ok i finished the book (Patreon)
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wat can i say im a bizy bee!!!!!
didn't love this book in the end as much as I thought I would, I admit I'm glad when book club pulls me through something I otherwise might have wandered from. I really wanted to have read this one in addition to Ten Arguments For Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now. Makes me feel more like an ummmmmm a person.
There are pieces of this that I will keep with me in my heart but there is also a lot of Lanier going on his little adventures that I am not sure are relevant to the task at hand. Some of the intellectual exercises and his ideas about things that would be good things I find a little lacking. However the ground must be trod!!! You don't finish reading books because you get head pats, you finish reading books to accrue status in the CJ The X Patreon Book Club discussion threads!!!!
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{i will say nothing here about my private life except that it has been suddenly momentous and emotional and wonderful, spirits of risk and reward and romance and rejuvenation in the air}
Octopus VR Chapter:
Separation anxiety is assuaged by constant connection. Young people announce every detail of their lives on services like Twitter not to show off, but to avoid the closed door at bedtime, the empty room, the screaming vacuum of an isolated mind. (p. 180)
its true officer I've seen them do it
There's almost nothing duller than listening to people talk about indescribable, deeply personal, revelatory experiences: the LSD trip, the vision on the mountaintop." (p. 184)
I'm gonna be honest w you guys i don't find VR as interesting as Jaron Lanier does and im too sleepy writing this to pretend I do
Self Directed Q&A Afterward:
This was LONG! I honestly felt like hmmmmm is this book hmmmm over yet
But as per usual there were golden strands woven throughout:
"You are not a victim! Don't think in terms of what you are and are not allowed to do. You are an adult. Think about the world you want and how to get there." (p. 195)
I like this! If you're not an adult dont worry about it, cover your eyes walk away and go play race cars
"If online activity is ever to support a middle class, then there has to be peer-to-peer commerce, not just fluke commerce for the few who become the very most famous. I am optimistic we'll get there, but there might be a lost generation or more along the way." (p. 195)
I'm hopeful for Patreon to continue developing in this Middle Class direction
"The ideas criticized in this book (that one should give one's creative bits away, and that it is just as well to generate trivial bits online, since mob action counts as much as personal creativity) are suitable only to the role of dependent child, not to the role of supporting parent." (p. 196)
I found this really stirring!~ Something about how being an influencer necessarily reduces you to childlike behaviours and emotions. There's something so achingly kid-like about wanting more likes. There's something much more private and mature and measured about not giving a fuck what happens online. Given the juvenile aesthetics that are always fuelling these things, is it weird they take on an immature feel?
...dignity is the opposite of real time. Dignity means, in part, that you don't have to wonder if you'll successfully sing for your supper for every meal. Dignity ought to be something you can earn." (p. 197)
I have a friend who just hatched a good scheme to do art on Tik Tok and they're getting their little numbers and are laughing at how immediately overpowering the dopamine is. YyESSSS
"Strategic forgetting is part of personhood, and it is threatened. To be a person you have to find a sweet spot in which you both invent yourself and are real." (p. 200)
My mother speaks to me about this a lot. When people graduated high school, that generally meant some of them would go to a new place and lose contact with old friends and make entirely new connections. They could reinvent their whole identity. That is... kind of dead now? Sins follow us from life to life, former acquaintances linger in the background. It's like life used to be a live improv show and now it's a movie that never stops filming.
"There is a little darkness, a little risk, in any real life. A homeopathic dose of murkiness must be taken if people are to find themselves. The trace of that dose can be sniffed whenever someone grows up and leaves home, or reinvents herself. Whenever people fall in love, there is always a touch of manipulation, a little imperfection. A life entirely without shadows cannot be real. (p. 200)
Needed this tonight.
"The pirate Bay and the like and Apple's iTunes store create each other. Walled gardens create most of the content to be pirated and piracy forces the walls to go up." (p. 205)
This made me laugh
Fortunately, you rarely have to fully reject beloved ideas, only parts of them. Once you dissect cherished ideas in your head to become more discerning, you lose a little, but gain much more. It's one of the most honorable and difficult things a person can accomplish." (p. 207)
Enjoyed these final words. Very honourable and lovely I think. Has been my experience exactly.
[05/10/24 EDIT: I quite enjoy how the culture of general value seeking & generous additive enthusiasm for texts is self perpetuating here now even when I go a little cold on something! I think that's a vastly superior standard temperature and I like having the freedom to not feel things 100% of the time. ur doing good down there]
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Hey okay so next I wanna do a book I've already read half of and yes it is another tech book but it's a collection of essays by Ellen Ullman called Life In Code and after I finished part 2 in a bar in the lower east side i burst into tears. So I can vouch for its emotional resonance and intrigue more readily.
Lets do a book club town hall on uhhhhh can we do the end of the month like May 31st? I have a lot to do and I'd like to provide us with plenty to talk about and I don't wanna start the next book until like June so we're a lil refreshed so let's do the last day of the month on that final friday okay I'll put it in big letters at the top of an update / rec list thing sometime alright? Alright you all? ok??? are we ok?????? we're gonna be ok
Make sure to be honest with people I'm finding lately that honesty is helping with things