily enthusiastic re: tourists (eg Hawaii)

Rosalind Foppe

Burning man and Timmy Kylie and more pop culture discourse puhleassssssss🙏🏼🧎🏼‍♀️muah y’all r the best

Cait

can you guys talk about transracialism? (or RCTA as it's referred to on tik tok I think lol) My friend (who's mixed, I think is part of the reason he thinks this way) doesn't believe there is a difference between being transgender and transracial. He says in the same way that gender is a construct, race is as well, and that defining being a man or woman is just as complicated as defining a race. I personally don't really agree with the idea but it's become somewhat of a hot topic in my friend group now lmao. I'd love to hear y'all's (is this the plural version??) takes <3

Chiara Bosco

big brother/survivor and reality tv in general as we enter the surveillance state - what it says about us a people that we watch people get put in a fishbowl

andrea gertsacov

more topic/ episode ideas: - when do things become “cringy” and what does that mean for our society - an ep in the style of the nicotine episode but about weed - bifobia - sororities - how to deal with burnout - BINCHTOPIA SEX ED

asha

debate bro culture online and if it a) helps the left as a general movement and b) if there are any parallels with manosphere -type podcasts in how they interact with guests and audiences

Maria Dimachkie

I know we briefly discussed the recent alien discourse but I think it would be cool to do like a deep dive into the government alien stuff

Brayden Schauer

i’m moving to spain for a year this month with my bf and i’m nervous!! any advice or tips to moving to a new place? also spain binchies hmu my ig is brayden.sch <3

Hannah

I have been dying for an episode on the Girl Scouts … as a gold award recipient I will happily contribute (the reason it’s not as effective for girls is because the leaders give up at an early age 🫠)

Tilly VW

Burning Maaaan

Carolyn

Parasociality and art/artist separation (or lack thereof) and please please read Monsters: A Fan’s Dilemma by Claire Dederer

Keenan Griebel

1. for julia - i know i shouldn’t just get my masters “because i’m bored” or “don’t know what i’m doing post grad,” so how do i decide if it’s worth it to get a masters? 2. for eliza/both of you - you answered my advice column about LA 🤭 jf was SO beautiful and needed, i deeply appreciate it and thank you for it! got any other LA food/place/activity recommendations?

Summer

Am I the asshole / reddit stories episodes are fun. Have y'all done an episode on sex work? Did lots of papers on that for college, decriminalization vs legalization, empowerment vs oppression, how your social identities play into how you are treated or even yhe work you csn do, also the nuances added now from only fans and other online sex work that the research is only just catching up on. The impact FOSTA/SESTA regulations have had on the safety of it all and how that has changed over time. Julia can share more of obscure memes. Montessori method of education is also interesting, I remember Eliza went to a Montessori school right? And I work at one now and it is interesting and can be effective but it also so chaotic, and my school is a public school so it's hard to be free with the method while also confirming to state standards for receiving public funding. Could do another history moment, maybe favorite Apocalypse-like events in history? Oooor y'all can talk about your fav theories for how the world is gonna end. Like, climate change. But what if ai? What ig alien? Who knows. Fav conspiracies? Fav cults? Fav YouTube channels? Whateva ur minds are great so honestly everything you put out is a vibe.

Summer
>>116888935

Omg they talk so much shit about Reagan but a roast of him would be !!!!

alicia kapeecia

please talk about strained parent relationships and going no contact with parents and how to cope - especially if it is your parents ex communicating you (asking for a friend)

Ally

Would love a full ep on decentering men!!!

Eli Cole

tumblr. your personal experience w it, the cultural impact,etc.

Shawn Hogan

would love a semi-topical burning man, sorority rush, etc. would probably require of u to watch some tiktoks, but it would be worth it i promise semi alternatively, the downfall of music festivals i.e. burning man, fyre fest, e zoo chaos this past weekend.

Addie Davis

I’d love an episode that is fun, lighthearted and funny! I love serious episodes, but I think the binchies need some positive and uplifting context right now from our FAV girlies🥹!!!!

Allison M

CIRCUSES the ethics of the animals. The history is so interesting especially of women in the circus. BEARDED LADIES

Mariela D’Alessandro

PLEASE view my email on mental health!! i know youve done an episode on it but theres lots of other stuff to touch on! but i also would love an ep on chaotic news stories and whatnot

maya

The new Netflix doc on depp v heard

Emma Swaffer

the new york divorce coercion gang ie the group of jewish men who kidnapped men to force them into getting religious divorces from their estranged wives

Babsy

Dance studio life (think Dance Moms, dance competition shit, culty crap in the dance world etc, could also include gymnastics and figure skating)

Nia Montgomery

being friends with exes (situationships, relationships, one time hook ups, etc)

abby reddy

if you’re comfortable speaking on it, are you member(s) of the queer community?

abby reddy

deep dive into the history of cats and how they domesticated themselves!!!

Sarah

succession finale??

Summer
>>116890115

I feel there may be many overlaps between dance mom's ep and the pageant mom's one

Helena Ducusin

the balance of being knowledgeable on current events & not having a major crisis

Summer
>>116889927

Bearded ladies, ladies with tattoos, tiger handlers, trapeze-ists! Not to mention ladies in the circus often made more than men

Aarya Ghonasgi

Rani of Jhasi, Indian anti colonial warrior queen (literally)!

Clare Wangard

I think Greek Life needs to be a regular ep and I am dying to hear your takes, but I would also love to hear your thoughts on birth order/siblings and only child dynamics

rae

orange is the new black omg i just started rewatching again. what are your thoughts?

Zach Greenwald

how to form emotional attachments while also being cognizant that everything is temporary

Summer
>>116889244

Like, yeah race is a construct in the way we think of it, and we can make certain comparisons between race and gender, but that doesn't mean it is in the category of being transitional in the same way.

Eurydice

Eliza I don’t think you ever explained the origins of the deer spine that used to be in your car. Would love to hear about it if you’re willing to share!!

Eurydice

Drunk story time always slays, also

Summer
>>116888369

It fr is. Y'all have to renegociate your place in the family and y'all either grow together or apart. My relationship with my parents got worse then way better after college. Once I got my own car and house, if they are being disrespectful I can literally just leave and they don't hold any financial or other power over me.

motheta

bottoms movie have u seen it

Julie

Please film a mukbang

Summer
>>116888180

How it started(gender equity in sports), how it is used in sexual assault cases, how it changed after trump fucked with it

bella bella

ranking states as girl or boy states and also reality show tier list 🧠

kerrie

if u do horoscopes im a scorpio sun aries moon scorpio rising libra venus and mercury and my lilith is in pisces help and julia I would love a snack or accessory to comfort me through the horrors

Olivia Grosso

At some point soon you should do another Gav’s history hour!

Allison M
>>116889927

Yessss and the idea of running away to join the circus! How it was viewed by society and what it has evolved to now like circ de soleil !!

Elise

Would you rather be besties with Lana del Rey or Amy winehouse

Chloe Allen

binchies u shld totally do an episode about the history of heels

Chloe Allen

i saw someone else comment this too but yesss history of adhd !

Ana Maria
>>116890011

I will send in mailbox moment for this!!! I attended the best ballet school in the US for 10 years and I have war stories lol

Savannah

How often is too often to get together with family?? between mine and my boyfriends it's like every weekend at this point

Kathleen Fatica

redditsode, deep dive into what adhd meds/adderall does to the developing brain, ketamine therapy, she comes first book review - book on female orgasm review, halloween cunty slay episode, Julia thoughts on moving + adjusting to nyc, topic on if you should go to the slammer (grad school)

Parima

Another drunk mythology ep

miri

Episode on moving in w a significant other or living with other ppl in general (roommates )

Rebecca

Kylothee of course

Amy

Big pharmas push with ADHD meds to young kids

Alexandra Rueckert

Julia, I’m a graduate student with ADHD, tips on how you keep school organized and maintaining a school/work/life balance! I’m struggling girl

Elizabeth Terrell

I think an episode on porn and it’s effect on relationships, expectations of sex, etc. would be cool, also how to consume it ethically :p

Jane L.

Greek life!

Margo Roberts

weed. History of & our current moments

christina

let binchies submit their own “am i the asshole” or relationship advice qs and judge

Camryn Frye

How to get back into dating after being single for literal years and being afraid of intimacy as someone in their early 20’s 🤩

Dee Luxemos

-what are some of the biggest lessons you've had to unlearn -what is American culture, what does it mean to be an American -virture signaling -survelliance capitalism - asepcts of academic psychology you reject - what are things going on in the world or American politics that make you hopeful/hopeless - storytelling through history and present day. How do you integrate storytelling in your life - how had your view on your self changed since being an object for parasocial relationships - memes and cultural attitudes. Memes as outsider art? - thoughts on the supreme court, as concept/institution -pets for emotional healing -rachel Aviv's book strangers to ourselves (I think Julia said she read that right?) -the weird obsession of millennial vs gen z - pedophilia - Is BPD the new lady hysteria - this horrible convergence of rainbow washing but also rights being walked back - wtf is happening to X (formally Twitter) - conspiracy theories that you believe

Shannon O'Brien
>>116892997

Fr though, I've been on a journey of discovering I'm bi and exploring with a woman, and we've had to unpack internalized biphobia like thinking there has to be a "man" and a "woman" in each relationship, and I'd love to hear more about each of your discovery journeys etc

Kathleen Fatica
>>116891589

OMG MARIE!!! 😭 ❤️ hi cutie!! How are you :))) I moved to Milwaukee we should hang out especially because we’re both binchstresses 😏

Leia

Polyamory v monogamy

Haley

Farming/hunting/sustainable land practices

roo

would love to hear more about the queer experience and all that good stuff<3

Josie Bernbom

nuance of communism as an idea and in practice

Josie Bernbom

how to move on from a friendship that became toxic bc of their significant other

Ellen

if u were a bean what type of bean would u be

Amber

halloween costumes u want to see this year!

Bijoux

Do you two feel like you have good senses of yourselves? How do you be true to or find your core when you're going through an identity crisis?

Amber

or thoughts on Retroactive Jealousy lolz

Hannah J
>>116890209

it would be so interesting to also discuss how hating cats is almost always a sign of misogyny, and how there are studies that prove it

Skye

DDLG deep dive like please

mars

adhd and stumulants and big pharma on that specifically would slay hard asf and be so topical for me personally rn lmao

Heather

Dating app algorithms and how theyre dooming us all

kat

nuclear disasters PLEASE (my doom spiral material)

Vencetia F

fav tv shows and book recommendations please 🙏

Layton Birchell

THINK PLANET EARTH II: CITIES - The relationship between humanity and nature An episode devoted more towards humanity and our historic/evolving relationship with nature. I think this topic has so so so many different facets that you Binch queens could really dig into. You could discuss sustainable practices on a global, nationwide and personal scale, in particular the integration of nature into urban spaces and it's importance. A good read for this topic is "Nature's Best Hope". It doesn't have enough of a focus on environmental justice, but it does offer a practical and hopeful solution in the conversion of private and public spaces into ecologically viable land that supports biodiversity. It's also a pretty easy read. I think the solutions in this book working in concert with the more philosophical and ethnobotanical paradigm of "Braiding Sweetgrass" is a good combo in terms of prep for the episode.

elizabethonline

really wanna hear y’all talk about men who are OBSESSED with bodybuilding- is it weird and concerning or am I just being a hater?

maggie thomas

making friends in your 20s (post-college) but i also wouldn’t be disappointed if you talked about woodstock lol

Sarah

how to get through life and do the things you want to with ADHD

Sarah

your favorite/least favorite artists and what makes art (like is Jeff Koons really an artist?)

Paola Ayre

Timothee & Kylie theories 💔😩

Helene

Greek life!!

allison

talk about my mom<3

Harleigh

Can we talk about fall? What are some of y'all's favorite things about the season like drinks, scents, activities etc.

Claire

My songstresses what should I sing at karaoke

Harleigh

Also I'm not sure if y'all have ever done this but id love to hear y'all's in depth thoughts on preachers daughter

Emily

a history episode where you both dive into radical feminist movements/figures. ie perhaps the controversial Valerie Solanas (SCUM manifesto)

kirby rodik

i have a theory that organisms (plants, animals, fungi) in nature have a sort of shared consciousness that we’ve lost touch with because of western culture, consumerism, etc. indigenous cultures have been talking about things like this for centuries. idk, i’ve always heard people say animals aren’t conscious therefore “aren’t as intelligent” but i’ve yet to see actual proof of that. so until someone provides me with the evidence, i will continue believing ecosystems are smarter than us in a way we can’t understand. like.. are u really telling me animals are dumb just because they didn’t create a complex, isolated, borderline psychotic society like us? i’d love to hear your thoughts on this:) maybe even your thoughts on the definition of consciousness? this is a response while i am high btw. bet you could probably tell lol

delaney

you guys should do some more reddit stories 🙏🙏 i know it’s been done before but they always make me cackle and i’m in desperate need of some cackling

Kaley Alness

I'd love an updated conversation about body modification (in a cosmetic way not a tattoo/piercing way)!! I recently got botox for the first time (for free 🤑🤑🤑🤑) (i work with estheticians) and I'm more fascinated by the varied discourse around it than ever before

Catie

I can't remember if you guys have done this before, but I would LOVE some literary readings from your childhood diaries

jeen

first relationship horrors, deep dive episode on lana n what she means to yall, micro plastic surgery trending, ronald reagan (derogatory), trump in jail n ppl making fancams of him being sassy ect (i think its weird), carnivore diet (so scary to me), something fall related?

jeen

being friends with exes i really struggle with that so i want to hear yalls takes!

Isa Martinez-Aleman

Let's all submit our "crazy ass bitch" stories. Like are you the asshole? but yes we are that crazy bitch in every instant. AND it's okay! Because patriarchy and forgiveness and all that. It'll be soothing to know the lengths of sanity reached by other binchies

Maya

can we talk about ethical non monogamy and different approaches

Sedona Steffens

Andrew tate. Charges against him, updates, all the scary shit he’s said, specifically reflections on his HORRID interview with Tucker Carlson, where he literally just was given a platform to deny everything and gaslight the viewers

Sedona Steffens

Meat heads, men making lifting their entire personality, their obsession with creatine and getting big 😤

Alyssa ♡

Also more feminist / queer history episodes

Sedona Steffens

Everything about how to romanticize everyday life, best tips learned from therapy

Alyssa ♡
>>116888134

Please because the video essays on youtube I’ve seen on this subject always walk around the issue but never hit on it exactly

Sedona Steffens

codependency and hyper-independency. (As a result of my mommy issues and having o grow up too fast I am very hyper independent and I worry about building my life being so independent and then struggling to let someone in in the future because I would have to adapt so much of my lifestyle to someone else).

Alyssa ♡

Analyse how non-men use social media as an extension of the self / their self image

Yves_ell

The evils of tiktok like specifically how sad it is to know exactly what's sucking the life and beautiful individuality out of the people in your life LOL

Bee Anderson
>>116890209

yessss i think about that all the time! how dogs are 'man's best friend' because they have no boundaries wheras cats enforce their boundaries and are seen as evil !!

Sydney Childers

More old poems from your substack pleeeeease

Julia
>>116887723

Idk if you have read this but Anne Helen Petersen did a good piece on Bama Rushtok on her substack!

Layton Birchell
>>116898187

Hey I'm just gonna say, this ties in in a way to the human nature relationship I mentioned in my comment above

Evelyne

Your family histories (like from a long time ago, grandparents etc), or Judaism :)

Isø

These have been discussed but I cræve møre on the horrors of the modern online world, you do it so well! Like how tumblr shaped everything, how Twitter and Tiktok eroded individual thought and personality, the hysteria of fæcebook groups, how to convince others to disengage without being a weird outsider dickhead lol Also more astrology chat (like how to exist on earth as a heavily air girl like can I float away and how)

Sophia

misinformation / disinformation / brainwashing

Sasha

Breaking up for college / uni

avvsies
>>116887892

I think “my higher self has an Apple Watch” or whatever it’s called touches on TikTok girl trends

Bianka Petrova

Moving to a different city on your own! And being in your early 20s in general

Blanche Raymond

I moved to the US at a young age and was so shocked by the difference between French and US kids. I’d love an episode about your experience with american culture and growing up there

patty

love the long episodes

Katie

Reality tv- bachelor, love is blind

abigail parrish

the way i have soooo many things i want y’all to talk about and suddenly, much like when someone asks me my favorite song, my brain is empty.

Carrina Macaluso

an episode talking about sororities, frats, and college greek life would be really interesting

Rachel

Lining up events and routines in your life with your menstrual/mood cycle

Charlie Wright

Need u to talk about the blue people of kentucky

Isø

Also would love a roundup of writers/musicians/artists who changed your perception and life in some way - the circumstances they found you in, what shifted for you etc

Isø

Talk about meeeee

Kayl Ward

The profound influence you guys have on my shopping habits despite rarely being sponsored

Isø
>>116904113

Like I’m so afraid of being perceived and known by strangers online - like a lot of people I feel like I choose to present differently depending on who I’m with (Gemini) so the thought of having one concrete open online self is too much! I used to have a following on Tumblr which felt very safe and secret, the thought of employers, extended family, random neighbours seeing the real vulnerable inside of my soul is horrifying! I was born ‘94 so I think people slightly younger got through this with finstas or whatever, or just not thinking/caring about everyone seeing and judging you… but like what’s an olde gal to do? I have irl community but often still feel isolated and alone, I miss the feeling of having online friends that I can spill my soul to, so find myself doing shit like this in patreon comments… I think I resent people who post so freely as it could never be me, so therefore we must stop them all lol

Liz Callahan

Convergent evolution crab theory!! Did you know like 7 times in evolutionary history species have evolved back into a crab? Crap supremacy 😎

Cayley Wright

how screen time is affecting small children and how they’re socialized (there’s a bunch of studies about this already but it is essentially making them all act absolutely batshit insane)

✨
>>116899475

This is so funny, I hope they do this at some point

Court Knee

I feel like Jordan Peterson’s Gotham villain era is worth a quick feature lol

✨
>>116895228

No it's disordered eating/ behavior for real. I'm not entirely sure what happened or when or where, but there is something specific going on with mens relationship to their bodies in the past like 10 years. I feel like I'm always trying to bring my boyfriend back from the edge of an ED, like he HATES himself, it's crazy. And he's not even a crazy gym bro, he's a normal boy. Idk if it's just cause they don't have the language to talk about it that it gets weird for them so fast ??

Emily

An episode on raves would be sooo good!! About the history and the people who go to them

Carolin

The russian revolution -boyfriend suggested

Clare Wangard
>>116898187

you should read finding the mother tree by suzanne simard (or listen to a podcast episode from On Being where she’s a guest), she pretty much explains how ecosystems are in constant communication with each other and like the language of trees using nitrogen, it’s super interesting and basically completely supports your theory

Susie McKeon

An episode on unions!! Why they are hated in conservative spaces & the history, and why more companies are unionizing now

Kirsten Drehobl
>>116891851

If you have a lot of reading to do, use Natural Readers to have PDFs converted to audio. Go on a walk, clean your house, whatever, while listening to your source material. I was not doing any of my reading until I started doing this and it is the reason I graduated my master’s program!

cat murphy

an ep like summer vibe check but for fall! what’s in and out for the season

Aishwarya

Thoughts on Timothee and Kylie

AlgaeeQueen

national parks becoming disneyland

Nicole

i get so much serotonin from spending money. how do i replace this habit

Louis Kernahan

A retrospective of the podcast so far !

vilte

general request for britpop discourse 💪😔 it was smth i was obsessed with for a few months and i would thriveee hearing u speak on the blur vs oasis of it all !!

Gina
>>116916485

And why the accounting industry won’t/can’t unionize!!!!

Gina

The ✨cult✨ of Big 4 accounting firms

Victoria

I want nik back for traumageddon pt.2

Victoria

I would also love Allegra back for more baseless claims

Ashley
>>116897396

they talked some ab Valerie Solanas in their incel hell episode!!

Maddy Kristensen

The FAA and how fucked up the airline industry is considering all of your travel horrors!!

Gw GW

Boarding school PLEASEEE

Gw GW

I will send such a long email

Cora

Burning man

Sarah Ward

Do one on the recent literature published saying that there’s actually little evidence that depression is caused by low serotonin and the pushing of SSRIs by the pharmaceutical industry! I love my ssris but it’s interesting to look into the pros and cons since so many people are on them now

Hannah B
>>116896819

ooh yes I only recently found out about the cannibalism of it all

Hannah B
>>116888212

i'm also in my first time dumping someone era and it's so hard in a different way bc of the constant second guessing

Emily

8 passengers and the exploitation of children on youtube in general

jada

The gig economy and the precariat. A lot of leftists gloss over how insidious and deceptive these companies actually are. Delivery workers especially are overworked and underpaid

Aimee Brunt

The absolute trash heap that is influencer culture

MK

💕🚨BRING MIMI BACK❤️💕

Lily Howell

Best and worst drug experiences. How to creativitymaxx your life when you’re working a boring soul sucking job. How to survive your early to mid 20s. Tips for finding your personal style again after feeling like you lost it. Deep dive into Wendy Williams lore. Favorite ghost stories. In-depth chat about attachment styles and Internal Family System therapy.

lola bolado
>>116913352

I feel like they already did?? im not sure when and have nothing to back this up tho

izzy rillos

Quit like a women by holly whitaker

MK
>>116904113

Also weird when your online self isn’t necessarily created by you 😖 I don’t use Instagram or Facebook often but I keep my account and I’ve been having this experience where I’m realizing all the photos of myself online are posted by other people. And they aren’t really the photos I would choose to represent myself?? But I also don’t want to start using social media myself again bc I like the space I have from it?? Idk

Alan

Do a whole episode on Fiona Apple 🍎

Maia Gonzales

Blind items and duexmoi, maybe reading some funny celeb gossip? Talking about our (the cultures) obsession with seeing behind the curtain?

Nathalie Bessette

Clementine Morrigan and cancel culture, the crunchy to alt right pipeline, tradwives on tiktok, postmodernism, the world is your oyster

ava danielle

relationships! long distance specifically.

isabella
>>116898187

the secret life of plants is another book but it talks about the relationship between plants and humans, as studies show plants do react to our touch

Stella Bowden

i’ve asked before but a full timeline of miss caroline calloway

Sophia Csiacsek

Julia! how did you move your things to nyc from LA and do you recommend doing what u did

Ellie Galt

Everleigh Lebrants new smash hit single

Selah Judge

Bring back Kate!!!! We need to hear her thoughts on anything ✨

Tree

Pegging lmao

Emma Swaffer

also PLEASE discuss the new AI-generated drake/the weeknd song (heart on my sleeve) and how u think this might impact musicians!! 🤩🤩

Olivia Brimhall

Curly hair and the evolution of curl products, lack of frizzy hair acceptance in the workplace, etc.

Delphie Backs

hmmmmmm recyling (and how little actually gets recycled ...), theater kids / broadway, how tf to move on from your ex, friendships (and how they change after college / moving, new york city!!! / east coast vs. west coast debate, ferrets as pets

Morgan Freeburg

Would love to hear Julia talk more about her studies?

mimi

was the great pyramid a plutonium mine

Delphie Backs

most idiotic things boys / exes have ever said to you

Jestine Paynter

Would LOVE an episode on punk history!! Also the topic of punks vs hippies is SUPER interesting w lots to compare/contrast

Jestine Paynter
>>116916485

Along w this… mobs/mafias and Americans fascination w them in media! (Yes I’m in my sopranos era)

Sophia Benveniste

The opioid epidemic and the trending nexflix show painkiller about oxycotin

Hailey Widman

plz address that insane mommy vlogger that just got arrested

bunnny

how to not put my hands on my bf bc he never says please to me when it comes to like sexual stuff

hannah

GAYLORS

Rebecca V
>>116887971

Would love this! Maintenance Phase did a killer episode on Michael Pollan's "The Omnivore's Dilemma" and I could listen to that kind of content literally forever, esp if it was Binchtopia-fied

rosaschaf

freelee the banana girl

rosaschaf

the influencer-ification of the outdoors and how it impacts the environment

Clea Arlès

Travel and tourism after Covid, maybe not for a bonus but it could be an interesting episode, seems things have shifted

Kaylee Huelsing

mitch mcconnell’s declining health and your opinions on term limits.

kat

how do u deal with a breakup/cope with that loss in a healthy way? especially when there is not any real anger to hold onto, the situation just wasn't meant to be <3 sending luv to u both thank u for providing me comfort and company in a tough ass time

Kaylinn

cocomelon craze

Eva B

chatty

ani

TUMBLR DISCOURSES 🌀i know you guys have talked abt tumblr a bit before but truly Her Impact on culture is so farreaching (queer culture, leftist politics, offbeat humor). And now we’re seeing a lot of those discourses be recreated on TikTok really poorly. Much to think abt

bella

timothee and kylie

Melon

How to start a commune?

Harleigh
>>116961066

I think the episode called the weight of it all is the perfect thing to listen to when you're going through the horrors

Sarah Levy-Pipitone

if you had to choose between having dicks for fingers or balls for toes which would you choose?

Katie

Pyramid schemes

Joe Rogan

Can y’all please do a whole episode about Prince!!

Vicky

Not sure if you’ve done it recently but maybe a Cop City update, especially with the Rico charges yesterday

PeanutAllergy666

Please talk about color theory I am so serious

Abby

The emotional distress when seasons begin to change….

drew

i would LUVVVV to hear ur thoughts on hbo girls

Layton Birchell
>>116974923

BOOM. I agree, my comment I posted above deals with invasives. I would love for our binchinistas to talk about the use of native plants and the harm invasives do

TN

GIRLBOSS SUMMIT!!

Kira

vampires.

Caroline

GIRLBOSS SUMMIT - ICONIC SCAMMERS

Maryanna Mae

Performance art is my special interest and I would love to hear yall talk about it :)

Riley Petersen

Please talk about your poetry/songwriting process

Delany Bell
>>116963142

No because pleaaaseee I would love to hear them talk about cursed tumblr controversies like sonic for real justice and that one user who had like a child slave and offered therapy advice? The handful of scams like all or nothing DASHCON. Truly full of internet cultural keystones

ani
>>116963142

omg you’ve actually unearthed Memories for me. also the girlie who mailed her severed toe to another tumblr user so she could make jewelry out of it. also NEEEEEED eliza to know about the whole rabies pride community moment (strange eaons on youtube is literally a tumblr historian and has a great vid on this)

Maddy Kempke

I’m remembering the episode you guys did about boy moms. Did you ever end up recording an episode about girl dads?

Olivia Levins

would love to hear yall talk about the changing face of sex work with influencers like stella barey showing a very glamorous side of being in the sex industry without acknowledging the realities of sex work for many......also the porn industry in general and just kind of this difficult area of supporting ppl's choice to do what they want with their bodies but also how many do *not* have the privilege of choice when it comes to sex work and its strong roots in patriarchy.... or on a lighter note quirky animal behaviors like bees throwing ass to show each other where food is. <3

Julia

It would be interesting to hear about how when fields in stem become women dominated they become “soft sciences” when before they were considered a hard science

KE

PLEASE do a y2k ep!!!!

Allyn (uh-lyn)
>>117009237

Yesss was also just thinking the idea that sex work is empowering meanwhile the phrase sex work is work means ... well it's work and like all work can also be exploitive and its workers should be protected

Nina Caradonna

Deep dive into the “Manic Pixie Dream Girl” trope

lemonbutterbb

Pls talk abt How scary turning 25 is… make me feel better 😔

Sophie Fontaine

Joe Jonas/Sophie Turner and celeb relationships/breakups in general

Sadie

LABIAPLASTY - history of women hating their vulvas

SlenderLADY 💅🏽

Idk if this is main topic worthy but you should do a digression about Ruby Franke

Stina Olsson

Scamanda and Coco Berthmann!

Stina Olsson

Also have y’all seen that girl on tiktok who’s a covert narcissist (she’s diagnosed and open about it)?

Annika Lawson

AI, intentional communities, or like how girl roommate relationships often sour. I feel like everyone I know has a bad roommate story

Kendra Yarke

Just watched “Orgasm Inc.” on Netflix and I’m dying to know your thoughts! It’s a sex cult hiding in plain sight, disguised as a startup!!! Truly one of the wildest docs I’ve seen in a while.

Emily West

Just watched “The Wolf House” and I saw on Letterboxd Eliza also saw it. Would love a deep dive episode on the film and Paul Schafer’s La Colonia

Emma Martinez

the correlation between hitting women in bed and violence against women… have y’all done this?

Renee Lile

Reddit AItA please!!!

Cara

should certain identities be gatekept?? i don’t go to queer events anymore bc it’s a LOTTT of straight passing ppl talking abt how oppressed they are, i miss my community and don’t know what to do abt it :,/

Yuki

The deal with organic food! Pesticides! The roundup trials in court. The everyday toxins all through our food that we consume every day

Madelyn

Dating guys younger than you (I’m 22 he’s 20) I am a girly also

Marwa

Egyptian Mythology ms cleopatra herself. theres so much tea behind her she was a girlboss and her story is a GAG. The netflix documentary also has good sources

sofia

- listener write in dating advice episode - the feminine vs masculine Left (ex. debate, domination, correctness vs empathy, aiming to understand, passion) - iPad kids - exercise: why gyms are weird, how to enjoy it - revolutionary feminist history

Kate Gulewich

could you talk more about julia’s psychology knowledge? what is she specializing in? what’s her favorite topic to learn about? did her teachers make a difference to learning about those things?

Christia
>>117087362

I second this! I’m going to grad school for counseling so I’m really curious to know what her theory is!

Layton Birchell

An episode just for sharing grief, for being there for each other through the sorrows of this world simply by hearing each other's stories. An opportunity to share our hardships with the rest of the Binchtopia community through mailbox moments or a sort of grief-line

Erin Clancy

Julia can you talk about your path towards deciding to become a therapist? I want to apply to counseling masters programs but I scared

Jessica

Missouri / red states / Abortion plz plz

Jessica
>>117010647

Yeah it sadly is true. There’s also an NYT article about how as fields become female dominated, the pay drops.

Jessica
>>117010647

I know that my comment is only tangential but I’m st*ned and forgot to include that soft sciences used to be hard sciences when they were male-dominated. Now that surgery and higher edu in general is trending female, there’s a concern we’re all gonna get screwed financially and via a demotion (a la hard to soft sciences) just for being someone who pursued higher education

Jessica

Gymnastics would be soooo fun y’all don’t understand how DRAMATIC the recent and “ancient” history is. A rich text indeed

Chloe Wright

Why trucks are getting bigger in the US based on c.a.f.e. Standards

Kira

GREEK LIFE IN COLLEGE!!

Prisca L

The current refresh of the satanic panic (Doja cat, unholy Sam smith, call me by your name twerking on the devil, etc)

Jess A

Timmy and Kylie please lol

Julia

Another one just came to my mind but savoir complex or white savoir complex would be interesting to discuss

Liccie Delgado

Get high and try to do a crossword together

Paris Sinclair

HAIR!!! On a curly hair journey rn and would love to hear about Julia’s journey with her’s/ would love to see if there’s some sort of historical relevance to how we do our hair now and how it varies across different cultures

Cameron
>>117020096

turning 26 in a few days 🥴…each year I come to terms with the age I’m turning for like 4 months prior, think about it a looot and then I accept that it is a blessing

boots

accused celebrity witches

Coco

All these ideas are so good…. your minds …..

Emily Bee

The real housewives!!! Or reality TV in general 🌟💕✨🫣

Elise Lee

How to get over heartbreak/how to stop thinking about them/how to at least stop the thought of them from distracting you from your studies

Lydia
>>117111894

Yes yes there were also elements in how people reacted to the astroworld crowd crush and even taylor swifts karma music video

Annika Lawson

Neil Patrick Harris added to the evil gay list bc he had the amy winehouse meat platter

Roni

Would love to hear you guys talk about the writers/actors strike :) ALSO Are you guys keeping up with “Dear Hollywood”??

Abi Wallace

this is late but!!! I would love to see y’all’s take on burning man and the people who go and it’s effect in the planet , etc

amber walls

PLEASE do an episode on child gambling - like not like casino gambling, but gambling on video games (like pokémon, CSGO, etc) -my boyfriend that wants ✨boy✨ content that he can relate to

Ivaxchho

DO AN EP ON GREEK LIFE PLS

Ellie Jane

Cray cray horrible stuff the cia has done around the world that most Americans don’t know about (inspo: Vincent Bevin’s book “the Jakarta method”)

Maya

love!

Ffion

Mushrooms!

Alex

Human evolution

serenidy

literally BEGGING for more reddit aita stories i love when y’all do them

yasmine

alternative ways of living / intentional communities, like co-operatives, communes, squats, crofts / farms!

yasmine

what happens when you are the flop. like genuinely flopped in all aspects of life n don't recognise who you've become

Grace Abler

why is it called missionary ?

Jenna Holmes

fr how do you have a discussion with your sensitive body conscious friend about them over editing and extreme photoshop their Insta pics?!!! Please help!!! So much love but so much fear!!!

Hollie Smith-Nelson

Would love to hear your educated minds on whether you think the continued public fascination with 9/11 stories in the run up to the annual anniversary, prevents American people from healing from a traumatic event, which in turn encourages a constant renewed vitriol and hate towards other races? As in every year for at least the month prior it’s 9/11 films showing on tv, it’s documentaries , it’s the sound bites of loved ones phone conversations saying goodbye. Whilst I agree we should always remember the victims and treat their memory with respect and dignity, in what was a tragic event, I’m from England and the 7/7 bombings are not on this sort of annual news cycle or even Grenfell. It’s fascinating, and whilst the 7/7 bombings were no where near the scale of 9/11, England seems to place Americas heartache on our front screens year in year out. Strikes me as sort of odd in terms of a grieving process, like at what point do we stop the intensive outpouring of grief? How does this actually help the survivors or the surviving family members? Also why is it 9/11 that holds the focus like this and not other more recent tragic tragic events?

Kalyxa Roman

I would love to hear your thoughts on the Israel Palestine conflict, especially curious to hear your thoughts Julia and potentially Gav’s as well???

Suzanne Sabin

Pls talk about autism and neurodivergence in women/AFAB folks! Women are so underdiagnosed and the amount of people discovering their neurodivergence as an adult is incredible to me

Jasmine Moss

I saw a TikTok about a man saying that his girlfriend can't turn him on after six months of being together and men were all agreeing. I think it would be interesting to look into the evolution of men and their standards for women's beauty, becoming higher and higher, and what exactly contributed to do with that. like how they call a woman mid that caveman would've went crazy over.

Dianna Cohen
>>117285689

im from the ny area and my parents who both relatively nearby and were able to see the towers during the attakcs + lost people they know both hate the never forget thing for the reason u mentioned. like yes honor their memories but rehashing the trauma yearly doesnt help anyway

Dianna Cohen
>>117285689

and its also "never forget" is more of a political/patriotic thing at this point than anything to do with the event itsslf

bunnny

Does anyone know which episode it is where the girls talk about the try guys situation and eliza brings up how max makes up jobs on the spot at parties? ive been wanting to relisten but i have no idea which one it is. thanksies

Emily

please talk about the 8 passengers drama/everleigh labrant/mommy blogger ethics !!

Riya Srivastav

pornography episode!! i’ve been fiending since u mentioned it in the love letter ep

Kate McCall

Talk about me :) please :)

Gemma Roberts

PLEASE do an episode on sororities

Laura MacKenzie

Just saw you (julia) follow chrishell on instagram. Selling sunsets thoughts???

mika

i need u guys to post pls i’m disintegrating

Wormie

Sororities please omg I want to hear your takes so badly

Sam

I’m seeing a lot of comments about wanting an ep on sororities so if you do one post a question box on IG! bc I was president of my sorority in college and I have so much tea on how the system works that I’d be happy to share LOL

Ava

the beastie boys

Chloe Cohen

If u wanna do one on the pro choice movement and reproductive justice if u haven’t delved in already I’d love that or maybe u did and I forgot

Victoria

Julia pls I just listened to the Slaylem witch trials w/Allegra and I NEED a tin type update