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My Words Were Spoken From a Sort of Delusional Girl Persona… (Patreon)

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The girlies debrief their NYTimes feature and grapple with their girlboss slay queen pull quotes. Digressions include Trisha Paytas and HRH Collection as mothers, fighting invisible haters in your mind, and FAKE NEWS!!!

Comments

amelia c

amazing timing besties

meyla

NOT US BEING SOOOO FED FOR THXGIVING

Carlee Knott

Thank youuuu. Happy Thanksgiving girlies 🦃❤️

Ryan Setchel

you ladies always seem to post bonus episodes so timely when i’m on a train…. i need to be on trains more often it seems

Josefina Troncoso

PERIODDD thank you for posting this exactly at the same time I have to face my demons (packing up my life to move tomorrow)

cyansims

i would like you to know that i listened to the last ep on a flight while the man across from me watched the joe rogan podcast like a netflix show

Lauren Baker

Amazing beautiful we are so thankful for yall 🫡

Haley

IM SCREAMING 🤣 not eliza’s rayne impression bahahahha

meyla
>>122818380

CACKLING AT IT HAHAHAHA the crossing the cardigan is too good

maria

feeling soooo thankful thank u girls for another bonus episode 🤍

Issy

Ladiessss I was so excited to read the article and so disappointed with how few quotes there were from you guys!!! People don’t know what they’re missing out on 😭😭 we NEED a profile exclusively on you both! But you both looked girlboss queen slay in the photos so dw about that 💅🏼

Jay Ess

definitely the chicken before the egg; thought y’all were smart then i was like oh wait no they’re not… dumb… and then i just realized that i was raised in a society and specific community that only placed emphasis on schooling and career. y’all are just girlies having fun, but then name drop the fuck outta some latin authors and modern day feminist philosophers that i’ve never heard of/about and still don’t know shit about, at which point i’m just like oh! oHH! okay these big brains out here!!! oh wait they’re also able to make it funny, consumable, and dumb it down enough for someone like my half-dissociated stupid ass self while im playing tetris and also simultaneously playing with my roommate’s dog

Kate Aschoff

always thought y’all were big time galaxy brain when I was first listening but the silliness made all the learning so much more fun & increased my understanding of things! And that? Is a girl boss slay x

Kate Aschoff

“I think that I may be the voice of my generation. Or at least a voice. Of a generation.” -Julia and Eliza in NYT

Lucy Thorpe

lmao i thought the quotes were a little weird but figured that since you were featured in a larger article they took some stuff to fit the larger narrative!

Sara Parsons

Sorry to hear it wasn’t what you hoped for (haven’t read it)) but ngl loved the energy of this episode 👏🏻 Don’t listen to the haters they just don’t understand that being fun and cute is peak

Ella carlinnia

Omggggg the binchies are keeping us FED

meyla

julia doing an HRH impression is everything I needed and MORE

Michelle

wait the tumblr mention…can you do an episode on tumblr/the blogsphere in the 2010s

Paola Ayre

I know you’ve been posting personally about the Israeli genocide of Palestine Eliza but I will say I will be very disappointed if the topic is never discussed again on the pod or social media, or at the very least acknowledged ? Links to donations, petitions etc. You guys have a very large audience and the capacity to promote meaningful change. We are living through the biggest anti war movement in decades, it would really be a missed opportunity to not use your platform for good. American citizens pay the tax money that funds the Israeli military. Y’all have a responsibility to speak up. I will not accept that it’s too complicated to even approach the topic.

Shannon Burne

I need the screenshot of the HRH collection quote plz 😭

marisa

Honestly everything you said about the journalist is pretty much the reason I had to stop writing for publications and decide to switch industries more or less tbh. When I was writing, I cared too deeply about honesty and putting my whole pussy into ensuring people were showcased properly. And then I witnessed so many journalists who just don’t. You can ask for a retraction if you want!

Madeline Mauk

the way it read to me TO ME as a patron was “lmao that’s so julia that’s so eliza wow my queens clowning and slaying” and i listen to the pod nearly every time i’m in the car. and now i’m realizing most people don’t but that sounds like a them problem??? sorry they’re not as funny as we are? it’s just if you know you know and if you don’t you’re missing out. to circle back you’re doing boots and everyone needs to get off their ass and have a laugh

Zach Greenwald

not beating the low brow allegations…

Carley Gougeon

Yeah but who wants to listen to a serious ass fuckimg podcast you're smart AND silly women really can do it all

ro 🤸‍♀️

binchies, if you do an episode on literacy rates, check out the “sold a story” podcast. so many teachers mention it online when discussing the struggles of today’s students

Lucy Hemsworth

The girl boss slay comment had me cackling

Athena111

Pleaseeeee do a pod on tumblr girls and the chronically sad messy girl persona !!

Kamrin Baker

As a very smart woman who can't stop saying the word slay I think the article was extremely representative of our community (and all I could think was how proud I was of u two)

Vandana Ravikumar

as a former journalist, the creative/intellectual limitations imposed by newsrooms were one of the reasons i left the industry! i hated using so much of my sources’ time and energy to hear their perspective and then only having one or two sentences of what they said make it into the final draft (and seeing my editors cut out the best stuff they said in favor of stuff that seemed pithier and snappier). i know the times is totally guilty of this — one of my best friends works on the business desk there (and sits next to emma lol) and he’s experienced that with his stories. but despite all that, like someone else here said, you can ask for a retraction/clarification on the story if you want!! it’s not inherently disrespectful to the reporter or anything, and it’s totally within your right to say something if you feel you’ve been mischaracterized.

kayla

“mrs mclava” is killing me

Sloane Montesi

You guys never sound stupid! what you do with the topics you discuss - the jokes and explanations - are what make the content accessible! that’s what makes relatability effective in education - accessibility!! 💜💜💜 source: i’m a 9th grade english teacher doing what amounts to a stand-up act each day and it /works/

shif

y’all slayed you’re relatable and also incredibly intelligent thank you for representing 🙏🏽🙏🏽💗💗💗😝😝

M

Not my dad being hedge fund manager 🫣

M

I kinda lost y’all when you starting talking about HRH Collection.. idk her

jade hurley

the NYT part absolutely killed me—this is such a good example of what working with journalists can be like. i do press work for an abortion fund, and they always teach us to keep things very very tight, because even jokes or tangents can be taken completely out of context to fit into the journalist’s motivations. it’s also especially hard for organizers to develop trusting relationships with journalists outside of local papers, considering how scandal, news cycle, and debate are often chosen over dedication to a movement or cause. as a journalism student who’s now on the other side of the table, it can suck & y’all’s NYT experience is something i’ve heard so often from young, women organizers. bitches REALLY hate nuance (esp when it comes from young women who know how to have fun!) (also, if y’all need a press consultant or something on your team, i have an hourly rate and would kill to put together a media plan for y’all. email me 💌 jadejhurley@gmail.com)

Yvette Panaiotov

Offended and gagged by the disservice nyt did to you guys

Robyn

3 minutes in and y’all are so funny already lol

Robyn

You guys were karmically chosen to represent the goofy and intelligent gals n gays. Sorry! There’s something deeply relatable about getting clowned on by the NYT

Luteal Swan

One of my best friends introduced me to this pod when I was having a hard time, in 2021, and you guys have always delivered a smile on my face and a laugh even on my hardest days. Y’all have been to so many jobs with me, kept me company when I moved across the country, my mom is even a binchie at this point (and a patron!) At your Chicago show I met some lovely people, and in my new city I met some ladies from the binch subreddit, and we’ve been hanging out which has been soooo amazing and fun. Right after I moved, one of the closest people in my life died, so having a littol community here has made bearing the grief less lonely. Also just tuning in every week is something I look forward to. it’s extra comforting to know y’all are just as kind and beautiful IRL as you are online. Thank you endlessly from the bottom of my heart for all you create, and I’ll always be in your corner. L❤️ve -Masha

Laura MacKenzie

hellooo I know you do big mediasodes on another patreon tear but you should do a “required reading”/ media (tv shows podcasts) that are your high level favs of all time

Senda

Lena Dunham is the face of white feminism

Mo Wilson

I didn’t think you sounded stupid at all!!!

Zoe

Sooo I used to be a genuine viewer/fan of HRH around like 10 yrs ago. she used to semm sweet and normal and her taste and style was unique and cool. Like does anyone remember her accessorising her bar cart in her apartment? And i really do feel like she was one of the first girlies doing like blazers and leggings/model-off-duty. Something definitely switched around Trump’s election. Her right-wing views started becoming more and more blatant and hateful. I don’t get it as before, she had a genuine interest and love for different cultures and kind of clowned the US for being uncool. Now she’s jingoistic and racist. I genuinely think she is a victim of the whole Qanon/misinformation thing…

Annip

girlies regarding wishing you remembered everything you said - JVN recently recommended that everyone ever being interviewed for media should record what they say themselves so they know how they were cut. and honestly sounded like good advice

Veronica

You’re better than me I would’ve keen so upset by being misrepresented and I would’ve called it out lol

✨

Would happily listen to a whole episode on your thought on Girls the show in this age of everyone rewatching Girls. I did rewatch it a couple months ago and it's so fucking funny, people don't understaaaaaand

Olivia

Literacy and book bans ep!!!

Julianna

HAHAHHA I saw the article and was like 😳ummm yall

Emily Kuper

You guys I’m not gonna lie, when I first started listening I was like “these guys are kinda silly, I’m not sure about this” and then I was sucked in and have never gotten off the ride

elizabeth

Ok, Gen X feminist queer and literal gender studies professor here: I love y’all! There is no way to make it through life as a feminist if you can’t laugh and also care about so called stupid stuff. Why bring up HRC when they could ask a contemporary question about the amazingness of Rashida Tlaib? Because the NYT is unserious (see also their horrific trans coverage). So y’all being clowned is a compliment because they do not get it. I learned about y’all from students in a feminist theory class and you’ve been on the syllabus and playlist since. Learning and sharing in public is important and at the risk of showing my old I’m proud of y’all. Also, NC represent!

Chloe Allen

omg girlies plsss do an episode about literacy rates/children not reading anymore. im a 10th grade english teacher and it is ROUGH out here !!!!

Brooke

Omg plzzz do a literacy episode. I’m an 8th grade English teacher and it’s a wild time. But many kids still do love to read!! Also a huge part of the reason literacy rates suck in the U.S. is cause we were quite literally teaching kids the incorrect way to read for so long and it was only recently debunked—plz listen to the “Sold a Story” podcast it’s a TRIP

Celine

julia was sending me this entire episode

Caleb D Waugh

If you do a literacy episode you NEED to listen to a podcast called Sold a Story. I’m a lower elementary teacher and we’re just now implementing phonics programs because schools were using disproven methods of literacy instruction. It’s a huge social justice issue I see firsthand

Kayley

NYT simply lacks the effervescence to meet the binchtopia vibes where they’re at

Evelyne

I guess they justed wanted to push you into this 'feminist' podcast mold. I dont see this as a podcast about feminism. It is about all sorts of interesting and important subjects about a world in which sexism and feminism are a reality.

Olivia Brown

My favorite kind of podcasts are when the people talking feel like your friends that you’re just listening to have a really interesting conversation. That’s what I was hoping I’d get when I found binchtopia and Julia and Eliza have easily become my comfort people and women I truly look up to, respect, and find as hilarious as my closest friends. Yall are the best and there’s no one like you ❤️

Sadie

Umm……. Ur not saving the world? Okay well….. ur saving my world……

Delaney Shields

That intro was the funniest jumpscare to listen to while at work

Mahek Ghelani

“Just by nature of you being a woman and me being a woman doesn’t mean I think you’re a queen, girl boss, slay,” we need this on merch

Samika B

Please use your platform to speak on the genocide occuring in Gaza! It will help educate a lot of your audience.

Rachel

The photos are beautiful gowns and beautiful girls!!!!

Eva McNabney

Let it be known, my binchie father’s response to the piece was: “Great article! So proud of all of them but especially Eliza and Julia”

Sarah C Dillard

Y'all have always sounded SO smart! From my first episode I was like damn these Gen Z women are teaching my mid-30s ass so much about feminist theory.

Katie
>>123159244

yeah sorry feminists don’t ignore the unimaginable gruesome war crimes going on. especially when the pod was kinda propped up by their initial advocacy for marginalized groups. the silence just feels so much more prominent when they’ve been so outspoken in the past about injustices against humans. im a long time listener from back in 2020 so im not here to troll or anything its just my genuine concern about how people can stand by and be silent about actual genocide and ethnic cleansing.

Katie
>>122830165

especially after being in the NYT, they have a larger platform than the many others that are putting their own reputations and lives on the line.

Charlotte Beck

hi binchies great ep !!! u guys should sync your patreon feed with spotify so we can collect all our binchtopia scrobbles for wrapped 2024 B-)

Mary Shandley

I honestly don't think I ever thought y'all were stupid

lauren baker

i’m a school librarian please let me collab on the literacy episode!!!!

Kalyxa Roman

Always clown on the NYT, they deserve it

Milly

love it

Luteal Swan
>>123005987

Honestly one of the best shows ever, and the point of it is that none of the characters are 1000% likeable (except Elijah haha)

Kate Gulewich

Eliza do you think you could elaborate in a future episode about living in a clear cut democracy (and what that means sorta thing) and “increasing reliance on mutual aid networks and community organizing” and what that would mean?

Mo Wilson

omg Jezebel is coming back! perhaps the new era will have a binchtopia crossover moment?

Arielle Masur

The first episode of the pod I ever heard was when Eliza was talking about being high on Ativan and was stealing from Whole Foods. So I have always been here for the jokey vibes! Long live the girl boss slay feminist content!

Anna Thorson

as a mid thirties millennial who read a lot of jezebel back in the day, i can confidently say binchtopia is so much better

Emily
>>123159114

i also love and agree with that quote, but this comment feels to defeat the purpose of it lol, to commodify feminism to merch feels very “girlboss slay” to me.

Payton Nicole

First of all, fuck NYT. Second, I think this article was a great example of how legacy media is entirely detached from the reality of online content and consumption for young adults (and women especially) 🙃

freya

why did they print the hilary clinton quote😭😭😭that’s so funny lmfao

Avery Thomas

Can you get jia tolentino on the pod PLZ i think you guys compliment each other so well

Chance Al-Hajji

Okay first of all, LOL, second of all, I only thought u guys were stupid when u didn’t know what glass was and how it came from sand 🤭 but in all seriousness I never thought of y’all as dumb or geniuses.,, more so as on my wavelength as a young person who has the capacity to think critically and have profound ideas but also smoke weed and sound like an idiot sometimes that’s just the duality of being a funny girlie and that makes y’all so relatable and not necessarily discredits ur ability to be smart also. It’s not so simple, NYT giving severely out of touch but also what else can we expect 🤔🥲

slizzarddd

Congrats on the feature but also also 📢📢📢 FUCK the New York Times

Maggie Kuhns

this shit was fucking funny also any detroit binchies wanna meet up??!

Jane L.

Been listening for yrs now and y'all have taught me SO much and enriched my life incredibly ---- definitely takes mad intelligence to make such rich and ~nuanced~ topics accessible <3 love u ladies

sin ai

All the binchies should comment under Trisha's content to get the girls on her podcast.

Han🦋

“What’s he building in there” - Eliza, was that a Tom Waits reference??🫢 His melancholic lyricism is a vibe when I’m feeling emo lol. Also, you guys are so evidently intelligent, I doubt anyone would think that. Congrats on being featured, hopefully next one they’ll do you two justice🫶🏼

George n Les

wait… are there any binchstresses in milwaukee who wanna be friends ???

Emma
>>123100854

All hail the The Science of Reading taking over our schools… FINALLY

mozillafirerox

I read the whole article and thought it was a really interesting if not slightly upsetting article just because of the nature of it being like there’s less of a feminist community and learning about all those blogs that were lost. I didn’t think you guys sounded dumb at all, I do think she was obviously painting you in a certain light and using you a tiny bit like pawns in the overall narrative of the piece.

mozillafirerox
>>153010783

It bothered me a bit that she said that you guys are taking your feminism for granted when Julia literally had that quote about knowing that her tumblr was heavily influenced by older female feminist bloggers and that older feminist theory influenced what younger people are talking about. Also if she actually listened to the pod she’d know how you guys talk about feminist hero’s and role models such as arsonists